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Smithy
25-05-2021, 03:26 PM
There’s all sorts of levels of sex and that, what do you class as “sleeping with” somebody :think:

ChristmasNeeve
25-05-2021, 03:29 PM
I never really thought about it too deeply but I would have thought having intercourse is sleeping with each other not that I wouldn't class kissing or other stuff as cheating

Ammi
25-05-2021, 03:32 PM
…I don’t know, I guess we all define our own intimacies…do you mean in terms of unfaithfulness in a relationship…?…

UserSince2005
25-05-2021, 03:33 PM
A lot of gays thing you haven't had sex unless its bareback

Holly Christmas
25-05-2021, 03:33 PM
I never really thought about it too deeply but I would have thought having intercourse is sleeping with each other not that I wouldn't class kissing or other stuff as cheating

This is my answer too. Cheating can also include sexting even if no physical stuff takes place.

Cherry Christmas
25-05-2021, 03:39 PM
sleeping = intercourse

cheating can take many forms, physical or emotional

Christmas Dynasnow
25-05-2021, 03:56 PM
its the polite term for they are shagging

Smithy
25-05-2021, 04:18 PM
A lot of gays thing you haven't had sex unless its bareback

Omg literally :skull:

Calderyon
25-05-2021, 09:04 PM
Sexual intercourse.

Christmas Lights
25-05-2021, 11:13 PM
If we're talking 'cheating' then anything interactive is being unfaithful imo,if you're in a so called committed relationship and you're ie

*Sexting other people
*Passionately kissing other people
* Going on cam sites and talking to models
* Sex
*Flirting behind their backs
*Sending inappropriate photos

Mokka
26-05-2021, 01:07 AM
Why did this thread equate sleeping together and cheating as the same thing?

I've never cheated... But I have had sleeping together relationships.

It means you are having sex. What kind of sex? The intercourse kind

Captain.Remy
26-05-2021, 07:55 AM
Sleeping with doesn't mean cheating indeed.
To me, "Sleeping together" is hooking up basically. Blowjob/handjob included because I know some people who don't consider them as a sexual intercourse.
I would say kissing is "making out"? I have kissed a lot of people but didn't end up sleeping with all of them, so not a sexual intercourse to me.

ChristmasNeeve
26-05-2021, 09:08 AM
Sleeping with doesn't mean cheating indeed.
To me, "Sleeping together" is hooking up basically. Blowjob/handjob included because I know some people who don't consider them as a sexual intercourse.
I would say kissing is "making out"? I have kissed a lot of people but didn't end up sleeping with all of them, so not a sexual intercourse to me.

I didn't mean I thought it meant cheating, I was just clarifying that just because I think sleeping together means intercourse that's not to say i would consider anything else not cheating, if you know what I mean? I was imaging a scenario of someone saying "we didn't even sleep together" as a defense of why they didn't cheat and those thoughts appeared in my post :laugh:

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user104658
26-05-2021, 09:31 AM
I personally would consider it a euphemism for "full intercourse".

user104658
26-05-2021, 09:33 AM
When it comes to "cheating" different people have different definitions and different ideas on what is "the worst kind". For example, my wife doesn't mind my emotional affair with LT but his partners haven't been as understanding :worry:.

ChristmasNeeve
26-05-2021, 09:36 AM
When it comes to "cheating" different people have different definitions and different ideas on what is "the worst kind". For example, my wife doesn't mind my emotional affair with LT but his partners haven't been as understanding :worry:.

:laugh2:

Smithy
26-05-2021, 09:51 AM
Yeah idk why people are talking about cheating, Mokka was right, it was more about sex

I think I should have probably read the room asking on a forum of heterosexuals :bigsmile:

ChristmasNeeve
26-05-2021, 09:53 AM
Yeah idk why people are talking about cheating, Mokka was right, it was more about sex

I think I should have probably read the room asking on a forum of heterosexuals :bigsmile:

:oh:

user104658
26-05-2021, 10:56 AM
Yeah idk why people are talking about cheating, Mokka was right, it was more about sex

I think I should have probably read the room asking on a forum of heterosexuals :bigsmile:

To be fair I wouldn't bother with the polite euphemisms at all. No one was sleeping, just say what you actually did :joker:.

bots
26-05-2021, 11:07 AM
i think i'm correct in saying that Michael Jackson hosted a number of perfectly innocent sleepovers, not everyone is as smutty as the people on this forum :nono:

Christmas Dynasnow
26-05-2021, 11:39 AM
why would anyone even ask this question?

what next

"what do you think giving someone a BJ actually means?"

:think:

Smithy
26-05-2021, 11:41 AM
why would anyone even ask this question?

what next

"what do you think giving someone a BJ actually means?"

:think:

If you don’t like it doll, feel free to ignore and go back to posting about Meghan Markle!

DouglasS
26-05-2021, 11:45 AM
why would anyone even ask this question?

what next

"what do you think giving someone a BJ actually means?"

:think:

My thoughts

:laugh:

Christmas Dynasnow
26-05-2021, 12:06 PM
If you don’t like it doll, feel free to ignore and go back to posting about Meghan Markle!

no need to snap

Captain.Remy
26-05-2021, 01:29 PM
why would anyone even ask this question?

what next

"what do you think giving someone a BJ actually means?"

:think:

But what does giving someone a BJ actually mean though?

Liam-
26-05-2021, 01:32 PM
But what does giving someone a BJ actually mean though?

It’s their birthday?

Captain.Remy
26-05-2021, 01:35 PM
It’s their birthday?

Or Christmas maybe? :shrug::laugh:

Calderyon
26-05-2021, 01:57 PM
But what does giving someone a BJ actually mean though?

Oral sex to a penis. (Real or fake)

user104658
26-05-2021, 02:16 PM
Oral sex to a penis. (Real or fake)

:think:

Captain.Remy
26-05-2021, 03:05 PM
Oral sex to a penis. (Real or fake)

The more you know.

Christmas Dynasnow
26-05-2021, 03:36 PM
But what does giving someone a BJ actually mean though?

That you want to sleep with them?

Calderyon
27-05-2021, 06:02 PM
:think:

Strap On Dildo.


TMP.

Babayaro.
28-05-2021, 08:01 AM
shagging

user104658
28-05-2021, 09:04 AM
Strap On Dildo.


TMP.

How can anyone possibly get anything out of sucking a strap-on, OR having a strap-on sucked :umm2:.

Babayaro.
28-05-2021, 09:09 AM
coat it in strawberry jam :tongue: