Was Sarah’s roast offensive?

[Benjamin]

Thoughts?

[Vanessa]

Khaled is so over sensitive Omg

[Conzors]

Nah he needs to grow up

[bots]

Khaled was so proud of his little stories yesterday, and he couldn't read the room on what everyone thought about them. Who's problem is that :laugh:

[thesheriff443]

It was the wrong words to use
She didn’t mean it in the way it was taken

And this post marks my fifteen thousand posts

[Maru]

Roasts generally are offensive, so it's probably automatically a "Yes"... but was it offensive to me? No.

He is oversensitive, yes, probably insecure about some of the things she was pointing out about himself and she effectively put a giant spotlight on it that made him feel even more uncomfortable and insecure in himself... but my question, what is he going to do when he opens up his social media?... all of that is still going to very alive to him when he gets out... so at least she pointed it out in the house in a more acceptable way than Twitter roasts, so he might actually make an effort to show other sides to his character and come out of his comfort zone... it's not guaranteed he will win, much less get into the Final and get special treatment. And I hope he's not relying on that........

[Lostie!]

No, Khaled just has a raging victim complex

[Ammi]

…well, obviously it was to Khaled because he was offended…but her intention seemed to be to completely follow the task and advise him how to more become a rose…so that was always going to involve less than complimentary but nothing she said was said with any intention or thought to offend…she couldn’t even recall what she had said exactly and had no idea that it was she who had upset him…so no, it was received as offensive but wasn’t given in that vein at all…

[Ammi]

It was the wrong words to use
She didn’t mean it in the way it was taken

And this post marks my fifteen thousand posts

…Happy 15,000…

[andybigbro]

I think it’s hard to judge on what someone would find offensive to themselves. If she said those things to me, would I care? No but Khaled obviously felt it was an attack on his character

[FromBB8]

Khaled was so proud of his little stories yesterday, and he couldn't read the room on what everyone thought about them. Who's problem is that :laugh:

He didn't have a problem with that dig, he was laughing his head off at that bit. If only she had stopped there because I think the 'ivory tower' comment was unnecessary and personal.

[Swan]

I dunno, look at how well he handled Nathan's (imo) much more offensive comments. Maybe he's just a bit drained from it all. He doesn't seem to have had much fun in the house, and from the start he was being attacked for his "vanity" and "fakeness". I like Sarah a lot more than i do Khaled, but i feel him being upset was fair enough tonight.

[Vanessa]

I don't think he's fake. I just find him way too serious.

[God]

When Dean mentioned ruined Sarahs shoes he was nasty but it tonight's episode she said the previous housemates who were evicted had questionable fashion sense. She is a massive hypocrite. When Marcello mentioned her ph levels she hit the roof. She's disgusting and gets away with it because she has posh voice.

[Swan]

But in fairness, the whole point of a roast is to be tongue in cheek offensive.

[Benjamin]

When Dean mentioned ruined Sarahs shoes he was nasty but it tonight's episode she said the previous housemates who were evicted had questionable fashion sense. She is a massive hypocrite. When Marcello mentioned her ph levels she hit the roof. She's disgusting and gets away with it because she has posh voice.

Dean, is that you?

[FromBB8]

But in fairness, the whole point of a roast is to be tongue in cheek offensive.

And the line about his stories sending people to sleep was. It was perfectly pitched. Correct, critical and funny. But she then took it too far with the ivory tower bit.

[Maru]

Dean, is that you?

The username :laugh:

Also, welcome new Holy member :love:

[Alf]

Tell me what it eas and I'll tell you if it was offensive not.

[FromBB8]

When Dean mentioned ruined Sarahs shoes he was nasty but it tonight's episode she said the previous housemates who were evicted had questionable fashion sense. She is a massive hypocrite. When Marcello mentioned her ph levels she hit the roof. She's disgusting and gets away with it because she has posh voice.

I think Segun's trying to send you a message.

[Benjamin]

Tell me what it eas and I'll tell you if it was offensive not.

Sarah said to Khaled in a roast

“Khaled, I think if you spent less time looking in the mirror and more time looking inward, who knows what it could be. You obviously know you’re very good looking but every now and again you come down from your ivory tower and spend some time with us peasants down here like myself you might learn a thing or two.”

[God]

I think Segun's trying to send you a message.

Don't forget Rosie. If two believers agree about anything they ask, God will do it for them. Matthew 18:19

[Mystic Mock]

I wouldn't say offensive.

But I do think that she should be careful with Khaled because he is a sensitive guy.

Although tbf I am saying that, but I probably would've fallen into Nathan's trap if I were in the house with Khaled.:joker:

[Maru]

Tell me what it eas and I'll tell you if it was offensive not.

Sarah said to Khaled in a roast

“Khaled, I think if you spent less time looking in the mirror and more time looking inward, who knows what it could be. You obviously know you’re very good looking but every now and again you come down from your ivory tower and spend some time with us peasants down here like myself you might learn a thing or two.”

It was great. :love: Exactly as a roast should be, unrestrained and leaving no stones unturned :clap1:

It is going to benefit him longrun because it will give him a storyline because he's been stuck in the Witness Protection Program since the Ali Witch Trials... at least now we have a chance to know more about who Khaled really is... and he may rejoin the main house as a result.

[FromBB8]

It was great. :love: Exactly as a roast should be, unrestrained and leaving no stones unturned :clap1:

It is going to benefit him longrun because it will give him a storyline because he's been stuck in the Witness Protection Program since the Ali Witch Trials... at least now we have a chance to know more about who Khaled really is... and he may rejoin the main house as a result.

On your first paragraph - if only she had done the same with Emma and Nathan... she went for surface level rather than deeper level with them.

[Alf]

Sarah said to Khaled in a roast

“Khaled, I think if you spent less time looking in the mirror and more time looking inward, who knows what it could be. You obviously know you’re very good looking but every now and again you come down from your ivory tower and spend some time with us peasants down here like myself you might learn a thing or two.”I don't know either of them or their characters, so I have no skin in this game. But it doesn't sound offensive to me.

It sounds to me like Khaled needed to come back at her with a few insulting jabs.

[Mystic Mock]

I think it’s hard to judge on what someone would find offensive to themselves. If she said those things to me, would I care? No but Khaled obviously felt it was an attack on his character

If Sarah were to call me goodlooking I would be telling her to go to Specsavers.:joker:

[God]

I loved the spread the winning team won. I once came down to earth and eat solid food with Abraham. Genesis 18:1-8

[Maru]

On your first paragraph - if only she had done the same with Emma and Nathan... she went for surface level rather than deeper level with them.

Yeah those landed flatter, for sure. I can see where he's extra offended because it's like she emptied the whole magazine into him.. and meanwhile, she boxes up golden bullets for some of the others and hands it off to them in a commemorative fashion... he might've been expecting more of the same.

[Mystic Mock]

When Dean mentioned ruined Sarahs shoes he was nasty but it tonight's episode she said the previous housemates who were evicted had questionable fashion sense. She is a massive hypocrite. When Marcello mentioned her ph levels she hit the roof. She's disgusting and gets away with it because she has posh voice.

Tbf you can't compare Dean deliberately being hurtful to two Housemates that he was living with and doubling down on his comments to hurt their feelings, to Sarah making a joke about people who aren't even in the house anymore and was clearly said more in jest.

[GoldHeart]

I don't think it was intentionally offensive, Khaled took it the wrong way...when it got to the "ivory tower" & " peasants" bit. I think he saw the funny side of putting everyone to sleep with his stories.

He probably felt she took it too far , he keeps hearing he's fake & looking at the camera's. But I think he's worried ...that people might see him as arrogant & vain. As he tends to try and get on with people,but it was a task.

I think he should have just had a conversation about it , instead of getting moody . In the part he's confronted housemates straight away ...when he's disagreed with them ie Ali & Nathan etc .

[thesheriff443]

…Happy 15,000…

Thanks

[WhySoSerious]

Tbf you can't compare Dean deliberately being hurtful to two Housemates that he was living with and doubling down on his comments to hurt their feelings, to Sarah making a joke about people who aren't even in the house anymore and was clearly said more in jest.

Did you get picked on in school for having ginger hair. Is that why you dye your hair blue.

[FromBB8]

I don't think it was intentionally offensive, Khaled took it the wrong way...when it got to the "ivory tower" & " peasants" bit. I think he saw the funny side of putting everyone to sleep with his stories.

He probably felt she took it too far , he keeps hearing he's fake & looking at the camera's. But I think he's worried ...that people might see him as arrogant & vain. As he tends to try and get on with people,but it was a task.

I think he should have just had a conversation about it , instead of getting moody . In the part he's confronted housemates straight away ...when he's disagreed with them ie Ali & Nathan etc .

We're not sure he did go up to Nathan straight away. I'm not sure if they gave a time stamp between the task and when they came back into the house? With Ali, it was a case of it starting nicely and blowing up so he didn't get the chance to get out of the way.

[GoldHeart]

We're not sure he did go up to Nathan straight away. I'm not sure if they gave a time stamp between the task and when they came back into the house? With Ali, it was a case of it starting nicely and blowing up so he didn't get the chance to get out of the way.

Regardless of time stamp ,after the event / crap hit the fan ... Khaled still approached them to find out what they're talking about. Whereas when Sarah asked if he's ok, he tells her to distance from him. Actually now thinking about it ,he also told Hanah to distance from him, when she tried to hug him ... didn't he?. Maybe it's all getting to him now.

In L& L clip it looks like him & Sarah were talking, so maybe they're both ok now .

[Mystic Mock]

Did you get picked on in school for having ginger hair. Is that why you dye your hair blue.

I am not the girl in the Avatar if that's what you're thinking.:laugh:

I'm just a guy with horrible teeth and a strange sense of humour.:joker:

[WhySoSerious]

I am not the girl in the Avatar if that's what you're thinking.:laugh:

I'm just a guy with horrible teeth and a strange sense of humour.:joker:

It's quite strange that you use a female in your picture. I've seen you say on here that everyone loves my blue hair. Why are you using that pic. Are you trying to catfish guys.

[Mystic Mock]

It's quite strange that you use a female in your picture. I've seen you say on here that everyone loves my blue hair. Why are you using that pic. Are you trying to catfish guys.

When have I said that "everyone loves my blue hair?" I'm really confused.

I've only just got back on the Forum tonight and I've been accused of needing my hard drive checked, and now catfishing.:joker:

Is everyone on TIBB okay tonight?

[Benjamin]

When have I said that "everyone loves my blue hair?" I'm really confused.

I've only just got back on the Forum tonight and I've been accused of needing my hard drive checked, and now catfishing.:joker:

Is everyone on TIBB okay tonight?

Ignore it, it’s just the banned gold glitter trolling again.

[FromBB8]

Regardless of time stamp ,after the event / crap hit the fan ... Khaled still approached them to find out what they're talking about. Whereas when Sarah asked if he's ok, he tells her to distance from him. Actually now thinking about it ,he also told Hanah to distance from him, when she tried to hug him ... didn't he?. Maybe it's all getting to him now.

In L& L clip it looks like him & Sarah were talking, so maybe they're both ok now .

Yeah he did. I do wonder whether it may also be the case that the closer he is to someone, the extra time he wants to take to process it, because he doesn't want to affect things. If they're not so close he doesn't care so much about any possible fallout.

[GoldHeart]

Yeah he did. I do wonder whether it may also be the case that the closer he is to someone, the extra time he wants to take to process it, because he doesn't want to affect things. If they're not so close he doesn't care so much about any possible fallout.

Yeah that may be one way to interpret it , as he usually gets on with Sarah . And he's close to Hanah.

[Mystic Mock]

Ignore it, it’s just the banned gold glitter trolling again.

Oh that makes sense.:laugh:

Because I at least understand where QB was coming from with the hard drive comment on the drunken sailor thread, even if I personally thought that he overreacted.

[vesavius]

Thoughts?

Less offensive than he is pretending, more offensive than what Sarah is pretending.

Thank god it was a little bit offensive though... It was a flat show despite yet another half baked forced task. Any spice was welcome.

[Maru]

When have I said that "everyone loves my blue hair?" I'm really confused.

I've only just got back on the Forum tonight and I've been accused of needing my hard drive checked, and now catfishing.:joker:

Is everyone on TIBB okay tonight?

Imagine believing blue hair for a woman would get them a man, period... they'd probably just ask if they were a liberal, and no matter how they answered scream "JUST AS I SUSPECTED"..

[Benjamin]

Oh that makes sense.:laugh:

Because I at least understand where QB was coming from with the hard drive comment on the drunken sailor thread, even if I personally thought that he overreacted.

Yeah he has nothing better to do lol. He’s just register another account - Heaven Let Me in

[vesavius]

Imagine believing blue hair for a woman would get them a man, period... they'd probably just ask if they were a liberal, and no matter how they answered scream "JUST AS I SUSPECTED"..

I love a woman with blue hair, but that's just too much kpop :laugh:

https://i.postimg.cc/JnCJS8sd/a7df322713abfb4a38381c40cec222fe.jpg (https://postimg.cc/SXVJzw7W)

[Mystic Mock]

Imagine believing blue hair for a woman would get them a man, period... they'd probably just ask if they were a liberal, and no matter how they answered scream "JUST AS I SUSPECTED"..

Too true tbh.:laugh:

Although I do think Mizuho Lin would tempt even the most far right members of society with her charm.:dance:

[Mystic Mock]

I love a woman with blue hair, but that's just too much kpop :laugh:

https://i.postimg.cc/JnCJS8sd/a7df322713abfb4a38381c40cec222fe.jpg (https://postimg.cc/SXVJzw7W)

i agree with you that blue haired women are fine imo.

Sadly it's Twitter stereotypes that's given them a bad rep.

[vesavius]

i agree with you that blue haired women are fine imo.

Sadly it's Twitter stereotypes that's given them a bad rep.

agree :bawling:

[Mystic Mock]

Yeah he has nothing better to do lol. He’s just register another account - Heaven Let Me in

He just needs to behave himself if he wants to stay on the Forum.

I don't get how he doesn't understand that.:laugh:

[caprimint]

I don't think it was offensive (especially the way in which she said it) but tbf she did attack his character and got offended when Dean did the same thing to her...

[GoldHeart]

I don't think it was offensive (especially the way in which she said it) but tbf she did attack his character and got offended when Dean did the same thing to her...

Dean was much nastier .

[Maru]

i agree with you that blue haired women are fine imo.

Sadly it's Twitter stereotypes that's given them a bad rep.

Imagine how much better the world would be without Twitter....

[Maru]

Oops, wrong number.

[Mystic Mock]

Imagine how much better the world would be without Twitter....

I always have mixed emotions with Twitter.

It can be entertaining in a horrifying kind of way, but it has also helped cause some serious societal issues that is hard to reverse.

[arista]

Thoughts?

For Khaled
it was.

He was hurt.

[Friendlykev92]

New member here, I hope you are all keeping well?, It's a tricky one as I like both Sarah and Khaled but she's a very down to earth girl in my opinion and certainly wouldn't have meant to upset him, so did he overreact, Slightly I reckon

[Ammi]

New member here, I hope you are all keeping well?, It's a tricky one as I like both Sarah and Khaled but she's a very down to earth girl in my opinion and certainly wouldn't have meant to upset him, so did he overreact, Slightly I reckon

…yeah, I think that he did overreact a bit but then if he was having a low moment also, we can all overreact to some things and tbh, I think the whole task was probably hoping for that overreaction vibe with how it was set…:laugh:..and hello new member…:love:..I hope that you’re keeping well also and welcome to the forum…(…no overreacting allowed, though…:laugh:…)…

[joeysteele]

I'd say no.

[Mystic Mock]

New member here, I hope you are all keeping well?, It's a tricky one as I like both Sarah and Khaled but she's a very down to earth girl in my opinion and certainly wouldn't have meant to upset him, so did he overreact, Slightly I reckon

Welcome to the Forum.

[Benjamin]

I didn’t appreciate Thomas interrupting them during Sarah’s apology.

[GoldHeart]

I didn’t appreciate Thomas interrupting them during Sarah’s apology.

Thomas was a nuisance, he ruined what Khaled was trying to say aswell.

[Ammi]

…every time I see this title, it makes me think of an offensive roast dinner…

[Benjamin]

…every time I see this title, it makes me think of an offensive roast dinner…

:joker:

[FromBB8]

I do wish Khaled was more up front about why he was upset. For me, the ivory tower comment suggested she thinks he's cold, aloof and superior. He should have been blunt, say that to her and see what she said in response. As it is, it felt more like a 'forgive but not forget' moment whereas being more open might have seen both of them reach a better understanding.

Though Thomas didn't help in the slightest.