Feeling Down/ Anxious and unhappy in life

[Friendlykev92]

Hi guys, To be honest I think this time of year can be so difficult for a lot of people, and admittedly I'm finding it very difficult, I'm unhappy with my situation in life at the moment and there seems to be this image of christmas where we all have to be happy and are having such a good time and doing well in our lives and it's just so far from reality, Also just reaching out to anyone on here who is feeling the same. I'm obviously not a qualified mental health professional but sometimes a listening ear can be so important as well

[Zizu]

How odd .. I am battling with moodswings and anxiety as we lead up to Christmas holiday period - so much to plan and do


I have actually just had a mini meltdown in a huge Tesco … just got overheated and overwhelmed ..

Me and the Mrs had ‘words’ over something or nothing- Christmas related

We had split up to supposedly ‘save time’ but it all resulted in me finding a quiet corner on their cafe area ..listening to TalkSport - as we speak .

Soon be home where its nice and safe then its footie at 4.30pm

[Redway]

Besides the usual, don’t forget Samaritans (116 123) is there for you, free, 24/7.

[Kate!]

Hi guys, To be honest I think this time of year can be so difficult for a lot of people, and admittedly I'm finding it very difficult, I'm unhappy with my situation in life at the moment and there seems to be this image of christmas where we all have to be happy and are having such a good time and doing well in our lives and it's just so far from reality, Also just reaching out to anyone on here who is feeling the same. I'm obviously not a qualified mental health professional but sometimes a listening ear can be so important as well

How odd .. I am battling with moodswings and anxiety as we lead up to Christmas holiday period - so much to plan and do


I have actually just had a mini meltdown in a huge Tesco … just got overheated and overwhelmed ..

Me and the Mrs had ‘words’ over something or nothing- Christmas related

We had split up to supposedly ‘save time’ but it all resulted in me finding a quiet corner on their cafe area ..listening to TalkSport - as we speak .

Soon be home where its nice and safe then its footie at 4.30pm

Besides the usual, don’t forget Samaritans (116 123) is there for you, free, 24/7.

I'm on board with all of these posts, very good!

Kev and Zizu, don't hesitate to pm me for a friendly chat if you'd like to do so.

Red, you're a sweetheart. The Samaritans is a charity very close to my heart. Not ashamed to say I've used them in the past. Thanks.

[Cherie]

aw Kev, its not the easiest time of year for some, and the dark nights can contribute to a sense of isolation, try and focus on the positives, and at the very minimum get the basics in, good sleep, exercise and nutrition, do you have good relationships with your parents /siblings, have you a good friend you can go out with? basically Christmas is just one day and by this time next week we willl be looking forward to 2025, think of one change you would like to make in the New Year dont overwhelm yourself just one positive step that you can carry forward into 2025

[Cherie]

How odd .. I am battling with moodswings and anxiety as we lead up to Christmas holiday period - so much to plan and do


I have actually just had a mini meltdown in a huge Tesco … just got overheated and overwhelmed ..

Me and the Mrs had ‘words’ over something or nothing- Christmas related

We had split up to supposedly ‘save time’ but it all resulted in me finding a quiet corner on their cafe area ..listening to TalkSport - as we speak .

Soon be home where its nice and safe then its footie at 4.30pm

you are lucky to be still alive Zizu, so she is doing all the shopping while you listen to the radio.... :laugh: this is why I go lone wolf for food shopping I know what I want and where it is located, Mr C would be half a mile behind with the trolley 'looking' at stuff and I would have steam coming out my ears :joker:

[Kate!]

you are lucky to be still alive Zizu, so she is doing all the shopping while you listen to the radio.... :laugh: this is why I go lone wolf for food shopping I know what I want and where it is located, Mr C would be half a mile behind with the trolley 'looking' at stuff and I would have steam coming out my ears :joker:

:joker: hilarious Cherie

[Friendlykev92]

Hi Cherie, Thank you for your kind words and great advice as well, Appreciated, I do have a very good relationship with my parents and they are very understanding which Is a big plus, In terms of social life and friendships I live in rural ireland on a farm where getting to the nearest shop is even a 20 minute drive and have no friends as such which is obviously a big problem and very bad for my mental health, I would love to be in a relationship as well but hopefully Thing's will start to happen in 2025, All about taking action

[Ammi]

Hi guys, To be honest I think this time of year can be so difficult for a lot of people, and admittedly I'm finding it very difficult, I'm unhappy with my situation in life at the moment and there seems to be this image of christmas where we all have to be happy and are having such a good time and doing well in our lives and it's just so far from reality, Also just reaching out to anyone on here who is feeling the same. I'm obviously not a qualified mental health professional but sometimes a listening ear can be so important as well

…absolutely, so many people can struggle at this time of year and it’s so easy to feel that we’re alone in that struggle when there are so many feeling exactly the same …I know that you’ve mentioned about trying to travel next year and it’s good I think, to set small very achievable goals because achieving them can then build so much emotional strength to stretch those goals further, you know…?…I was thinking, though…do you have a local homeless centre who will be serving Christmas lunch…?…I wonder how you would feel about volunteering there, I see there’s one in Cork for instance, called Cork Penny Dinners and that also serves meals to the homeless on Christmas Day…I don’t know if that’s something that you feel would be something to consider …

[Ammi]

…oh, that probably wouldn’t be a possibility for you actually, Kev…if you live very remotely and would have a reasonable travel to get to a town…

[Friendlykev92]

Hi Ammi, Thank you for that, yes on Christmas day it would be quite difficult with lack of transport, however I will have a look at volunteering opportunities in Cork for January

[Ammi]

Hi Ammi, Thank you for that, yes on Christmas day it would be quite difficult with lack of transport, however I will have a look at volunteering opportunities in Cork for January

…I think that’s a good plan/goal…because it really will help your own confidence to build in feeling that difference that you’re making to others, you know…?..and try to think of Christmas Day as just a day with some …(hopefully…)…great TV…

[Friendlykev92]

Absolutely Ammi, It's important to get out there and take small steps in which doors can open up for us at some stage as well

[Ammi]

Absolutely Ammi, It's important to get out there and take small steps in which doors can open up for us at some stage as well

…making some goals, just one goal at a time and starting with baby steps with things that you know are achievable is a great build back/build up to confidence because there’s such a feel good with the sense of achievement, isn’t there…the more that you can tick off that list then the more it will motivate you in your next step…so many things can pass us by in positive things we’ve done and can do as well and even excel at…?..because they’re things that we just take for granted with ourselves …so that’s why lists and ticking off is a good plan as well…

[Zizu]

you are lucky to be still alive Zizu, so she is doing all the shopping while you listen to the radio.... :laugh: this is why I go lone wolf for food shopping I know what I want and where it is located, Mr C would be half a mile behind with the trolley 'looking' at stuff and I would have steam coming out my ears :joker:


Nailed it

[Cherie]

:joker: hilarious Cherie

I have visions of Mrs Z reaching the tills and texting Zizu, Im ready and at till no 6 meet you there with your half of the shopping


Zizu.....MY HALF, im in the cafe keeping Talksport company

[Cherie]

Hi Ammi, Thank you for that, yes on Christmas day it would be quite difficult with lack of transport, however I will have a look at volunteering opportunities in Cork for January

If you dont drive Kev, maybe that could be a goal? that would open up a whole lot of options

[Friendlykev92]

I find driving very difficult with my Dyspraxia Cherie however I do have free travel here on buses and trains which is really good, Must admit I hate driving to be honest

[Ammi]

I find driving very difficult with my Dyspraxia Cherie however I do have free travel here on buses and trains which is really good, Must admit I hate driving to be honest

…yeah, I think that if you hate driving then it’s not a goal that you’re going to find very achievable…that’s not to say that it wouldn’t be something for the future but something that will fill you with enthusiasm/as oppose to dread and something that won’t make you anxious is the type of baby steps to begin with, possibly…and that can be your first goal, to think of some of those goals and the one that you’re going to try to take steps to achieve first…?…

[Ammi]

I find driving very difficult with my Dyspraxia Cherie however I do have free travel here on buses and trains which is really good, Must admit I hate driving to be honest

…I’m not a driver, I have to say in that it’s not something that I enjoy doing…I love train journeys, though…so a travel pass would be a great thing…

[Kate!]

I'm not a driver either, I'd be utterly utterly hopeless being honest. I like train travel as well, really enjoy it.

[Cherie]

I find driving very difficult with my Dyspraxia Cherie however I do have free travel here on buses and trains which is really good, Must admit I hate driving to be honest

oh okay, free travel good.... maybe the first step then is identify a club you would like to join in the nearest town and push yourself to join up in Jan, just once a week, nothing that is going to take you out of your comfort zone too much, is there a gym, or a football club, or Art or Adult learning or whatever....I come from a little town in Cork and the range of activities they have on offer during the week would put alot of cities to shame :laugh:

[rusticgal]

Christmas is a tough time for many experiencing the same feelings as yourself..you are not alone believe me.
I just hope you can see yourself through the next few days and like Cherie said everyone will be looking towards the New Year. Stay positive and set yourself some realistic goals for the New Year…you can do this. Have you sought help through your GP?

[Ammi]

…just to say also, Kev…from my time here on the forum…?…I’ve found TiBB to be a open 365 days a year and there may not be anyone online all through Christmas Day but off and on there will be people popping on so it’s always here for you to say hey, if you feel that you want to…Christmas Day evening will be a lot more active I think and Arista will be keeping up with the latest news stories etc…

[Kate!]

…just to say also, Kev…from my time here on the forum…?…I’ve found TiBB to be a open 365 days a year and there may not be anyone online all through Christmas Day but off and on there will be people popping on so it’s always here for you to say hey, if you feel that you want to…Christmas Day evening will be a lot more active I think and Arista will be keeping up with the latest news stories etc…

:thumbs: I'll second that, I'll be around on and off as usual really, and that goes for anyone who'd care to chat.

[Friendlykev92]

Christmas is a tough time for many experiencing the same feelings as yourself..you are not alone believe me.
I just hope you can see yourself through the next few days and like Cherie said everyone will be looking towards the New Year. Stay positive and set yourself some realistic goals for the New Year…you can do this. Have you sought help through your GP?
Thank you so much, Yes I have made an appointment with my GP for tomorrow afternoon

[Friendlykev92]

…just to say also, Kev…from my time here on the forum…?…I’ve found TiBB to be a open 365 days a year and there may not be anyone online all through Christmas Day but off and on there will be people popping on so it’s always here for you to say hey, if you feel that you want to…Christmas Day evening will be a lot more active I think and Arista will be keeping up with the latest news stories etc…

Thank you all so much, the support on here from everyone has been amazing

[rusticgal]

Thank you so much, Yes I have made an appointment with my GP for tomorrow afternoon


That’s excellent…my son has been through it this year. He moved away and found a GP who has been brilliant. He was very anti anti depressants but these have helped him immensely along with something to help him sleep. His anxiety struck at night time and as a consequence lack of sleep… He has had dips but then after a few days got back on track…if we can find out how to circumnavigate those dips then hopefully his life will improve dramatically.

I hope you have a good Doctor…so I will be thinking of you x

[Ammi]

Thank you all so much, the support on here from everyone has been amazing

…:love:…

[Crimson Dynamo]

what has your avatar pic moved from portrait to landscape?

[UserSince2005]

I do feel very lucky to have an amazing life. Hope y’all okay this christmas. Kisses

[Maru]

Christmas is a tough time for many. I have had loss every holiday season of recent. I have family struggling with homelessness. I do still look forward to the season but I find I have to take care of the bulk of the tasks involved in order to fully enjoy it. I do enjoy end of year prayers the most and taking the time to myself to identify things in myself to work on, but yeah... New Years is usually the peak for me.

Edit: Oop, messed up... I have to talk care of the bulk of tasks.. forgot to put "in advance".. timing is always hard at the end of the year for me... :spin:

[Maru]

you are lucky to be still alive Zizu, so she is doing all the shopping while you listen to the radio.... :laugh: this is why I go lone wolf for food shopping I know what I want and where it is located, Mr C would be half a mile behind with the trolley 'looking' at stuff and I would have steam coming out my ears :joker:

YES.

I also go much earlier in the day when the crowd is better. I can be in and out if I really need to be.

[Dogeatdog]

I was looking forward to Christmas this year mainly because last years was depressing as we lost our dog in November last year, so was hoping this one would be more positive.

However I found out about a month ago that my job is being made redundant at the beginning of the year. The firm I work for is going through a big restructure and they’ve lost a lot of money in the last 2 years so by the end of January I could be out of a job.

My boss mentioned that there will be a job within the firm that I can apply for (which I obviously will) and he’s really hoping that I get it but there isn’t any guarantee that I will. I’m just trying to stay as positive as I can for the most part but it’s very hard. It’s been on my mind every night since I found out.

[Cherie]

I was looking forward to Christmas this year mainly because last years was depressing as we lost our dog in November last year, so was hoping this one would be more positive.

However I found out about a month ago that my job is being made redundant at the beginning of the year. The firm I work for is going through a big restructure and they’ve lost a lot of money in the last 2 years so by the end of January I could be out of a job.

My boss mentioned that there will be a job within the firm that I can apply for (which I obviously will) and he’s really hoping that I get it but there isn’t any guarantee that I will. I’m just trying to stay as positive as I can for the most part but it’s very hard. It’s been on my mind every night since I found out.

so sorry DeD hate it when firms do this just before Christmas, there is never a good time, but this time of year is particularly harsh, the good news is that your boss is pushing you to apply for another job within the firm so that sounds very positive, I know its easy to say but it really does sound like they want to keep you x

[Cherie]

Christmas is a tough time for many. I have had loss every holiday season of recent. I have family struggling with homelessness. I do still look forward to the season but I find I have to take care of the bulk of the tasks involved in order to fully enjoy it. I do enjoy end of year prayers the most and taking the time to myself to identify things in myself to work on, but yeah... New Years is usually the peak for me.

:love:

[Zizu]

I have visions of Mrs Z reaching the tills and texting Zizu, Im ready and at till no 6 meet you there with your half of the shopping


Zizu.....MY HALF, im in the cafe keeping Talksport company


Pretty damn close tbf

[Dogeatdog]

so sorry DeD hate it when firms do this just before Christmas, there is never a good time, but this time of year is particularly harsh, the good news is that your boss is pushing you to apply for another job within the firm so that sounds very positive, I know its easy to say but it really does sound like they want to keep you x

Yh it’s really **** timing tbh. I’m not gonna lie tho I did see it coming for a long while. The way that the firm has been run for the last couple years has been dreadful and I’ve sat back and seen how so much money has just been wasted on absolute nonsense. I’m not in a position in the company that can decide these things, if I were to suggest something that would need changing they wouldn’t listen because the people above know best (which they clearly didn’t) and I knew what the end result would eventually be.

I’m kinda unsure whether I actually want to stay or not. On one hand I do because I like a majority of the people I work with and my boss really wants me to stay but on the other hand, if the firm doesn’t turn things around within the next year we will all be out of a job and that’s something that only time will tell.

[Redway]

what has your avatar pic moved from portrait to landscape?

How does that concern you in the slightest?

[Mystic Mock]

Hi guys, To be honest I think this time of year can be so difficult for a lot of people, and admittedly I'm finding it very difficult, I'm unhappy with my situation in life at the moment and there seems to be this image of christmas where we all have to be happy and are having such a good time and doing well in our lives and it's just so far from reality, Also just reaching out to anyone on here who is feeling the same. I'm obviously not a qualified mental health professional but sometimes a listening ear can be so important as well

Tbh this is a fairly common issue for people all over the country.

You're certainly not alone.

I'm not an expert in how to help you personally (because I'm also not a mental health expert) but I hope that there is at least someone on here that will be able to give you sound advice.

[Ammi]

I was looking forward to Christmas this year mainly because last years was depressing as we lost our dog in November last year, so was hoping this one would be more positive.

However I found out about a month ago that my job is being made redundant at the beginning of the year. The firm I work for is going through a big restructure and they’ve lost a lot of money in the last 2 years so by the end of January I could be out of a job.

My boss mentioned that there will be a job within the firm that I can apply for (which I obviously will) and he’s really hoping that I get it but there isn’t any guarantee that I will. I’m just trying to stay as positive as I can for the most part but it’s very hard. It’s been on my mind every night since I found out.

Yh it’s really **** timing tbh. I’m not gonna lie tho I did see it coming for a long while. The way that the firm has been run for the last couple years has been dreadful and I’ve sat back and seen how so much money has just been wasted on absolute nonsense. I’m not in a position in the company that can decide these things, if I were to suggest something that would need changing they wouldn’t listen because the people above know best (which they clearly didn’t) and I knew what the end result would eventually be.

I’m kinda unsure whether I actually want to stay or not. On one hand I do because I like a majority of the people I work with and my boss really wants me to stay but on the other hand, if the firm doesn’t turn things around within the next year we will all be out of a job and that’s something that only time will tell.

…ahhhhh, so sorry to hear this, Shaun…:hug:…It’s so difficult when these things happen because it’s the unprepared thing about them as well so a ‘path forward’ isn’t something that’s there either…what I will say is that I know someone who went through something similar a few years ago…and of course, it was such an anxious time….change is never an easy thing because change brings uncertainties and we’re such creatures of the things we know, even when they’re things that aren’t particularly adding anything to our lives, either…sometimes changes are forced on us and with those changes, what we find is something that is much more suited and work enhancing for us…as you say, you’ve felt quite stifled in your employment and that inevitability that this is where it may all lead to, you were being held back in positivity toward your job….whether or not it’s this job within the firm that you’re applying for or something that hasn’t yet presented…?..this is something that could lead to something that you would never have found if this hadn’t happened because you would have just ‘carried on’…you know…?…that’s no consolation right now, I know…but this right now and what’s happened and happening is not your future/an ending so much as it’s also a path to and a beginning and hopefully a much brighter working life for 2025…you take care…:love:…

[Kate!]

Good morning everyone. I had a better night's sleep than for ages last night. Makes a change!

Hope everyone in here is OK, I've read all your posts and I feel for you. Here if you need me. Don't hesitate to get in touch.

Xx

[Cherie]

Yh it’s really **** timing tbh. I’m not gonna lie tho I did see it coming for a long while. The way that the firm has been run for the last couple years has been dreadful and I’ve sat back and seen how so much money has just been wasted on absolute nonsense. I’m not in a position in the company that can decide these things, if I were to suggest something that would need changing they wouldn’t listen because the people above know best (which they clearly didn’t) and I knew what the end result would eventually be.

I’m kinda unsure whether I actually want to stay or not. On one hand I do because I like a majority of the people I work with and my boss really wants me to stay but on the other hand, if the firm doesn’t turn things around within the next year we will all be out of a job and that’s something that only time will tell.

Just to pick up on that it is always easier to find work if you are in work, so unless you find another job in the meantime I would be inclined to apply and hopefully get kept on that will then give you a better platform and time to look for another job, if you jump now into another job it could be frying pan into the fire kinda situation, I am sure you will make the right decision for you in the end though x

[Cherie]

My friend was recently made redundant by text by a charity that had existed for 60 years, she had only worked there for 18 months but there were people who had worked there for 20 years, what a way to treat staff, and not only that they had only recently taken new people on, and at a management meeting 3 months previously they told the staff they were in good shape financially,:skull: luckily she has got herself a new job and starts after Christmas

[user104658]

Yh it’s really **** timing tbh. I’m not gonna lie tho I did see it coming for a long while. The way that the firm has been run for the last couple years has been dreadful and I’ve sat back and seen how so much money has just been wasted on absolute nonsense. I’m not in a position in the company that can decide these things, if I were to suggest something that would need changing they wouldn’t listen because the people above know best (which they clearly didn’t) and I knew what the end result would eventually be.

I’m kinda unsure whether I actually want to stay or not. On one hand I do because I like a majority of the people I work with and my boss really wants me to stay but on the other hand, if the firm doesn’t turn things around within the next year we will all be out of a job and that’s something that only time will tell.

This (for me personally) would be an indication that if you have the opportunity to leave, you should leave, and you've really indicated the exact reason here; if you saw this coming, you're probably competent and have a good eye for strategic overview, and if a company is ignoring good strategic insight because of hierarchy, then for one they're (as you have discovered) inevitably going to hit the skids and for two, your progression is going to be SEVERELY limited if people above you aren't only not noticing you, but are by default not allowing people a voice in order to be noticed and impress. Bad employer.

The path to progression - despite what some people would have you believe - is not hard work. "Hard workers" get stuck doing the role that they're doing efficiently... because they're doing it efficiently. The key to progression is smart work, good ideas, and demonstrating a valuable understanding of the role and organisation. If you have those, and you're not being given the opportunity to show it, get out ASAP.

My xmas advice. Value and back yourself and good things will happen.

[Beso]

My motto at xmas is.....


**** it all.

[Ammi]

Here For The Leftovers ….even with all of your job concerns, Shaun…try, try, try to enjoy your time with your loved ones over the time you have away from work and the festive period ….things don’t always take the paths of the least stresses and worries etc…but those unexpected and what feels like unwelcome paths…?…can lead us perfectly to something that may become a much happier time for us…you enjoy these few days with your family, yeah…:hug:…

[Crimson Dynamo]

How does that concern you in the slightest?

How does that concern you in the slightest?

[Dogeatdog]

…ahhhhh, so sorry to hear this, Shaun…:hug:…It’s so difficult when these things happen because it’s the unprepared thing about them as well so a ‘path forward’ isn’t something that’s there either…what I will say is that I know someone who went through something similar a few years ago…and of course, it was such an anxious time….change is never an easy thing because change brings uncertainties and we’re such creatures of the things we know, even when they’re things that aren’t particularly adding anything to our lives, either…sometimes changes are forced on us and with those changes, what we find is something that is much more suited and work enhancing for us…as you say, you’ve felt quite stifled in your employment and that inevitability that this is where it may all lead to, you were being held back in positivity toward your job….whether or not it’s this job within the firm that you’re applying for or something that hasn’t yet presented…?..this is something that could lead to something that you would never have found if this hadn’t happened because you would have just ‘carried on’…you know…?…that’s no consolation right now, I know…but this right now and what’s happened and happening is not your future/an ending so much as it’s also a path to and a beginning and hopefully a much brighter working life for 2025…you take care…:love:…

Thank you Ammi :love:

[Dogeatdog]

Just to pick up on that it is always easier to find work if you are in work, so unless you find another job in the meantime I would be inclined to apply and hopefully get kept on that will then give you a better platform and time to look for another job, if you jump now into another job it could be frying pan into the fire kinda situation, I am sure you will make the right decision for you in the end though x

Yh I agree Cherie I am going to apply for the job, it would be stupid of me not too as like you say it’s easier to find work when you are working. I’m still going to carry on looking for other work in the meantime I think I’ve reached my limit at this firm in terms of progression.

[Dogeatdog]

This (for me personally) would be an indication that if you have the opportunity to leave, you should leave, and you've really indicated the exact reason here; if you saw this coming, you're probably competent and have a good eye for strategic overview, and if a company is ignoring good strategic insight because of hierarchy, then for one they're (as you have discovered) inevitably going to hit the skids and for two, your progression is going to be SEVERELY limited if people above you aren't only not noticing you, but are by default not allowing people a voice in order to be noticed and impress. Bad employer.

The path to progression - despite what some people would have you believe - is not hard work. "Hard workers" get stuck doing the role that they're doing efficiently... because they're doing it efficiently. The key to progression is smart work, good ideas, and demonstrating a valuable understanding of the role and organisation. If you have those, and you're not being given the opportunity to show it, get out ASAP.

My xmas advice. Value and back yourself and good things will happen.

Thanks QB for the advice. I’m sad how things have panned out, I knew it would eventually happen but there are a few people there with huge egos (especially the higher up’s) and all it’s doing is just dragging the company down and causing a poor morale amongst the staff. They’ve recently held a consultation process in another department and they asked the people at risk in this department to come up with suggestions as to how to improve things. Some people made suggestions and put them forward but the people in charge weren’t bothered at all as they heard them out but still chose to go their own way instead.

I agree tbh I think I’ve reached my limit here in terms of progression and I think the only reason why I’m going to apply for the job that they’re offering is so it can bide me a bit of time to look elsewhere. What you mentioned about hard workers getting stuck in a role because they’re efficient is exactly how I feel atm and I think I’m worth more than that. I want to better myself and actually do job that I can be a bit proud of, at this firm I can’t really see that happening.

[Dogeatdog]

Here For The Leftovers ….even with all of your job concerns, Shaun…try, try, try to enjoy your time with your loved ones over the time you have away from work and the festive period ….things don’t always take the paths of the least stresses and worries etc…but those unexpected and what feels like unwelcome paths…?…can lead us perfectly to something that may become a much happier time for us…you enjoy these few days with your family, yeah…:hug:…

Yh I’ve tried to take it out of my mind for the time being. I’ve been looking after my nephew today, he’s really excited for Christmas which is nice to see and it’s kinda been a bit of a release valve as him being so excited has taken my mind off work.

Thank you Ammi and everyone else for their advice, hope everyone has a good Christmas :love:

[Ammi]

Yh I’ve tried to take it out of my mind for the time being. I’ve been looking after my nephew today, he’s really excited for Christmas which is nice to see and it’s kinda been a bit of a release valve as him being so excited has taken my mind off work.

Thank you Ammi and everyone else for their advice, hope everyone has a good Christmas :love:

…that’s the thing, isn’t it…it’s good to be around those child eyes that only see the magic and none of the worries because that helps to balance and preserve some of that positive spirit in us as well …and that’s so important because what we feel and absorb…?…also transfers in positive vibes to things like job seeking and interviews etc…:love:…

[Kate!]

So Christmas Eve is nearly over.

I hope it's been at least ok for you all, and hopefully better than ok. Xx

[Zizu]

I usually enjoy the build up and then the period AFTER Christmas Day which is generally a very stressful time for just about everyone !!

Imho

[Redway]

Whatever you do, don’t listen to Crimson Dynamo.

Whatever you do, mods, let’s not bother going down the infraction route today. It’s Christmas. Christmas Day. Go and spend it with your families instead of implicitly defending a bigoted wind-up merchant.

[Mystic Mock]

I usually enjoy the build up and then the period AFTER Christmas Day which is generally a very stressful time for just about everyone !!

Imho

Merry Christmas Zizu.

I hope that you and your Wife are having a great day.

[Zizu]

Merry Christmas Zizu.

I hope that you and your Wife are having a great day.


So far soo good

I have had my once daily caffeine fix so we shall see what the day will bring !

I’ve mentioned elsewhere that I actually prefer the build up to Christmas and the time afterwards…. Christmas Day can be quite stressful on so many ways

[Mystic Mock]

So far soo good

I have had my once daily caffeine fix so we shall see what the day will bring !

I’ve mentioned elsewhere that I actually prefer the build up to Christmas and the time afterwards…. Christmas Day can be quite stressful on so many ways

My favourite period is Boxing Day.

Especially if we can kick Burton Albion's butt on the Football.:dance:

[arista]

Hang in there
Kev 92.

Check this out track 1975
Curtis Mayfield Hard Times
2nd Guitar Phil Upchurch (lead)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvSfeanNFIM

[ThomasC]

Hi guys, To be honest I think this time of year can be so difficult for a lot of people, and admittedly I'm finding it very difficult, I'm unhappy with my situation in life at the moment and there seems to be this image of christmas where we all have to be happy and are having such a good time and doing well in our lives and it's just so far from reality, Also just reaching out to anyone on here who is feeling the same. I'm obviously not a qualified mental health professional but sometimes a listening ear can be so important as well

Ahhh, don't believe everything you read/see. Everyone's got their issues. You only see the happy sides normally, the pictures of family together, opening of presents, etc etc.

You're in control of your own destiny
Set yourself a plan for the new year

Don't be too hard on yourself.

[Zizu]

I have been feeling good today - even optimistic .

Only thing thats annoyed me over Christmas had been seeing clips of Charlie boy and Chlamydia on telly and reading about the fix hunting ban

[Crimson Dynamo]

these bloody fixes must be cintrolled!