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Kate!
20-06-2019, 08:29 PM
So my son has a new girlfriend. She is absolutely lovely. She is also black.

I have some anxiety over this cos I know full well there are a lot of bigots out there that would be funny about a white lad with a black girlfriend.

What are your views on this. How prevalent is racism these days?

Moniqua
20-06-2019, 08:34 PM
love is love :love:

skin color should NEVER be a restraint or deciding factor as far as having a significant other goes

Headie
20-06-2019, 08:35 PM
I wouldn't be alive if interracial dating didn't exist so I'm a tad biased when I say I love it!

Vanessa
20-06-2019, 08:37 PM
I don't think colour matters. Only the way you feel.

Oliver_W
20-06-2019, 08:40 PM
It's not the 1950s. No-one will care.

Samm
20-06-2019, 08:42 PM
literally no one cares and no one should care, it's 2019 not 1919

Brother Leon
20-06-2019, 08:44 PM
I mean I’m the product of one so.. -shrug-

I suppose it depends where you live, nowadays mixed couples are very common.

Marsh.
20-06-2019, 08:45 PM
It literally wouldn't even occur to me to recognise it as one, it would be completely normal.

Jake.
20-06-2019, 08:46 PM
I don’t think you have anything to worry about tbh, not in this day and age anyway. You’ll always have one bigot out there, but hopefully you’re surrounded by folks who don’t give a toss.

Redway
20-06-2019, 09:05 PM
Definitely not something to worry about in 2019.

Tom4784
20-06-2019, 09:09 PM
As long as it's legal and consensual, **** whoever you like.

Cherie
20-06-2019, 09:18 PM
I doubt they will have many issues from other people, its not uncommon

Headie
20-06-2019, 09:18 PM
I wouldn't be alive if interracial dating didn't exist so I'm a tad biased when I say I love it!

I mean I’m the product of one so.. -shrug-


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Jason.
20-06-2019, 09:34 PM
I'm in one and neither of us have had any trouble, then again, I live in London where you're surrounded by people from different cultures so nobody cares.

Twosugars
20-06-2019, 09:36 PM
Colour is irrelevant unless you're a racist

joeysteele
20-06-2019, 09:44 PM
For me, great, to me whoever you fall in love with is all that matters.
Nothing else, should matter one bit.

It's sad this could even get a raised eyebrow reaction and even worrying, should it do so.

Dogeatdog
20-06-2019, 09:44 PM
Mixed race relationships would never bother me in the slightest. Like others have said, we’re not in the 50s anymore.

Kazanne
20-06-2019, 09:53 PM
No one will care nowadays its common.

LaLaLand
21-06-2019, 03:13 AM
Literally don't even think about it. Skin colour means nout!

JerseyWins
21-06-2019, 03:31 AM
Encourage it... mixed babies grow up to be pretty attractive just saying! :spin:

Ammi
21-06-2019, 03:59 AM
I wouldn't be alive if interracial dating didn't exist so I'm a tad biased when I say I love it!

I mean I’m the product of one so.. -shrug-

I suppose it depends where you live, nowadays mixed couples are very common.

...and much of my close and extended family wouldn’t exist...the only thing with any relationship is the connection, the love, the bond ..and being great to and for each other...that’s all there is...


...lovely that your son has met someone special, Kate...I wish them lots of lovely times together..:lovedup:..

bots
21-06-2019, 05:04 AM
it's not something that i would even give a second thought to. If other people have a problem with it, it is their problem. I've long since passed caring what other people think and I would never let anyone dictate to me who I should or should not be with

Kazanne
21-06-2019, 07:52 AM
it's not something that i would even give a second thought to. If other people have a problem with it, it is their problem. I've long since passed caring what other people think and I would never let anyone dictate to me who I should or should not be with

This^

smudgie
21-06-2019, 08:46 AM
Celebrate the fact that your son has found someone special.
My daughter has the most wonderful fella, loving, kind, funny....and of mixed race.
My son has a partner that is American, older than him, has 3 kids...and a multi millionaire.
The only fact that matters is that they are all very happy.

Niamh.
21-06-2019, 08:49 AM
I wouldn't have thought it was a big deal these days?

Cal.
21-06-2019, 09:39 AM
I'm in one and neither of us have had any trouble, then again, I live in London where you're surrounded by people from different cultures so nobody cares.

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Livia
21-06-2019, 09:53 AM
My cousin is married to a lovely black woman, and their three kids are beautiful. I myself at married to a Yank. I know... it's disgusting.

LemonJam
21-06-2019, 12:23 PM
I'm in one and can't say we've had any judgement towards us for it :)

Tony Montana
21-06-2019, 12:31 PM
No problem with me at all. Love is love at the end of the day. Whether it’d be race, age, sexuality etc, it makes absolutely no difference to me.

Love always prevails.

Wizard.
21-06-2019, 12:45 PM
Just think they are going to have a beautiful mixed race baby :love:

Twosugars
21-06-2019, 01:18 PM
Mixed race babies are gorgeous. A clear proof nature smiles at mixed race relationships:)

armand.kay
21-06-2019, 01:33 PM
I've been with a few white boys so obviously I'm all for it. As long as there's no weird race fetish going on I really don't have an issue with interracial relationships (even if there is I it's nothing to do with me).

Beso
21-06-2019, 01:34 PM
They are cute.

Northern Monkey
21-06-2019, 08:47 PM
Not even an issue nowadays.Only a problem to racist nutters and some religions i think.