Life can change in an instant

[bots]

A day in late February of this year started the same as any other. I was having a coffee and pottering about on my computer doing some light work. I felt absolutely fine and normal. Then, I started to feel a little unwell and within 30 seconds I was unconscious. Some time later, I recovered consciousness as a stroke survivor

I went from someone who hadn't seen a doctor in years, to a regular out patient at the hospital. Since February, a week hasn't passed without some form of test or scan in a multitude of hospital departments. Crazy.

If it's possible to be fortunate after having a stroke, then I think I am. I still have full speech and control over my limbs, but it's changed me and my life in many other different ways.

I have learnt some important lessons on real priorities. I don't want this to be a pity me situation, but I do want to make people aware of how quickly things can change outwith our control. Live every moment as if it could be your last

[AnnieK]

A day in late February of this year started the same as any other. I was having a coffee and pottering about on my computer doing some light work. I felt absolutely fine and normal. Then, I started to feel a little unwell and within 30 seconds I was unconscious. Some time later, I recovered consciousness as a stroke survivor

I went from someone who hadn't seen a doctor in years, to a regular out patient at the hospital. Since February, a week hasn't passed without some form of test or scan in a multitude of hospital departments. Crazy.

If it's possible to be fortunate after having a stroke, then I think I am. I still have full speech and control over my limbs, but it's changed me and my life in many other different ways.

I have learnt some important lessons on real priorities. I don't want this to be a pity me situation, but I do want to make people aware of how quickly things can change outwith our control. Live every moment as if it could be your last

Oh my BoTs, I am so sorry to hear this but so glad you are doing as well as possible. I knew you had had some medical issues from a couple of posts but thanks for sharing this with us. I hope your recovery continues to progress and you can learn to put it behind you :love:

A similar thing happened to my Dad years ago, he was 50, still played football and cricket weekly and was a fit guy. One saturday I was on the phone to him and he said he had cried off his cricket match as he didn't feel well (he NEVER let anyone down so this in itself was a warning flag). The next thing he collapsed whilst talking to me and had a heart attack. Similar to you, he thankfully had no long lasting effects (the hospital told him it was a BIG warning to change his lifestyle - he had recently been made redundant after 32 years with BT and so had gone from active to sedentary during the week). He still has yearly checks and takes meds but he's 75 now and fitter than I am.

Take care of yourself :love:

[Zizu]

Yes .. take care and please keep us all informed as to your progress .


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[Beso]

Aint that the truth bots.


All the best to you, take it easy and do as you're told.

Be thinking off you.

[Niamh.]

Sorry to hear you went through that BOTS but I'm really glad you came out the other end relatively well too

[The Slim Reaper]

The afterlife's loss is tibbs....well, also loss :smug:

Take care dude, and look after yourself.

[Cherie]

Great to hear you have no ill effects from it, I do know a few stroke survivors who have little or no symptoms but like you say a life time of medication. So long may your recovery continue.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Bloody hell Bots that wasnt good, glad you are ok. Did they attribute it to anything?

[Redway]

Sorry you went through such a hellish experience, BOTS. Any idea what the cause was?

[Kazanne]

A day in late February of this year started the same as any other. I was having a coffee and pottering about on my computer doing some light work. I felt absolutely fine and normal. Then, I started to feel a little unwell and within 30 seconds I was unconscious. Some time later, I recovered consciousness as a stroke survivor

I went from someone who hadn't seen a doctor in years, to a regular out patient at the hospital. Since February, a week hasn't passed without some form of test or scan in a multitude of hospital departments. Crazy.

If it's possible to be fortunate after having a stroke, then I think I am. I still have full speech and control over my limbs, but it's changed me and my life in many other different ways.

I have learnt some important lessons on real priorities. I don't want this to be a pity me situation, but I do want to make people aware of how quickly things can change outwith our control. Live every moment as if it could be your last

Aw Bots ,sorry to hear that ,you never know do you what other people are going through? I'm pleased you have come out the other side relatively unscathed ,when things like this happen I think we realise life can be so fragile . Good luck for the future and big hugs.x

[bots]

Bloody hell Bots that wasnt good, glad you are ok. Did they attribute it to anything?

it's a bit chicken and egg, our vital systems are all interconnected. They also found an issue with my heart where my heart rate would race due to an electric short circuit (treatable with meds) and the constantly changing heart rate dislodges crap from your arteries which can cause a clot to form. But then in parallel to this, if the blood flow is reduced to your brain, then your heart speeds up to try and get the blood to the areas that need it ..... so, if anything drifts out of equilibrium you have a problem. Anyway, i am still going for diagnostic tests and scans and I have to say the NHS have been brilliant in my experience

[hijaxers]

it's a bit chicken and egg, our vital systems are all interconnected. They also found an issue with my heart where my heart rate would race due to an electric short circuit (treatable with meds) and the constantly changing heart rate dislodges crap from your arteries which can cause a clot to form. But then in parallel to this, if the blood flow is reduced to your brain, then your heart speeds up to try and get the blood to the areas that need it ..... so, if anything drifts out of equilibrium you have a problem. Anyway, i am still going for diagnostic tests and scans and I have to say the NHS have been brilliant in my experience

Well i hope they continue to be brilliant for you. I wish you all the best .

[thesheriff443]

The truth is bots, while reading yet another one of toy soldiers posts, your brain couldn’t take anymore and shut down.

Lots of love from the sheriff for being a survivor.

[rusticgal]

You are absolutely right BOTS it can change just like that. My husband was a fit 53 year old and he felt unwell and eventually went to the Doctors with his heart racing. He was sent straight to the hospital in an Ambulance and under went a bypass involving 5 bypasses. He is on meds for the rest of his life.
I am so glad you have come through it with little effect…but it does prove that no matter how fit you are these things can still happen…and how precious life is.
You take care…:hug:

[Crimson Dynamo]

Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that
appears for a little time and then vanishes.

James 4:14

[Mystic Mock]

Sorry to hear you went through that BOTS but I'm really glad you came out the other end relatively well too

This.

[thesheriff443]

Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that
appears for a little time and then vanishes.

James 4:14

A silent but violent fart in a lift full of strangers would be a better description

[LaLaLand]

Wow. Sorry to hear you’ve been through that but your mindset and outlook on life now seems incredible. Good for you man! All the best to you.

[smudgie]

Thank goodness you are on the mend BOTS, all these tests and procedures are a right faff on, but they are well worth it to make sure you are on the right meds etc.
Keep on going from strength to strength.

[The Slim Reaper]

This.

A touching and heartfelt post, Mock :smug:

[bots]

thanks everyone for the kind words

[MTVN]

That must have been very scary, glad you're through the other side bots!

Similar happened to my Uncle - he was a very active and sociable person in his 50s then had a massive stroke from out of nowhere. He'll never regain full mobility or speech from it sadly but in one way he's very lucky to be alive at all. Like you say, it really can all change in an instant with no warning, the human body is a very fragile thing

[Crimson Dynamo]

Just found out my pal's (who i was on my golf holiday with) wife has died of cancer she was 52. Literally got ill middle of June with sore legs and one thing led to another and she had cancer, and a month and a half later she is dead leaving her two boys. Thankfully ex-mrs LT saw her last week. So sad.

[AnnieK]

Just found out my pal's (who i was on my golf holiday with) wife has died of cancer she was 52. Literally got ill middle of June with sore legs and one thing led to another and she had cancer, and a month and a half later she is dead leaving her two boys. Thankfully ex-mrs LT saw her last week. So sad.

So sorry to hear that LT. How old are their boys?

Very sad :sad:

[Niamh.]

Just found out my pal's (who i was on my golf holiday with) wife has died of cancer she was 52. Literally got ill middle of June with sore legs and one thing led to another and she had cancer, and a month and a half later she is dead leaving her two boys. Thankfully ex-mrs LT saw her last week. So sad.

That's very sad LT :(

[Crimson Dynamo]

So sorry to hear that LT. How old are their boys?

Very sad :sad:

18 and 22

[Niamh.]

18 and 22

Those are the same ages as my kids :(

[AnnieK]

18 and 22

No age to lose your mum :sad:

[thesheriff443]

Just found out my pal's (who i was on my golf holiday with) wife has died of cancer she was 52. Literally got ill middle of June with sore legs and one thing led to another and she had cancer, and a month and a half later she is dead leaving her two boys. Thankfully ex-mrs LT saw her last week. So sad.

That’s heartbreaking.

[Mystic Mock]

A touching and heartfelt post, Mock :smug:

I'm not the best at these kinda things.

But I did want to support BOTS, even if it was in an awkward way.:laugh:

[Mystic Mock]

I'm sorry to hear about that btw LT.

I honestly feel sorry for the children too who must be devastated.

[Crimson Dynamo]

I'm sorry to hear about that btw LT.

I honestly feel sorry for the children too who must be devastated.

Its the speed of it Mock. Middle of June get ill, dead in first week of August. No warning and healthy and fit prior.

[Cherie]

Just found out my pal's (who i was on my golf holiday with) wife has died of cancer she was 52. Literally got ill middle of June with sore legs and one thing led to another and she had cancer, and a month and a half later she is dead leaving her two boys. Thankfully ex-mrs LT saw her last week. So sad.

very sad, was it bone cancer? as that seems to see people off very quickly

[Crimson Dynamo]

very sad, was it bone cancer? as that seems to see people off very quickly

It was bile duct/liver

[Cherie]

It was bile duct/liver

oh poor woman, so young

[rusticgal]

Just found out my pal's (who i was on my golf holiday with) wife has died of cancer she was 52. Literally got ill middle of June with sore legs and one thing led to another and she had cancer, and a month and a half later she is dead leaving her two boys. Thankfully ex-mrs LT saw her last week. So sad.

Sorry LT…

[Mystic Mock]

Its the speed of it Mock. Middle of June get ill, dead in first week of August. No warning and healthy and fit prior.

It must be really difficult to process.

Hopefully you're doing the best that you can about this news.

[AnnieK]

Its the speed of it Mock. Middle of June get ill, dead in first week of August. No warning and healthy and fit prior.

My mum was diagnosed and died in 4 weeks. At the time it was shockingly quick and devastating but now....7 years later, I am almost glad it was so quick. We had no half hopes of treatment, my mum refused any palliative care but they managed her pain so we never saw her suffer through treatment. It is no solace to lose anyone so quickly.....but looking back it would have been worse to see her suffer through treatment that would only prolong her life by months.

Its far too early for them to feel amy kind of solace and its so.awful to lose someone so quickly.. my heart goes out to them xx

[bots]

i got permission to drive again today after 6 months of looking at my car in the driveway :cheer2:

[Cherie]

Brum brum :cheer2:

[Crimson Dynamo]

Just found out my best school pal and usher at my wedding's wife has died suddenly of a brain hemorrhage at 53. Another funeral of a woman in the prime of her life. :sad:

[bots]

it's crazy how vulnerable we are