Has anyone ever been obsessed with you?

[Jessica.]

Once, I was friends with a guy and we just chatted on msn after we met through a friend but as soon as we became Facebook friends he kept sending me my own profile picture, it was really weird. He would send it to our mutual friends too. Bizarre.

I think what he was doing wasn't scary or anything, it was just weird, but I ended up distancing myself from him.

There are also people who are obsessed with you in a paranoid way. They think that everything you say is related to them in a bad way somehow.

How do you guys deal with these types of people?

[Ammi]

...just exactly what you did Jess...just distance yourself ...’weird’ can be wonderful but it isn’t always wonderful and sometimes makes you feel uncomfortable...so backing away and distancing I think is the obvious thing...

[bots]

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No, i've never experienced that

[Glenn.]

Your impact?

[smudgie]

Yes.
Thankfully he was a right soppy sod and had no violent intentions.

[Swan]

Yes, every women i work my magic on.

[Jessica.]

Yes.
Thankfully he was a right soppy sod and had no violent intentions.

I'm glad it wasn't someone scary, smudgie!

[Jessica.]

...just exactly what you did Jess...just distance yourself ...’weird’ can be wonderful but it isn’t always wonderful and sometimes makes you feel uncomfortable...so backing away and distancing I think is the obvious thing...

Yeah, it's just frustrating sometimes when you have mutual friends with the person, you have to try not do things all together with them.

[caprimint]

Yeah quite a few people are obsessed with me, Douglas told me it's the same for him as well :think:

[Niamh.]

I get the feeling there's more going on here than meets the eye :suspect:

[michael21]

I been stalk :bawling::bawling::bawling:

[Marsh.]

I've had this with someone at work. I'd only met them briefly twice and they suddenly thought we were best friends and called me up for a lift one late night. :umm2:

Then on days I wasn't on shift my colleagues would tell me they'd been calling up to speak to me. :worry:

[Marsh.]

Yes, every women i work my magic on.

I don't see a straight man, I see a man. Stop throwing your labels in our faces.

[Jessica.]

I've had this with someone at work. I'd only met them briefly twice and they suddenly thought we were best friends and called me up for a lift one late night. :umm2:

Then on days I wasn't on shift my colleagues would tell me they'd been calling up to speak to me. :worry:That is so creepy!

[Jessica.]

I get the feeling there's more going on here than meets the eye :suspect:What do you mean?

[Marsh.]

I get the feeling there's more going on here than meets the eye :suspect:

Omg is she talking about you?

Oh Niamh!! :omgno:

[michael21]

What do you mean?

What she said :cheer2:

[Niamh.]

What do you mean?

Well going by Staceys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacey? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part

[Beso]

Well going by Stacys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacy? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part

Clock them....trouble rousers.

[Underscore]

lilbro

[Ant.]

lilbro

Who is he

[Glenn.]

Well going by Staceys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacey? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part

How does the op even correspond to this theory though?

Clearly Stacey is beyond fragile to think it’s about her if that’s what she’s getting at?

[thisisdanny]

Yes. Months and months of ignored messages take the hint :oh:

[Glenn.]

Oop

[michael21]

Well going by Staceys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacey? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part

Your amazing

[Niamh.]

How does the op even correspond to this theory though?

Clearly Stacey is beyond fragile to think it’s about her if that’s what she’s getting at?

I haven't spoken to Stacey, that was just how it read to me, maybe Stacey isn't talking about Jess either, I was just wondering is all

[Ant.]

How does the op even correspond to this theory though?

Clearly Stacey is beyond fragile to think it’s about her if that’s what she’s getting at?

:joker:

[Glenn.]

No Stacey is the one baiting because she thinks it’s about her and she’s trying to make our poor Jess look bad because everyone loves her

[caprimint]

No Stacey is the one baiting because she thinks it’s about her and she’s trying to make our poor Jess look bad because everyone loves her
You're as usual, the only one actually baiting in this thread

[michael21]

I haven't spoken to Stacey, that was just how it read to me, maybe Stacey isn't talking about Jess either, I was just wondering is all

You done nothing wrong :love:

[Glenn.]

You're as usual, the only one actually baiting in this thread

I was just letting Niamh know what’s happening that’s all :shrug:

[michael21]

I was just letting Niamh know what’s happening that’s all :shrug:

We still don't no what going on :fist:

[Epic.]

Back when I was 13 this girl I never met who still didn't live that far away kept messaging me on facebook asking me out and that she was in love with me and I had to keep politely declining but it continued for weeks until it eventually settled after many "No"s from me. I wanted to stay nice to her about it but it took her a while to take the no.

[Jessica.]

Well going by Staceys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacey? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part

I genuinely don't know, I have her on ignore. :shrug:

[Jessica.]

Back when I was 13 this girl I never met who still didn't live that far away kept messaging me on facebook asking me out and that she was in love with me and I had to keep politely declining but it continued for weeks until it eventually settled after many "No"s from me. I wanted to stay nice to her about it but it took her a while to take the no.

Wow, a lot of the creepy people sound like they've been pursuing some kind of relationship. That is not a good way to go about it. It must be really uncomfortable to deal with for a 13 year old, too!

[user104658]

Half of TiBB if we're being honest.

[Jessica.]

Half of TiBB if we're being honest.

Just the Ti part?

[Marsh.]

Half of TiBB if we're being honest.

They confused you for Two Sugars?

[user104658]

They confused you for Two Sugars?

Everyone has a little 2S inside of them.

[thesheriff443]

I’m far too obnoxious to be stalked.

[Mitchell]

How does the op even correspond to this theory though?

Clearly Stacey is beyond fragile to think it’s about her if that’s what she’s getting at?

:joker:

[Epic.]

Wow, a lot of the creepy people sound like they've been pursuing some kind of relationship. That is not a good way to go about it. It must be really uncomfortable to deal with for a 13 year old, too!

It was a long time ago so at that stage of my life I decided to try and just excuse them based on age so I'd like to think they weren't creepy, but yeah I would say based on general stories of obsession it does sometimes sound like relationship pursuing

[Jessica.]

It was a long time ago so at that stage of my life I decided to try and just excuse them based on age so I'd like to think they weren't creepy, but yeah I would say based on general stories of obsession it does sometimes sound like relationship pursuing

Yeah, hopefully that girl matured a bit since you were 13 and is more stable now!

[Oliver_W]

When I dumped one of my exes, he drank so much he needed stomach pump <3 and then he started befriending virtually everyone I knew, even those he never met through me.

It fizzled out eventually, it was quite an ego boost though :)

[JerseyWins]

Yes. Months and months of ignored messages take the hint :oh:
Ffffff me with VileyH :skull:

Well originally it was the other way around :fan:

[Josy]

Yes, especially online, ****ing weirdos with sad lives the lot of them!

[Beso]

Yes, especially online, ****ing weirdos with sad lives the lot of them!

Something happened pal?

[Kizzy]

Resists the urge to post a mean girls gif....;)

[montblanc]

not that i know of :worry:

[Amy Jade]

When I finished my ex he followed me around, the worst example was going on a day session in Liverpool for a friends birthday and he showed up 100% uninvited and pretended it was random and followed us to 2 bars before my friends basically told him to piss off.

He used to come to my work aswell and come in a few times within an hour close to the end of my shift and sit in his car and pretend he never knew I was in work. Security had to walk me to my car a few times because of it.