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Beso
30-01-2024, 09:47 PM
As the video says..."is this fair"?

Incident at about 8 mins in.

https://youtu.be/t3spuDgP9ck?si=LnAeALEBLrUvSBH9

Zizu
30-01-2024, 09:53 PM
There are families with young children so it’s indecent exposure .

Simple


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Mystic Mock
30-01-2024, 09:59 PM
But she weren't topless?:conf:

Plus the men were topless, it's not like they were going around showing off their dicks in public.

We're seriously going backwards in society in how conservative some people are getting about certain things.

Edit... I've seen the shirtless woman lol.

My point in general still stands though.

bots
30-01-2024, 10:05 PM
it may have changed, but i don't believe a woman can be charged with indecent exposure, simply because a naked woman is not threatening

Zizu
30-01-2024, 10:10 PM
The thing is behaviour like that can turn into this .. they have to draw the line somewhere

These guys were totally naked incidentally ..

https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20240130/949c64094cdfb255ee8b14529e9d74cf.jpg


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thesheriff443
30-01-2024, 10:11 PM
It was too late!
By the time she was warned I’d already covered them in cream and licked it off.

Mystic Mock
30-01-2024, 10:15 PM
The thing is behaviour like that can turn into this .. they have to draw the line somewhere

These guys were totally naked incidentally ..

https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20240130/949c64094cdfb255ee8b14529e9d74cf.jpg


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But they weren't like the people in this picture.

If they were then like you've said the punishment should be probably harsher tbh, given the fact that like you've said earlier about there being children at the scene.

But the biggest threat anyone had during the dancing was seeing boobs/man-boobs.:joker:

Beso
30-01-2024, 10:45 PM
it may have changed, but i don't believe a woman can be charged with indecent exposure, simply because a naked woman is not threatening

Interesting. It must have changed by now.

Zizu
30-01-2024, 11:42 PM
But they weren't like the people in this picture.

If they were then like you've said the punishment should be probably harsher tbh, given the fact that like you've said earlier about there being children at the scene.

But the biggest threat anyone had during the dancing was seeing boobs/man-boobs.:joker:


But if we let everyone start dancing around with their boobs on show that would leave the door open for people like those in the photo I saw trending on Twitter X ..


Gawd knows there’s enough weirdos behind the scenes .. don’t want them dancing around in our town centres on market days .

There has to be standards .,

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thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 12:31 AM
I don’t think anyone has lost an eye due to a hard nipple
They should of turned a blind eye to it.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 01:06 AM
I don’t think anyone has lost an eye due to a hard nipple
They should of turned a blind eye to it.


Do you have young children ?


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thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 01:46 AM
Do you have young children ?


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No officer.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 04:22 AM
No officer.


Well maybe if you had … you would be more concerned about the slipping standards in our society and where it could all lead to


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Mystic Mock
31-01-2024, 05:40 AM
But if we let everyone start dancing around with their boobs on show that would leave the door open for people like those in the photo I saw trending on Twitter X ..


Gawd knows there’s enough weirdos behind the scenes .. don’t want them dancing around in our town centres on market days .

There has to be standards .,

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People know not to strip completely nude in public, and especially in front of children.

I honestly don't think the Boobs being shown is that big of a deal, at best maybe she could've wore a Bikini, but that's really it for me.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 07:25 AM
People know not to strip completely nude in public, and especially in front of children.

I honestly don't think the Boobs being shown is that big of a deal, at best maybe she could've wore a Bikini, but that's really it for me.


I just see it as an erosion of standards .


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UserSince2005
31-01-2024, 07:54 AM
The thing is behaviour like that can turn into this .. they have to draw the line somewhere

These guys were totally naked incidentally ..

https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20240130/949c64094cdfb255ee8b14529e9d74cf.jpg


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The one of the right should never be clothed

thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 09:14 AM
Well maybe if you had … you would be more concerned about the slipping standards in our society and where it could all lead to


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I think you are confusing my sense of humour with my sense of morality.

I don’t feel threatened by a nice pair of tits coming out in my company

It’s a load of bullsh1t like people being outraged at a woman breast feeding in public places.

The female body is beautiful.

thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 09:17 AM
Also if you think a pair of tits being out in public is a threat to society you need to adjust your mindset

Knife crime is a real threat to the fabric of society.

Beso
31-01-2024, 09:29 AM
I left my opinion in the comments.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 09:32 AM
Also if you think a pair of tits being out in public is a threat to society you need to adjust your mindset

Knife crime is a real threat to the fabric of society.


There are many DIFFERENT threats to our society..


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Mystic Mock
31-01-2024, 09:49 AM
I just see it as an erosion of standards .


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You've got to remember who you're talking to here though Zizu.

My standards is no Paedophilia, and everything else goes.:joker:

Mystic Mock
31-01-2024, 09:53 AM
I left my opinion in the comments.

Which comment did you make?

Livia
31-01-2024, 11:07 AM
I just see it as an erosion of standards .


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This.

I've got young kids and I would expect people to have some standards in public. What people do in private or in adult-only company is their business.

thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 11:18 AM
This.

I've got young kids and I would expect people to have some standards in public. What people do in private or in adult-only company is their business.

Let’s be honest this is very rare in this country in daylight hours
It might happen later at night but even then it’s rare

Kids can see allsorts of stuff it the parents job to educate them on the rights and wrongs

thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 11:28 AM
I would also point out that when this woman was approached she put her t shirt back on and continued to dance afterwards, she wasn’t looking to cause offence just got carried away in the moment

Liam-
31-01-2024, 11:32 AM
it may have changed, but i don't believe a woman can be charged with indecent exposure, simply because a naked woman is not threatening

And if it that hasn’t been changed already, it should definitely be changed asap

Livia
31-01-2024, 11:49 AM
Let’s be honest this is very rare in this country in daylight hours
It might happen later at night but even then it’s rare

Kids can see allsorts of stuff it the parents job to educate them on the rights and wrongs

This isn't late at night, it's broad daylight in a public place. Maybe her parents should have educated her on the rights and wrongs.

thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 12:01 PM
This isn't late at night, it's broad daylight in a public place. Maybe her parents should have educated her on the rights and wrongs.

Like I said she didn’t do it to cause offence

And put her top back on when asked

Same people will be kicking off about a mother breastfeeding in public.

Livia
31-01-2024, 12:26 PM
Like I said she didn’t do it to cause offence

And put her top back on when asked

Same people will be kicking off about a mother breastfeeding in public.

With respect, Sheriff, you don't know why she did it.

I have no problem with people breastfeeding in public. Breasts are designed for it.

user104658
31-01-2024, 12:52 PM
I don't think anyone should be getting their genitals out in public. I do however find it (logically) a bit odd that topless men are not considered indecent but topless women are, simply because... well, why, I guess? Because there's more tissue there? I mean that's not even always the case there are some fat chaps out there rocking some sizeable boobies. Why is that OK but not women's boobs? Doesn't really make sense.

TBF if it comes right down to it I'd prefer that NO ONE be wandering around town/public areas topless, but that in "expected places" it should be equal so if women want to be topless in places that men regularly go topless (beaches, pools, whatever) then that should be up to them.

Don't get me wrong: I love boobs as much as the next man, but they're not genitals and people in 2924 I think need to get out of the mindset that boobs for some reason should be considered that. It's not biologically accurate and doesn't make any sense. They're skin, fat, muscle and breast tissue just the same as men's boobs, just in different proportions.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 01:09 PM
I don't think anyone should be getting their genitals out in public. I do however find it (logically) a bit odd that topless men are not considered indecent but topless women are, simply because... well, why, I guess? Because there's more tissue there? I mean that's not even always the case there are some fat chaps out there rocking some sizeable boobies. Why is that OK but not women's boobs? Doesn't really make sense.

TBF if it comes right down to it I'd prefer that NO ONE be wandering around town/public areas topless, but that in "expected places" it should be equal so if women want to be topless in places that men regularly go topless (beaches, pools, whatever) then that should be up to them.

Don't get me wrong: I love boobs as much as the next man, but they're not genitals and people in 2924 I think need to get out of the mindset that boobs for some reason should be considered that. It's not biologically accurate and doesn't make any sense. They're skin, fat, muscle and breast tissue just the same as men's boobs, just in different proportions.


Thing is … as we all know .. you give people some leeway and others will take advantage.


Also that description of skin , fat and tissue also describes our family jewels or meat and two veg ..

So where does it all end if we don’t have rules or regulations.


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thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 01:09 PM
With respect, Sheriff, you don't know why she did it.

I have no problem with people breastfeeding in public. Breasts are designed for it.

No we don’t but she put them away when asked

It’s a pair of tits not a sub machine gun

It means nothing because the amount of sexual content that can be seen online by kids makes the outrage over a small pair of tits that were out for a couple of minutes seem an over reaction.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 01:20 PM
No we don’t but she put them away when asked

It’s a pair of tits not a sub machine gun

It means nothing because the amount of sexual content that can be seen online by kids makes the outrage over a small pair of tits that were out for a couple of minutes seem an over reaction.


If nothing had been done then possibly the other woman who was prancing around in her bra may have copied her …then others join in

What happens if a drunk and / or high bloke had suddenly thought it was a good idea to whip his trousers off ??


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user104658
31-01-2024, 01:23 PM
Thing is … as we all know .. you give people some leeway and others will take advantage.


Also that description of skin , fat and tissue also describes our family jewels or meat and two veg ..

So where does it all end if we don’t have rules or regulations.


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Again no problem with rules and regulations so long as they're the same for everyone - if women can't go topless, neither can men.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 01:37 PM
Again no problem with rules and regulations so long as they're the same for everyone - if women can't go topless, neither can men.


I’d welcome that rule .. many countries actually do that I think


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thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 01:41 PM
If nothing had been done then possibly the other woman who was prancing around in her bra may have copied her …then others join in

What happens if a drunk and / or high bloke had suddenly thought it was a good idea to whip his trousers off ??


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It’s not a Roman orgy

You got more chance of winning the lottery than a group of women suddenly getting their tits out in this country

thesheriff443
31-01-2024, 01:43 PM
I bet if holy got her tits in front of you you wouldn’t look away in disgust

Beso
31-01-2024, 02:31 PM
Kids will see and get taught about far more sexual orientated things than a pair of breast, so much so that breast dont even register on the Richter scale anymore for sexual pleasure.

Cherie
31-01-2024, 11:08 PM
And if it that hasn’t been changed already, it should definitely be changed asap

are you fearful of an attack of the boobies

Mystic Mock
31-01-2024, 11:13 PM
I don't think anyone should be getting their genitals out in public. I do however find it (logically) a bit odd that topless men are not considered indecent but topless women are, simply because... well, why, I guess? Because there's more tissue there? I mean that's not even always the case there are some fat chaps out there rocking some sizeable boobies. Why is that OK but not women's boobs? Doesn't really make sense.

TBF if it comes right down to it I'd prefer that NO ONE be wandering around town/public areas topless, but that in "expected places" it should be equal so if women want to be topless in places that men regularly go topless (beaches, pools, whatever) then that should be up to them.

Don't get me wrong: I love boobs as much as the next man, but they're not genitals and people in 2924 I think need to get out of the mindset that boobs for some reason should be considered that. It's not biologically accurate and doesn't make any sense. They're skin, fat, muscle and breast tissue just the same as men's boobs, just in different proportions.

Nobody beats Peter Griffin's boobs.:drool:

Mystic Mock
31-01-2024, 11:15 PM
Thing is … as we all know .. you give people some leeway and others will take advantage.


Also that description of skin , fat and tissue also describes our family jewels or meat and two veg ..

So where does it all end if we don’t have rules or regulations.


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The people that you're talking about are going to do the Full Monty regardless of what this woman does with her body.

The Full Monty crew love to show their genitals off to people, that's not what this woman did, and neither did the men tbf.

Zizu
31-01-2024, 11:35 PM
The people that you're talking about are going to do the Full Monty regardless of what this woman does with her body.

The Full Monty crew love to show their genitals off to people, that's not what this woman did, and neither did the men tbf.


Well the men in the second photo were completely naked sooooo

My point is that if we don’t make a stand now then all HELL will possibly break loose ..

Who’d have imagined that there’d be the pungent smell of Marijuana on every corner anytime of the day …

On that note … more and more are now flaming well driving under the influence of marijuana DESPITE undeniable evidence that it impairs your judgment and reflexes ..
I’ve walked past UBER cars waiting for a job with their windows down and the smell of weed was overwhelmingly

Cherie
01-02-2024, 10:47 AM
Bit torn on this tbh, dont understand why the men could remain topless, the woman was not dancing in a sexually provocative way, just uninhibited, think both should have been asked to cover up or none...:shrug:

I do understand what you are saying Zizu though

Mystic Mock
02-02-2024, 01:43 AM
Well the men in the second photo were completely naked sooooo

My point is that if we don’t make a stand now then all HELL will possibly break loose ..

Who’d have imagined that there’d be the pungent smell of Marijuana on every corner anytime of the day …

On that note … more and more are now flaming well driving under the influence of marijuana DESPITE undeniable evidence that it impairs your judgment and reflexes ..
I’ve walked past UBER cars waiting for a job with their windows down and the smell of weed was overwhelmingly

I'm talking about the men in the video.:laugh:

My problem with your point is that it's the same kind of argument that people used to make about "Video Games turn people violent" when imo if people are going to show their genitals off in public, they'll do that regardless. Just like how a violent person will be violent regardless of if they play GTA or not.

Zizu
02-02-2024, 07:51 AM
I'm talking about the men in the video.:laugh:

My problem with your point is that it's the same kind of argument that people used to make about "Video Games turn people violent" when imo if people are going to show their genitals off in public, they'll do that regardless. Just like how a violent person will be violent regardless of if they play GTA or not.


In this study, we examined how playing a violent video game affected aggressive cognition and aggressive behavior. A total of 300 children (Mage = 6.38, SD = 0.25) were randomly recruited to play a violent or a nonviolent video game. Results revealed that briefly exposing children to a violent video game increased aggressive cognition and aggressive behavior. In addition, a significant game × sex interaction showed that this effect was larger for boys than for girls. Findings were interpreted within and supported the framework of the general aggression model. Violent video game effects remain a societal concern, and boys should be regarded as a special group for aggression intervention.


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user104658
02-02-2024, 01:58 PM
In this study, we examined how playing a violent video game affected aggressive cognition and aggressive behavior. A total of 300 children (Mage = 6.38, SD = 0.25) were randomly recruited to play a violent or a nonviolent video game. Results revealed that briefly exposing children to a violent video game increased aggressive cognition and aggressive behavior. In addition, a significant game × sex interaction showed that this effect was larger for boys than for girls. Findings were interpreted within and supported the framework of the general aggression model. Violent video game effects remain a societal concern, and boys should be regarded as a special group for aggression intervention.


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The flaw with these studies is always that they are exposing children to content that is age-rated, usually 15+ but sometimes 18+ (example GTA, Mortal Kombat etc.) so the study is skewed; the question isn't "do violent games make people more violent" it's "does exposure to violence as children make people more violent". The answer to the first question is no, violent games dont make adults more violent and they're not supposed to be for children. The answer to the latter is yes, exposure to violence in any form as a child can increase levels of aggression. Games no moreso than movies and television... and (by far) the thing most likely to increase levels of aggression is experiencing real-world aggression either from family or peers.

Mystic Mock
03-02-2024, 05:59 AM
In this study, we examined how playing a violent video game affected aggressive cognition and aggressive behavior. A total of 300 children (Mage = 6.38, SD = 0.25) were randomly recruited to play a violent or a nonviolent video game. Results revealed that briefly exposing children to a violent video game increased aggressive cognition and aggressive behavior. In addition, a significant game × sex interaction showed that this effect was larger for boys than for girls. Findings were interpreted within and supported the framework of the general aggression model. Violent video game effects remain a societal concern, and boys should be regarded as a special group for aggression intervention.


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There are studies that say otherwise on Video Games too.

And let's face it GTA nor COD nor any other Video Game makes people turn into Ted Bundy or Jack The Ripper, you'd already have to have psychological issues beforehand to even consider committing such an offense.

And if we go down this road then nothing that's in a public space could ever go past Disney level.

Even Food joints would need to watch out because "you're fattening up children" would be the argument, along with making them "lazy slobs."

bots
03-02-2024, 07:23 AM
i watched loads of violent films, way before i was 18, it didn't make me violent, nor anyone else i know. Blaming something like video games is nothing more than a cop out from tackling the genuine causes of violence in society

Beso
03-02-2024, 08:11 AM
i watched loads of violent films, way before i was 18, it didn't make me violent, nor anyone else i know. Blaming something like video games is nothing more than a cop out from tackling the genuine causes of violence in society

They do make kids more violent though, a simple toss of the controller in anger because you got beat or shot is something the child would not have done had they not been playing the game.

bots
03-02-2024, 08:13 AM
They do make kids more violent though, a simple toss of the controller in anger because you got beat or shot is something the child would not have done had they not been playing the game.

i did that racing mario on a track, no violent images anywhere in the game :laugh:

Ammi
03-02-2024, 08:30 AM
…there are instances of board game ‘frustrations’ that violent acts and incidents have then followed…so the linking factor really being frustration and someone struggling with control, rather than a struggle with a controller…/…excuse the pun…it’s the learning of coping skills that hasn’t been implemented and needs to be addressed…as humans, we go through our lives coping with ‘triggers’ that frustrate us…

Zizu
03-02-2024, 09:38 AM
There are studies that say otherwise on Video Games too.

And let's face it GTA nor COD nor any other Video Game makes people turn into Ted Bundy or Jack The Ripper, you'd already have to have psychological issues beforehand to even consider committing such an offense.

And if we go down this road then nothing that's in a public space could ever go past Disney level.

Even Food joints would need to watch out because "you're fattening up children" would be the argument, along with making them "lazy slobs."


Yes I agree for the most part

There are a lot of studies that do show that ANYONE watching violent movies / tv shows or playing violent games does indeed desensitise the individual though ..


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