Chris creepy behavior towards Jojo

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

:umm2:
Disgusting. I really want him to go.

[Father Chris Mouse]

Im not defending him, but she invites it as much as he gives it. She even goes out of her way for his attention at times.

That whole situation is just strange. I'll be told im wrong, but there is sexual tension between them, i don't care what anyone says. Live feed watchers will most probably agree, they aren't just friendly touchy feely, they're very intimate with it at times.

[joeysteele]

I can't stand either of them..

She actively encourages and enables his attention to her.
He's slimey and creepy.

Awful, they've ruined this series for me.

[Father Chris Mouse]

"lick it off, imagine it wasn't chocolate, lick it you freak"

As JoJo licks chocolate off his shorts. I mean, what the actual effing fcuk??!!!

[ChristmasNeeve]

"lick it off, imagine it wasn't chocolate, lick it you freak"

As JoJo licks chocolate off his shorts. I mean, what the actual effing fcuk??!!!

and the "ingrown hair" right up the inside of his thigh..........hhmmm

[Father Chris Mouse]

and the "ingrown hair" right up the inside of his thigh..........hhmmm

The same upper inner of his thigh she was rubbing in the hot tub the other night. But she's gay guys, can't possible be anything more than friendly banter, they're just close friends guys :hehe:

[user104658]

She's 21 and clearly head-spun and he's in his 30's, it's been making me increasingly uncomfortable and I think he knows fine well what he's doing. Jojo was great in the first week, the man has leeched off her and completely hijacked her time in there IMO.

[ChristmasNeeve]

She's 21 and clearly head-spun and he's in his 30's, it's been making me increasingly uncomfortable and I think he knows fine well what he's doing. Jojo was great in the first week, the man has leeched off her and completely hijacked her time in there IMO.

Yeah, this is a key point I think

[Father Chris Mouse]

She's 21 and clearly head-spun and he's in his 30's, it's been making me increasingly uncomfortable and I think he knows fine well what he's doing. Jojo was great in the first week, the man has leeched off her and completely hijacked her time in there IMO.

Yeah, this is a key point I think

It is a key point and fair to say, but lets not dismiss her come ons. She is loving his attention. But yeah, he certainly knows how to manipulate her. As cringe as her licking the chocolate off his shorts was last night, it was 100% a complete power move on his part.

[user104658]

It is a key point and fair to say, but lets not dismiss her come ons. She is loving his attention. But yeah, he certainly knows how to manipulate her. As cringe as her licking the chocolate off his shorts was last night, it was 100% a complete power move on his part.

She is enjoying his attention but that doesn't mean it's a good thing; that's what I mean by he knows exactly what he's doing. He's "love-bombing" her, the whole point is (essentially) getting someone "addicted to your attention". It's really toxic behaviour.

[Cherry Christmas]

"lick it off, imagine it wasn't chocolate, lick it you freak"

As JoJo licks chocolate off his shorts. I mean, what the actual effing fcuk??!!!

That was grim, and if Jo Jo was straight he would be called controlling, also I would not let anyone call me a freak even in jest

[Father Chris Mouse]

She is enjoying his attention but that doesn't mean it's a good thing; that's what I mean by he knows exactly what he's doing. He's "love-bombing" her, the whole point is (essentially) getting someone "addicted to your attention". It's really toxic behaviour.

Yeah the more i think about it, the more i see he's a controlling nasty piece of work. Remember that joke about them "kissing" and she said something like "you would if you could" and he said "yeah i probably would actually" then JoJo jokingly said "sucks to be you" and even though we didn't see much after that, we did see a snippet of him becoming somewhat aggressively defensive, for a split second his whole demeanor changed and he said "i was just paying you a compliment". Two things wrong with that, One - He felt he lost control over their relationship for a second, and Two - Him thinking enough of himself to think ANYONE should be flattered he'd "probably kiss them"

[ChristmasNeeve]

Yeah the more i think about it, the more i see he's a controlling nasty piece of work. Remember that joke about them "kissing" and she said something like "you would if you could" and he said "yeah i probably would actually" then JoJo jokingly said "sucks to be you" and even though we didn't see much after that, we did see a snippet of him becoming somewhat aggressively defensive, for a split second his whole demeanor changed and he said "i was just paying you a compliment". Two things wrong with that, One - He felt he lost control over their relationship for a second, and Two - Him thinking enough of himself to think ANYONE should be flattered he'd "probably kiss them"

Yeah, good observations there. Chris has a front that he puts on where he's the "fun guy" but that falls a part very easily when he's not in control or being adored

[Father Chris Mouse]

Yeah, good observations there. Chris has a front that he puts on where he's the "fun guy" but that falls a part very easily when he's not in control or being adored

Yep, textbook narcissistic behaviour. If you lose control, you go down the sympathy path.

[user104658]

I suppose one thing to consider is, he's Love Island alumni and this is the sort of behaviour you see ALL THE TIME on Love Island...

[Ammi]

I suppose one thing to consider is, he's Love Island alumni and this is the sort of behaviour you see ALL THE TIME on Love Island...

…for sure it absolutely is…there was no one in that house who was going to ‘adore’ him like JoJo, she’s what his ego needs/thrives off…if he had gone down the route of romance with Ella then it would have been a relationship based on ‘equals’ rather than this one that he’s been able to control to a degree…

[Parmy]

She may be 21 but she comes across as one of the more mature hms.

I was harsh to begin with, with Chris, but now I think everyone's reading way to much into their friendship.

Let them have fun, the house needs it fgs, cause let's face facts, if there was other stuff happening this wouldn't even break sweat as a story.


She's opened the door for him by saying she leans more towards non binary these days..
Wh8ch in all fairness basically means I will shag whomever without being judged.

[Father Chris Mouse]

She may be 21 but she comes across as one of the more mature hms.

I was harsh to begin with, with Chris, but now I think everyone's reading way to much into their friendship.

Let them have fun, the house needs it fgs, cause let's face facts, if there was other stuff happening this wouldn't even break sweat as a story.


She's opened the door for him by saying she leans more towards non binary these days..
Wh8ch in all fairness basically means I will shag whomever without being judged.

I do agree that was subtle way of saying she fancies Chris.

[arista]

:umm2:
Disgusting. I really want him to go.


Yes he is 32
Jo Jo 21


But from what I viewed
She plays along with it.


I assume to get to Friday.

[Zizu]

:umm2:
Disgusting. I really want him to go.


What about his latest gross revelation where he urinates whilst he’s the bath ( a shower is gross enough) and will even wash his hair in the bath afterwards !!


He reckons that the urine is diluted to the point that it’s not relevant !!!!!

He’s a bozo

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

What about his latest gross revelation where he urinates whilst he’s the bath ( a shower is gross enough) and will even wash his hair in the bath afterwards !!


He reckons that the urine is diluted to the point that it’s not relevant !!!!!

He’s a bozo

That's wve worse D:

[Zizu]

She is enjoying his attention but that doesn't mean it's a good thing; that's what I mean by he knows exactly what he's doing. He's "love-bombing" her, the whole point is (essentially) getting someone "addicted to your attention". It's really toxic behaviour.


Maybe he will try for a quick kiss under the duvet

[Zizu]

Yeah, good observations there. Chris has a front that he puts on where he's the "fun guy" but that falls a part very easily when he's not in control or being adored


That’s the same nice guy front Chesney is using and everyone seems to be buying it


He literally flipped in the karaoke - showed his true self … yet everyone seems to have forgotten

[Candy Annie Cane]

That’s the same nice guy front Chesney is using and everyone seems to be buying it


He literally flipped in the karaoke - showed his true self … yet everyone seems to have forgotten

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

She may be 21 but she comes across as one of the more mature hms.

I was harsh to begin with, with Chris, but now I think everyone's reading way to much into their friendship.

Let them have fun, the house needs it fgs, cause let's face facts, if there was other stuff happening this wouldn't even break sweat as a story.


She's opened the door for him by saying she leans more towards non binary these days..
Wh8ch in all fairness basically means I will shag whomever without being judged.

By American normie standards, I wouldn't say she displays true maturity as much as she is using self-control to her advantage. It's very common for younger generations of females here to like to try to emulate adult think and give boring Ted Talks to try to outrank one another in the social strata. It always sounds like a pseudo-reformed form of narcissism :laugh:, which is not only funny, but also a tell. Everyone is fighting to be the most evolved lifeform with their big logics in that game. She's constantly repeating what she has heard here and that she thinks other people might agree with. Haven't heard her say anything truly controversial or test the patience of someone else in an argument.

She is also very Miss CA and the politeness game is a big game with the young there more than not. It's hard to know if she will be tested properly given she's been using Chris' as a shield, especially with the gender boogiemen, but can tell she is very intimidated by the likes of Danny because he likes to cut through the ****. I think she's a typical narcissist in every way, but just doesn't give the red flags right away. I wouldn't say she is covert, but just very smartly playing the cards she has in her hands. 3 weeks isn't a lot of time for that to unravel.

Her "relationship" with Chris is a non-starter. They're just playing along to get along. :shrug: If she were to try to change teams, it would totally change the entire game she's been playing, so I don't see it.

And yeah... she just might as well just identify as pansexual with her clear attraction. In my own opinion, she's picking other labels so that she can keep people guessing where exactly she might fall, but I don't really like the way she treats other people with this kind of playing with the mind. I can see her being really toxic irl with that nonsense. But that has nothing to do with Chris' behavior. Chris is just being Chris. He's always felt like he is just there for him and doing his own thing and Jojo is a convenient scapegoat to be whoever he wants to be.

[thesheriff443]

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task

Well he is the one and only

[Candy Annie Cane]

Well he is the one and only

That he is :laugh:

[Zizu]

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task


Yes because it’s impossible to pretend for that long

No way is he Mr Perfect

[Candy Annie Cane]

Yes because it’s impossible to pretend for that long

No way is he Mr Perfect

Zizu....he is one of my brother and his wife's best friends. I have seen him quite a lot, my Dad spent Boxing Day with them all this year....what you see there is what he is like. He's not perfect.....No-one is. But he is a nice guy.

[Parmy]

By American normie standards, I wouldn't say she displays true maturity as much as she is using self-control to her advantage. It's very common for younger generations of females here to like to try to emulate adult think and give boring Ted Talks to try to outrank one another in the social strata. It always sounds like a pseudo-reformed form of narcissism :laugh:, which is not only funny, but also a tell. Everyone is fighting to be the most evolved lifeform with their big logics in that game. She's constantly repeating what she has heard here and that she thinks other people might agree with. Haven't heard her say anything truly controversial or test the patience of someone else in an argument.

She is also very Miss CA and the politeness game is a big game with the young there more than not. It's hard to know if she will be tested properly given she's been using Chris' as a shield, especially with the gender boogiemen, but can tell she is very intimidated by the likes of Danny because he likes to cut through the ****. I think she's a typical narcissist in every way, but just doesn't give the red flags right away. I wouldn't say she is covert, but just very smartly playing the cards she has in her hands. 3 weeks isn't a lot of time for that to unravel.

Her "relationship" with Chris is a non-starter. They're just playing along to get along. :shrug: If she were to try to change teams, it would totally change the entire game she's been playing, so I don't see it.

And yeah... she just might as well just identify as pansexual with her clear attraction. In my own opinion, she's picking other labels so that she can keep people guessing where exactly she might fall, but I don't really like the way she treats other people with this kind of playing with the mind. I can see her being really toxic irl with that nonsense. But that has nothing to do with Chris' behavior. Chris is just being Chris. He's always felt like he is just there for him and doing his own thing and Jojo is a convenient scapegoat to be whoever he wants to be.




I enjoyed your post, but she laughed along at being tricked in the task enough for me to believe she doesn't see a hierarchy in the house, and its not coming across that she believes she has to be anyway that's expected of her. Yeah, you may be correct about american kids and how they interact with each other, cause hey, wadda know.

All I see is a fun loving gal, A destined winner, and quite clearly the most sane one left in the house.

[Father Chris Mouse]

JoJo was just sat on his lap in basically a thong swimsuit thing in the hot tub. He's the manipulator, but she invites his attention

[Merry Mockmas]

:umm2:
Disgusting. I really want him to go.

What did he do?

[Merry Mockmas]

She is enjoying his attention but that doesn't mean it's a good thing; that's what I mean by he knows exactly what he's doing. He's "love-bombing" her, the whole point is (essentially) getting someone "addicted to your attention". It's really toxic behaviour.

What the heck is love-bombing?:laugh:

Verbal abuse is the way to go imo.:dance::joker:


















I'm obviously joking about the verbal abuse part.

[Merry Mockmas]

Yep, textbook narcissistic behaviour. If you lose control, you go down the sympathy path.

Well people should worship him then.:devil:

[Zizu]

Rubbish. He has snapped once.

I know Chesney and he is a nice guy....he just got snappy in a task


Fair enough

I wanted to like him but he just seemed to good to be true .. then he bragged he was a naturist which is a tad odd in my book plus he was sooooo touchy-feely with Michael in those early days .


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[Merry Mockmas]

That’s the same nice guy front Chesney is using and everyone seems to be buying it


He literally flipped in the karaoke - showed his true self … yet everyone seems to have forgotten

That Karaoke segment was just odd imo.

[Merry Mockmas]

Fair enough

I wanted to like him but he just seemed to good to be true .. then he bragged he was a naturist which is a tad odd in my book plus he was sooooo touchy-feely with Michael in those early days .


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Tbf to Chesney, I think him having certain behavioral traits that are personally alien to you (and to me tbf,) doesn't mean that he can't still be a nice guy.

I'll be honest and say that I think that Chesney thinks highly of himself, but I don't really believe him to be a nasty person.

I think that there's a difference.

[user104658]

What the heck is love-bombing?:laugh:

Verbal abuse is the way to go imo.:dance::joker:


















I'm obviously joking about the verbal abuse part.
Love bombing is when someone (deliberately) pours all of their attention/laser focus/constant validation and compliments onto someone to make them feel extremely special and form an intense bond, in an unsustainable way. It's basically an emotional manipulation tactic.

[GlitterUK]

Chris and Jojo are both making the most of the experience which is what BB is all about. They throw themselves into tasks, secret missions and can play jokes and take jokes really well. I think their friendship is nice to see. I don't think Chris is using her for votes or fame etc. I think they both enjoy each others company, they are touchy feely but that is both of them being so it isn't one sided. I think Jojo will win, danny second and I can see Chris being third.

[Merry Mockmas]

Love bombing is when someone (deliberately) pours all of their attention/laser focus/constant validation and compliments onto someone to make them feel extremely special and form an intense bond, in an unsustainable way. It's basically an emotional manipulation tactic.

It sounds like one of those creepy guys on Reddit or Facebook.

Thanks for explaining it to me btw.