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Vanessa
04-08-2024, 05:06 PM
I'm a bit like my late dad, a bit of a loner.
Really uncomfortable in social settings.
I mean I love my family, but going to see them every year it's such a chore :laugh:

Ray.
04-08-2024, 05:22 PM
Oh, absolutely. Just recently I've been reconnecting with a friend who I had a bad falling out with, but we're having to take it slow on my account because, in my own words, I've grown comfortable with being alone again. :hehe:

Vanessa
04-08-2024, 05:25 PM
Oh, absolutely. Just recently I've been reconnecting with a friend who I had a bad falling out with, but we're having to take it slow on my account because, in my own words, I've grown comfortable with being alone again. :hehe:

I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.

Parmy
04-08-2024, 05:25 PM
I'm easy doing both. Sometimes I cant be arsed with either though.

Vanessa
04-08-2024, 05:26 PM
I have to visit some relatives before I go back. Not looking forward to it :joker:

Crimson Dynamo
04-08-2024, 05:31 PM
Yes I am very happy in my own company and dislike social settings as I don't
like chit chat and am not very much interested in people.. I remember as a
child only being interested in football stats and really hated in my annuals
interviews with players and I had no interest in who they were etc. Same as I
grew older and started reading magazines if i came across and interview with
some celeb i would always skip it even if i liked their music or films. Give me
stats and numbers than peoples lives..

Crimson Dynamo
04-08-2024, 05:34 PM
My brother just hit a significant birthday and had a party :rolleyes:
I was driving so the kids could drink and I found it excruciating and was very pleased
when I could go

Its the opposite of what I would want to do for that type of birthday but I'm not
knocking it if its for you

Zizu
04-08-2024, 05:35 PM
Yep a long time loner here ..

No idea how I came to be married with kids amd grandkids …

I don’t really like most people

:)


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Zizu
04-08-2024, 05:36 PM
Yes I am very happy in my own company and dislike social settings as I don't
like chit chat and am not very much interested in people.. I remember as a
child only being interested in football stats and really hated in my annuals
interviews with players and I had no interest in who they were etc. Same as I
grew older and started reading magazines if i came across and interview with
some celeb i would always skip it even if i liked their music or films. Give me
stats and numbers than peoples lives..


How did you read my mind !!!


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Zizu
04-08-2024, 05:37 PM
I'm a bit like my late dad, a bit of a loner.
Really uncomfortable in social settings.
I mean I love my family, but going to see them every year it's such a chore :laugh:


Same


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smudgie
04-08-2024, 05:37 PM
Reckon I am in the common group.
Love company and also my own space.
Very lucky lady here that manages both very well…plus I do exactly what I want, I have my own mind.:shrug:

Edd
04-08-2024, 05:38 PM
I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.

You can still do that when living with people.

Redway
04-08-2024, 07:37 PM
Being socially introverted isn’t a rare thing. It’s a natural and normal personality dimension. You won’t need to be a Jungian philosopher or MBTI-socionics analyst to understand the basic concept of introversion.

Crimson Dynamo
04-08-2024, 08:28 PM
Being socially introverted isn’t a rare thing. It’s a natural and normal personality dimension. You won’t need to be a Jungian philosopher or MBTI-socionics analyst to understand the basic concept of introversion.

Thank God you understand it at its most complex level

MTVN
04-08-2024, 09:16 PM
https://i.pinimg.com/736x/aa/97/87/aa978710f0cf10b18e748d078b873e4e.jpg

Redway
05-08-2024, 02:01 AM
Seriously, Vanessa, being a bit of an introvert isn’t exactly a rare thing. There are many, many people out there who prefer their own company and feel more comfortable by themselves or in small groups when they are socialising, for a wide variety of reasons. Some people lean more towards extraversion on the social scale and some are pretty-much exactly 50/50. And that’s just fine, too. People are different. You need to get out of this idea that it’s an uncommon personality trait.

Ninastar
05-08-2024, 02:24 AM
MTVN I literally don’t think you could have picked a bigger picture

Mystic Mock
05-08-2024, 02:41 AM
I love being around my family.

But I'm not comfortable talking to strangers, although I am trying to fix that a little bit.

Mystic Mock
05-08-2024, 02:47 AM
I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.

You don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, Vanessa?

Understandable tbh, I keep telling myself that I would want a girlfriend, but then I realise that I just don't like people very much.:laugh:

Don't get me wrong I like people on here, but I'm talking about in person.

Vanessa
05-08-2024, 05:25 AM
You don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, Vanessa?

Understandable tbh, I keep telling myself that I would want a girlfriend, but then I realise that I just don't like people very much.:laugh:




Don't get me wrong I like people on here, but I'm talking about in person.

Not at the moment. But then I love being single.

bots
05-08-2024, 05:39 AM
MTVN I literally don’t think you could have picked a bigger picture

he was keeping Zizu company :laugh:

Mystic Mock
05-08-2024, 05:57 AM
Not at the moment. But then I love being single.

Fair play, there's no rule that says that you have to be in a relationship.

MTVN
05-08-2024, 07:15 AM
MTVN I literally don’t think you could have picked a bigger picture

Oop sorry :omgno:

Do people not all use the mobile theme these days, it auto adjusts pictures for me

Vanessa
05-08-2024, 07:17 AM
Oop sorry :omgno:

Do people not all use the mobile theme these days, it auto adjusts pictures for me

It's massive :joker:

Zizu
05-08-2024, 09:39 AM
What image sizes are preferred ?


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Mystic Mock
05-08-2024, 09:46 AM
What image sizes are preferred ?


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The size of my Penis.:hehe:

In all seriousness my pictures on here all come out at random sizes.:laugh:

Cherie
05-08-2024, 09:47 AM
Pictures that fit on the page Zizu, some of yours are supersized, the ones you posted on Greece are a good example of a perfect fit

Zizu
05-08-2024, 09:54 AM
Pictures that fit on the page Zizu, some of yours are supersized, the ones you posted on Greece are a good example of a perfect fit


We need a mod to layout the ideal image sizes tbh


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Cherie
05-08-2024, 10:02 AM
We need a mod to layout the ideal image sizes tbh


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why do you need a mod? most people post pictures that dont stretch the screen

Zizu
05-08-2024, 10:05 AM
why do you need a mod? most people post pictures that dont stretch the screen


I don’t know which size to choose using TapaTalk

Some of my uploads are acceptable others are apparently too large


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Parmy
05-08-2024, 10:22 AM
I don’t know which size to choose using TapaTalk

Some of my uploads are acceptable others are apparently too large


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Medium

Ninastar
05-08-2024, 10:24 AM
Oop sorry :omgno:

Do people not all use the mobile theme these days, it auto adjusts pictures for me

Didn’t even know it was a thing!!

user104658
05-08-2024, 10:55 AM
I don’t know which size to choose using TapaTalk


As a rule of thumb, 800px wide maximum won't stretch the average (1080p) screen but if I was resizing something for forum use I'd tend to make it 600px wide. Big enough to be clear, but not too big/obtrusive.

Only the width matters ;) it can be as long as you want, will just involve scrolling.

[edit to add] When I say 600, if it's something giving automatic options it might list "640x480" which is fine :thumbs:.

Zizu
05-08-2024, 11:03 AM
As a rule of thumb, 800px wide maximum won't stretch the average (1080p) screen but if I was resizing something for forum use I'd tend to make it 600px wide. Big enough to be clear, but not too big/obtrusive.

Only the width matters ;) it can be as long as you want, will just involve scrolling.

[edit to add] When I say 600, if it's something giving automatic options it might list "640x480" which is fine :thumbs:.


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https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20240805/f7d8e5ed155e37c3554013f180515975.jpg


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Zizu
05-08-2024, 11:03 AM
Sometimes this option

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Ray.
05-08-2024, 11:08 AM
Zizu needing a figure of authority to hold his hand through uploading an image is the most depressingly British thing I've seen today thus far. :tongue: And the day is young.

Zizu
05-08-2024, 11:09 AM
Zizu needing a figure of authority to hold his hand through uploading an image is the most depressingly British thing I've seen today thus far. :tongue: And the day is young.


Fek off - you are blocked now so don’t even bother responding


From my side I’m just trying to appease those who are seeing huge images

They show up perfectly on TapaTalk people !


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Ray.
05-08-2024, 11:30 AM
Would someone be good enough to one day tell Zizu I was only bloody teasing him? :laugh:

It's fine though. I once had him on ignore and eventually I took him off, so I'm sure it'll all even out again someday.