Would you read your partners private msgs?

[Beso]

I can't imagine being that interested to be honest..

[Kate!]

I may be tempted.

[Beso]

I may be tempted.

What would you expect to find?

[Amy Jade]

I let my boyfriend read my WhatsApp, he's not interested but if I'm annoyed at one of the girls he'll look and usually just say oh or tell me to shut up its irrel

[Kate!]

What would you expect to find?

Not a lot. But I like being a nosy biatch. Xx

[user104658]

I would read your messages Parm, I bet they're a treasure trove of adventure :flutter:

[Beso]

I would read your messages Parm, I bet they're a treasure trove of adventure :flutter:

I bet they are empty. ..:smug:

[Beso]

I let my boyfriend read my WhatsApp, he's not interested but if I'm annoyed at one of the girls he'll look and usually just say oh or tell me to shut up its irrel

That's different...funny..:joker:..but different..


You are showing him.:shrug:

[Beso]

Not a lot. But I like being a nosy biatch. Xx

Do you ask them 1st?

[Kate!]

Do you ask them 1st?

Of course. He lets me see them. Mostly from work colleagues or his mum. :joker:

[Beso]

Of course. He lets me see them. Mostly from work colleagues or his mum. :joker:

Don't you get bored with the same stuff all the time?

[joeysteele]

I haven't a partner.
However private messages, no I never would look at them.

[Niamh.]

I would if I suspected something dodgy was going on but I never have so no

[Cherie]

Nah, I know there would be nada on there he hadn't told me about anyway.

[caprimint]

Never. I'd never read somebody else's private messages or be okay with someone else reading mine.

[Kazanne]

We leave our phones about tbh , the only reason I would check his messages was if he was acting suspicious and holding on to his phone . I guess most people would in that situation . I would never look at other peoples as private should mean just that 'private'

[Niamh.]

We leave our phones about tbh , the only reason I would check his messages was if he was acting suspicious and holding on to his phone . I guess most people would in that situation . I would never look at other peoples as private should mean just that 'private'Yeah same

[Amy Jade]

That's different...funny..:joker:..but different..


You are showing him.:shrug:

Yeah I tell him everything going on

For instance, going on a girls trip to London for the weekend in September and the apartment is expensive but has 5 beds so 7 of us were going to go - 2 double beds etc and now 2 have dropped out so I was fuming at the price going up so I'll put a message in group chat and and ask him to proof read it because hes nicer than me :laugh2:

[Northern Monkey]

I have no desire to read the senseless drivel on the missus’ phone.I hear enough yawn inducing women’s chats when she’s talking on the thing,I don’t wanna read about it too.

[Niamh.]

I have no desire to read the senseless drivel on the missus’ phone.I hear enough yawn inducing women’s chats when she’s talking on the thing,I don’t wanna read about it too.

You really like your wife/g/f :umm2:

[Northern Monkey]

You really like your wife/g/f :umm2:

Of course :laugh:

Women’s convo’s are boring though.Usually just gossiping about other women.

[Niamh.]

Of course :laugh:

Women’s convo’s are boring though.Usually just gossiping about other women.

Sorry but **** off with your sexist ****

[Northern Monkey]

Sorry but **** off with your sexist ****
Well that’s not very nice is it.

So it’s sexist to not be interested enough in women’s conversations to want to snoop through their phone.Well that’s a new one.

That stuff just doesn’t bother me,I have better things to do and we have 100% trust so i have no reason to be looking in there for secret boyfriends.

[Niamh.]

Well that’s not very nice is it.

So it’s sexist to not be interested enough in women’s conversations to want to snoop through their phone.Well that’s a new one.

That stuff just doesn’t bother me,I have better things to do and we have 100% trust so i have no reason to be looking in there for secret boyfriends.

Yeah totally change what you think I'm annoyed over. What you said was a massively sexist generalistion on women and what we talk about, all of us as a collective talk about other women like bitchy little school girls? Piss off and don't you be so rude

[Northern Monkey]

Yeah totally change what you think I'm annoyed over. What you said was a massively sexist generalistion on women and what we talk about, all of us as a collective talk about other women like bitchy little school girls? Piss off and don't you be so rude

Ok,The women’s phone conversations i’ve heard are boring and usually talking about other women/people.

(Not all women’s phone conversations are boring.....Probably)

[Niamh.]

Ok,The women’s phone conversations i’ve heard are boring and usually talking about other women/people.

(Not all women’s phone conversations are boring.....Probably)

All the womens conversations you've heard, yeah ok. And men never ever speak about other men either it's all football and beer :rolleyes:

[Northern Monkey]

All the womens conversations you've heard, yeah ok. And men never ever speak about other men either it's all football and beer :rolleyes:

In general,In my experience women like to talk more about other people/relationships where as men usually talk about stuff or football(which i find boring),or cars or boxing etc.
Yes blokes slag each other off too but not nearly as much from what i’ve heard.

[Niamh.]

In general,In my experience women like to talk more about other people/relationships where as men usually talk about stuff or football(which i find boring),or cars or boxing etc.
Yes blokes slag each other off too but not nearly as much from what i’ve heard.

Totally disagree

[Beso]

In general,In my experience women like to talk more about other people/relationships where as men usually talk about stuff or football(which i find boring),or cars or boxing etc.
Yes blokes slag each other off too but not nearly as much from what i’ve heard.



Men usually say it to thier mates faces...women...like you say tend to bitch behind each others backs...That's just life I guess:shrug:

[Niamh.]

Men usually say it to thier mates faces...women...like you say tend to bitch behind each others backs...That's just life I guess:shrug:

again totally untrue in my experience, men like to pretend they have some higher moral code though, for definite

[Nicky91]

Men usually say it to thier mates faces...women...like you say tend to bitch behind each others backs...That's just life I guess:shrug:

most yeah, but in some of our dutch reality shows here, one specifically called Utopia, the male housemates in there do nothing but gossip all day

some of the viewers here who also are in the chat section of those livestreams say ''jeez these men in here are worse than most women''

[Niamh.]

most yeah, but in some of our dutch reality shows here, one specifically called Utopia, the male housemates in there do nothing but gossip all day

some of the viewers here who also are in the chat section of those livestreams say ''jeez these men in here are worse than most women''

That's such a myth that men like to tell themselves, I have 3 brothers, I have two kids one male and one female and I have a husband and I can tell you people are all the same, men gossip sometimes as do women, men can be bitchy (loving how even the description is feminine though, ingenious) as can women.

[Beso]

again totally untrue in my experience, men like to pretend they have some higher moral code though, for definite

Oh come on, you just have to watch all the years of big brother to see women are far more inclined to bitch behind someone's back than men are.

[Niamh.]

Oh come on, you just have to watch all the years of big brother to see women are far more inclined to bitch behind someone's back than men are.

umm no? and yes I have watched them all, the men are as bitchy as anyone over the years, maybe you need a rewatch

[Beso]

umm no? and yes I have watched them all, the men are as bitchy as anyone over the years, maybe you need a rewatch

I'm fine thanks...I know what I saw first time round.

[Niamh.]

I'm fine thanks...I know what I saw first time round.

Same here :thumbs:

[Beso]

Same here :thumbs:

Well how on earth can you claim that the male bb hms were as bad as the female ones for bitching behind people's backs :shrug:

[Black Dagger]

Never once had the desire to look at Anthony's phone when we were together. It just shows a lack of trust and honesty in a relationship.

Maybe I **** ing should have tho I might have seen it coming :joker:

[thesheriff443]

Sorry but **** off with your sexist ****

No need for this post niamh, early ones personal experience is different.

[Marsh.]

Disagree about the comments on BB.

If anything BB proved people are all quite similar regardless of gender/racial/sexuality differences. It's just some get judged more harshly based on gender/race/sexuality when it comes to certain characteristics. (Angry black woman, bitchy women etc etc).

[smudgie]

Never felt the need.
But I would if I did.:shrug:

[Niamh.]

No need for this post niamh, early ones personal experience is different.

No need for sexist comments, thanks for your concern

[Niamh.]

Disagree about the comments on BB.

If anything BB proved people are all quite similar regardless of gender/racial/sexuality differences. It's just some get judged more harshly based on gender/race/sexuality when it comes to certain characteristics. (Angry black woman, bitchy women etc etc).

Exactly, when it's a woman who bitches it's confirmation that women are bitchy, when it's a man they're behaving like a woman, again confirming women are bitchy, genius strategy

[bots]

Oh come on, you just have to watch all the years of big brother to see women are far more inclined to bitch behind someone's back than men are.

lewis and cameron last year did more bitching than anyone else :laugh:

[thesheriff443]

No need for sexist comments, thanks for your concern

It’s not concern, telling a member to F off is not what a mod should be doing.

[Niamh.]

It’s not concern, telling a member to F off is not what a mod should be doing.

oh be quiet, if I want to call someone out on their sexism I will

[thesheriff443]

oh be quiet, if I want to call someone out on their sexism I will

Calling someone out is fine, telling them to F off is not, also don’t you dare tell me to queit like I’m one of your kids.

[Niamh.]

Calling someone out is fine, telling them to F off is not, also don’t you dare tell me to queit like I’m one of your kids.

How about you don't stick your nose in my business and I won't tell you to be quiet

[Amy Jade]

Men are just as bitchy as girls!

[thesheriff443]

How about you don't stick your nose in my business and I won't tell you to be quiet

This a forum not your own personal account, rules are for everyone, so do what is usually done, clean the thread and give yourself an infraction for insulting a member unless you think you are above the rules.

[Niamh.]

This a forum not your own personal account, rules are for everyone, so do what is usually done, clean the thread and give yourself an infraction for insulting a member unless you think you are above the rules.Take your own advice and don't tell me what to do :douf:

[Niamh.]

Men are just as bitchy as girls!Indeed

[RileyH]

yes

[Cherie]

Sherriff and Monkey are currently nursing black eyes from Neem :bawling:

[Beso]

Disagree about the comments on BB.

If anything BB proved people are all quite similar regardless of gender/racial/sexuality differences. It's just some get judged more harshly based on gender/race/sexuality when it comes to certain characteristics. (Angry black woman, bitchy women etc etc).



I agree.

[Beso]

lewis and cameron last year did more bitching than anyone else :laugh:

True...but who bitched about them in the outside world...:laugh:.

[Beso]

Take your own advice and don't tell me what to do :douf:

Can I get a name change please ?

[thesheriff443]

Sherriff and Monkey are currently nursing black eyes from Neem :bawling:

I’m not Cherie, niamh up in arms about sexism and yet she trying to shut me down like a child for stating the rules.

If a mod cant post without telling a member to F off then I question that persons right to be a mod.

[Beso]

None of my business but ive probably done a month for telling someone to eff off...


Just sayin...no jammas.

[Niamh.]

I’m not Cherie, niamh up in arms about sexism and yet she trying to shut me down like a child for stating the rules.



If a mod cant post without telling a member to F off then I question that persons right to be a mod.[emoji38]

[Marsh.]

I’m not Cherie, niamh up in arms about sexism and yet she trying to shut me down like a child for stating the rules.

If a mod cant post without telling a member to F off then I question that persons right to be a mod.

You have to stamp your feet louder! LOUDER!

[thesheriff443]

[emoji38]

It will be interesting to see what happens when a member tells you F off niamh.

[GoldHeart]

Sounds like trust issues if you ask me

[bots]

isn't the clue in the word private? They are private messages unless chosen to be shared. Looking at them without permission is an invasion of privacy and it doesn't matter if you are partners or not

[Beso]

isn't the clue in the word private? They are private messages unless chosen to be shared. Looking at them without permission is an invasion of privacy and it doesn't matter if you are partners or not

Why else would they be called "private" messages? Just call them msgs!

[GoldHeart]

Why else would they be called "private" messages? Just call them msgs!

As long as they're not having an affair or doing illegal activity then it can stay private

[Beso]

As long as they're not having an affair or doing illegal activity then it can stay private

If you need a phone to tell you there's something up then you shouldn't have got married in the first place.....it's not a blooming game fgs :nono:

[Matthew.]

Not without permission I wouldn’t

[Beso]

Not without permission I wouldn’t

Mind you...if iwas asking, and you put it like that....I would want a look.:shocked:

[Cal.]

Yes I’m a psycho