Lily - will we see a different picture of Lily now with boo and chant-gate?…

[Ammi]

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…we’ve been so focused on the row between Martha and Hanah since the negative boos/chants for Lily and also of Lily being upset by them…(…and also quite bewildered and not understanding them or why she would be perceived in any negative light…)…so maybe one of those times when the ‘you do you and don’t change’ etc might not be the thing and she maybe she should go back to ‘ Hanah’s rules/advice’ etc…do you think we’ll see a change with Lily…a different picture of Lily…do you think she can reassess, though…in that is her behaviour contrived and exaggerated etc or is it all very real in every way…/thoughts etc…?….

[Ammi]

…also, if there are regular nominations…it’ll be interesting to see if any housemates nominate Lily, in feeling she’ll go…will that ‘protectiveness’ that some of the others have shown her, remain…or will some turn on her like a wolf pack….hmmmmm…..

[rusticgal]

Well I see her playing the 'poor me' act. The stomach pulling sobbing last night was all so fake...not a tear in sight and everyone will be molly coddling her like the baby she is.

[Vanessa]

I like her. I think she's very genuine. What you see is what you get with her.

[Kate!]

I like her. I think she's very genuine. What you see is what you get with her.

This. I also don't think HOH will nominate her.

[ThomasC]

Nope.

It's called 'Theory of mind'. I highly suspect Lily has it

[Ammi]

…I don’t think for me it’s so much about being false…it’s more about giving thought to how she’s being perceived in terms of ‘self assessment’ if you like…and looking at how her own behaviour impacts a group …I mean, she’s openly said herself that she hasn’t lived independently etc …and she’s classed herself as ‘the laziest’ in the house because if there are others who are prepared to…?…then why bother…?…so it’s more about ….hmmmm, well…not being fake but doesn’t we learn, isn’t that what experiences do for us…?…if humans remained static in their outlook and actions etc, then what’s it all about…?…:laugh:…we’ll, it makes sense in my head anyway…’being yourself and genuine’ doesn’t mean, doesn’t mean there is no self reflection that can create change…

[vesavius]

The reaction to it and the mass reassurance has reinforced her position as the 'house child'.

It won't make any long term changes.

[Ammi]

The reaction to it and the mass reassurance has reinforced her position as the 'house child'.

It won't make any long term changes.

…whereas Hanah had that great approach of….ok, so this is cool/but that isn’t acceptable etc…which is a very good/very caring and very healthy way, I think…I mean, obviously Lily isn’t a child but in terms of independent life, she very much seems to be so would benefit from a ‘guidance’ perspective rather than an ‘enabling’ one…and I feel Hanah had that perfectly….but not in a ‘parent’ way, you know…?…in a way that Lily looked as though she was responsive to…because Hanah’s a pretty cool chick…:laugh:…:cool:…

[DrunkerThanMoses]

No she wont change, she will stay a pathetic gormless sheep and the public will lap it up because they will.

Hopefully she will grow in a few years

[Cherie]

She seems to have toned it down before chantgate, not too many eeeeees and screams, BP seems to have taken up the screaming mantle, I wonder if she is the type of person who adopts other peoples mannerisms unconsciously

[ebandit]

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee........ ..............i don't think so

Mark L

[arista]

It would be great if she,
was up for eviction this week.

A Back Door One for fragile her..........................

[bots]

i think the others will nominate her as usual, but this week is likely to be chaotic

[Tizmee]

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Well I see her playing the 'poor me' act. The stomach pulling sobbing last night was all so fake...not a tear in sight and everyone will be molly coddling her like the baby she is.


I wholeheartedly agree with! …

Her ‘acting’ is appalling! So ‘please Mrs Worthington, don’t put Drooping Lily on the stage Mrs Worthington’!

I wish the PTB would incorporate all the other HG!s into the series and end the LilyAli show!

[Vanessa]

…I don’t think for me it’s so much about being false…it’s more about giving thought to how she’s being perceived in terms of ‘self assessment’ if you like…and looking at how her own behaviour impacts a group …I mean, she’s openly said herself that she hasn’t lived independently etc …and she’s classed herself as ‘the laziest’ in the house because if there are others who are prepared to…?…then why bother…?…so it’s more about ….hmmmm, well…not being fake but doesn’t we learn, isn’t that what experiences do for us…?…if humans remained static in their outlook and actions etc, then what’s it all about…?…:laugh:…we’ll, it makes sense in my head anyway…’being yourself and genuine’ doesn’t mean, doesn’t mean there is no self reflection that can create change…

She hasn't lived on her own yet. So not much life experience, but she'll get there.
I think she's a brilliant housemate and I would miss her if she left.

[GoldHeart]

Well I see her playing the 'poor me' act. The stomach pulling sobbing last night was all so fake...not a tear in sight and everyone will be molly coddling her like the baby she is.

Well congratulations to the big goblin baby , I have to hand it to her ....she made Izaaz's eviction all about her selfish own :bored: .

Khaled put it perfectly in the Dr , he was so confused by her crying ....and like he said it was Izaaz's night ,and she was being inconsiderate because she doesn't care.

[rusticgal]

Well congratulations to the big goblin baby , I have to hand it to her ....she made Izaaz's eviction all about her selfish own :bored: .

Khaled put it perfectly in the Dr , he was so confused by her crying ....and like he said it was Izaaz's night ,and she was being inconsiderate because she doesn't care.


Yes…she made it all about her. Selfish little bint.

[GoldHeart]

Yes…she made it all about her. Selfish little bint.

The constant attention seeking,and then sitting in the store room crying, I bet she loved it when Marcello & Ali treated her like some poor little girl:bored:. Her act is just so pathetic.

I'm glad Sarah confronted her aswell about her antics , when they're all trying to sleep... while she screams & jumps around for no reason . I bet nobody has had a good night's sleep for a while in there. There's no way I could put up with all the shrieking.