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Zizu
28-08-2023, 12:20 PM
Right !!

I hate conspiracy theories

So who pops up on our TV screens but that proven scam merchant Uri Geller spouting absolute nonsense about alien bodies and spacecraft here on earth

He says he’s seen aliens with his own eyes and has a photo to prove it ..

When asked to show the photo he completely changed the subject


He then claimed that every time he Tweets about UFOs he gets 4 million views … so I checked and it’s absolute nonsense

He then proudly announced that Putin sent him a spoon !!!


It’s absolutely frightening to learn that he has over 40,000 gullible followers


I don’t understand why the tv folk even tolerate people like this



Aghhh !!!


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Kate!
28-08-2023, 12:28 PM
When people don't reply to me. Its ignorant!

Vanessa
28-08-2023, 12:30 PM
People who look down on you. I try to ignore them, but it does piss me off big time..

Redway
28-08-2023, 02:12 PM
People making assumptions, especially about people they only know barely (if at all). Everyone has a story and things about them that would surprise you and at the end of the day their existence is their existence. No-one’s an island but (Siamese twins aside) no-one has two heads, either. If truly you hate to assume and presume, then it’s best to just not do it at all. Even people you otherwise actually know pretty well can still take you by surprise. Guess all you like if you have to but don’t make active assumptions, especially if you’re going to run with them without having it confirmed from the actual horse’s mouth. Assumptions can be deadly and you can’t guess decades of the finest details of another person’s existence. It’s foolish to think you can, no matter how well you know them. A lot of things go unexpressed and unsaid and it can be better that way. You ain’t going to have tabs on the innermost details of every second of someone else’s experience of life.

Crimson Dynamo
28-08-2023, 02:25 PM
Why did the BBC manipulate this genuine photograph of white voter's hand to
make it black in 95% white Wales?

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/08/25/21/74736767-0-image-a-23_1692995677891.jpg
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The BBC was facing questions last night after it admitted using a 'blacked up'
image as part of its election coverage.

Politicians rounded on the corporation after it emerged staff might have
doctored an image of a white woman's hand to make it look like it was that of
a black voter.

An almost identical photo with a white hand had been used in a previous
story about voting four years earlier.

A BBC spokesman said: 'It appears that the photograph used as part of this
graphic has been altered, which, although there is no intention to mislead,
should not have happened and is not acceptable BBC practice. We will be
reminding our staff of this.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12446935/Why-did-BBC-manipulate-genuine-photograph-white-voters-hand-make-black.html

Redway
28-08-2023, 02:30 PM
People with constant sniffing tics and general I-can’t-keep-my-hands-still-so-I’m-going-to-keep-stroking my face do my head in but I’ve spoken loads about that in my own thread about this.

Zizu
28-08-2023, 05:45 PM
One of my main gripes is when people around me are scraping away at their Tupperware containers endlessly when there’s nothing left !!!

I feel like getting up and taking the fork out of their hands :)


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Redway
28-08-2023, 06:10 PM
One of my main gripes is when people around me are scraping away at their Tupperware containers endlessly when there’s nothing left !!!

I feel like getting up and taking the fork out of their hands :)


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That doesn’t bother me but then my misophonia is so-very specific to pretty much just sniffing. It’s not as bad for me as it used to be but it’s still there. It’s just milder than it was.

Zizu
13-09-2023, 09:18 AM
Stories like this drive me mad !!

There are reports that some of the workers in charge getting ‘payments’ of £10,000 each !!

Rather suspicious


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Redway
15-09-2023, 12:44 AM
So much about life annoys me. I’m a mixture of love and hate.

Redway
15-09-2023, 12:53 AM
‘I’m a greedy beggar behind the till so I no-go do cash-back for anyone’ is an irritant anyway. Greedy shopkeeper shenanigans are something else.

Mystic Mock
15-09-2023, 03:08 AM
People who look down on you. I try to ignore them, but it does piss me off big time..

It says more about them than it does you Vanessa.

Redway
15-09-2023, 08:06 AM
Idiot motivational speakers who want people to make hustling a bigger priority than their health and shame people for getting a good 7/8 hours of sleep. If you want to drive yourself into an early grave, you do that but as someone who’s been through the brink in the past with the severest insomnia, I can tell you straight-up that being sleep-deprived is no fun. None whatsoever. Quality sleep’s a basic bodily requirement, not a luxury.

Zizu
16-09-2023, 09:15 PM
That bladdy monstrous nurse who killed all those babies ( and many others possibly) .., has been granted tve opportunity to APPEAL her conviction !!

It already cost us taxpayers £2.5 million !!


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Beso
16-09-2023, 10:27 PM
Right !!

I hate conspiracy theories

So who pops up on our TV screens but that proven scam merchant Uri Geller spouting absolute nonsense about alien bodies and spacecraft here on earth

He says he’s seen aliens with his own eyes and has a photo to prove it ..

When asked to show the photo he completely changed the subject


He then claimed that every time he Tweets about UFOs he gets 4 million views … so I checked and it’s absolute nonsense

He then proudly announced that Putin sent him a spoon !!!


It’s absolutely frightening to learn that he has over 40,000 gullible followers


I don’t understand why the tv folk even tolerate people like this



Aghhh !!!


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Who else would you book to appear when aliens are the topic :shrug:

Mystic Mock
16-09-2023, 11:17 PM
Idiot motivational speakers who want people to make hustling a bigger priority than their health and shame people for getting a good 7/8 hours of sleep. If you want to drive yourself into an early grave, you do that but as someone who’s been through the brink in the past with the severest insomnia, I can tell you straight-up that being sleep-deprived is no fun. None whatsoever. Quality sleep’s a basic bodily requirement, not a luxury.

People **** on other people for getting 8 hours sleep?

Wtf is wrong with some people?:laugh:

My pet hate is how Football fans (mainly Villa fans) don't want to acknowledge that Birmingham City are a big club, even though we are the last West Midlands team to win an actual trophy, have played in European competitions (some of them we have made the final) and are in a League that would be most countries Premier League, but no we're not a big club.:joker:

Redway
17-09-2023, 09:00 AM
People **** on other people for getting 8 hours sleep?

Wtf is wrong with some people?:laugh:

My pet hate is how Football fans (mainly Villa fans) don't want to acknowledge that Birmingham City are a big club, even though we are the last West Midlands team to win an actual trophy, have played in European competitions (some of them we have made the final) and are in a League that would be most countries Premier League, but no we're not a big club.:joker:

There are some sad people out there, who want everyone to lead the same empty, overly grind-and-hustle lives that they do. Half of the people actively choosing that horrid lifestyle don’t even have that much extra money to show for it (if any at all). And whatever the case is I’d still rather choose relative health over relative wealth. I have my vices but all-in-all I don’t play with health and self-care.

Redway
17-09-2023, 03:43 PM
Not being allowed to progress on a job re. something you could do with your eyes closed because you need to be officially competency-checked/signed off/etc. or you risk getting into trouble. It just creates a situation where you’re basically short-staffed and all because you’re not allowed to use your initiative. Which is annoying when it’s something you actually know how to do, but you just have to keep on waiting and waiting until upper management says it’s officially okay.
Life’s enough of a patient waiting game as it is. Let’s just cut to it and do things properly. It shouldn’t take forever to authorise people moving on to a level that reflects their capabilities and the requirements of the job. It’s not fair on anyone. If you’re very capable and competent but officially slowed down because you’re new, that can be a big pain.

Zizu
17-09-2023, 06:25 PM
I hate it when football commentators say “ what a delicious pass ‘ !!!!


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Redway
17-09-2023, 08:27 PM
People using “depression” as a synonym for sadness or anxiety. It trivialises people’s awareness and understanding of what severe depression actually is and makes it sound like it’s just a negative mood state that you can snap out of.

Redway
19-09-2023, 10:04 AM
Doctors/pharmacists who are totally incapable of showing empathy (I really am speaking on behalf of the masses with this one). It helps when patients/customers actually feel comfortable with you and they deserve to be comfortable. The coldness of the doctor who gave Lola (EastEnders) her diagnosis is such an infuriating example of how lacking in healthy communication skills some of these people can be. There’s doing things by the book and there’s being overly matter-of-fact about what’s going on with all the sensitivity of a bag of cement. At least learn to smile.

Redway
25-09-2023, 08:45 PM
Too much grumbling/nagging/over-talking. Hate it.

Crimson Dynamo
25-09-2023, 09:04 PM
Too much grumbling/nagging/over-talking. Hate it.

typical strictly threads

hijaxers
25-09-2023, 09:26 PM
Dumb arses dressing up in EU gear trying to dance and looking like complete bleedin idiots ~ dancing that was not, more very poor circus act and none of them could say a benefit of being in Europe ~ give it a rest you twats.

Redway
25-09-2023, 09:31 PM
typical strictly threads

When Nicky’s the one making them they’re bound to be a disaster.

Redway
25-09-2023, 10:27 PM
Another one: people who are literally perfect strangers getting way too close and asking overly personal questions before you’ve even established a rapport and got to know each other a little bit. It’s all a lack of boundary-awareness.

Redway
26-09-2023, 08:05 AM
Adverts. Some adverts are useful, relevant and interesting but when you don’t have YouTube Premium and all you want to do of a night is put some videos or recorded podcasts on, 4-minute adverts popping up and cutting into your valuable listening time is a piss-take.

Zizu
26-09-2023, 05:20 PM
Things like this !!

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Redway
26-09-2023, 06:33 PM
People who crap on Liverpool without having ever been. I have a foot in a lot of cities in the U.K. and don’t feel that bound to any one but Liverpool’s a much better city than people who ride off the ’70s/’80s bad rep. give it credit for. Not like the unsympathetic dump that is much of London, where people will walk over a bloke having a seizure.

Zizu
27-09-2023, 06:59 PM
Just bit into a Mars bar … first one for years !!


How small are they noway !!

( and no it’s not bitesize one )


These companies are criminals


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Redway
28-09-2023, 01:42 AM
Feeling like you have to apologise for setting a boundary or making your feelings be known about a certain something because the other person will get defensive and make it more about them.

Mystic Mock
28-09-2023, 02:40 AM
People who crap on Liverpool without having ever been. I have a foot in a lot of cities in the U.K. and don’t feel that bound to any one but Liverpool’s a much better city than people who ride off the ’70s/’80s bad rep. give it credit for. Not like the unsympathetic dump that is much of London, where people will walk over a bloke having a seizure.

I get where you're coming from because Birmingham gets a bad rep as well, especially Nechells, Handsworth, and Erdington.

Admittedly it's been a while since I've been to Handsworth, but I actually don't mind any of those areas when I've been to those places.

Mystic Mock
28-09-2023, 02:42 AM
And hold on someone from London walked past someone else having a seizure? That's evil.

Redway
28-09-2023, 02:47 AM
And hold on someone from London walked past someone else having a seizure? That's evil.

Yep, lad. That’s London for you. At least in Liverpool people will give you the time of day and smile at you in passing. London’s just extremely cold and stranger-danger like (which isn’t totally unjustified considering the amount of crime that happens there). There’s a lot I like about London but in terms of lack of normal sympathy it is the unmitigated dumpiest of the dumps. People just don’t care in the way you’d expect a normal human-being to.

Redway
28-09-2023, 02:55 AM
I get where you're coming from because Birmingham gets a bad rep as well, especially Nechells, Handsworth, and Erdington.

Admittedly it's been a while since I've been to Handsworth, but I actually don't mind any of those areas when I've been to those places.

To be fair, I’ve only properly been to Birmingham once (it was for a wedding; I’ve only stopped by on coaches since) but I know what you mean. All cities have their stereotypes and things about them that are genuinely not so good but Liverpool’s a unique city in many, many ways and one where the general public by-and-large seem to actually have a heart. The latter just can’t be said about London. Your people are your people wherever in the world you are and people can be nice on an individual basis but the conglomerate bustle there is as cold as it gets. You come across nice people everywhere (especially Dagenham ways) but the overall environment can be unsympathetic and cold. In places like Liverpool there’s a bit more engagement with you, for better or worse.

All-in-all there are better places to raise a family. Better job opportunities if you’re not doing blue-collar healthcare or police work (and black police officers seem to be represented and respected more outside London) and a bit more bustle in terms of things to do but it’s extremely expensive, cold in mentality and can be suffocating. You’re much bettrr off in one of the Home Counties and commuting into London if you can’t honestly afford anything more than in some box with 12 other people trying to shoe-horn in. London itself is a dump if you’re not rich or you’re not there specifically because you need a certain type of lifestyle that you can only get (at least on that scale) in London. Otherwise it’s just somewhere to visit/work, not live. I love Kent and I love a lot of what London has to offer (despite it sounding like I’m just crapping on it) but I’d think long and hard about actually living in London. I have lots of family down there and I’ve been down there and back up to Liverpool and other places across the U.K. for as long as I can remember and then some so it wouldn’t be that big a jump but like I say I’d think twice about not just living in Kent instead and only visiting London when need be.

Redway
29-09-2023, 03:17 PM
Ingratitude.

Redway
03-10-2023, 05:57 AM
Seriously, people who expect you to be at the door waiting for them when they decide to turn up (no matter if you’ve worked a 13-hour night shift and are fast asleep or you’re in the show). The least you can do is let the other person you’re coming if you’re not super-close. Only best friends are allowed to just turn up on the doorstep without notice. It’s so rude and entitled. If it’s a surprise-visit, you may or may not get lucky and you’ll just have to deal with whichever way it goes. People do actually have lives to live and other things to do than wait for you when they don’t even know you’re coming in the first place (no shade, no disrespect, but come on).

At the moment, having to wait a week between Strictly episodes (I’m actually really getting into it this year). These past 2 weeks have been lit.

People who always find something to whinge, mumble and complain about (if I haven’t said that one already). The irony is a lot of these people are the ones complaining that no-one gives them any peace but they by their actions are more opposed to it than anyone else. Just let there be peace when there doesn’t need to be drama or high tension. Life’s too … not super-short by any means but ya. It’s not long enough to mumble about trivial things, not when there’s enough space in the world to make you miserable as it is without finding some for no reason. And in any case it’s a waste of time. If it’s not going to matter of 5 minutes or 5 hours, try not to spend more than 5 seconds or minutes grumbling about it. Life will always bring minor annoyances and they’ll come and go. There’s no point extending the come part. So if you want to be angry (and we all have our moments, and rightfully so), warrant it towards things that truly deserve your anger. Not someone eating the last eclair by accident.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
09-10-2023, 03:54 PM
Life lol

Niamh.
09-10-2023, 03:55 PM
Life lol

aww :laugh:

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
09-10-2023, 03:58 PM
aww :laugh:

It's going to kill me I tell you. :hehe:

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
09-10-2023, 03:59 PM
Adverts. Some adverts are useful, relevant and interesting but when you don’t have YouTube Premium and all you want to do of a night is put some videos or recorded podcasts on, 4-minute adverts popping up and cutting into your valuable listening time is a piss-take.

Like that random tesco advert where the trolley fell in a hole!!!

Redway
09-10-2023, 04:22 PM
Like that random tesco advert where the trolley fell in a hole!!!

Can’t remember rolling my eyes on that one but I suppose.

https://youtu.be/51dTK2D8DC4?si=8dhzErwzVfhRFi8z

^ that ad. will always be a classic though.

Zizu
03-11-2023, 10:13 AM
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Ammi
03-11-2023, 10:18 AM
…not being able to know what happened when the live feed was switched off…

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
05-11-2023, 04:12 AM
Can't sleep. This scene randomly popped up in my end and now I can't stop laughing!!


h2TTeVgiMoI

Zizu
05-11-2023, 08:15 AM
…not being able to know what happened when the live feed was switched off…


Lots of birds singing in the dawn chorus ?


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Zizu
05-11-2023, 09:06 AM
Watching the horrible behaviour of Olivia , Tom , Jenkin and Chanelle

Enjoy

https://www.tiktok.com/@tiktokdramaonline?_t=8h6XLM6xB5t&_r=1


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Zizu
18-11-2023, 10:40 AM
Aghhh !!!

https://x.com/SkyNews/status/1725631144539156771?s=20

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Redway
21-11-2023, 11:45 AM
YouTubers who waffle. Get to the point.

Mystic Mock
22-11-2023, 04:25 AM
Aghhh !!!

https://x.com/SkyNews/status/1725631144539156771?s=20

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He is the real life One Punch Man!:shocked:

In all seriousness though why attack an 82 year old?

Mystic Mock
22-11-2023, 04:27 AM
YouTubers who waffle. Get to the point.

It's annoying isn't it?:laugh:

Redway
22-11-2023, 04:49 AM
It's annoying isn't it?:laugh:

It really is. If you gonna waffle, at least provide the cut-off second-point to where the video actually gets tangible and relevant. At least make it easy for people to skip the unnecessary stuff if they don’t want that. When it’s rubbish or just not that interesting to you it’s just useless white noise that’s long and nothing to do with why you’re trying to watch the video in the first place. By all means beef up your pre-anecdotes and roll them out for a second (not even gonna say a minute, still) but at least get to the point on a tangible schedule. Or at least make it easy for people to know where you have if you not gonna keep the intro short.

It’s like in certain places of work. No-one really likes an unnecessarily long handover that’s just wasting time and trying to force the same level of feeling they have for certain people there onto you. Like you’re supposed to care as much that Mr Donald’s a dick or Karen from the other office ignored them at the water-cooler and was caught shopping at Aldi the other Tuesday despite claiming to be a Waitrose-only snob (maybe she just wanted cash-back so she could eat a Greek restaurant that only takes cash). Unless we know the people or circumstances on a similar level, people don’t care. And they don’t want to listen to someone by the wall standing there talking forever about stuff that’s got nothing to do with them and who the fakest flop-snob of the week is. They just want to know/fill in the deets on what’s been what during those 8/12 hours so they can do their job or get out the door and go home/the pub. The fluff is unnecessary.

Mystic Mock
22-11-2023, 04:56 AM
It really is. If you gonna waffle, at least provide the cut-off second-point to where the video actually gets tangible and relevant. At least maybe it easy for people to skip the unnecessary stuff if they don’t want that.

I agree with you.

I think it's because some YouTubers cover stories that sometimes aren't really that in-depth to run for 8 minutes (which is when they start making a profit I think) so they waffle on so they can get the Ad revenue.

Redway
22-11-2023, 05:15 AM
I agree with you.

I think it's because some YouTubers cover stories that sometimes aren't really that in-depth to run for 8 minutes (which is when they start making a profit I think) so they waffle on so they can get the Ad revenue.

Yup. Sometimes it’s not about revenue extending though. Sometimes it’s just people talking too much and not getting to the point even when there’s no incentive for the video to be any longer than it needs to be. Even if it’s going to be long, at least let it be relevant-long instead of doing a makeup tutorial for half of it or doing a 10-minute introduction.

Zizu
30-11-2023, 09:28 AM
Leniency ??


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“ facing around 2years in jail?”

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Redway
05-12-2023, 05:41 PM
BBC News. So unrelentingly negative.

Mystic Mock
06-12-2023, 04:55 AM
BBC News. So unrelentingly negative.

The BBC wouldn't know positivity if it slapped them up the face.:laugh:

Redway
08-12-2023, 11:11 AM
The BBC wouldn't know positivity if it slapped them up the face.:laugh:

They really wouldn’t. It’s always bad news.

Zizu
16-12-2023, 06:24 AM
These people don’t seem to learn

https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2023/dec/14/ive-never-seen-anything-like-this-japan-says-reason-behind-1200-tonnes-of-fish-washing-ashore-is-unknown


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Zizu
23-12-2023, 02:32 PM
Cheeky Bar Steward

https://x.com/bladeofthes/status/1738318335618543827?s=46&t=4Bt0aqTthADTQG3kMIaXcg


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Redway
23-12-2023, 04:45 PM
Undiagnosed tics and repetitive twitches, seriously. It’s like half the world’s on the covert-Tourette’s spectrum and just can’t keep their hands/noses still. You don’t have to have misophonia to find stuff like that triggering and deeply irritating but if you do, it doesn’t help.

Redway
30-12-2023, 01:35 AM
People being overly sensitive to the smell of essential oils.

The concept of forgiveness being touted as a sacred virtue. I’ve written theses on this issue so I’m going to put a cap on it in the meantime but what I will say is that it is not a 2024 resolution for me.

Zizu
30-12-2023, 02:45 PM
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Zizu
30-12-2023, 06:17 PM
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Redway
02-01-2024, 04:31 PM
ChalkOutlineMan.

Happy now, buddy?

Beso
12-01-2024, 05:49 PM
People who buy scented candles just to use them as ornaments:fist:

Josy
12-01-2024, 07:12 PM
Those electronic cigarette things! is it lost mary and fairy bars or whatever they are called laying all over the streets it's getting ridiculous

Josy
12-01-2024, 07:15 PM
People who buy scented candles just to use them as ornaments:fist:I feel personally attacked

Zizu
12-01-2024, 07:23 PM
Those electronic cigarette things! is it lost mary and fairy bars or whatever they are called laying all over the streets it's getting ridiculous


Yeah just as we stopped seeing Covid masks all over the place .. now it’s bladdy vapes


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Beso
12-01-2024, 07:28 PM
I feel personally attacked



Light them, or take then up to the bottle bank,:fist:

Redway
12-01-2024, 07:28 PM
This trend (it’s been increasing over the past 7/8 years) of neurodivergence becoming such a popular thing that every other person says they’re autistic and/or ADHD now. If it was under-diagnosed in the past, it’s over-diagnosed now. Sometimes the diagnosis is self-diagnosis that happens on TikTok and it’s just crazy.

Zizu
12-01-2024, 07:39 PM
This trend (it’s been increasing over the past 7/8 years) of neurodivergence becoming such a popular thing that every other person says they’re autistic and/or ADHD now. If it was under-diagnosed in the past, it’s over-diagnosed now. Sometimes the diagnosis is self-diagnosis that happens on TikTok and it’s just crazy.


Plus everyone seems to be OCD !!


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Beso
12-01-2024, 07:41 PM
I'm a bit of all the above tbf. When I can be bothered.

Redway
12-01-2024, 07:45 PM
Plus everyone seems to be OCD !!


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People get spooked when they hear about how unpleasant and uncomfortable OCD can be for the person going through it. People who have sexual, religious and violent obsessions that they know are going to be completely misunderstood by people who don’t fully get OCD and the spectrum of it would feel much more at ease if it was just a case of them being extra-clean and they’d say they had no problem at all if that was their only problem. Seeing OCD as a disorder of excessive cleanliness and constantly framing it as that alone doesn’t help. Yes, that’s some of it for a certain proportion of people with OCD and obsessive-compulsive personality disorder but that’s not even the half of it. Just the most stereotypical, publicly acknowledged type.

Redway
12-01-2024, 08:22 PM
The “ever since Covid” brigade. It’s been 4 years and your own life trajectory and most other things are not inherently impacted by a virus. Shut up.

Redway
12-01-2024, 08:26 PM
I'm a bit of all the above tbf. When I can be bothered.

What, when you can be bothered to plug in a vacuum? (Don’t tell me.)

Beso
12-01-2024, 08:44 PM
What, when you can be bothered to plug in a vacuum? (Don’t tell me.)


I dont have sex with Hoovers. Well not henry anyway.

Reminds me of a story from school though, about masterbation.

One of our friends group was told the best way to master bate was by poking a hole in a bar of soap to slidenotbup and down your penis.


We all laughed.

2 weeks later another group.memeber had a sleepover at his house and found 3 donut shaped bars of pearls soap on the side of the bath.

Redway
12-01-2024, 08:57 PM
I’ve spoken about religious hypocrisy here-and-there but ya. Better know you’re being roasted on Zoom tonight if you have links to that kind of community and people incorporate gossip into so-called Christian values and the spirit of prayer.

I dont have sex with Hoovers. Well not henry anyway.

Reminds me of a story from school though, about masterbation.

One of our friends group was told the best way to master bate was by poking a hole in a bar of soap to slidenotbup and down your penis.


We all laughed.

2 weeks later another group.memeber had a sleepover at his house and found 3 donut shaped bars of pearls soap on the side of the bath.

Interesting character you are

Beso
12-01-2024, 08:59 PM
I’ve spoken about religious hypocrisy here-and-there but ya. Better know you’re being roasted on Zoom tonight if you have links to that kind of community and people incorporate gossip into so-called Christian values and the spirit of prayer.



Interesting character you are


I'm a small fish compared to the soap man

Redway
12-01-2024, 09:01 PM
I'm a small fish compared to the soap man

Not when whiskey’s involved. I’m surprised Essex hasn’t barred you by now. And Essex is a wild mazza.

Redway
13-01-2024, 12:48 PM
Time rarely being on my side in the way I’d like it to be.

Zizu
13-01-2024, 12:49 PM
VAR


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Redway
13-01-2024, 08:48 PM
Clickbait.

Alina is not a legendary Corrie character. FFS.

Heck, David calling his mum Gail all the time. That’s your mother. Put some respeck on her name, boy.

Zizu
14-01-2024, 02:29 AM
Clickbait.

Alina is not a legendary Corrie character. FFS.

Heck, David calling his mum Gail all the time. That’s your mother. Put some respeck on her name, boy.


ClickBait videos on YouTube drive me even more crazy !!


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Ammi
18-01-2024, 11:34 AM
…when there is a new TV series being shown and you’re waiting to binge it all at the end …but there are articles about it everywhere on the internet and avoiding spoilers becomes a huge challenge…

bots
18-01-2024, 11:42 AM
yeah, i hate having to wait a week on the next episode, i much prefer to binge watch. With a binge watch, you can get totally immersed in the story

Ammi
18-01-2024, 11:45 AM
…also, you can just pay for the one month subscription to binge the series plus any other series on there that look interesting…?….lots of True Detective articles for the new series are everywhere atm…it’s good that it’s looking good and popular but harder to avoid….

bots
18-01-2024, 12:28 PM
My strategy is to go for the streamers that have special offers then cancel at the end of the term. Outside of that, i rotate among them taking 1 month at a time and catching up. It works well and means i'm never paying for more than 1 or 2 subs at any time

Gusto Brunt
18-01-2024, 01:03 PM
Annoying radio and TV adverts - voices on the radio.

Such as that one for the AA (vehicles) and the voiceover is a woman with a chipmunk voice. How the hell she gets voice over work staggers me.

Also that Einstein ad. I fookin' hate that one. Kids will be thinking it's really Einstein advertising electric meters. :mad:

Zizu
18-01-2024, 03:32 PM
Annoying radio and TV adverts - voices on the radio.

Such as that one for the AA (vehicles) and the voiceover is a woman with a chipmunk voice. How the hell she gets voice over work staggers me.

Also that Einstein ad. I fookin' hate that one. Kids will be thinking it's really Einstein advertising electric meters. :mad:


Intriguingly some of the radio adverts on TalkSport are great !!

Well written and well crafted

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Redway
21-01-2024, 02:54 AM
The fact that whatever How Clean is Your House episodes from the first three seasons (British, not American) are out there for easy-enough access by Polish voice-overs that literally no-one asked for.

As for the American version of the show? That’s like comparing a Piers Morgan-less BGT with America’s Got Talent with plenty of Piers (ugh) to boot. So not good.

Gusto Brunt
21-01-2024, 09:39 AM
Intriguingly some of the radio adverts on TalkSport are great !!

Well written and well crafted

Just an opinion


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There was one that made me chuckle. A woman suddenky sings in a high voice. I just found that funny. But it's rare any of them make me laugh. :p

Zizu
21-01-2024, 10:35 AM
There was one that made me chuckle. A woman suddenky sings in a high voice. I just found that funny. But it's rare any of them make me laugh. :p


There’s been quite a few for me .. can’t recall the advert but it was basically a speeded up marriage vow that was scripted and acted so well that I recorded it and shared it around.


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Gusto Brunt
21-01-2024, 10:38 AM
There’s been quite a few for me .. can’t recall the advert but it was basically a speeded up marriage vow that was scripted and acted so well that I recorded it and shared it around.


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Yeah but there are a lot of bad ones. I listen to Greatest Hits Radio and LBC and they have some really bad actors whose voices are just so annoying.

So much so, you can pay Greatest Radio NOT to play the ads. If you pay, they'll play you a song instead. :p

Zizu
21-01-2024, 03:38 PM
Yeah but there are a lot of bad ones. I listen to Greatest Hits Radio and LBC and they have some really bad actors whose voices are just so annoying.

So much so, you can pay Greatest Radio NOT to play the ads. If you pay, they'll play you a song instead. :p


I think Talksport have their own people making the ads .. as an extra money option


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Redway
23-01-2024, 12:35 AM
Air diffusers with ill-adapted chargers, meaning the thing doesn’t work. I was looking forward to a chilled evening of custard creams, tea and frankincense + tea-tree in the air while I watched the soaps. Not happy about this at all.

Mystic Mock
23-01-2024, 02:23 AM
Jujutsu Kaisen fans having a meltdown at IGN giving the Shibuya Arc a 6/10.

The review didn't even say anything that bad.:laugh:

And I had someone on YouTube accuse me of being a "pseudo intellectual" and "having deranged behaviour" just because I can understand IGN's review of the Show.

Absolutely pathetic behaviour from that particular individual that just can't accept different opinions, and tbh the JJK fandom in general just doesn't seem to know how to debate without insulting the people with opposing viewpoints, it is really poor behaviour, and plays into very negative stereotypes of an Anime fan.

And the thing is I didn't mind Jujutsu Kaisen's First Season on a shallow level, but it doesn't have enough depth for me to give the second Season a chance, especially with what I've been hearing about the Season.

But apparently not thinking that JJK is the best fictional story of all time, and demanding more from the story is wrong apparently.

Never has an Anime fandom made me so angry with all of the insults, and just completely disingenuous arguments that they've been making about IGN and anyone that doesn't think that JJK is a 10/10, rather than just accepting that people have different opinions, or making arguments as to why they think that the Shibuya Incident does have more to itself than just fight scenes, they instead start insulting people that agree with IGN's review (which was a fair amount of people tbh) absolutely pathetic behaviour.

And look I know that it's not every JJK fan that behaves like a 14 year old, but unfortunately a sizable portion of them do.

For proof of what I'm saying here's IGN's review https://www.ign.com/articles/jujutsu-kaisen-season-2-part-2-review-shibuya-incident-arc

Mystic Mock
23-01-2024, 02:29 AM
People who look down on you. I try to ignore them, but it does piss me off big time..

But what if they're taller than you?

Edit... Btw I stand by my original post Vanessa.

Mystic Mock
23-01-2024, 02:50 AM
This trend (it’s been increasing over the past 7/8 years) of neurodivergence becoming such a popular thing that every other person says they’re autistic and/or ADHD now. If it was under-diagnosed in the past, it’s over-diagnosed now. Sometimes the diagnosis is self-diagnosis that happens on TikTok and it’s just crazy.

I've seen that trend too.

And people faking having Cancer, which is just grim.:umm2:

Redway
23-01-2024, 03:15 AM
I've seen that trend too.

And people faking having Cancer, which is just grim.:umm2:

It’s all so grim. And cancer’s not exactly an illness to malinger. I should know that.

Everyone’s on some sort of spectrum in the grand scheme of basically every personality type out there being connected to some pathology at the more extreme end (physical and mental, like there’s a connection between bipolar disorder and diabetes for example now) but that doesn’t mean that being a bit inattentive sometimes for any number of reasons is ADHD or every social quirk under the sun is autism. Some people even wanna label Andrew Treneman (Waterloo Road) as autistic now. And now “neurospicy” is a buzz-word that so many people who have come out of the woodworks to say they’re autistic now cling onto for dear life, like it’s some sort of new Nandos peri-peri flavour or a new type of jollof rice. It’s gone way, way too far. So annoying.

Mystic Mock
23-01-2024, 03:19 AM
It’s all so grim.

Everyone’s on some sort of spectrum in the grand scheme of basically every personality type out there being connected to some pathology at the more extreme end (physical and mental, like there’s a connection between bipolar disorder and diabetes for example now) but that doesn’t mean that being a bit inattentive sometimes for any number of reasons is ADHD or every social quirk under the sun is autism. Some people even wanna label Andrew Treneman (Waterloo Road) as autistic now. And now “neurospicy” is a buzz-word that so many people who have come out of the woodworks to say they’re autistic now cling onto for dear life, like it’s some sort of new Nandos peri-peri flavour or a new type of jollof rice. It’s gone way, way too far.

Some people on the Internet just want attention so badly that they don't care how they get it unfortunately.

Redway
23-01-2024, 03:24 AM
Some people on the Internet just want attention so badly that they don't care how they get it unfortunately.

Yup, sadly. And the thing is with these labels is that the more you internalise them the more you start to become your self-diagnosis. Unless you’re willing to take medication to weed out the more undesirable parts of whatever neurodivergency it is you think you might have more inner traits of than average (and there is medication out there for all of it), what’s the point in making yourself more and more neurodivergent and then suddenly expecting people to accommodate for you completely differently than they have for the past 25/50 years of your life? Especially when you don’t even have an official diagnosis.

So I really don’t get this obsession people have these days with wanting to be and identify as neurodivergent. It’s almost as bad as this trend from 2018-ish of people identifying as non-binary. I’m all for LGBTQ+ inclusivity but unless you’re intersex or transitioning you’re either a straight-up male or female, period. Never mind all this nonsense of pronouns. People in themselves are phenomenally diverse and complex but the binary division of biological sex has only few genuine exceptions. You’re not “non-binary” just because you wanna be.

Zizu
23-01-2024, 02:31 PM
Stories like this
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20240123/3b07eaad799567df8abaf5c23d0c15c1.jpg



Right I’m no expert on these matters but if someone murders three random, innocent people and also admits to trying to murder three others …. then I do not want to hear any reasons or excuses .



I would have been ok for them to put him to sleep the same day


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bots
23-01-2024, 04:11 PM
if he gets locked up in a secure unit at a mental hospital, it gets him off the streets

Zizu
23-01-2024, 04:29 PM
if he gets locked up in a secure unit at a mental hospital, it gets him off the streets


Until he appeals … numerous times … at great expense to us taxpayers and maybe gets let out



.. and yes it does happen .


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Mystic Mock
24-01-2024, 01:30 AM
Yup, sadly. And the thing is with these labels is that the more you internalise them the more you start to become your self-diagnosis. Unless you’re willing to take medication to weed out the more undesirable parts of whatever neurodivergency it is you think you might have more inner traits of than average (and there is medication out there for all of it), what’s the point in making yourself more and more neurodivergent and then suddenly expecting people to accommodate for you completely differently than they have for the past 25/50 years of your life? Especially when you don’t even have an official diagnosis.

So I really don’t get this obsession people have these days with wanting to be and identify as neurodivergent. It’s almost as bad as this trend from 2018-ish of people identifying as non-binary. I’m all for LGBTQ+ inclusivity but unless you’re intersex or transitioning you’re either a straight-up male or female, period. Never mind all this nonsense of pronouns. People in themselves are phenomenally diverse and complex but the binary division of biological sex has only few genuine exceptions. You’re not “non-binary” just because you wanna be.

I personally agree with you 100%

Gusto Brunt
24-01-2024, 06:21 AM
Stories like this
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20240123/3b07eaad799567df8abaf5c23d0c15c1.jpg



Right I’m no expert on these matters but if someone murders three random, innocent people and also admits to trying to murder three others …. then I do not want to hear any reasons or excuses .



I would have been ok for them to put him to sleep the same day


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Sadly another example of 'Lefty' lawyers thinking more of the killer than the victims and justice.

Zizu
24-01-2024, 09:43 AM
Sadly another example of 'Lefty' lawyers thinking more of the killer than the victims and justice.


Yes and it breaks my heart..


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Redway
24-01-2024, 10:05 AM
Alarms.

Redway
24-01-2024, 10:24 AM
Judgemental assumption-questions that force you to get more personal than you’d like to with people you barely know.

Redway
25-01-2024, 08:38 AM
I feel like I’ve said this before (and no doubt I’ve said loads about this topic elsewhere) but people conflating mild depression and anxiety with the full spectrum of depression. There’s feeling low and there’s hearing voices telling you to kill yourself, thinking you’ve become Lucifer, being unable to move or eat and needing electroconvulsive therapy. The only type of depression that’s mild is mild depression, and the next step from even that untreated is suicide, so it’s still serious. But severe depression is something completely different and I think about of people are ignorant as to how deep it can go. Someone who can only feed via catherisation in hospital and is in a world of nihilistic delusion and voices urging them to jump off the nearest skyscraper can’t just snap out of it or pull themselves together and if people who say crap like that were to visit psychiatric wards and squalid homes of people in that condition and see what serious depression really looks like wouldn’t say that. But we live in a world where mild depression and unnecessary Prozac dependence is the face of what lay people think of when they think of depression. But the truth is it’s on a massive spectrum of severity and untreated there kind of is a point of no return.

If you’ve been through truly severe depression and you’re still here, you’ve got more inner strength than most people will ever know. Just hold onto that and know it. There’s no trivialising the seriousness of going through something like that and not having your life end by some way or other. People can bang on about the apparent horrors of schizophrenia but if you don’t understand depression, you don’t understand mental illness. Period. It is not what the average person thinks. The average person thinks of mild depression and has no idea how fundamentally psychotic it can be in the deeper stages (amongst every-in else). And God knows I can’t stand ignorance when it comes to mental health, especially when it comes from people who are supposed to know better. You don’t have to be personally affected on either side but you do owe it to people at large to try and understand and leave narrow conceptions at the door.

For that reason I’ll never get behind the whole “hey, anyone can get depressed and a bit anxious sometimes x” /“you can do big-man-ting at the gym and still be depressed and struggling with you feelings, bro-dem xx” campaign. Not that it isn’t true but knowing how much more serious it can be I like to just fluff out the run-of-the-mill yada-yada that’s obviously designed to get people with very mild depression to open up, which is fair game as far as it does but as I’m saying it don’t really run that far or educate people about the complexity and heaviness of real clinical depression and all its shades. That’s the problem. You can say you felt a bit low and rubbish because you didn’t have enough money to enjoy yourself on the weekend but you can’t say you had a psychotic, catatonic episode where you were seeing the devil and trying to muster up the energy to hang yourself on the nearest coat peg to spare your kids a life of misery. You don’t believe in depression? Visit an ECT ward.

Redway
25-01-2024, 08:05 PM
People thinking “moving-in-silence” seasons means someone’s automatically going through a tough time in their life. Being a bit quiet about where exactly you’re at and how things are going with you beyond being okay isn’t inherently a negative. There’s a season to celebrate openly with everyone, sure, but there’s also a season where you might want take more of a conscious step back for a minute and manoeuvre your zone quietly, but it can be positive. The radar-top can wait. A bit more quietness than usual about your plans and what you’re doing in life doesn’t automatically mean the person’s going through bad times or worried about a lot. Sometimes people do that and people speculate the worst and thing something’s seriously wrong but a lot of those concerns are very over-exaggerated or just totally unnecessary. Moving in silence for a lot of people is literally just that, and it’s not like it’s bound to be forever. You might want to keep quiet about your new job until you’ve been there for a while or are a bit closer to being in the career/job you really want to be in or you might not be ready to have kids if you’re married until the time feels right, and that’s between you and your spouse, not the whole world. That’s okay. People with loose tongues are gonna gossip anyway so you might as well get comfortable and set boundaries while you’re at it. Your personal/professional/relationship business is your business.

You’re not on a path to permanent childlessness (if having kids would be your ball), a career you’re not best-happy with but you might be sort of stuck with for now (even if it’s a good job) or a mental breakdown by keeping silent about certain things until the time seems right. You don’t have to update your LinkedIn profile 99 times a day and judge people who didn’t go to certain Russell-Group unis (as if Loughborough isn’t better than Southampton main) for people to know that you’re earning money. So long as you and the people closest to you know, it doesn’t matter what other people think. They might be biting their words in two years, when your present vision’s clearer to them (not that you even owe them that much). If it makes perfect sense to them in the meantime, it does. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t. There’s not your problem. The only person you’ve got to fully answer to is yourself.

Redway
28-01-2024, 12:30 PM
The MAOI cheese-hypertension thing that makes doctors hesitant to prescribe them. Phenelzine, selegeline (albeit that one’s more for, like, Parkinson’s annd narcolepsy) and tranyclypromine can be life-saving drugs that should be prescribed more. Docs (especially the young ones with little experience and who don’t know anything but what their specific, narrow training, which might have erroneous information, tells them) need to get their ish together and their knowledge up-to-date. You don’t need to be a Ken Gillman buff-dem ting but it does pay to actually know what you’re talking about and challenge misconceptions. Get to know the proper, hardcore antidepressants while you’re fobbing people off with sertraline and citalopram as well. SSRIs are not real antidepressants, not really. Or very-barely.

Young doctors and pharmacists who are trained in a very narrowly specific way are just taught to believe that MAOIs are bad and dangerous without actually seeing them being used properly and with not even a third as many tyramine diet restrictions as people think. In reality you are okay with vintage Manny aged ale and mac and cheese. If you get high blood pressure at any point, just take a propranolol (or some CBD, even) and lie yourself down for an hour. You not gonna die from cheesy chips, egusi, ogiri, soy sauce or a Big Mac while you’re on phenelzine. Not one of those things.

Redway
28-01-2024, 06:13 PM
I personally agree with you 100%

It’s gotten so bad that people are speaking of “autistic comfort foods” and listing pizza, butter, potatoes, quesadillas, bacon muffins, penne pasta, granola bars and carrots. Just run-of-the-mill food that more people than not (okay, maybe not the bacon muffins) like to eat, at least a little bit. Very soon comfort-eating will be considered a sign of autism too, and there’ll be no neurotypical people left in the world in ten years’ time, the way things are going.

I mean, ugh. The sooner this neurodivergency craze ends the better. It’s good for increased awareness of stuff to run in certain lines but in reality no-one cares if you identify as an autistic non-binary they/other person who only dates trans people and likes the texture of muffins so much that that’s your breakfast. No-one is even arsed so do that in your corner. But when people are just listing normal foods as autistic comforts you know the ting’s going too, too far. It makes me so angry.

Redway
28-01-2024, 11:11 PM
People thinking your generosity borders on creepy. Some people are as nice as they are because they’re nice. Just because you’d have to have some ulterior motive or something in it for you to ally for your buddy when it might embarrass you (say everyone else is ganging up on or involved in a smear-gaslight against them) or bung them 100 quid if you had it spare and they needed it doesn’t mean everyone’s like that. Everyone has their moments and a dark side but some people are also capable of more genuine good-heartedness than others. Heck, some people are a perfect mix of light and dark and depending on who you are you might get either side and not know which one you’re getting if you have ambivalent feelings about how much they actually like you but people like that are there for the people they’re there for, and you might never find someone like that again for as long as you live. So don’t take people’s kindness for granted, even if they’re horrible to or about people they hate. They’re there for you and so long as no moral boundaries are crossed for no reason either way, that’s all that matters. No strings attached but at least show some appreciation. The jollof rice on the other side might never be as sweet (except your mum’s best that she makes once a year), nor might the extent of support and favours that one person did for you compare to what you got before. And you’ll realise that one day if you take people for granted and don’t respect them. Maybe not today or next year but you will realise it and have regrets. What you had might be gone forever and ever. And you might only have yourself to blame. Especially if you were siding more with shady people at the time because they had a bit more visible cred but ended up doing you dirty behind your back.

Disrespecting your mum when she’s only been good to you (I don’t mean just normal arguments) is also a major red flag. You might think you smart and you might be but she’s had experience you haven’t. If you genuinely have super-toxic parents, that’s different and you do need to let your feelings be known regardless but you don’t swear at your mum to get you the latest PlayStation.

Gusto Brunt
29-01-2024, 02:35 AM
Haha. Going back to radio adverts that are annoying. There's a couple on the radio lately telling people to do the blatantly obvious.

One, a woman with a silly regional accent tells listeners to save money, turn the heating down or off in a room you're not using. I mean, that is so dumb. It's so obvious. Like saying turn off the water tap if you're not using it. :D

Which numbskull commissioned these adverts???

Redway
29-01-2024, 03:51 AM
The fact that there’s still a certain expectation to iron here-and-there. good with my domestic hands in general but ironing is not something I enjoy or look forward to. I only do it when I have to.

You need a domestic hand, I’ll cook a decent pot of something for you, do your laundry or clean with my essential-oil/borax/white vinegar/bleach concoctions and take out the bins and recycling. But I will not iron for you. I barely do it for myself. So if that’s what you need, get yourself another OTR manservant. I ain’t the guy to be straightening your keks. Just take it straight out of the dryer.

Mystic Mock
29-01-2024, 04:53 AM
It’s gotten so bad that people are speaking of “autistic comfort foods” and listing pizza, butter, potatoes, quesadillas, bacon muffins, penne pasta, granola bars and carrots. Just run-of-the-mill food that more people than not (okay, maybe not the bacon muffins) like to eat, at least a little bit. Very soon comfort-eating will be considered a sign of autism too, and there’ll be no neurotypical people left in the world in ten years’ time, the way things are going.

I mean, ugh. The sooner this neurodivergency craze ends the better. It’s good for increased awareness of stuff to run in certain lines but in reality no-one cares if you identify as an autistic non-binary they/other person who only dates trans people and likes the texture of muffins so much that that’s your breakfast. No-one is even arsed so do that in your corner. But when people are just listing normal foods as autistic comforts you know the ting’s going too, too far. It makes me so angry.

I think it's largely because people are being taught that being an individual is wrong, the only way to be special is to be "apart of a group" so a lot of people are getting desperate to be in any group that they can find, even if it hurts the individuals that are genuinely apart of said group.

To change the topic.

The thing that is annoying me at the moment is Japanese fiction getting really obsessed with Paedophilia.

I was reading a Yuri Hentai Manga a couple of nights ago (Lesbian Porn Comic basically) and I was reading a story where a Nurse was having sex with a High Schooler (I presumed that she was 18) but silly me, the Manga threw in dialogue where the Nurse goes "I wouldn't be touching a minor if I wasn't serious" or something along those lines, and it killed it stone dead for me, and it was a shame as I was 100% in it for the Nurse, but I just can't get around Paedophilia being literally celebrated in the dialogue.

I mean I can handle 99.99% of content in Hentai, but just don't throw Paedophilia out at me, but for some reason Anime, Manga and Hentai do seem to love that circuit a little too much for my taste.

Redway
29-01-2024, 07:49 AM
Soaps’ current obsession with cancer. First Lola, now Alfie (EastEnders) and Chas (Emmerdale). Not to mention Paul’s terminal MND on Corrie. It’s just too much in one go and it’s triggering for people who it hits a bit closer to home to.

Redway
29-01-2024, 09:24 AM
When people lump black and mixed-race people together. With more than 70% Afro/Afro-Caribbean admixture I understand but at 50/50 or less black is black and mixed-race is very-much mixed-race and in its own distinct little category. Everyone has the right to affiliate with what they identify with more, I guess, but doing it automatically with people who you know are half-and-half (sometimes even less than that) harkens back to the one-drop rule (horribly racist). Hate it when people do that.

Zizu
29-01-2024, 10:27 AM
Soaps’ current obsession with cancer. First Lola, now Alfie (EastEnders) and Chas (Emmerdale). Not to mention Paul’s terminal MND on Corrie. It’s just too much in one go and it’s triggering for people who it hits a bit closer to home to.


Agreed .. I don’t like these endless tv and radio adverts that begin with “ 1 out every 2 people will get some form of cancer.. “


They just bring me down


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Redway
30-01-2024, 03:51 AM
Ed’s crying scene on Corrie last night looking like some tragic cataplectic black-out fit. ROFLMAO.

Redway
30-01-2024, 03:59 AM
“That CraIg Tinker is a clown.”

Yes, Dee-Dee. One of the worst characters going in the history of soap. Periodt.

Zizu
30-01-2024, 01:01 PM
Sadly another example of 'Lefty' lawyers thinking more of the killer than the victims and justice.


There’s just been a press conference and the guy said that they HAD to accept the reduced plea and judgment of hospitalisation as the alternative was the prosecution case failing and ending up with nothing !?!


How can a monster murder three innocent people and try to murder a further three .. and get off Scott-Free
?


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Mystic Mock
31-01-2024, 05:01 AM
There’s just been a press conference and the guy said that they HAD to accept the reduced plea and judgment of hospitalisation as the alternative was the prosecution case failing and ending up with nothing !?!


How can a monster murder three innocent people and try to murder a further three .. and get off Scott-Free
?


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That's absolutely bonkers.

I can believe it though because our justice system cares more about Fraudsters and Drug Dealers than they do about violent crimes.

Mystic Mock
31-01-2024, 05:15 AM
Me and my Brother both saw arguments breaking out on Twitter earlier to do with the new Suicide Squad Game that's come out.

Well a very famous character gets in a predicament, and let's just say that storyline is really controversial for the Game in general.

Basically someone in their attempt to defend the Game said this "I don't really question the quality of Video Games, I just want the next product after consuming the current product" and unfortunately they weren't joking because they would get defensive when people pulled them up on their take.

Honestly speaking I think that it has to be the most brain dead opinion that I have ever heard to do with any topic full stop, because I honestly don't understand the logic to this guy's opinion on any level.

Now don't get me wrong I understand that not everyone has the same standard as each other, but this guy openly admitting that he has no standards for what he is looking for in Video Games (and people like him) are the reason why we're seeing AAA Video Games and entertainment in general going downhill because they don't question the quality of anything, and they believe that you're being mean to the team that made the product if you give constructive criticism, which is just insane to me how so many people on the Internet are starting to think like that.

Now don't get me wrong I haven't played Suicide Squad: Kill The Justice League, but if people are giving out constructive feedback then the developers should be welcoming them into their community more than the section of the fans pretending that they loved everything about the Game, all because they don't want to upset the developers.

Redway
06-02-2024, 02:28 AM
People having the snobby ump against people who ain’t done anything to them personally.

Mystic Mock
06-02-2024, 02:49 AM
People having the snobby ump against people who ain’t done anything to them personally.

Some people unfortunately just love to hate other people for some reason.

Redway
06-02-2024, 06:18 PM
Again and again, people who fidget too much. Just keep still for a minute. FFS.

Some people unfortunately just love to hate other people for some reason.

Yup. And the thing is there’s enough genuine reason to dislike somebody without having to now give yourself the headache of hating on someone who hasn’t done anything bad to you personally for no reason. More muscles, it takes., to frown than smile. Blah-de-blah.

I just wouldn’t be wasting my energy like that. Not when you barely actually even know the person but just like to passively antagonise people you see as a bit beneath you. Me, I like people who are able to be and stay at least a little bit humble. Because it’s not even sharp moralising that drives a wedge between the person doing the judging and the ‘dislikee’. A lot of the time it’s just pure snootiness. And it’s okay to be a bit of a snob but not when you use it as a catalyst or front to judge people going about their lives who really haven’t done anything to you. Or they’ll (just people) use the one dodgy encounter they had with you years and years ago to keep hating on you even when every other person has very-much moved on. Bringing old news to the table just because you want to hate on someone and need a target or a reason.

Redway
07-02-2024, 05:07 AM
Enabling, fly-monkeying. Call it whatever you like and by all means excuse yourself if only one person’s complained or expressed discomfort. Maybe just the once, even. But when so many people keep raising the same concerns but the back of the narcissist/toxic person is continually had (intentionally or indirectly), it’s a mazza. There comes a point where someone has to stand up and say no. Enough is enough, innit.

In certain spaces you do need to have thick skin but at the end of the day you’re not there to be abused unquestioningly or thrown under the bus, wherever it is. There are consequences, whoever you are or aren’t. And a bad person who’s used to getting away with stuff all the time because determining bodies and systems continue to make excuses for them and never have them face even a smidgen of accountability can test and challenge the patience of a saint. So if you do have the power to do something about it, … do something. And it can’t just be a Ken and Deidre do-something situation, either. Don’t be so blinded by and fixated on the book that you can’t see the hill from the trees and defend decent people but do defend the wrong people every single time. You’ve got to learn to deal with people rather than just the generic technicalities of the book that’s not in all of the right people’s favour. Down to and with the grit and in understanding and apt backing.

Zizu
07-02-2024, 04:12 PM
Driving past roadworks seeing workmen not actually working ..

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Redway
15-02-2024, 07:34 PM
People in queues talking too much. We know the value of good chit-chat but it can’t be at the expense of someone else’s time. People have places to be and they might almost be running late as it is.

I say that as someone who likes to do that casual chit-chat. But when I do that I’m always looking at the queue at the back so I know I’m probably not wasting people’s time. I can be patient about a lot of things but when it comes to people wasting your time just because they want to talk, I haven’t got it.

Redway
17-02-2024, 06:08 AM
All How Clean Is Your House? episodes from the first three seasons being voiced over in Polish between YT and DailyMotion. Seriously.

Why? Who asked for it?

Redway
19-02-2024, 12:21 AM
I think it's largely because people are being taught that being an individual is wrong, the only way to be special is to be "apart of a group" so a lot of people are getting desperate to be in any group that they can find, even if it hurts the individuals that are genuinely apart of said group.

To change the topic.

The thing that is annoying me at the moment is Japanese fiction getting really obsessed with Paedophilia.

I was reading a Yuri Hentai Manga a couple of nights ago (Lesbian Porn Comic basically) and I was reading a story where a Nurse was having sex with a High Schooler (I presumed that she was 18) but silly me, the Manga threw in dialogue where the Nurse goes "I wouldn't be touching a minor if I wasn't serious" or something along those lines, and it killed it stone dead for me, and it was a shame as I was 100% in it for the Nurse, but I just can't get around Paedophilia being literally celebrated in the dialogue.

I mean I can handle 99.99% of content in Hentai, but just don't throw Paedophilia out at me, but for some reason Anime, Manga and Hentai do seem to love that circuit a little too much for my taste.

Apparently being good in an emergency is a sign of autism now, including every paramedic and ER nurse/doctor (etc.) without fail. I think the lines are blurred between traits of different personality types (from the healthy and well-regulated to the more extreme) and what’s actually divergent from a neurodevelopmental point of view. “Highly sensitive female” is becoming code for a major reason why autism’s under-diagnosed in women and girls, and soon every quirk or just-plain trait under the sun is going to be considered on the spectrum.

Who is it who’s actually diagnosing all these people with autism, you’ve got to wonder?

Zizu
20-02-2024, 05:55 PM
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bots
20-02-2024, 06:33 PM
he better pass the hat round for funding

Redway
21-02-2024, 05:49 PM
People getting overly eager with the schedule. If you’re coming to do the window tomorrow but thought you’d get ahead of yourself and turn up today only to hang around for hours and hours, don’t think a text that might not get read until much later is warning enough. You can take your chances but it’s annoying when people don’t respect your time and other commitments. Being overly eager to be super-early is almost worse than being really late with it. And definitely more annoying.

You wait for the other person to okay it before you come knocking. You do not just barge up and disturb the peace just because you’re ahead of schedule and don’t know what else to do with your time.

Gusto Brunt
21-02-2024, 06:43 PM
Is there a psychiatrist in the house?

I ask because someone started irritating me.

I have known a guy who works in Iceland food store for years. When I say know, I mean I was aware of him stacking shelves and basically walking about the store. He's been there for at least 4 years. He's never said a word to me, or to anyone else. Always kept himself to himself.

However, something happened last week. He was on the till (which he's been on the till before and never said a word). But last week he said 'all right mate'. I looked around to see who he was talking to and it was ME. He kept on talking about the weather, food prices. You couldn't shut him up. I couldn't wait to get away.:fist:

Then yesterday I saw him talking to a customer. His mouth was going non stop. Then today he was stacking shelves and he said 'all right, mate' to me again. Talking non stop about the weather, his holidays. I thought WTF.:fist:

What the heck happened? Any mind doctors in? Explain.

Cheers.:hee:

Redway
21-02-2024, 06:50 PM
Is there a psychiatrist in the house?

I ask because someone started irritating me.

I have known a guy who works in Iceland food store for years. When I say know, I mean I was aware of him stacking shelves and basically walking about the store. He's been there for at least 4 years. He's never said a word to me, or to anyone else. Always kept himself to himself.

However, something happened last week. He was on the till (which he's been on the till before and never said a word). But last week he said 'all right mate'. I looked around to see who he was talking to and it was ME. He kept on talking about the weather, food prices. You couldn't shut him up. I couldn't wait to get away.:fist:

Then yesterday I saw him talking to a customer. His mouth was going non stop. Then today he was stacking shelves and he said 'all right, mate' to me again. Talking non stop about the weather, his holidays. I thought WTF.:fist:

What the heck happened? Any mind doctors in? Explain.

Cheers.:hee:

Maybe he’s just come out of his shell. Maybe he’s becoming hypomanic and entering a phase (which could be down to quite a few things other than bipolar, including steroids). Maybe his boss threatened him with the sack if he failed to be more friendly and continued seeming aloof. Maybe he’s more talkative than you’ve encountered him being until recently.

Gusto Brunt
21-02-2024, 06:59 PM
Maybe he’s just come out of his shell. Maybe he’s becoming hypomanic and entering a phase (which could be down to quite a few things other than bipolar, including steroids). Maybe his boss threatened him with the sack if he failed to be more friendly and continued seeming aloof. Maybe he’s more talkative than you’ve encountered him being until recently.

Yeah you could be right. He might have been on medication that made him once quiet.

I am now going to avoid him. :p

Redway
21-02-2024, 07:07 PM
Yeah you could be right. He might have been on medication that made him once quiet.

I am now going to avoid him. :p

Or maybe he’s on some substance/medication now that’s making him more outgoing, maybe even uncharacteristically so.

What’s your beef anyway? Why are you so creeped out by someone wearing a different social hat after a certain amount of time?

Mystic Mock
21-02-2024, 10:11 PM
The guy is just being friendly from the sounds of it.

That sounds like good customer service imo.

Redway
21-02-2024, 10:15 PM
The guy is just being friendly from the sounds of it.

That sounds like good customer service imo.

Where Gusto’s coming from is the fact that he wasn’t like this at all for the last four years and why or how there’s been a sudden change in his customer-service attitude. It could be a mental health thing, it could just be him loosening himself out of his shell or it could be the fact that management have told him to be more engaging. Or it could be none of those things. We don’t know.

Redway
24-02-2024, 10:49 AM
Orange juice with bits being marketed as “freshly squeezed”. Just call it for what it is and let people work out from there whether they want to spend money on it or not.

Redway
29-02-2024, 05:42 PM
You do a favour for someone pre-license or maybe you drive but couldn’t that particular day/evening and they’re holding you by the time you get back to them.

“Why on Earth would you walk?”

Why on Earth didn’t you offer to pay my taxi fare? Won’t a skint brudda walk?

“Ger a taxi.”

Are you the one paying for it?

woynpoint
01-03-2024, 07:28 AM
Adverts. Some adverts are useful, relevant and interesting but when you don’t have YouTube Premium and all you want to do of a night is put some videos or recorded podcasts on, 4-minute adverts popping up and cutting into your valuable listening time is a piss-take.
fethiye tours (http://fethiyetours.com/)
So, It's not the ads that bother us, but the fact that youTube forces us to buy premium membership

Redway
01-03-2024, 08:26 PM
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So, It's not the ads that bother us, but the fact that youTube forces us to buy premium membership

It’s the ads that bother me and I’m talking about me and myself alone. So shush.

Redway
05-03-2024, 10:18 AM
People saying flavoured Starbucks coffees are for the youth. Coffee’s well-flavoured per tradition across the world (including Italy). Just say you like bland coffee.

Mystic Mock
05-03-2024, 10:27 AM
I've never had a Starbucks, but then I'm only a casual Coffee drinker tbf.

Is Starbucks any good?

Redway
05-03-2024, 11:22 AM
I've never had a Starbucks, but then I'm only a casual Coffee drinker tbf.

Is Starbucks any good?

It really is, Mock: I prefer Costa for the homeliness but in terms of variety Starbucks has it all. Caffè Nero third.

Redway
21-02-2025, 04:21 PM
Apparently being good in an emergency is a sign of autism now, including every paramedic and ER nurse/doctor (etc.) without fail. I think the lines are blurred between traits of different personality types (from the healthy and well-regulated to the more extreme) and what’s actually divergent from a neurodevelopmental point of view. “Highly sensitive female” is becoming code for a major reason why autism’s under-diagnosed in women and girls, and soon every quirk or just-plain trait under the sun is going to be considered on the spectrum.

Who is it who’s actually diagnosing all these people with autism, you’ve got to wonder?

It’s like battle and survival of the most aptly sensorial, stereotypical “neurotypicals” at this point. Rob. Kazinsky (Sean Slater) is another one who’s bitten the dust and joined the autism camp. It’ll be Demi Lovato next. Everyone wants to be autistic these days.

Redway
24-02-2025, 06:04 PM
It’s like battle and survival of the most aptly sensorial, stereotypical “neurotypicals” at this point. Rob. Kazinsky (Sean Slater) is another one who’s bitten the dust and joined the autism camp. It’ll be Demi Lovato next. Everyone wants to be autistic these days.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/voices-boris-johnson-says-spectrum-153732523.html

Ugh. Make it stopp.