View Full Version : One member of the Royals who is a proven RACIST is.....
Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2021, 01:37 PM
a couple of examples here from the horse's mouth
i wonder how many years have to go bye before you stop being a racist? :think:
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He cant be racist he has black friends.
UserSince2005
10-03-2021, 01:58 PM
Two to be honest.
But like Grandfather like Grandson. As they say.
rusticgal
10-03-2021, 02:05 PM
a couple of examples here from the horse's mouth
i wonder how many years have to go bye before you stop being a racist? :think:
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Sadly it wasnt until he married a mixed race person that the penny dropped.
Kazanne
10-03-2021, 02:12 PM
Yes a few people have mentioned this even myself ,but it seems to get glossed over I wonder why, I like Harry he was always my favourite royal but talk about double standards.
Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2021, 02:54 PM
I am sure Meghan has forgiven him for his racist ways so hopefully, she has already forgiven Prince Char....i mean the unknown royal for his racist ways?
:fc:
Jordan.
10-03-2021, 03:02 PM
Being brought up by racists will do that. Thankfully he matured and educated himself unlike other senior members.
Good on the royals for booting this racist out of the family.
Tom4784
10-03-2021, 03:09 PM
Thankfully he's outgrown his family, in that regard. If these clips were recent, it would be a different story, but I'll never bash someone for past bigotry if they have grown beyond it and seen the error of their ways.
I can't at racists on twitter getting offended at Harry, not because they actually care about those clips, but because they think it gives them reason to hate him. These are the same flag wankers that jizz to the thought of buying a poppy every year, yet here they are, bashing a ten year veteran because they don't like his wife when, if it was anyone else, they'd be in disingenuous reverence of them.
a couple of examples here from the horse's mouth
i wonder how many years have to go bye before you stop being a racist? :think:
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Straight from the horse’s mouth ... I presumed you were going to name Camilla as the racist :)
All that being said ... you being serious ?
We discussed this non-story about Harry .. at some considerable length about two days ago ..
I may start regurgitating old stories of Charles and his mistress before Di , during Di’s marriage and afterwards..
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Oliver_W
10-03-2021, 04:28 PM
Being a little edgelord and wearing a nazi uniform god knows how long ago doesn't really mean much. Mentioning that is up there with idiots who trawl back through people's twitter and pretend to be offended by things from years ago :shrug:
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 05:26 PM
Wow let's bring up something very silly from Harry's past to try and assassinate his character , Harry has clearly matured and grown up alot since then . Just like the nazi suit, it was a daft costume that's all.
And newsflash if we all heard 'army buddy' speech and conversations, then I'm pretty sure we'd be hearing more racism, homophobia,sexism the lot . And I'm talking full blown abuse ,and not in the lazy way Harry said it .
I guess when you're Philip's age it doesn't matter, even though we all know he's said offensive things. But it just gets brushed off as "ohh Philip what's he like eh" :rolleyes: .
armand.kay
10-03-2021, 05:35 PM
I'm by no means a staunch Harry supporter. His history + him saying he never even thought about racism until he started dating Meghan is so... yikes, but at least he's showing that he's willing to educate himself, change and speak out against racism. Surely his previous attitudes on race only support the idea that there is a racism problem within the royal family. I mean what kind of environment does someone have to grow up in to think that using slurs and dressing like a nazi is cool?
I have to say though I'm surprised at the people even bringing up his past, usually, they're against holding people's problematic past against them. It's also funny how they've only got a problem with his racist past now. Where was all this concern before he and Meghan were a thing?
armand.kay
10-03-2021, 05:38 PM
also "There's only one member of the royal family who has been proven to have demonstrated racism" is the funniest thing I've read all-day
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 06:33 PM
also "There's only one member of the royal family who has been proven to have demonstrated racism" is the funniest thing I've read all-day
Ikr :joker: that made me chuckle
Scarlett.
10-03-2021, 06:47 PM
Yes a few people have mentioned this even myself ,but it seems to get glossed over I wonder why, I like Harry he was always my favourite royal but talk about double standards.
At the very least that clip is over ten years old, probably even older. People change :shrug:
Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2021, 06:49 PM
At the very least that clip is over ten years old, probably even older. People change :shrug:
so can people change after say 4 years?
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 06:50 PM
At the very least that clip is over ten years old, probably even older. People change :shrug:
This is clearly a way to make Harry look bad , whilst current racism in the royal institution continues.
Nobody is bringing on Philip's behaviour over the years, he seems to get a pass . Must be great being ancient as you get away with all sorts .
Kazanne
10-03-2021, 07:05 PM
At the very least that clip is over ten years old, probably even older. People change :shrug:
Yes I agree and by that token ,the person who supposedly remarked on Archies race may have changed too, none of us KNOW who or how it was said just people surmising and thinking the worst as it suits them.I am sure Harry could tell The Queen in private just who it was if he cant tell us.:shrug:
rusticgal
10-03-2021, 07:08 PM
I'm by no means a staunch Harry supporter. His history + him saying he never even thought about racism until he started dating Meghan is so... yikes, but at least he's showing that he's willing to educate himself, change and speak out against racism. Surely his previous attitudes on race only support the idea that there is a racism problem within the royal family. I mean what kind of environment does someone have to grow up in to think that using slurs and dressing like a nazi is cool?
I have to say though I'm surprised at the people even bringing up his past, usually, they're against holding people's problematic past against them. It's also funny how they've only got a problem with his racist past now. Where was all this concern before he and Meghan were a thing?
Maybe then...this mature man that has seen the light since being with a mixed race woman...he could have educated the culprit who made the claimed Racist comment....instead of calling them out as racists to the whole world. His family supported him for the 2 occasions and had to make public apologies when he was younger....
Kazanne
10-03-2021, 07:09 PM
This is clearly a way to make Harry look bad , whilst current racism in the royal institution continues.
Nobody is bringing on Philip's behaviour over the years, he seems to get a pass . Must be great being ancient as you get away with all sorts .
It doesnt matter how old it is,it was said,and this is about the racism they say is in the royal family, I like Harry,so have no desire to make him "look bad"but c'mon its pretty double standards,and as Ive said yes ,people change,so maybe the person who made a remark has changed too, Its all getting pretty silly now,I just hope they get on with their lives now and have that much desired privacy.
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 07:14 PM
It doesnt matter how old it is,it was said,and this is about the racism they say is in the royal family, I like Harry,but c'mon its pretty double standards,and as Ive said yes ,people change,so maybe the person who made a remark has changed too, Its all getting pretty silly now,I just hope they get on with their lives now and have that much desired privacy.
If you ever heard what goes on in the army you'd probably be traumatised , what Harry said is tame compared to what others would be saying and doing ie abuse,racism, homophobia, sexism .
I never said it was ok ,but let's be realistic here . And Harry has opened up and said he's been educated since being with Meghan.
Why is it fine to call out Harry but Philip gets let off for his offensive stuff over the years?? Old age ? . That sounds like double standards to me .
And we'll never know what was fully said in that uncomfortable awkward conversation Harry had ,with the person re Archie's skin colour. But either way it suggests ignorance . Context or not .
rusticgal
10-03-2021, 07:25 PM
And we'll never know what was fully said in that uncomfortable awkward conversation Harry had ,with the person re Archie's skin colour. But either way it suggests ignorance . Context or not .
Which is why he should be having a conversation with that person...instead of running back and telling Meghan and then telling the whole world.
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 07:34 PM
Which is why he should be having a conversation with that person...instead of running back and telling Meghan and then telling the whole world.
"Running back and telling Meghan" ?? She's his wife she's not a random ! .
LukeB
10-03-2021, 07:37 PM
"Running back and telling Meghan" ?? She's his wife she's not a random ! .
Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her :hee:
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 07:39 PM
Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her :hee:
Truly baffling :conf::joker:
Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her :hee:
All these people?
Where are the damn mods..**** sake.
Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2021, 07:41 PM
Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her :hee:
|Not mentioning a conversation you had isnt lying to someone??
:joker:
rusticgal
10-03-2021, 07:43 PM
Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her :hee:
Well I wouldn’t expect you to understand the concept of keeping something from your wife that may hurt her....
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 07:43 PM
|Not mentioning a conversation you had isnt lying to someone??
:joker:
They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .
They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .
But she was suicidal, hes either thick or sinister if it's TRUE.
Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2021, 07:47 PM
They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .
its not a secret and couples do not share every convo they have each day
that would be ridiculous
Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2021, 07:48 PM
But she was suicidal, hes either thick or sinister if it's TRUE.
or incredibly cruel
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 07:50 PM
or incredibly cruel
Twist it all you want :hee:
Twist it all you want :hee:
It is pretty cruel though..let's bring it down to street level..you got you're pregnant mrs is inside sobbing her heart out as your outside sorting out the family... and one of them says that ..
Be honest..you ain't gonna walk back in and tell her when shes in such a fragile state.
I must add though, that in my scenario the family have come round to see if shes ok and if they need help but the future dad has spurned them all and that's why they are outside arguing instead of being allowed in.
armand.kay
10-03-2021, 08:01 PM
Maybe then...this mature man that has seen the light since being with a mixed race woman...he could have educated the culprit who made the claimed Racist comment....instead of calling them out as racists to the whole world. His family supported him for the 2 occasions and had to make public apologies when he was younger....
Not sure if you watched the full interview but he mentioned trying to educate his families a few times and comes across as someone who still has hope for the monarchy. His whole reason for not saying who was concerned about the babies skin was to not throw anybody under the bus.
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 08:07 PM
Not sure if you watched the full interview but he mentioned trying to educate his families a few times and comes across as someone who still has hope for the monarchy. His whole reason for not saying who was concerned about the babies skin was to not throw anybody under the bus.
Yeah I got the impression both Harry & Meghan don't want to bad mouth any of the royal family, it's the institution mainly they had issues with.
However you can still see they feel let down by members of the family. Even the lies the media printed about Meghan making Kate cry, just made Meghan give her side of what actually happened . And she says Kate apologised to her ,so you can tell Meghan didn't want to dwell on it .
Kazanne
10-03-2021, 08:12 PM
If you ever heard what goes on in the army you'd probably be traumatised , what Harry said is tame compared to what others would be saying and doing ie abuse,racism, homophobia, sexism .
I never said it was ok ,but let's be realistic here . And Harry has opened up and said he's been educated since being with Meghan.
Why is it fine to call out Harry but Philip gets let off for his offensive stuff over the years?? Old age ? . That sounds like double standards to me .
And we'll never know what was fully said in that uncomfortable awkward conversation Harry had ,with the person re Archie's skin colour. But either way it suggests ignorance . Context or not .
No one is letting Phillip off, we all know he's said some naff things ,you can bet in life we ALL have, but this isn't about him, its about deeming the royal family racist, I dont think they are,I just think someone has made an off the cuff remark not realising it was offensive,but none of us can say for sure we we not privvy to that conversation, until we know for sure its not good to condemn anyone
armand.kay
10-03-2021, 08:27 PM
Yeah I got the impression both Harry & Meghan don't want to bad mouth any of the royal family, it's the institution mainly they had issues with.
However you can still see they feel let down by members of the family. Even the lies the media printed about Meghan making Kate cry, just made Meghan give her side of what actually happened . And she says Kate apologised to her ,so you can tell Meghan didn't want to dwell on it .
Yeah, to me the interview never came across as them dragging the royal family idk why it’s been taken that way
Yeah I got the impression both Harry & Meghan don't want to bad mouth any of the royal family, it's the institution mainly they had issues with.
However you can still see they feel let down by members of the family. Even the lies the media printed about Meghan making Kate cry, just made Meghan give her side of what actually happened . And she says Kate apologised to her ,so you can tell Meghan didn't want to dwell on it .
Camilla Tominey, royal reporter said on TV this morning Meghan DID make Kate cry. Either Meghan was lying or they were BOTH made to cry by each other. Meghan didn't mention that though. :shrug:
Cherie
10-03-2021, 08:34 PM
Yeah, to me the interview never came across as them dragging the royal family idk why it’s been taken that way
Yeah I guess the Palace put out a statement for the hell of it
Not sure if you watched the full interview but he mentioned trying to educate his families a few times and comes across as someone who still has hope for the monarchy. His whole reason for not saying who was concerned about the babies skin was to not throw anybody under the bus.
Instead he is throwing suspicion on all the senior royals except the Queen and Philip and all except one will be innocent. Very good of him.
armand.kay
10-03-2021, 08:40 PM
Instead he is throwing suspicion on all the senior royals except the Queen and Philip and all except one will be innocent. Very good of him.
I mean I would’ve rather he just said who it was too, but I do believe he was trying to protect the person who said it.
Crimson Dynamo
10-03-2021, 08:48 PM
I mean I would’ve rather he just said who it was too, but I do believe he was trying to protect the person who said it.
By implicating every one else?
Er no
It was a devious tactical move
And not by him...
I mean I would’ve rather he just said who it was too, but I do believe he was trying to protect the person who said it.
Then he shouldn't have said anything, because now none of them are protected as people are saying 'I wonder is it him, or her'?
Then he shouldn't have said anything, because now none of them are protected as people are saying 'I wonder is it him, or her'?
Some very influential and important people as well..
You could have called treason in days gone by.
rusticgal
10-03-2021, 09:36 PM
They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .
Well I love my husband but a few years ago someone said something that I didn’t want him to hear because it wasn’t a good time for him....she didn’t tell him and I never told him what she was about to tell him...that’s called looking out for someone you love and not giving them unnecessary angst...
...that’s my kind of love for someone. However if you think love is not giving a **** about causing your partner unnecessary trauma...then good for you.
Tom4784
10-03-2021, 09:39 PM
A person can't bemoan 'cancel culture' and then use it to further their agenda when it suits them. That's called hypocrisy.
GoldHeart
10-03-2021, 10:08 PM
Well I love my husband but a few years ago someone said something that I didn’t want him to hear because it wasn’t a good time for him....she didn’t tell him and I never told him what she was about to tell him...that’s called looking out for someone you love and not giving them unnecessary angst...
...that’s my kind of love for someone. However if you think love is not giving a **** about causing your partner unnecessary trauma...then good for you.
:umm2::facepalm:
rusticgal
11-03-2021, 12:23 AM
:umm2::facepalm:
That says it all...
rusticgal
11-03-2021, 12:26 AM
I mean I would’ve rather he just said who it was too, but I do believe he was trying to protect the person who said it.
Either tell the story in its entirety...or don’t say it at all. It may seem he is protecting someone but all it does is create speculation on his entire family.
GoldHeart
11-03-2021, 12:59 AM
That says it all...
Are you being serious !?
Tom4784
11-03-2021, 03:04 AM
People who act like he should have said a name or nothing at all aren't interested in hearing who said it, they simply want to silence accusations of racism.
GoldHeart
11-03-2021, 03:50 AM
Like i said either way Meghan & Harry can't win, there's no pleasing people.
arista
11-03-2021, 04:08 AM
a couple of examples here from the horse's mouth
i wonder how many years have to go bye before you stop being a racist? :think:
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This needs to be sent to his Wife.
AnnieK
11-03-2021, 11:40 AM
Well I love my husband but a few years ago someone said something that I didn’t want him to hear because it wasn’t a good time for him....she didn’t tell him and I never told him what she was about to tell him...that’s called looking out for someone you love and not giving them unnecessary angst...
...that’s my kind of love for someone. However if you think love is not giving a **** about causing your partner unnecessary trauma...then good for you.
How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.
user104658
11-03-2021, 11:45 AM
How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.For me personally, if my wife had been keeping something (anything more than something very minor) "for my own good" and then I found out about it later by other means and that she already knew... It would probably damage our relationship quite severely. I know different people have different relationships but yeah, we often see things on TV where one half of a couple didn't know something "big" that the other knew and we're like "lol how does this happen I'd have been straight on WhatsApp..."
Niamh.
11-03-2021, 11:46 AM
How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.
Yep I'd absolutely feel the same. Look, I'm sure Rustic knows her own husband better than any of us do and every relationship is different, what works with one couple wouldn't suit every couple, neither is out rightly wrong though and in my relationship I'd rather know what was going on and rather my husband told me
Niamh.
11-03-2021, 11:47 AM
lol snap TS :laugh: I literally tell Gav everything and vice versa, that's how we roll
...there is no right or wrong with that, we obviously know the person and our own relationship etc...so we do what we think is right...I also would never want something in that vein kept from me....I don’t need to feel ‘protected’ ...honesty is everything in a relationship for me, it’s the whole foundation of it...
rusticgal
11-03-2021, 11:53 AM
How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.
If he was to have found out and knew that I knew he would understand that what I did was in his best interests considering the situation at the time...as I said he had been through some trauma and wasnt in the best mind set. If you love someone its only natural to protect them...thats not deliberatly lying its protecting. Since Meghan was supposidly suffering with mental health issues and finding it hard to adapt Harry could have addressed this issue with the family member and sorted it out without taking it back to his fragile wife and making her feel even worse.
Had my husband not been in a fragile state at the time then I obviously wouldnt have intervened...
Crimson Dynamo
11-03-2021, 11:54 AM
lol snap TS :laugh: I literally tell Gav everything and vice versa, that's how we roll
its quite difficult to realise you are not being told something...
Niamh.
11-03-2021, 11:55 AM
its quite difficult to realise you are not being told something...
Are you accusing my Gav of something here, hhhmmm? :nono:
AnnieK
11-03-2021, 11:57 AM
If he was to have found out and knew that I knew he would understand that what I did was in his best interests considering the situation at the time...as I said he had been through some trauma and wasnt in the best mind set. If you love someone its only natural to protect them...thats not deliberatly lying its protecting. Since Meghan was supposidly suffering with mental health issues and finding it hard to adapt Harry could have addressed this issue with the family member and sorted it out without taking it back to his fragile wife and making her feel even worse.
Had my husband not been in a fragile state at the time then I obviously wouldnt have intervened...
But its a personal thing though to each relationship isn't it? You say that's what you would have done, I would not do the same. That doesn't mean I feel any less love, just that I would handle things differently. :shrug:
From the sounds of it Harry wasn't in the best place either and so may have handled it differently if his mental health wasn't fragile too.
Niamh.
11-03-2021, 11:59 AM
But its a personal thing though to each relationship isn't it? You say that's what you would have done, I would not do the same. That doesn't mean I feel any less love, just that I would handle things differently. :shrug:
From the sounds of it Harry wasn't in the best place either and so may have handled it differently if his mental health wasn't fragile too.
Well that's it isn't it, you lean on each other and support each other, a problem shared and all that. You can't tackle an issue properly if you're not being honest with each other, that's what I think anyway :shrug:
rusticgal
11-03-2021, 12:00 PM
For me personally, if my wife had been keeping something (anything more than something very minor) "for my own good" and then I found out about it later by other means and that she already knew... It would probably damage our relationship quite severely. I know different people have different relationships but yeah, we often see things on TV where one half of a couple didn't know something "big" that the other knew and we're like "lol how does this happen I'd have been straight on WhatsApp..."
My husband was in a fragile state...not with mental illness or suicidal thoughts but that was the very reason I did what I did.
You all sound like you would kick a horse when its down...unbelievable. If that would damage your relationship severely thats rather sad...
Niamh.
11-03-2021, 12:02 PM
My husband was in a fragile state...not with mental illness or suicidal thoughts but that was the very reason I did what I did.
You all sound like you would kick a horse when its down...unbelievable. If that would damage your relationship severely thats rather sad...
wow that's a very harsh thing to say Rustic, no one is saying what you did was wrong, your relationship is your relationship, I have no doubt you know best but accusing others of basically trying to rub salt in their partners wounds because they think honesty works best for THEIR relationship is out of line imo
user104658
11-03-2021, 12:05 PM
its quite difficult to realise you are not being told something...Well yes exactly - you commit to honestly and trust that the other person is, that's all you can do, so then if you later find out that things have been hidden, it would severely damage the relationship (which is what I said to start with).
I didn't say its impossible to have a partner hide things and not know about it just that it would be a major, major issue if they were and it later came out via someone else or some other discovery.
user104658
11-03-2021, 12:11 PM
My husband was in a fragile state...not with mental illness or suicidal thoughts but that was the very reason I did what I did.
You all sound like you would kick a horse when its down...unbelievable. If that would damage your relationship severely thats rather sad...:shrug: I'm not really interested in your defensiveness here. You conduct your relationship as you see fit, maybe your partner would be worse off knowing certain things and you can make that judgement. You've only been offered a counter-opinion thst not everyone operates in the same way.
"Kicking a horse when it's down" is an... Erm... Interesting way to frame it though.
rusticgal
11-03-2021, 12:20 PM
wow that's a very harsh thing to say Rustic, no one is saying what you did was wrong, your relationship is your relationship, I have no doubt you know best but accusing others of basically trying to rub salt in their partners wounds because they think honesty works best for THEIR relationship is out of line imo
I find it quite difficult to understand if Im honest. You are all saying if your partner was not in a good place and something came to your attention that would put them in a worse place...you would do it because honesty is the best policy....there are times when Honesty isnt the best policy. Depending what it is it can be discussed at a later date when someone is in a better place to deal with it...if the problem is diffused and goes away no one gets hurt and is none the wiser.
Each to their own I guess...
Niamh.
11-03-2021, 12:25 PM
I find it quite difficult to understand if Im honest. You are all saying if your partner was not in a good place and something came to your attention that would put them in a worse place...you would do it because honesty is the best policy....there are times when Honesty isnt the best policy. Depending what it is it can be discussed at a later date when someone is in a better place to deal with it...if the problem is diffused and goes away no one gets hurt and is none the wiser.
Each to their own I guess...
I mean I'm not going to argue with you about it because there isn't a right or a wrong way, there is only the way that works for each couple. I would never be so presumptuous to say I knew better than you about what works best for your relationship.......
AnnieK
11-03-2021, 12:32 PM
I find it quite difficult to understand if Im honest. You are all saying if your partner was not in a good place and something came to your attention that would put them in a worse place...you would do it because honesty is the best policy....there are times when Honesty isnt the best policy. Depending what it is it can be discussed at a later date when someone is in a better place to deal with it...if the problem is diffused and goes away no one gets hurt and is none the wiser.
Each to their own I guess...
My point was more that if there was a chance of it coming out I would rather it come from a place of love, not malice. But, as I said its personal and I would never judge how someone conducts their relationship as I would hate to be judged.
user104658
11-03-2021, 12:40 PM
I find it quite difficult to understand if Im honest. You are all saying if your partner was not in a good place and something came to your attention that would put them in a worse place...you would do it because honesty is the best policy....there are times when Honesty isnt the best policy. Depending what it is it can be discussed at a later date when someone is in a better place to deal with it...if the problem is diffused and goes away no one gets hurt and is none the wiser.
Each to their own I guess...For me personally, it's because I know my wife is very (very) on the ball and there is a HIGH likelihood she would find out "whatever it is" anyway, and if she did find out and then found out that I already knew, that would cause much more harm than knowing in the first place.
rusticgal
11-03-2021, 03:23 PM
For me personally, it's because I know my wife is very (very) on the ball and there is a HIGH likelihood she would find out "whatever it is" anyway, and if she did find out and then found out that I already knew, that would cause much more harm than knowing in the first place.
Fair enough....lucky my husband isnt :laugh:....and I dont know where the 'Horse' came from either..:laugh:
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