Are you a natural 'flirt' ?

[Kate!]

By this I don't mean full on or cheesy chat up lines :laugh: but do you find people warm to you...do you converse easily with strangers. Can you charm the birds off the trees?

Does it come naturally or do you have to work at it?

On a scale of one to ten I think I could be an 8.

You?

[SherzyK]

I think I’m a natural extrovert around people and come across charming (only to some though :laugh:). I can be flirty at times too but that can sometimes be taken the wrong way too oop

I’m gonna give myself an 8

[Morgan.]

I’d give myself a good 1

[Epic.]

1 :(

I can't pick up on social cues unless they're pretty obvious, i hate subtle bollox, so it's hard for me to take those kind of risks </3

[Morgan.]

Like the UK described Donald Trump, I’m inept, insecure and incompetent.

[RileyH]

10 obvs x

[Twosugars]

I can be but cba tbh

[Ramsay]

Too much sometimes

[AnnieK]

Depends on the circumstances.

If I'm at a work type event, I can speak to anyone as I know my job and industry inside out. If I know what to talk about I am confident, chatty and easy to talk to.

If its a social event where I know few people, I regularly need the ground to swallow me :laugh:

Around people I'm comfortable with, I think im bloody hilarious

[Kate!]

Annie's a 10.

[Daniel-X]

Cal and many of my other friends have said I’m the most flirtatious person they’ve ever met. Fff I don’t know what it is but I think I’m just naturally very flirtatious with my body language, facial expressions etc.

[smudgie]

10.
God knows why, but there we are.:joker:

[Natalie.]

1.
I'm not a flirt at all really.

[Vicky.]

I have huge huge issues speaking to strangers in general tbh, and people I don't know well. However, apparently I am also a flirt. Say a few who know me. IDK if I am or not though :laugh: Its certainly not on purpose..as honestly in the past when I have specifically tried to flirt, its been an embarassing disaster and I have generally came across as having mental issues rather than sexy in any way :joker:

[Cal.]

I’m horrendous.

Daniel-X is the most flirtatious person I’ve ever come across, mind.

[bots]

Conversation has to have a specific purpose for me so I would give myself a 1.

[caprimint]

I don't think 'flirt' is the right word, but if somebody flirts with me I can engage well with it?

[Firewire]

No I'm a terrible flirt, probably why I'm so single

Also INB4 someone says "that's not the reason" :hmph:

[Ammi]

I have huge huge issues speaking to strangers in general tbh, and people I don't know well. However, apparently I am also a flirt. Say a few who know me. IDK if I am or not though :laugh: Its certainly not on purpose..as honestly in the past when I have specifically tried to flirt, its been an embarassing disaster and I have generally came across as having mental issues rather than sexy in any way :joker:

..:laugh:..I did check on Buzzfeed for you to see if there was a quiz...’are you a natural flirt or do you just have mental issues’...but I couldn’t find one...there was this one though ...I haven’t looked at the questions but I the image made me smile and made me think about your ‘mental issues’ for some reason.:laugh:...just that it’s not a very sexy wink at all...(...winks at Vicky in a very unsexy way..)...

https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2015-11/25/6/enhanced/webdr06/enhanced-9480-1448450027-1.jpg?downsize=700%3A%2A&output-quality=auto&output-format=auto


https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/just-buy-a-puppy-and-be-done-with-it

[Vicky.]

..:laugh:..I did check on Buzzfeed for you to see if there was a quiz...’are you a natural flirt or do you just have mental issues’...but I couldn’t find one...there was this one though ...I haven’t looked at the questions but I the image made me smile and made me think about your ‘mental issues’ for some reason.:laugh:...just that it’s not a very sexy wink at all...(...winks at Vicky in a very unsexy way..)...

https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2015-11/25/6/enhanced/webdr06/enhanced-9480-1448450027-1.jpg?downsize=700%3A%2A&output-quality=auto&output-format=auto


https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/just-buy-a-puppy-and-be-done-with-it

Ha yes, that image is representative of the kind of way I 'flirt' when trying to flirt :D

[Ammi]

..:laugh:..

[Vicky.]

You checked 32 out of 42 on this list!
Your flirting is the absolute worst
When it comes to bad flirting, you are in the elite. Unfortunately there seems to be no hope for you, but hey, that's what pets are for. And who needs people when you can have a puppy?

My results :hehe:

[Vicky.]

However still, when NOT trying to flirt, apparently I am a right flirt. And not a creepy or stupid one. So flirting seems to come natrually, just go bad when purposely trying to do it :worry:

[Ammi]

...we should a quiz, which 32 questions do you think Vicky ticked..?...anyways almost a quarter of you is an excellent flirter and that’s the important quarter is what you have to think...the other three quarters just hasn’t caught up yet...

[Vicky.]

Tried to say something sexy
Failed
Tried to say something in a seductive voice
Wished you hadn't as soon as you attempted it
Attempted to perform a strip tease
Failed miserably
Not realised somebody was hitting on you until it was too late
Thought somebody was flirting with you when actually they weren’t
Thought about what you should have said after the moment’s come and gone
Replied to your crush’s text within less than a minute of receiving it
Replied to your crush’s text within less than a minute after they took three days to reply to yours
Said something stupid after somebody complimented you
Became incredibly awkward around somebody you want to flirt with
Ignored somebody because they were flirting with you and you didn’t know what to do
Used being jokingly mean as a flirting technique
Tried to tell a joke but failed completely
Took it too far and ended up offending the person
Asked your best friend for advice on how to flirt
Asked more than one friend for advice on how to flirt
Asked your best friend to text your crush for you so you don’t mess it up
Had to ask your friends if somebody is actually into you because you literally have no clue
Overthought everything someone has said to you to decipher whether or not they were actually flirting with you
Not been on a date in the last month
Not been on a date in the last two months
Can’t even remember how long it’s been since you last went on a date
Googled chat-up lines so as to be better prepared for any flirting situation
Used a chat-up line in real life
Immediately regretted doing so
Used a quote from a movie to flirt
Flirted with people online because you’re too scared to do it in person
Flirted brilliantly with someone through text and then ****ed it up in person
Taken more than 10 minutes to write a flirty text because you wanted it to be perfect

Though tbf, the not been on a date recently ones..I maybe should have ignored as..obviously have not been on a date as someone married :laugh:

[montblanc]

10 :creep:

[Kizzy]

I'm not much of a flirt, Im ashamed to say I used to need a drink for a bit of confidence in that respect :/
I'm still like a nerdy 17yr old if someone likes me I just giggle and run away lol

[user104658]

Wife says helicoptering in the living room isn't flirting so I GUESS NOT :hmph:

[Shaun]

I dunno. Am I?

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