I am broken....

[Calderyon]

Completely devastated.

Something terrible happened today.

First my Brother, now my Mother.

It's too much.

[Swan]

Whats up mate?

[Calderyon]

My Mother passed away today.

[Swan]

Oh buddy, i am so deeply sorry!!

How can i help? How can i be there for you?

[AnnieK]

Oh Cald, I am so sorry for your loss. I've been there and know how completely devastated you must be. Are you with your family?

[The Slim Reaper]

Really sorry to hear that. LT recently lost his mother so he might be a good person to have a chat with in pm.

Honestly, don't know what to say, as nothing that is said can take away the pain, even for a second.

[Vanessa]

Aw I'm so sorry! :(

[thesheriff443]

Fcuk sake mate , I’m so sorryxxx

[Calderyon]

I don't know...

I am just crying.

This is worse than when my Brother went.

[Swan]

Clad, would a voice call help, you can vent and cry, i would just listen, and be there?

Please don't go through this alone. You're such a brilliant person.

[Calderyon]

Oh Cald, I am so sorry for your loss. I've been there and know how completely devastated you must be. Are you with your family?

I am with my father and my oldest brother.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Wow Caldy i am really sorry to hear this news

[thesheriff443]

I don't know...

I am just crying.

I lost my mum in jan 2021 it’s truly heartbreaking
Just let it all out mate

[Swan]

I am with my father and my oldest brother.

Be with them, stay with them. We're always here too. Don't go through this alone. I am so sorry buddy!

[Alf]

My condolences to you and your family Cald.

I haven't gone through losing my mother yet but I know it's something that I and most of us will have to go through at some point in our lives, and it's not something I'm looking forward to.

I lost my best mate to tragic circumstances 8 years ago and that tore out a piece of my life from my body and was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with.

I'm not good with advice, but I'll just say, do your mourning, try to stay strong and never forget. As much as the present is the hard time, time is a healer.

Lot's of love

[Cherie]

oh Caldy I am so sorry, was she ill or was this very sudden

Losing a parent is really tough, thinking of you xx

[Swan]

Every single person on this forum is here for you. I know we're all bloody loons at times. But we do have a family on here. And you are such a nice bloke.

We are ALL here for mate.

[MTVN]

Ah no so sorry for your loss Cal, thinking of you

[Kazanne]

So very sorry xx

[Calderyon]

oh Caldy I am so sorry, was she ill or was this very sudden

Losing a parent is really tough, thinking of you xx

Alzheimers.

Along with elilepsy, which comes with it.

She had medications for both.

Me and my father took care of her in our home for these past almost 8 years.

We knew it was coming, but it still happened so sudden.

[Swan]

Oh Clad

[Crimson Dynamo]

Alzheimers.

Along with elilepsy, which comes with it.

She had medications for both.

Me and my father took care of her in our home for these past almost 8 years.

like my father, its not good but its what we have to do. No one can prepare you

[Calderyon]

I miss her so much.

[Calderyon]

like my father, its not good but its what we have to do. No one can prepare you

Condolences.

And true.

[Cherie]

Alzheimers.

Along with elilepsy, which comes with it.

She had medications for both.

Me and my father took care of her in our home for these past almost 8 years.

We knew it was coming, but it still happened so sudden.


Oh Caldy that is so tough, especially when it was so sudden, you know we are here for you, pm or on the forum, any time x

[Swan]

I miss her so much.

You are one of, if not my fave member of this forum. All the games you set up, your love of football.

If you ever need a chat, no matter the time, im here for you mate.

I never prey, but i shall for you tonight Xx

[rusticgal]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mum in 2020 to Dementia….you know it’s coming but it still does not soften the impact when it actually happens.
We are all here for you…

:hug:

[Redway]

I’m so sorry to hear that, Calderyon.

[Calderyon]

I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avail.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.

[Swan]

When i lost someone close to me, 3 some years ago. I found a genre of music that helps you think. Reflect. It's alone music. It helps you build back up through the pain and tears.

Maybe sh!t for you now, and corny.

If you get a round to listening to this, imagine she is listening too. And in a better place.

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Much love brother!

[Cherie]

I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avail.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.

You all tried to help her, it was her time, you tried to save her and that will be a comfort in time

[MTVN]

Sounds like you're a very close knit family and you did a wonderful job caring for her these last few years, hopefully you have a lot of happy memories you can cherish

[Alf]

I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avsil.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.You'll go through lots of different emotions while it's still raw. It's natural and to be expected. It sounds like you did your best by her and from what I know of you then she will be very proud of you.

I feel your pain, I know what you're going through right now, it hurts, there's no pain like losing a loved one.

You're family and friends are going through it too, so try your best to stay strong for each other.

[thesheriff443]

You'll go through lots of different emotions while it's still raw. It's natural and to be expected. It sounds like you did your best by her and from what I know of you then she will be very proud of you.

I feel your pain, I know what you're going through right now, it hurts, there's no pain like losing a loved one.

You're family and friends are going through it too, so try your best to stay strong for each other.

100 percent agree

[Zizu]

Completely devastated.

Something terrible happened today.


Aww that’s so sad - I’m lost for words


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[GoldHeart]

Really sad devastating news ,I'm so sorry xx.

[joeysteele]

Really sorry to read this Cald.
Thinking of you.

[Mystic Mock]

My Mother passed away today.

I'm sorry to hear that Calderyon.

I think that anyone would feel like you in a situation like this, it's understandable imo.

[Kate!]

I've pmd you Caldy my love.

[Beso]

So sorry to hear this cald.

If I can do anything to help just ask.

[Niamh.]

Oh Cald, I'm so sorry for your loss. Alzeihemers is such a cruel disease, your mother was a lucky lady to have you all caring for her these last few years and she's at peace now, it probably doesn't help to hear that right now though I know :hug:

[Nicky91]

i'm really sorry to hear that Caldy, i know you and i dislike each other but i would be heartless (which i'm not at all) if i wouldn't post a comforting message in here, a :hug: from me to you

[bots]

i'm so sorry to hear this Caldy

[Swan]

Clad...

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. When i lost someone close to me, i was a wreck, still kinda am. But it's ok to feel, it's ok to cry, it's ok to shout and scream.

We will always be in the same boat. We all go. I found hope in knowing we all have time. Every single person in the world. All we have is time. Your Mother is an Angel now. She is there, every time you look up. Talk to her. And know one day you will meet again!

"all those moments will be lost in time, like tears in the rain"

But you hold those moments dear. This is what makes us human!

Much love mate.

[Calderyon]

Thank you everyone for those messages.

Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.

[Niamh.]

Thank you everyone for those messages.

Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.

Unfortunately there's no way around grief, you have to go through it :hug:

[hijaxers]

Thank you everyone for those messages.

Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.

Gosh only just reading about your loss Cald andd i offer my sincerest condolenses to you , your brother and father, also your wider family and friends. Talk about her with them and remember good times, the pain is unbearable and you'll doubtless find it hard to sleep so grab naps when you can, my heart goes out to you for your loss.

[James]

I'm sorry for your loss, Calderyon.

[_Seth]

So sorry to hear this. :hug: :(

Try distracting yourself from the pain by listening to music, watching your favourite films etc. Time will pass and a little bit of the edge will come off. :(

[Cherie]

How are you and your family Caldy?

[Calderyon]

How are you and your family Caldy?

Not well.

In despair.

[Vanessa]

Not well.

In despair.

Im so sorry. I know it's hard. :sad:

[Cherie]

Not well.

In despair.

Losing a life partner and parent is not easy

Thinking about you Cald, I know you might not feel like it but just doing little things to distract you will help, dont give up on the football which is one of your passions and even wordle is a distraction and a bit of normalcy as you do it every day

[Calderyon]

At least she is with my Brother, her Brother, her sister, her Mother (my grandmother on my mother's side), my Grandmother and My Grandfather (on my father's side) and our pet cat and them to look after her and each other.

Hopefully God and Jesus as well.

Some little comfort in that, but still...

[Calderyon]

Still doesn't make it easy.

[Kate!]

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[Glenn.]

So sorry to hear Cald. Absolutely devastating news.

[Dogeatdog]

Very sorry for your loss Calderyon.