Would you want anyone banned from your funeral?

[reecejackox]

Don't think so

[Kate!]

Oh don't get me started. Lol. I'd only want a couple of people there.

[joeysteele]

Yes, definitely.
Even some family.

[UserSince2005]

Yeah kier starmer ain’t coming

[Ammi]

…no, never… I can’t imagine if I would want someone banned, that they would be coming anyway/that they would want to…:laugh:…the thought of holding any negative feelings toward anyone into death/…or even through life…feels quite alien to me…

[Ammi]

Yeah kier starmer ain’t coming

…well, if he’s going to kill us all then he may as well weep for us all…

[Crimson Dynamo]

no

[Beso]

The more the merrier.

[GoldHeart]

Well considering I'd be dead , doesn't really matter does it . Whoever is arranging it ...will be the one dealing with that.

But I would question why someone would come to my funeral,if they didn't like me & vice versa. But then it's a funeral...and people are there to pay their respects:shrug:. So you could argue... as long as they behave themselves,and don't cause trouble then so on.

It's not exactly the same as having a guest list at a wedding, usually funerals... unless it's a very private small ...close family gathering,is usually open to most people to attend anyway :shrug:.

[Niamh.]

Well considering I'd be dead , doesn't really matter does it . Whoever is arranging it ...will be the one dealing with that.

But I would question why someone would come to my funeral,if they didn't like me & vice versa. But then it's a funeral...and people are there to pay their respects:shrug:. So you could argue... as long as they behave themselves,and don't cause trouble then so on.

It's not exactly the same as having a guest list at a wedding, usually funerals... unless it's a very private small ...close family gathering,is usually open to most people to attend anyway :shrug:.

This really.

Don't care, I'll be dead :laugh:

[bots]

yep, i would ban me

[AnnieK]

…no, never… I can’t imagine if I would want someone banned, that they would be coming anyway/that they would want to…:laugh:…the thought of holding any negative feelings toward anyone into death/…or even through life…feels quite alien to me…

100% this

[AnnieK]

yep, i would ban me

:laugh:

[Oliver_W]

When I die it will be a state funeral, so it's not right to ban anyone.

[Maru]

Not if I can bury them with me...

(It's a joke haha)

In all seriousness, the idea of doing that to anyone is cruel. People are emotional as it is around that time and come up with crazy **** when they are in grief, so the last thing I would want is to see people being bullied on my behalf. I would expect family to be respectful to anyone who attends :laugh: but we're low drama people ...I'd laugh though if people showed up to protest at my funeral. "Dig her up! Dig her up!" ...

[Gusto Brunt]

I won't be there so I couldn't care less. :p

[smudgie]

No funeral for me.
Just a big party at home once I am cremated.

[rusticgal]

Well there would have been…but they died first :shrug:

[Maru]

No funeral for me.
Just a big party at home once I am cremated.

That's what most anyone I know does now.

[Livia]

There are a few people I'd definitely want with me... While I'm buried at sea.

[joeysteele]

Well there would have been…but they died first :shrug:

:joker: I love that comment.

[Zizu]

Definitely not Camilla


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[Livia]

Well there would have been…but they died first :shrug:

LOL... Missed this comment till Joey quoted it. That's so cold... I really admire that.

[rusticgal]

LOL... Missed this comment till Joey quoted it. That's so cold... I really admire that.


I’m not really a cold person….but when one person single handedly destroys the dynamics of your family I can be unforgiving.

[Redway]

The people I’d add to the list would probably have t’sense not to show up anyway. They know I’ll always hate them.

[Ray.]

I don't think I'd need to. I don't think many would come anyway.

My ghost at my funeral:

https://c.tenor.com/eneT3N35liIAAAAC/tenor.gif

[Ammi]

I’m not really a cold person….but when one person single handedly destroys the dynamics of your family I can be unforgiving.

…that’s so sad that, that someone with that kind of negative impact has been a part of your life…:hug:…I’m so sorry that’s been something you’ve experienced…

[Ammi]

I don't think I'd need to. I don't think many would come anyway.

My ghost at my funeral:

https://c.tenor.com/eneT3N35liIAAAAC/tenor.gif

…my ‘life song’, which will be played at my funeral has the lyric line…’And you leave 'em laughing when you go…’…and your words made me think of that line…I’d be there waiting for the laugh because that’s gloriously you…:lovedup:…but if you didn’t leave us laughing then I would hunt you down into the after-life, don’t think I wouldn’t….

[Kate!]

Well there would have been…but they died first :shrug:

I’m not really a cold person….but when one person single handedly destroys the dynamics of your family I can be unforgiving.

Totally empathise with you here. My former sister in law destroyed my immediate family as well. She's dead now. I was in shock but I can't honestly say I overly grieved for her at all.

[rusticgal]

Totally empathise with you here. My former sister in law destroyed my immediate family as well. She's dead now. I was in shock but I can't honestly say I overly grieved for her at all.


it was my sister in law too....she was my age and died young tragically BUT I could never forgive her for the heartache she caused.

[Kate!]

it was my sister in law too....she was my age and died young tragically BUT I could never forgive her for the heartache she caused.

The exact same. Claire died young too, making my brother a widower. He turned on his family because of her and I want nothing to do him again.

[rusticgal]

The exact same. Claire died young too, making my brother a widower. He turned on his family because of her and I want nothing to do him again.


Well my sister in law passed away nearly 4 years ago 3 months after my mum passed away...then when my dad passed away over a year ago we met up at the weekends usually just the 3 of us, me and my 2 brothers, to clear out their property and we naturally bonded again..looking at old family photos etc...having dinner together and re-igniting our banter...it was lovely.

[Livia]

I’m not really a cold person….but when one person single handedly destroys the dynamics of your family I can be unforgiving.

I totally get that.

[Livia]

Totally empathise with you here. My former sister in law destroyed my immediate family as well. She's dead now. I was in shock but I can't honestly say I overly grieved for her at all.

it was my sister in law too....she was my age and died young tragically BUT I could never forgive her for the heartache she caused.

This may sound harsh, but I really don't care. My sister in law is still alive, I wish she wasn't.

[Kate!]

This may sound harsh, but I really don't care. My sister in law is still alive, I wish she wasn't.

Sounds like the three of us have things in common.

[Livia]

Sounds like the three of us have things in common.

Seems so. I don't know about you and Rusty but my brother is a great guy, loyal, funny, hard working, not a drinker a womaniser or a gambler or anything like that.... and he ended up with her. If I thought I could get away with it, I'd kill her with my bare hands.

[rusticgal]

Seems so. I don't know about you and Rusty but my brother is a great guy, loyal, funny, hard working, not a drinker a womaniser or a gambler or anything like that.... and he ended up with her. If I thought I could get away with it, I'd kill her with my bare hands.



lol…I know that feeling :wavey:

[Ray.]

…my ‘life song’, which will be played at my funeral has the lyric line…’And you leave 'em laughing when you go…’…and your words made me think of that line…I’d be there waiting for the laugh because that’s gloriously you…:lovedup:…but if you didn’t leave us laughing then I would hunt you down into the after-life, don’t think I wouldn’t….

:love: You always have such a beautiful way with words, Ammi.

[Livia]

I don't think I'd need to. I don't think many would come anyway.

My ghost at my funeral:

https://c.tenor.com/eneT3N35liIAAAAC/tenor.gif

Just daw this... Made me lol.