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i took it more that she was saying you don't need to say sorry, get some confidence
i took it more that she was saying you don't need to say sorry, get some confidence
…that’s not a good thread title at all, we’re being creative here…:laugh:…
…she did sound very annoyed and irritated by it, rather than saying it more affectionately/friendly ….
…that’s not a good thread title at all, we’re being creative here…:laugh:…
…she did sound very annoyed and irritated by it, rather than saying it more affectionately/friendly ….
haha, as a glaswegian, i know how people there speak, and she may sound aggressive but she is coming from a good place.
I remember when I first came down south, all i had to do was say "Good Morning" and people took a step backward :laugh:
Hope Yinrun replied by saying sorry
arista
10-10-2023, 12:48 PM
Yes Yinrun
stop being Silly
haha, as a glaswegian, i know how people there speak, and she may sound aggressive but she is coming from a good place.
I remember when I first came down south, all i had to do was say "Good Morning" and people took a step backward :laugh:
…I know, I think I recall knowing a Glaswegian one time that I wasn’t able to avoid it…:laugh:…but I do realise that it can sound quite abrasive…we had a Scottish female housemate once before who had a similar accent but I can’t recall her name atm…tbh, without the full context …(…as is always the way…)…I can’t really say whether she was irritated by Yinrun or not but her tone definitely had that leaning….and until we have more context, these little clips are all we have to fill our days with pondering etc…
Niamh.
10-10-2023, 01:07 PM
…that’s not a good thread title at all, we’re being creative here…:laugh:…
…she did sound very annoyed and irritated by it, rather than saying it more affectionately/friendly ….
Not Ammi Click baiting the forum on her 2nd day back :shocked:
Benjamin
10-10-2023, 01:13 PM
i took it more that she was saying you don't need to say sorry, get some confidence
She was quite aggressive in the way she said it. Think she needs to learn how to talk in a better manner.
Not Ammi Click baiting the forum on her 2nd day back :shocked:
…I know, I thought that I was quite restrained yesterday too…I’m very proud of myself…
thesheriff443
10-10-2023, 01:21 PM
If someone doesn’t put Olivia in check she is going to go off big time
It might actually see her asked to leave
…to be fair, in watching it again…I don’t think it was said in irritated way but did come across like that on first listen…she was probably a bit ‘shouty’ as well just to be heard above all of the other surrounding noise and voices…
…to be fair, in watching it again…I don’t think it was said in irritated way but did come across like that on first listen…she was probably a bit ‘shouty’ as well just to be heard above all of the other surrounding noise and voices…
in 4 weeks you will be talking glaswegian :laugh:
GoldHeart
10-10-2023, 01:31 PM
She was quite aggressive in the way she said it. Think she needs to learn how to talk in a better manner.
Yeah she can't use being Scottish as an excuse , yeah Glaswegians talk in a rougher harsh tone , but so do Northern Irish people....but people still have manners. Olivia is just obnoxious .
Lewis.
10-10-2023, 01:34 PM
I was dying for Yinrun to reply with... "Oh... Sorry" to that!
Agreed maybe from the right place but comes across quite aggressively.
…Yinrun is just….so gentle and lovely…:lovedup:…
…and she’s very, very, very sorry if you don’t think so….
Vanessa
10-10-2023, 01:42 PM
…Yinrun is just….so gentle and lovely…:lovedup:…
…and she’s very, very, very sorry if you don’t think so….
Aw she's quite insecure.
I hope the show gives her that confidence.
She's so lovely.
Jordan.
10-10-2023, 01:46 PM
I'm liking Olivia so far for entertainment purposes but she is far too brash for her own good.
Mind your own business boreivia...
…Yinrun is just….so gentle and lovely…:lovedup:…
…and she’s very, very, very sorry if you don’t think so….
Aw she's quite insecure.
I hope the show gives her that confidence.
She's so lovely.
She was lovely in the live feed last night, she was listening a lot to Henry, Trish, and Jordan talking, trying to pick up and understand English better. And i really liked when Trish was shutting up the boys so Yinrun could talk, as sometimes they were talking over her.
Ithinkiloveyoutoo
10-10-2023, 02:34 PM
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She should have stayed nominated then!! I would annoy her too because I've been accused of being too nice and of over apologising too.
Ithinkiloveyoutoo
10-10-2023, 02:36 PM
…to be fair, in watching it again…I don’t think it was said in irritated way but did come across like that on first listen…she was probably a bit ‘shouty’ as well just to be heard above all of the other surrounding noise and voices…
But why is it her place to say this? Was Yinrun even talking to her?
But why is it her place to say this? Was Yinrun even talking to her?
Olivia is a rude, spoiled, entitled moron imo.
Niamh.
10-10-2023, 02:38 PM
Whether it's where she's from or not, she does come across as aggressive and a bit intimidating, poor mild mannered Yinrun is probably terrified of her :laugh:
Ithinkiloveyoutoo
10-10-2023, 02:40 PM
Olivia is a rude, spoiled, entitled moron imo.
Agreed. Maybe Jenkin was right all along.
Ithinkiloveyoutoo
10-10-2023, 02:41 PM
Whether it's where she's from or not, she does come across as aggressive and a bit intimidating, poor mild mannered Yinrun is probably terrified of her :laugh:
Yes. If she continues picking on her I hope the crowd sides with Yinrun.
Niamh.
10-10-2023, 02:53 PM
Yes. If she continues picking on her I hope the crowd sides with Yinrun.
I reckon they will, no one likes a bully and Olivia is in danger of coming across that way if she doesn't dial back a notch.
Yinrun seems to be popular with people so far as well
arista
10-10-2023, 03:03 PM
…Yinrun is just….so gentle and lovely…:lovedup:…
…and she’s very, very, very sorry if you don’t think so….
But she can not relax............
Benjamin
10-10-2023, 03:10 PM
But she can not relax............
To be fair it’s still the first week and there’s 15 other people, half of which are being quite loud. It takes time for some people to relax.
Agreed. Maybe Jenkin was right all along.
Now she's immune from the first eviction, i think her arrogance and entitlement will really come to the forefront.
UserSince2005
10-10-2023, 03:21 PM
She doesn’t seem to like the foreign ones. Yet she seem to be gypsy or something.
arista
10-10-2023, 03:39 PM
To be fair it’s still the first week and there’s 15 other people, half of which are being quite loud. It takes time for some people to relax.
Get in the Jacuzzi
that could relax her
Lostie!
10-10-2023, 05:02 PM
i took it more that she was saying you don't need to say sorry, get some confidence
But still managing to be an absolute gob****e at the same time. I feel like this is just bound to embarrass her more than anything.
I apologize a lot, some of us just do.. In my case it's tied to anxiety, I can't speak for Yinrun but I don't think Olivia making a bit deal out of it in front of everyone is the help she might think it is.
Beastie
10-10-2023, 06:42 PM
Olivia is right. I've been told before to stop saying sorry.
Benjamin
10-10-2023, 07:04 PM
Olivia is right. I've been told before to stop saying sorry.
It’s not what she said, it’s the way she said it.
Dogeatdog
10-10-2023, 07:21 PM
Olivia needs to chill a bit, she comes across as a bit aggressive and she didn’t have to say it to Yinrun like that. It’s probably anxiety, I do it all the time and I can’t help it :laugh:
Olivia needs to chill a bit, she comes across as a bit aggressive and she didn’t have to say it to Yinrun like that. It’s probably anxiety, I do it all the time and I can’t help it :laugh:
Sorry to hear that
Babayaro.
10-10-2023, 08:53 PM
Olivia’s problem is that she doesn’t know how to talk to people without swearing and coming across as aggressive
She is right, Yinrun shouldn’t feel like she needs to constantly apologise but there’s ways of putting your point across, especially towards someone whose first language is not English and therefore may not particularly be able to see past the swearing and raised voice. She doesn’t have very good social skills nor much maturity.
howget
10-10-2023, 09:07 PM
Olivia is far too outspoken and loud, she gives me a headache which may turn into a migraine by next week.
DigitalSid
10-10-2023, 09:11 PM
Western girls really do hate how much Asian girls show them up in terms of basic manners, femininity and decency.
Northern Monkey
10-10-2023, 09:27 PM
I wanted Yinrun to say “I will not apologise for who i am! So sorry”
It was very telling how she acted after losing the rock, paper, scissors with Dylan. Didn't say a word, just walked off in a strop, then had a pop at Yinrun. Can't stand her.
GoldHeart
11-10-2023, 03:30 AM
It was very telling how she acted after losing the rock, paper, scissors with Dylan. Didn't say a word, just walked off in a strop, then had a pop at Yinrun. Can't stand her.
Yinrun is the sweetest person in the house, and Olivia can just f off with her loud ass. She manufactured that weird drama in the kitchen with Yinrun which was so awkward to watch.
Lewis.
11-10-2023, 03:34 AM
I get the impression Olivia is playing things up a bit for the cameras. The first night dramatics over being put up for nomination, shouting about the fish in the garden, the Yinrun 'sorry' incident etc - all scream to me that she's making sure she is going to get as much airtime out of this as possible. I like her for entertainment purposes though, so glad she's immune for now!
Nick_Trainer
11-10-2023, 04:41 AM
Actually shouting at someone for saying sorry too much was just weird.
In Chinese culture eating alone is not a good thing, there are even Zoom's so you can eat 'in company' if you live alone. All Yinrun wanted was a person to eat with, she offered half of her food & then got randomly shouted at by Olivia for being nice.
Seriously Olivia, get some chill babes!
GoldHeart
11-10-2023, 05:02 AM
Actually shouting at someone for saying sorry too much was just weird.
In Chinese culture eating alone is not a good thing, there are even Zoom's so you can eat 'in company' if you live alone. All Yinrun wanted was a person to eat with, she offered half of her food & then got randomly shouted at by Olivia for being nice.
Seriously Olivia, get some chill babes!
Even though the whole Mukbang thing has become a cringy mess on youtube , but didn't that originally start in East Asia aswell?. So i completely agree with you there on culture and traditions . And in different places and cultures... eating is more than just food, it's about spending time together and bonding. awww she's so sweet.
Yinrun is a very generous person, even in the live feed the other night she kept sharing her crisps with her fellow housemates. And like she said it's part of her personality to apologise, i hope she keeps being herself and gets more chatty and confident.
…I don’t think that Olivia was shouting at Yinrun in any sort of angry way, she just has a shouty type way and that’s part of her…but she does have to understand also that if she hopes for people to accept her for her ways and everything she is…then she has to equally accept them and accept that Yinrun’s humbleness is part of her and doesn’t merit criticism…/…or public comment in the way it was given….in a flip of that situation, what if one of the others had shouted across a room full of people…you don’t have to always feel so hostile and shouty, Olivia…there is nothing to be shouty about so think on…..!!!!!!!!…how would that make her feel….
…I don’t think that Olivia was shouting at Yinrun in any sort of angry way, she just has a shouty type way and that’s part of her…but she does have to understand also that if she hopes for people to accept her for her ways and everything she is…then she has to equally accept them and accept that Yinrun’s humbleness is part of her and doesn’t merit criticism…/…or public comment in the way it was given….in a flip of that situation, what if one of the others had shouted across a room full of people…you don’t have to always feel so hostile and shouty, Olivia…there is nothing to be shouty about so think on…..!!!!!!!!…how would that make her feel….
Well whilst Olivia has her obvious faults I think she was just trying to encourage ( in a strange way) Yinrun to stop apologising and to be more self assured .
I think Olivia should be applauded for that tbh
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People forgetting how it started. Olivia lost rock, paper, scissors to Dylan, just got up and walked away in a strop, then took it out on Yinrun. She's a spoiled brat, used to getting her own way, and has never been told no in her life.
People forgetting how it started. Olivia lost rock, paper, scissors to Dylan, just got up and walked away in a strop, then took it out on Yinrun. She's a spoiled brat, used to getting her own way, and has never been told no in her life.
Am I remembering correctly?
Did Yinrun do Rock Paper Scissors with two people or twice against one person
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caprimint
11-10-2023, 01:25 PM
Olivia has no idea how to be polite and Yinrun is exactly that. I get that it is annoying when people keep apologizing but she definitely could have spoken to her in a nicer way and gotten her point across better.
Niamh.
11-10-2023, 01:28 PM
Olivia has no idea how to be polite and Yinrun is exactly that. I get that it is annoying when people keep apologizing but she definitely could have spoken to her in a nicer way and gotten her point across better.
Or she could just leave her alone as well, Olivia has no right telling other people how to speak, in fact she might do better taking a leaf out of Yinruns book
Am I remembering correctly?
Did Yinrun do Rock Paper Scissors with two people or twice against one person
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Im not sure. But no one acted like Olivia did, she just got off the bed and walked off in a strop, just like a spoiled brat would.
Manners are attractive, Yinrun has them, Olivia has none. Self absorbed, self centred and rude. Oh and arrogant too.
Don't get blinded by her good looks and incredible figure Zizu, she's a bad apple,!
Niamh.
11-10-2023, 01:31 PM
Am I remembering correctly?
Did Yinrun do Rock Paper Scissors with two people or twice against one person
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2 people I think, she lost and so did Zak I think but there was an extra place so her and Zak did it again against each other, Olivia could have tried to get the "winning losers" place at the party had she not already jumped off the bed
Poor Olivia certainly gets both barrels from this crowd :laugh:
Im not sure. But no one acted like Olivia did, she just got off the bed and walked off in a strop, just like a spoiled brat would.
Manners are attractive, Yinrun has them, Olivia has none. Self absorbed, self centred and rude. Oh and arrogant too.
Don't get blinded by her good looks and incredible figure Zizu, she's a bad apple,!
I’ve already said that she’s not one of my favourites ( incredible figure for sure ) but in this case I think most ( including Dylan) have misinterpreted her intentions.
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2 people I think, she lost and so did Zak I think but there was an extra place so her and Zak did it again against each other, Olivia could have tried to get the "winning losers" place at the party had she not already jumped off the bed
Ahh
That makes sense then
Ta
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Niamh.
11-10-2023, 01:46 PM
Ahh
That makes sense then
Ta
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:thumbs:
GoldHeart
11-10-2023, 01:47 PM
Olivia has no idea how to be polite and Yinrun is exactly that. I get that it is annoying when people keep apologizing but she definitely could have spoken to her in a nicer way and gotten her point across better.
This !
Well whilst Olivia has her obvious faults I think she was just trying to encourage ( in a strange way) Yinrun to stop apologising and to be more self assured .
I think Olivia should be applauded for that tbh
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Interesting to see that the BB Later panel agreed with me that Olivia was trying to be encouraging to Yinrun but her delivery was too aggressive . She was simply giving her a girl power lift .. be strong , don’t take any sh1t kind of speech
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