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Kate!
11-03-2023, 11:09 AM
So I've not got much family but I've today had to ask them to lend me a bit of money till the end if the month and not one of them will. Most of them are minted as well. Pffft.
I've got a lump sum in the form of Cost of Living payment coming before the end of the month butam absolutely skint till then. Anyone know anything I can claim in the meantime?
rusticgal
11-03-2023, 12:48 PM
Look online Kate...you can contact the Citizens Advice Consumer line.
Cherie
11-03-2023, 12:49 PM
Kate have you thought about getting a part time job, you can work a certain amount of hours and still keep your benefits?
Kate!
11-03-2023, 12:50 PM
Kate have you thought about getting a part time job, you can work a certain amount of hours and still keep your benefits?
No I can't Cherie. I'm on longterm sickness benefits.
Maybe they are tired of giving?
Cherie
11-03-2023, 12:53 PM
No I can't Cherie. I'm on longterm sickness benefits.
Sorry to hear that Kate
The thing is once you start borrowing money you start each month from the position of having to pay back loans, so you will never get straight, you will have to bite the bullet until the COL payment comes through, I know its hard but times are hard for everyone
Kate!
11-03-2023, 12:58 PM
Maybe they are tired of giving?
I've never asked them, you're assuming there.
Go to France, come back on a dinghy and you will be housed, fed and paid.
You never know, Gary Lineker may put you up in his mansion.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 02:07 PM
Your family aren’t required to bail you out just because they are ‘loaded’
You’re not entitled to their money because they’re family.
Crimson Dynamo
11-03-2023, 02:16 PM
I've never asked them, you're assuming there.
It does seem odd you would ask people you have never met on a BB forum for money before your own family members?
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 02:41 PM
She needs to spend less time at the bingo gambling her money away and maybe have a look at how she can best budget her money; not privately messaging people all over the internet for cash.
GiRTh
11-03-2023, 02:43 PM
This escalated quickly :laugh:
Probably time for a mod to intervene.:shrug:
Crimson Dynamo
11-03-2023, 02:46 PM
This escalated quickly :laugh:
Probably time for a mod to intervene.:shrug:
Yes, come on MTVN - get yer wallet out
arista
11-03-2023, 02:50 PM
So I've not got much family but I've today had to ask them to lend me a bit of money till the end of the month and not one of them will. Most of them are minted as well. Pffft.
I've got a lump sum in the form of Cost of Living payment coming before the end of the month butam absolutely skint till then. Anyone know anything I can claim in the meantime?
Try again, gently
Nicky91
11-03-2023, 02:55 PM
Yes, come on MTVN - get yer wallet out
let's not disturb our precious football fans during important PL weekends, shall we
:nono:
Kate!
11-03-2023, 03:40 PM
It does seem odd you would ask people you have never met on a BB forum for money before your own family members?
I'm estranged from my family not that it's any of Glenn's business. Nothing I do has he the right to comment on and slag me off. Has he never struggled? Don't judge till you've stood in a person's shoes.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 03:44 PM
Yes I’ve struggled. I just have more dignity than to beg teenagers for money
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 03:47 PM
And if you’re estranged from you family why on earth would they give you money? And why would you post it online? Why would you trash a family you have no contact with because they won’t give an estranged member of the family money?
Your entitlement is alarming
Kate!
11-03-2023, 03:49 PM
Yes I’ve struggled. I just have more dignity than to beg teenagers for money
I've begged nobody. Get your facts straight. I've asked and instantly repaid. **** off Glenn.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 03:49 PM
Yes I’ve struggled. I just have more dignity than to beg teenagers for money
Then you not really struggled then have you? :idc:
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 03:50 PM
Spend less time at bingo and balance your budget better.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 03:51 PM
Then you not really struggled then have you? :idc:
Yes I have. I just have more dignity to beg strangers for money online
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:04 PM
Yes I have. I just have more dignity to beg strangers for money online
Misrepresenting me, are you deaf? I told you I've begged nobody. Have I asked you? No. So get your fat beak out of my business. Also the fact that these friends have discussed it with you when I asked in confidence says it all about them.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:07 PM
Misrepresenting me, are you deaf? I told you I've begged nobody. Have I asked you? No. So get your fat beak out of my business. Also the fact that these friends have discussed it with you when I asked in confidence says it all about them.
Well you have asked a great deal of people
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:16 PM
Well you have asked a great deal of people
And so what? You have a problem.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:17 PM
Who said I had a problem? I was merely pointing out that I had more dignity than you
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:18 PM
Thing is if you wasn’t such an awful woman and burnt all your bridges with people that genuinely liked you then people might be more willing to help you. Don’t bite the hand that feeds you
She hasn't ask you, yet you seem to have the biggest problem with it Glenn.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:24 PM
Oh come on. Everyone’s thinking it
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:26 PM
Thing is if you wasn’t such an awful woman and burnt all your bridges with people that genuinely liked you then people might be more willing to help you. Don’t bite the hand that feeds you
What makes me so awful? Worse than you? Don't make me laugh. Please feel free to elaborate.
You're obsessed with slagging me down. We all know it.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:29 PM
Didn’t you cheat on your boyfriend? The same boyfriend who houses you, feeds you and basically supports you? I’d say that was pretty awful. So yes I’d say you were more awful than me.
You’re also slagging off your family for refusing to give you money and calling them selfish. Like I said you’re not entitled to their money so calling them selfish is low
Oh come on. Everyone’s thinking it
Just dunno why you feel the need to be so spiteful, especially considering she's not even asked you.
Anyway, back to the football :wavey:
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:32 PM
It’s not spiteful it’s truthful.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:33 PM
Didn’t you cheat on your boyfriend? The same boyfriend who houses you, feeds you and basically supports you? I’d say that was pretty awful. So yes I’d say you were more awful than me.
You’re also slagging off your family for refusing to give you money and calling them selfish. Like I said you’re not entitled to their money so calling them selfish is low
Wow you're full of vitriol aren't you? Sorry to disappoint but I didn't cheat no. And yet again, none of your business. You're obsessed Glenn. Why are you even here? You hate Tibb. Not a good word to say about it.
As for my family, they are tighter than fishes arses. Always have been. They abandoned my mum when my dad died. So don't you tell me you know what's what.
It’s not spiteful it’s truthful.
Suggesting she become a prostitute to earn money? Come on fgs!
Chelsea are actually playing well, 2 games in a row, pretty unheard of this season, so yeah, im off to watch men in shorts kicking balls....
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:35 PM
Wow you're full of vitriol aren't you? Sorry to disappoint but I didn't cheat no. And yet again, none of your business. You're obsessed Glenn. Why are you even here? You hate Tibb. Not a good word to say about it.
As for my family, they are tighter than fishes arses. Always have been. They abandoned my mum when my dad died. So don't you tell me you know what's what.
You did cheat on your boyfriend. I know thats a fact. Poor guy. Being led up the garden path.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:37 PM
You did cheat on your boyfriend. I know thats a fact. Poor guy. Being led up the garden path.
Right that's enough of this bollocks. I did no such thing. I cut off all contact and did nothing. How you think you know differently is beyond me? Prove it then. Lmao.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 04:38 PM
Suggesting she become a prostitute to earn money? Come on fgs!
Chelsea are actually playing well, 2 games in a row, pretty unheard of this season, so yeah, im off to watch men in shorts kicking balls....
Maybe she should then she can play bingo all she wants and then she wouldn't have to manipulate others for money and use them as a bank machine.
prostitutes earn a lot of money
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:40 PM
Maybe she should then she can play bingo all she wants and then she wouldn't have to manipulate others for money and use them as a bank machine.
prostitutes earn a lot of money
How have I manipulated anyone Luke. Proof? I've only ever asked and left it at that. I haven't hounded anyone? And to repeat myself the little that I have been lent I've repaid, sometimes with interest. So you can **** off as well.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:42 PM
It's incredibly laughable that I've asked neither Glenn or Luke to help me out yet they are slagging away to their hearts content.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 04:43 PM
How have I manipulated anyone Luke. Proof? I've only ever asked and left it at that. I haven't hounded anyone? And to repeat myself the little that I have been lent I've repaid, sometimes with interest. So you can **** off as well.
I mean you play on peoples kindness and make them feel sorry for you so they borrow you money. You make out you struggle but if you're playing bingo, so it's your own fault you're in this situation.
You only speak to people to borrow money and that's it. You lost friends because of this.
Cherie
11-03-2023, 04:44 PM
I find it really strange that two people who consider themselves 'too nice' for TiBB have come on specifically to spew nastiness about someone who has not asked them for anything, so basing everything on second hand information, we are well rid
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:44 PM
Bull**** Luke.
Nicky91
11-03-2023, 04:45 PM
Kate being cancelled in the same year as the cancelling of Gary Lineker
:flutter:
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:45 PM
We’re not slagging you off you moron, I wasn’t anyway. It’s not slagging you off Kate it’s called being truthful to you. It would be slagging you off if it was behind your back.
I had an issue with you slagging your family off online because you deemed yourself entitled to their money.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:46 PM
We’re not slagging you off you moron, I wasn’t anyway. It’s not slagging you off Kate it’s called being truthful to you. It would be slagging you off if it was behind your back.
I had an issue with you slagging your family off online because you deemed yourself entitled to their money.
Well my ears do burn on a daily basis whenever I think of Discord. Be off over there and spew your spite.
Nicky91
11-03-2023, 04:47 PM
someone begging people in pm's to hand over their money, is a crime, Kate is a criminal
everyone pls put her on your ignore lists
LukeB
11-03-2023, 04:47 PM
I find it really strange that two people who consider themselves 'too nice' for TiBB have come on specifically to spew nastiness about someone who has not asked them for anything, so basing everything on second hand information, we are well rid
How is it calling out manipulation nasty:joker:
What's nasty is slagging off your family and begging money from others with manipulation.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:47 PM
There isn’t any spite. You’re not a member there anymore :thumbs:
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:48 PM
someone begging people in pm's to hand over their money, is a crime, Kate is a criminal
everyone pls put her on your ignore lists
Did I beg you Nicky, did I really? No love I just asked, nothing more. Don't joining with the hatred please.
Cherie
11-03-2023, 04:49 PM
How is it calling out manipulation nasty:joker:
What's nasty is slagging off your family and begging money from others with manipulation.
Its none of your business :shrug: As I understand it Kate has not asked you for anything so its not your story to tell
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 04:49 PM
Are the many people you did ask allowed an opinion?
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:50 PM
Manipulation is when you coerce others against their will. I've not done that. Get a bloody grip.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 04:50 PM
Its none of your business :shrug: As I understand it Kate has not asked you for anything so its not your story to tell
None of your business either.
Just replying to Swine that maybe Kate should be a prossie (nothing wrong with that) since she's struggling... because of bingo.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:50 PM
Are the many people you did ask allowed an opinion?
Well I asked Cherie and she's given her opinion.
Nicky91
11-03-2023, 04:52 PM
Did I beg you Nicky, did I really? No love I just asked, nothing more. Don't joining with the hatred please.
asked? definitely came across as manipulation to me, so go off :whistle:
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:52 PM
None of your business either.
Just replying to Swine that maybe Kate should be a prossie (nothing wrong with that) since she's struggling... because of bingo.
It's far more of Cheries business than it is yours though. Dearyme .
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:54 PM
asked? definitely came across as manipulation to me, so go off :whistle:
No dear. I asked. You didn't even reply. I left it at that.
Cherie
11-03-2023, 04:54 PM
None of your business either.
Just replying to Swine that maybe Kate should be a prossie (nothing wrong with that) since she's struggling... because of bingo.
Swine? oh how hilarious, you used to be a decent guy now look at you
Kate!
11-03-2023, 04:56 PM
Swine? oh how hilarious, you used to be a decent guy now look at you
:joker: Glenn the swine.
They are just showing themselves and their cronies up.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 04:57 PM
Swine? oh how hilarious, you used to be a decent guy now look at you
I meant Swan :joker: god forbid misspelling
I'm still a decent guy and I haven't really said anything nasty or bad. If I want to be against manipulation then I can
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Cherie
11-03-2023, 04:57 PM
Kate if I could offer some advice dont rise to any more of these comments.
I am heading out now, see you later
Swine? oh how hilarious, you used to be a decent guy now look at you
Im flattered he came out of nowhere to address my post, it's adorable really :hehe:
Jordan.
11-03-2023, 04:58 PM
hi kate just seen your pm i'm assuming your sorted now? x
LukeB
11-03-2023, 04:59 PM
Im flattered he came out of nowhere to address my post, it's adorable really :hehe:
Don't flatter yourself.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:00 PM
hi kate just seen your pm i'm assuming your sorted now? x
:skull:
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:01 PM
hi kate just seen your pm i'm assuming your sorted now? x
bye
Nicky91
11-03-2023, 05:02 PM
Kate if I could offer some advice dont rise to any more of these comments.
I am heading out now, see you later
:laugh3:
well i don't get triggered by any of her bull**** anymore now she is in the right place for me, aka the ignore list
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:02 PM
If I got Swan's name wrong I obviously don't care enough for him. I don't know why he's flattering himself like that.
Nicky91
11-03-2023, 05:03 PM
i won't let her ruin this perfect day, where we have THE MOCRO FLAVOUR ruling the world yet again, same as in 2012
one cult, i am a part of, is the Cult of Loreen
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:03 PM
I meant Swan :joker: god forbid misspelling
I'm still a decent guy and I haven't really said anything nasty or bad. If I want to be against manipulation then I can
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Be specific who have I manipulated? Like I said I only asked and I accepted no for an answer. I repaid anything I was lent sometimes extra as a thank you. Now bug off.
If I got Swan's name wrong I obviously don't care enough for him. I don't know why he's flattering himself like that.
Ok calm down Luke, gonna make me blush in a minute, i was only joking, let it go, it's fine, i forgive you for misspelling my name, happens to the best of us :hee:
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:06 PM
Be specific who have I manipulated? Like I said I only asked and I accepted no for an answer. I repaid anything I was lent sometimes extra as a thank you. Now bug off.
One of them is who you borrowed a total of £300 altogether because you kept asking and even asked them on their birthday. You play up the struggling just so others feel guilty so they give you money. THAT'S MANIPULATION. and others who you asked. This thread screams manipulation too.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:06 PM
:laugh3:
well i don't get triggered by any of her bull**** anymore now she is in the right place for me, aka the ignore list
:joker:
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:08 PM
One of them is who you borrowed a total of £300 altogether because you kept asking and even asked them on their birthday. You play up the struggling just so others feel guilty so they give you money. THAT'S MANIPULATION. and others who you asked. This thread screams manipulation too.
Run that by me again? I borrowed 300 pounds off one single person. And who would that be? Bloody liar. I would never have been able to pay it back.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:11 PM
Run that by me again? I borrowed 300 pounds off one single person. And who would that be? Bloody liar. I would never have been able to pay it back.
Altogether yes because you asked them soo many times the total amount you borrowed was around that much. I didn't say you borrowed £300 in one payment now. Just shows you asked loads and used them for money.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:12 PM
Altogether yes because you asked them soo many times the total amount you borrowed was around that much. I didn't say you borrowed £300 in one payment now. Just shows you asked loads and used them for money.
And I deny it. :pipe: it's very strange how I never asked either you or Glenn isn't it?
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:14 PM
Altogether yes because you asked them soo many times the total amount you borrowed was around that much. I didn't say you borrowed £300 in one payment now. Just shows you asked loads and used them for money.
I know now who you are referring to BTW. Its not rocket science. I always repaid with interest. So I still don't get your beef.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:14 PM
And I deny it. :pipe: it's very strange how I never asked either you or Glenn isn't it?
And? Maybe the manipulation just irks us, I personally think it's wrong.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:15 PM
Imagine being so ungrateful to the people that have genuinely helped you by lying like this. See? Awful woman
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:15 PM
And I deny it. :pipe: it's very strange how I never asked either you or Glenn isn't it?
I know now who you are referring to BTW. Its not rocket science. I always repaid with interest. So I still don't get your beef.
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Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:16 PM
Imagine being so ungrateful to the people that have genuinely helped you by lying like this. See? Awful woman
How am I lying? Proof?
Why are you on such a mission Glenn? Why do you hate so much? Do you need help?
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:17 PM
Kate seriously stop with the victim card. I don’t hate you lmao
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:17 PM
Whatisthetruth.gif
I deny the huge amount, idiot.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:18 PM
Kate seriously stop with the victim card. I don’t hate you lmao
Some people who take on the role of victim might seem to enjoy blaming others for problems they cause, lashing out and making others feel guilty, or manipulating others for sympathy and attention. But, Botnick suggests, toxic behavior like this may be more often associated with narcissistic personality disorder.
This is Kate to the tea
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:18 PM
Kate seriously stop with the victim card. I don’t hate you lmao
Of course you do. Why is it always you that derails my threads with such bitter venom, them you get your mate Luke in on it.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:20 PM
Of course you do. Why is it always you that derails my threads with such bitter venom, them you get your mate Luke in on it.
Again stop the victim card. I merely pointed out how wrong you are for trying to shame your family
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:23 PM
Of course you do. Why is it always you that derails my threads with such bitter venom, them you get your mate Luke in on it.
The last convo we had was if I watched Scream yet which was Thursday. I'm my own person and he didn't tell me to do it. I was just snooping about king Gary Lineker and saw this beggy thread
Redway
11-03-2023, 05:23 PM
Kate, one thing that I would seriously implore you to do is budget a bit more effectively and try and cut down on the bingo side of things. Times are tough for everyone at the moment and at the end of the day certain things really do have to be compromised. And you do need to be a bit more discreet when it comes to how much you reveal about what’s going on between you and your family when it comes to stuff like this, because there are certain things that just need to stay personal and aren’t necessarily for other people to know. Without knowing the specifics there’s only so much I can say and going by what I do know I do have sympathy but you really need to handle things a bit more privately when it comes to things like this.
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well i don't get triggered by any of her bull**** anymore now she is in the right place for me, aka the ignore list
Shut up, Nicky.
Barry.
11-03-2023, 05:25 PM
Kate I understand though, I’ve been the same. I actually had/has an online shopping addiction and a few times I’ve been skint for a good few months.
What I do is sent a limit now, though if you have holidays to pay off that limit doesn’t stay.
Can you go into your overdraft? Like that’s borrowing money too I guess. Hope you get it sorted though
Everyone knows what the intention of this thread is, i pointed it out on the last thread created for the same purpose. This is scamming 101, there isn't a polite way of highlighting trying to guilt people into sending someone money. Thats not what this forum is for
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:27 PM
Kate, one thing that I would seriously implore you to do is budget a bit more effectively and try and cut down on the bingo side of things. Times are tough for everyone at the moment and at the end of the day certain things really do have to be compromised. And you do need to be a bit more discreet when it comes to how much you reveal about what’s going on between you and your family when it comes to stuff like this, because there are certain things that just need to stay personal and aren’t necessarily for other people to know. Without knowing the specifics there’s only so much I can say and going by what I do know I do have sympathy but you really need to handle things a bit more privately when it comes to things like this.
Shut up, Nicky.
Red I do appreciate your words but it's just the way I am. I'm a pretty open book and I like to express my troubles. Shame there's tossers like Glenn and his cronies still hovering around a place they despise.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:29 PM
Everyone knows what the intention of this thread is, i pointed it out on the last thread created for the same purpose. This is scamming 101, there isn't a polite way of highlighting trying to guilt people into sending someone money. Thats not what this forum is for
That was not my intention. Believe what you will. If I'd wanted to ask in such a way I'd have said so straight out.
Nicky91
11-03-2023, 05:30 PM
Kate I understand though, I’ve been the same. I actually had/has an online shopping addiction and a few times I’ve been skint for a good few months.
What I do is sent a limit now, though if you have holidays to pay off that limit doesn’t stay.
Can you go into your overdraft? Like that’s borrowing money too I guess. Hope you get it sorted though
:hug:
try distracting yourself with binge (re)watching some series or movie marathons, or maybe some gaming on your PS4 or PS5 whichever one you got
don't let shopping become an addiction, then it is also no longer fun
borrowing money is never a good idea, borrowing money costs money, you know these adverts :)
Unfortunately Kate these are difficult times for all and you need to learn the manage your own money in a way that means you don’t have to resort to asking strangers on the internet for money every few weeks to keep yourself afloat. Everybody else seems to manage it. As somebody whose lent you money many times in the past, I just can’t justify continuing to do so as it’s just bailing you out temporarily only for you to find yourself in the exact same situation a few weeks later.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:32 PM
And now there's another of Glenn and Lukes cronies online. Go figure.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:32 PM
Red I do appreciate your words but it's just the way I am. I'm a pretty open book and I like to express my troubles. Shame there's tossers like Glenn and his cronies still hovering around a place they despise.
We’re tossers because we don’t agree with people asking strangers for money online? We’re not tossers Kate, you just know that we know you and how you operate. When things don’t go your way you play the victim card. It’s textbook.
Get a job, nice little job to get you by. Borrowing money isn’t the answer. Especially from people you’ve never met.
The Slim Reaper
11-03-2023, 05:33 PM
Look, everyone has had their say now, so either a mod needs to delete this thread, or everyone just leaves it where it is. It's really uncomfortable reading. Whatever the facts are, they've been pointed out repeatedly by now. No more needs to be said imo.
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:33 PM
And now there's another of Glenn and Lukes cronies online. Go figure.
I hope you’re not referring to cal who has just stated has helped you?
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:34 PM
We’re tossers because we don’t agree with people asking strangers for money online? We’re not tossers Kate, you just know that we know you and how you operate. When things don’t go your way you play the victim card. It’s textbook.
Get a job, nice little job to get you by. Borrowing money isn’t the answer. Especially from people you’ve never met.
I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.
I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.
SherzyK
11-03-2023, 05:34 PM
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Liam-
11-03-2023, 05:35 PM
Yeah, this doesn’t make for good reading like the usual drama does
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:35 PM
I hope you’re not referring to cal who has just stated has helped you?
Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:36 PM
I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.
I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.
You only struggle because you play bingo which is a luxury. If you're struggling stop playing bingo simples.
Barry.
11-03-2023, 05:36 PM
:hug:
try distracting yourself with binge (re)watching some series or movie marathons, or maybe some gaming on your PS4 or PS5 whichever one you got
don't let shopping become an addiction, then it is also no longer fun
borrowing money is never a good idea, borrowing money costs money, you know these adverts :)
Thanks Nicky. I try to distract, it just depends on my mood too. I shop more when I’m sad.
Kate might be the same and it depends on her mood too.
Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.
That isn’t what happened Kate. I was good to you. I lent you money even when we weren’t on speaking terms as I didn’t like the thought of my own mum being in some of the situations you’ve found yourself in. Even today I was considering lending you the money and telling you not to bother paying it back or contacting me again as I know we aren’t on speaking terms yet again. I wish you well and hope you find a way out of this endless cycle.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:38 PM
You only struggle because you play bingo which is a luxury. If you're struggling stop playing bingo simples.
You know nothing. I don't smoke or drink. I only go to bingo when it's cheap. Get the facts before judging.
Redway
11-03-2023, 05:39 PM
Cal who betrayed my trust by telling everyone loud and clear I was a beggar you mean.
To be honest, Kate, I don’t think Cal was implying that at all. S/he’s just trying to give you practical solutions cor how to manage your finances a bit better going forward. I don’t get involved in drama but unfortunately there’s a certain limit beyond which most people aren’t going to feel obliged to keep the confidence, which is one of the reasons why I said I don’t think you should be as open a book on this side of the internet.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:39 PM
That isn’t what happened Kate. I was good to you. I lent you money even when we weren’t on speaking terms as I didn’t like the thought of my own mum being in some of the situations you’ve found yourself in. Even today I was considering lending you the money and telling you not to bother paying it back or contacting me again as I know we aren’t on speaking terms yet again. I wish you well and hope you find a way out of this endless cycle.
It is though Cal. You also told everyone I had an affair when I didn't?
Glenn.
11-03-2023, 05:41 PM
I hope you never have to struggle, really struggle.
I'm on sickness benefits I'm not able to get a job.
I’m very good with money which you’re clearly not. So it’s doubtful really.
I have a very substantial side hustle also. Maybe you can sell things to make some money
It is though Cal. You also told everyone I had an affair when I didn't?
You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:47 PM
You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.
I told you that I was tempted by an ex. That's it. Yes fair enough you did apologise but now I've got the likes of Qua coming on Tibb to berate me. When inreality I cur off all contact with the guy and ended it.
SherzyK
11-03-2023, 05:48 PM
Kate, I sympathise with you and I hope whatever financial hardship you’re going through is eased and gets sorted in the end. But you really need to help yourself before others can help you. There’s many outlets to try and find a working from home job if your reason for not working is long term sickness. Put yourself out there because there’s definitely places you can go to make ends meet.
You should definitely speak to your bank and make arrangements if things are getting worse, but this is not the right way about it ma
LukeB
11-03-2023, 05:48 PM
You told me what you told me and I didn’t realise it was private knowledge since we were in an online chat that nobody knew the identities of the people involved. I apologised.
Don't because she spoke about the affair on tibb :skull:
Cherie
11-03-2023, 05:48 PM
Look, everyone has had their say now, so either a mod needs to delete this thread, or everyone just leaves it where it is. It's really uncomfortable reading. Whatever the facts are, they've been pointed out repeatedly by now. No more needs to be said imo.
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Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:52 PM
Don't because she spoke about the affair on tibb :skull:
Show me where I said I was having an affair or anything remotely similar?? I've just told one person I cut off all contact because I was tempted. That's what I said. I hate it when your words get twisted.
Moniqua
11-03-2023, 05:53 PM
my god, what’s happening…
Kate!
11-03-2023, 05:58 PM
I'm gonna take Slims words as verbatim and request the thread closed.
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