Is there any such thing as exclusive heterosexuality?

[Redway]

Or is everyone bisexual to a certain extent (however tiny)?

Probably not the most fitting choice for a morning thread but I work nights so I’m screwed anyway.

[Swan]

I dunno, i mean i can appreciate a good looking bloke, but isn't it whether you'd actually wanna act upon it?

[thesheriff443]

I can consider another man attractive without wanting to sleep with him.

[Oliver_W]

Meh. Experimenting in uni or having a "mancrush" doesn't necessarily mean someone is anything but straight. What's with the need to label everything ?

[DouglasS]

Yes.

It’s ridiculous when lgbt people say everyone is bi. They clearly are not at all... the majority of people have no interest in the same gender


I voted the top description but not a fan of the description it was the only yes option that doesn’t state that everyone is somehow gay/bi without realising it themselves

[Jessica.]

There are more sexualities than just straight, gay and bi. I think our sexualities are personal to us and yeah, some people might teeter between straight and bi or whatever but a lot of people don't.

[Smithy]

No everybody is a little gay

[Wizard.]

You could never say because you don't truly know what people think unless they tell you.

Yes there are married man who are closeted and sleep with guys but that doesn't mean they all do, definitely not. I mean if you're applying this to men then why not woman? Although they're less likely than men to sleep with the same sex (IMO) I definitely don't think all women desire a bit of muff now and again.

[Nicky91]

i am straight, i think i know this because i am more attracted to women

however i can still say if a man looks good

[Oliver_W]

There are more sexualities than just straight, gay and bi. I think our sexualities are personal to us and yeah, some people might teeter between straight and bi or whatever but a lot of people don't.

How? :joker:

You either like the same sex, opposite, or both. How can there be more?

[Jessica.]

How? :joker:

You either like the same sex, opposite, or both. How can there be more?

What about asexuals? What about people who date non-binary or intersex people?

[Redway]

No everybody is a little gay

You sure about that Smithy?

[Oliver_W]

What about asexuals? What about people who date non-binary or intersex people?

Asexual are non-sexual, it's like saying crisps are a type of brick.

"non-binary" people are still male or female, and will attract people who are attracted to the sex they actually are. Same with intersex - they still appear to be male or female, and will attract people accordingly .

[Jessica.]

Asexual are non-sexual, it's like saying crisps are a type of brick.

"non-binary" people are still male or female, and will attract people who are attracted to the sex they actually are. Same with intersex - they still appear to be male or female, and will attract people accordingly .

Just forget I said anything. :rolleyes:

[Oliver_W]

Just forget I said anything. :rolleyes:

Nah, stuff like that is pretty hard to forget :joker:

[Redway]

You could never say because you don't truly know what people think unless they tell you.

Yes there are married man who are closeted and sleep with guys but that doesn't mean they all do, definitely not. I mean if you're applying this to men then why not woman? Although they're less likely than men to sleep with the same sex (IMO) I definitely don't think all women desire a bit of muff now and again.

Did I say only men though?

[Nicky91]

i do not know what asexual, non-binary, intersex is, i don't mean to be rude or anything, just do not understand it

[Niamh.]

Depends what the scale looks like, appreciating that someone is good looking/attractive, I'm sure everyone can do (whether they would admit it or not)

[Oliver_W]

i do not know what asexual, non-binary, intersex is, i don't mean to be rude or anything, just do not understand it

Asexual = not attracted to anyone
Nonbinary = a male or female who thinks he or she is neither
Intersex = hermaphrodite

[Elliot]

Sexuality is extremely fluid and there’s probably one person out there that’s never ever be attracted to a guy but most men have that ONE person or more that they’d ‘turn gay’ for. I wish we lived in a society that didn’t enforce toxic masculinity onto people that they have to downplay their attraction to everyone that isn’t a cis woman. I’m not going to speak on the sexuality of women for obvious reasons but I’ve heard similar things

[Mitchell]

Sexuality is extremely fluid and there’s probably one person out there that’s never ever be attracted to a guy but most men have that ONE person or more that they’d ‘turn gay’ for. I wish we lived in a society that didn’t enforce toxic masculinity onto people that they have to downplay their attraction to everyone that isn’t a cis woman. I’m not going to speak on the sexuality of women for obvious reasons but I’ve heard similar things
:clap1:
Asexual = not attracted to anyone
Nonbinary = a male or female who thinks he or she is neither
Intersex = hermaphrodite

Or if you want the actual definitions rather than Oliver telling other people how they identify.

Asexuality isn’t about not being attracted to someone, it is not having sexual feelings towards individuals.

Nonbinary is someone who doesn’t identify as either gender, they would use They/Them pronouns.

Intersex is a general term used for a variety of conditions in which a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male. For example, a person might be born appearing to be female on the outside, but having mostly male-typical anatomy on the inside.

[Oliver_W]

:clap1:


Or if you want the actual definitions rather than Oliver telling other people how they identify.

Asexuality isn’t about not being attracted to someone, it is not having sexual feelings towards individuals.

Nonbinary is someone who doesn’t identify as either gender, they would use They/Them pronouns.

Intersex is a general term used for a variety of conditions in which a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male. For example, a person might be born appearing to be female on the outside, but having mostly male-typical anatomy on the inside.
Sure but mine is snappier ;)

[Zizu]

i am straight, i think i know this because i am more attracted to women

however i can still say if a man looks good



Ooopps .. I always thought you were female ( avatar) .. interesting.


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[Mitchell]

Sure but mine is snappier ;)

And completely dismissive of other people’s struggles and discriminatory towards non binary people.

[Zizu]

i do not know what asexual, non-binary, intersex is, i don't mean to be rude or anything, just do not understand it



Ditto


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[Jessica.]

Sure but mine is snappier ;)

Wrong, you mean.

[Zizu]

Depends what the scale looks like, appreciating that someone is good looking/attractive, I'm sure everyone can do (whether they would admit it or not)



I’d agree with this take on things


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[DouglasS]

No everybody is a little gay

How do you know how others and everyone feels? Surely someone saying they are 100% straight know more than you do about themselves?

This is the same thought processes of when people said to gay people “why are you gay? Why not just marry a woman” and also the “why did you choose to be gay”.

It’s crazy people thinking they know more about others and their feelings than the people themselves

[Oliver_W]

Wrong, you mean.

What about it is factually incorrect ?

[AnnieK]

I am straight.....I think certain women are beautiful and I can see the attraction to them but I don't feel sexually attracted to them.

[Liam-]

Of course there is, being able to admit that someone is good looking isn’t a sexual trait, it’s realism, if a man is sat around a dinner table and his girlfriend/wife, friends or sister is talking about a hot guy, them saying something like ‘he is a good looking bloke I’ll give you that’ doesn’t mean there’s a chance he’ll be in a darkroom in a gay club at some point.

I personally think it’s actually very disrespectful to wilfully ignore someone’s sexuality that way, I wouldn’t like it if someone kept telling me that I’m not actually gay, I’m whatever percentage straight, it’s invalidating someone’s truth.

[Jessica.]

What about it is factually incorrect ?

Nothing I say will change your view on the matter so I really don't feel like getting into it. :wavey:

[AnnieK]

I can't select either of the yes items in the poll though as I don't necessarily agree with either

[Niamh.]

I can't select either of the yes items in the poll though as I don't necessarily agree with either

Same

[Oliver_W]

Nothing I say will change your view on the matter so I really don't feel like getting into it. :wavey:

I'm always open to having my mind changed. If you have anything to say I'd be happy to hear it :)

[Zizu]

I can recall a comedy years ago where a guy was flirting with a young woman ... she said that she was lesbian ... that she only ‘liked’ women and immediately the clueless guy said ‘ wow , I’m lesbian as well !’

I wondered if it was Joey in Friends ..


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[DouglasS]

I can't select either of the yes items in the poll though as I don't necessarily agree with either

This was my problem also..

It seems all of the answers were going for the same narrative even if the yes answer was disagreeing With that narrative

A bad poll imo

[DouglasS]

Sure but mine is snappier ;)

I prefer yours, much quicker to the point :clap1:

[Parmy]

I'm 100 percent heterosexual.

[Liam-]

I might need a doctor because for once, I’m actually somewhat in agreement with Oliver on something, I feel ill

[Cal.]

I think it’s just personal to everybody isn’t it?

[Cal.]

I’m as gay as they come but I’d be lying if I said some ladies don’t tickle me fancy every now and then

https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/cache.php?img=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FJ7ecXa3.g if

[Smithy]

You sure about that Smithy?

Did I ****ing stutter?

[Nicky91]

I can't select either of the yes items in the poll though as I don't necessarily agree with either

same, can't really vote in this poll either myself

[Smithy]

i am straight, i think i know this because i am more attracted to women

however i can still say if a man looks good

You were bisexual last year

[Liam-]

You were bisexual last year

We love Jessie J

[Mitchell]

We love Jessie J

https://www.wonderslist.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Jessie-J-shaved-head.jpg

[Cherie]

I would have zero interest in going to bed with a woman, in fact the thought of it makes me feel a little queasy

[user104658]

There are men who I think are aesthetically attractive but I've never had any sexual desire towards a male... Like I don't find the idea "gross" or anything, in theory I have no issue with it at all, like if someone said "you have to do sexy time with a man OR U DIEEE" I'd be like "OK whatevz" not "Oh Nooo"... But yeah, I've never experienced any arousal or desire for another male so :shrug: that's basically 100% boring ol' het isn't it.

[Parmy]

There are men who I think are aesthetically attractive but I've never had any sexual desire towards a male... Like I don't find the idea "gross" or anything, in theory I have no issue with it at all, like if someone said "you have to do sexy time with a man OR U DIEEE" I'd be like "OK whatevz" not "Oh Nooo"... But yeah, I've never experienced any arousal or desire for another male so :shrug: that's basically 100% boring ol' het isn't it.

Giving or taking...or a bit of both?

[Nicky91]

You were bisexual last year

no, i consider myself a straight guy whom has deepest respect for LGBTQ+ community

[Tom4784]

Bisexuality is to be sexually attracted to both genders, unless every legal and consenting hole is a goal, you aren't bisexual.

Most straight people aren't ever likely to be attracted at all to the same sex, some might have a dalliance with it, just like some gay people might end up experimenting with hetero sex, but unless you're bisexual then it's doomed to to be just that, really, a blip.

Sexuality simply isn't a fluid thing for the majority of people.

[Strictly Jake]

Id identify as being between bicurious and bisexual

Havent been with a man but find them attractive. Wouldnt be in a relationship with a man but sexually probably

[Redway]

no, i consider myself a straight guy whom has deepest respect for LGBTQ+ community

https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?p=10255444&highlight=bisexual#post10255444

At least be consistent.

[The Slim Reaper]

Nicky says he's straight so that should be good enough, without the need to badger him about it. Pretty sure others on here also identified as bi at one point, but have since moved away from that.

[AnnieK]

Nicky says he's straight so that should be good enough, without the need to badger him about it. Pretty sure others on here also identified as bi at one point, but have since moved away from that.


Agreed

[Dogeatdog]

I’m Heterosexual. I can appreciate if another guy is good looking but I wouldn’t be sexually attracted to them.

[Captain.Remy]

Yes, just like there is exclusive homosexuality. And many more sexualities in between/outside of it. The spectrum is wide and large.
It's a personal thing isn't it, and I guess society likes labels because it's the way it has always been.

[Redway]

Yes, just like there is exclusive homosexuality. And many more sexualities in between/outside of it. The spectrum is wide and large.
It's a personal thing isn't it, and I guess society likes labels because it's the way it has always been.

And what percentage of people do you think are exclusively hetero.?

[The Slim Reaper]

And what percentage of people do you think are exclusively hetero.?

This is completely unknowable. I'm exclusively hetero. I have man-crushes, but they're more based around humour and personality traits, rather than physical attraction, as the idea of doing anything sexually with a guy is just not for me in anyway.

[Captain.Remy]

And what percentage of people do you think are exclusively hetero.?

Completely unknowable as previously mentionned.
I know people who are exclusively straight, gay, bi (myself included), some others are in-between, some are neither, some are something different. And that's gorgeous :love:

[Barry.]

I don’t get the urge for sex and I don’t think oh yeah they are so hot I’ll sleep with them but I can say if a guy is hot or not, even women

[Kate!]

I've had sex with a woman in my teens and it did nothing for me at all. I consider myself 100% heterosexual now although I can appreciate good looking women in an admiring kind of way. There are some really attractive females on this forum for example that I've seen and admire but I'm all about the men sexually.

[GoldHeart]

I don't know what option to pick as i think it's more complex than that.

I'm personally straight , but i can still see other women as pretty or beautiful etc . But as mentioned already we can all say when someone is good looking :shrug: .