JoJo is not a Lesbian, She is Queer

[Father Chris Mouse]

She just said it to Danny on the live feed.

Also, we all know she fancies Chris, is being "queer" under the umbrella of not just fancying one gender?

[Merry Mockmas]

She's basically saying that she's Bisexual I think.

Let the trashy Soap Opera commence.:devil:

[Father Chris Mouse]

She's basically saying that she's Bisexual I think.

Let the trashy Soap Opera commence.:devil:

Yeah, just read up on it. Being queer does mean you can be attracted to any gender basically. It makes more sense now.

[Merry Mockmas]

Yeah, just read up on it. Being queer does mean you can be attracted to any gender basically. It makes more sense now.

We just need Donna to identify the same way and the Jojo, Donna, and Chris threesome can begin.:fc::joker:

[Father Chris Mouse]

We just need Donna to identify the same way and the Jojo, Donna, and Chris threesome can begin.:fc::joker:

The Don :lovedup:

[Merry Mockmas]

The Don :lovedup:

We just need to get Mickey back in the house then for a foursome.:dance:

[Father Chris Mouse]

We just need to get Mickey back in the house then for a foursome.:dance:

:dance:

:umm2:

[Zizu]

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[Father Chris Mouse]

...

[Merry Mockmas]

:dance:

:umm2:

He'll bring the rope.:devil:

I'm going to hell one day.:joker:

[Father Chris Mouse]

He'll bring the rope.:devil:

I'm going to hell one day.:joker:

You really are :laugh:

[Merry Mockmas]

You really are :laugh:

I can ask Trump wtf was he thinking with this Tariff stuff at least?:laugh:

[Father Chris Mouse]

I can ask Trump wtf was he thinking with this Tariff stuff at least?:laugh:

Yeah haha

Gwad knows what JoJo's partner must be thinking now. Can't see their relationship lasting after this.

[Zizu]

She's basically saying that she's Bisexual I think.

Let the trashy Soap Opera commence.:devil:


Like I said days ago ..she proudly talks about her LBGT friends endlessly so at 21 maybe she hasn’t spent much time ( if any) around straight people let alone a horny , straight guy like Chris

She’s possibly feeling things (emotional things) that she hasn’t experienced until now


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[Father Chris Mouse]

She might need to step down as CEO of Gay Pop after her time in the house. I think she said she'd agreed to sleep in Chris' bed tonight, but it cut off.

[Zizu]

We just need Donna to identify the same way and the Jojo, Donna, and Chris threesome can begin.:fc::joker:


Donna has admitted that she’s a very , very sexual person ( straight)


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[Father Chris Mouse]

Like I said days ago ..she proudly talks about her LBGT friends endlessly so at 21 maybe she hasn’t spent much time ( if any) aren’t straight people let alone a horny , straight guy like Chris

She’s possibly feeling things (emotional things) that she hasn’t experienced until now


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Fair comments that were too easily dismissed early on, when it was quite obvious she fancied Chris and was sexually attracted to him.

[Merry Mockmas]

Like I said days ago ..she proudly talks about her LBGT friends endlessly so at 21 maybe she hasn’t spent much time ( if any) around straight people let alone a horny , straight guy like Chris

She’s possibly feeling things (emotional things) that she hasn’t experienced until now


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I wonder what LT's views are on this?:laugh:

[Thotmas]

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Regardless the age gap isn't the best! He should seek women his own age

[Father Chris Mouse]

Regardless the age gap isn't the best! He should seek women his own age

The night vision makes her look like a child

[user104658]

Regardless the age gap isn't the best! He should seek women his own age

Not many women in their 30's would fall for this sort of "pick up artistry" - it only works because she's not aware of what he's doing and thinks it's genuinely just a great natural connection.

[arista]

The night vision makes her look like a child



Yes it does a bit

[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

The night vision makes her look like a child

Oof

[Zizu]

The night vision makes her look like a child


I was thinking … ventriloquist’s dummy

[emoji3]

[BBDodge]

Bisexual is a specific thing.

Queer just means not straight.

[Ammi]

Bisexual is a specific thing.

Queer just means not straight.

…yes, this…lesbian would come under the term of queer so she hasn’t really said anything that she hasn’t touched on before already, in that she identifies as non binary…/…whereas lesbian would indicate female…

…that’s how I understand it…

[Ammi]

…what I mean is, in stating that she’s queer wouldn’t be an indicator that she isn’t attracted to females…just that she doesn’t identify as female herself, which is something that she’s already said…(…is my interpretation…)…

[In the Drunk Tank]

Difficult to deny she's attracted to Chris at this point surely. Let's be honest there's zero chance of them ever being together properly outside the house though so she should be a bit careful

[joeysteele]

I've really lost any interest in whatever JoJo says.
The same with the creepy Chris too.

As long as neither of this pair win this series, I'll be content.

They're the only ones who actually have ruined this series for me.
I couldn't give a damn what she NOW says she is, or even thinks she is.

[Jessica.]

That's an umbrella term for all genders and can be used by people with homosexual attraction so you are not making sense.

[thesheriff443]

I know it’s ts a bb forum but it’s no ones business really what she does and with who
She does it with

I’m not watching but Chris isn’t the devil at this point
JoJo is not a child , she has a partner on the outside who is six years older but because she is a woman you lot accept that without question

[Oliver_W]

"Queer" is a bit meaningless, but I wonder if she just hasn't heard of "bisexual", which it seems she is.

[Merry Mockmas]

The night vision makes her look like a child

Jojo does look young tbf.

Without meaning to imply anything against Chris, as I don't want to throw a baseless allegation towards him.

[BBDodge]

"Queer" is a bit meaningless, but I wonder if she just hasn't heard of "bisexual", which it seems she is.

I'm sure people who identify as LGBTQIA+ know which bit of it they are.

That's why they keep adding letters.

[Peppermint]

Mickey did that

[Father Chris Mouse]

That's an umbrella term for all genders and can be used by people with homosexual attraction so you are not making sense.

"Queer" is an umbrella term primarily used within the LGBTQ+ community to describe individuals whose sexual orientation and/or gender identity falls outside of the traditional heterosexual, cisgender norms. It's an inclusive label that encompasses a wide range of identities, including those who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and more

Im going off this. It seems to suggest that being queer means your attraction isn't necessarily gender specific?

[Jessica.]

Im going off this. It seems to suggest that being queer means your attraction isn't necessarily gender specific?

Jojo is attracted to women but she is questioning her gender, if she doesn't identify as female she might not want to identify as a lesbian, so it makes sense to use an umbrella term while she's figuring out her identity.

[Father Chris Mouse]

Jojo is attracted to women but she is questioning her gender, if she doesn't identify as female she might not want to identify as a lesbian, so it makes sense to use an umbrella term while she's figuring out her identity.

Yes, that's fine. But by specifically saying she is not lesbian, rather queer, could suggest her attraction gender isn't limited to women and non binary people, no?

Of course she's not "turned straight" in the house, im not suggesting that, im saying by declaring herself queer suggests she falls under wider umbrella than "just fancying females, people born female"

I don't think she could possibly make it more obvious she fancies Chris. So by saying she's queer, rather than a lesbian makes sense

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

She's young and probably still figuring things out. I'd say she's bisexual.

[Jessica.]

Yes, that's fine. But by specifically saying she is not lesbian, rather queer, could suggest her attraction gender isn't limited to women and non binary people, no?

Of course she's not "turned straight" in the house, im not suggesting that, im saying by declaring herself queer suggests she falls under wider umbrella than "just fancying females, people born female"

I don't think she could possibly make it more obvious she fancies Chris. So by saying she's queer, rather than a lesbian makes sense
No, it wouldn't imply that she fancies any other genders, she's just changing her label.

[Father Chris Mouse]

No, it wouldn't imply that she fancies any other genders, she's just changing her label.

Well the description of queer is confusing then, from googling and reading up, being queer can suggest you can be attracted to any gender. Lesbian is specific, whereas queer is not.

[user104658]

I know it’s ts a bb forum but it’s no ones business really what she does and with who
She does it with

I’m not watching but Chris isn’t the devil at this point
JoJo is not a child , she has a partner on the outside who is six years older but because she is a woman you lot accept that without question

Six years and 11 years is a pretty big difference at 21. I wouldn't find it a "questionable" age gap if Chris was 27, but he's not, he's 32.

[Father Chris Mouse]

Six years and nearly 12 years is a pretty big difference at 21.

When he was 21 and out clubbing and shagging, JoJo was 9 years old. Age makes much less of a difference when you get older, but yeah in this case it's a bit yucky.

[user104658]

When he was 21 and out clubbing and shagging, JoJo was 9 years old. Age makes much less of a difference when you get older, but yeah in this case it's a bit yucky.

Exactly - when he was on Love Island she was doing things like "Dance Moms" and selling kids hair bows.

[Parmy]

Exactly - when he was on Love Island she was doing things like "Dance Moms" and selling kids hair bows.

Whoooppeeee bloody doooo.

She isnt that age anymore...

[thesheriff443]

Six years and 11 years is a pretty big difference at 21. I wouldn't find it a "questionable" age gap if Chris was 27, but he's not, he's 32.

You can question all you like on here
In real it’s none of your business

[user104658]

Whoooppeeee bloody doooo.

She isnt that age anymore...

Yes she's now 21. Probably a bit young for Chris, definitely too young for you. A probably at least 95% gay.

[user104658]

You can question all you like on here
In real it’s none of your business

We can all share opinions about whatever we like wherever we like, it's a wonderful thing isn't it?

[White Christmas]

She just said it to Danny on the live feed.

Also, we all know she fancies Chris, is being "queer" under the umbrella of not just fancying one gender?

Is queer not offensive anymore? :shrug:

[Parmy]

Yes she's now 21. Probably a bit young for Chris, definitely too young for you. A probably at least 95% gay.

All you are doing with comments about her age is discrediting the maturity of a fully grown 21 year-old adult.

It's PATHETIC.

[user104658]

All you are doing with comments about her age is discrediting the maturity of a fully grown 21 year-old adult.

It's PATHETIC.

A 21 year old barely out of their teens is unlikely to have the life experience that a 30+ year old has and is vulnerable to manipulation by older adults - no magic button is pressed when people turn 18 that makes them suddenly "fully grown". You just want to justify getting a chub-on sat on your couch watching a girl 1/3 of your age taking a piss in cat litter. Let's not start calling each other "pathetic", glass houses and all that. She's a kid.

[Parmy]

A 21 year old barely out of their teens is unlikely to have the life experience that a 30+ year old has and is vulnerable to manipulation by older adults - no magic button is pressed when people turn 18 that makes them suddenly "fully grown". You just want to justify getting a chub-on sat on your couch watching a girl 1/3 of your age taking a piss in cat litter. Let's not start calling each other "pathetic", glass houses and all that. She's a kid.

You are such a sad caricature of your former self these days. It's actually sad to see, and you are not making it easy not to describe your comments as pathetic when you come out with insults like that.


Barely out of her teens, ffs. Pathetic..

[user104658]

You are such a sad caricature of your former self these days. It's actually sad to see, and you are not making it easy not to describe your comments as pathetic when you come out with insults like that.


Barely out of her teens, ffs. Pathetic..

Any version of myself would have agreed with all of this Parmy. Can you point out the version of me that thought it was OK for 21 year old girls to be leeched off by blokes in their 30's?

[user104658]

She's also literally barely out of her teens Parmy, how are you arguing against that? When we were all sat around in Covid lockdown couple of years back, she was still in school. Give your head a wobble she is still a kid. I'm not saying she shouldn't be flirting and having relationships and having people interested in her. I'm saying that those people should be in their 20's, because she is 21.

[bots]

it really doesn't matter what age people are. "Dominating" people to force behaviour is not acceptable. Think Stephen Kings Misery

[Parmy]

Any version of myself would have agreed with all of this Parmy. Can you point out the version of me that thought it was OK for 21 year old girls to be leeched off by blokes in their 30's?



I meant the silly jibes... but shes the one touching him up, and sucking his shorts. He kisses her forehead and fully clothed back on occasion. But really, none of that matters, as they are both grown adults.

Look back in history as well if you want..most of us will have parents where the father is a good few years older than the mother..plus the marriages tend to last a lifetime..

Seriously modern take on stuff like age gaps are so so outdated.

[ChristmasNeeve]

I meant the silly jibes... but shes the one touching him up, and sucking his shorts. He kisses her forehead and fully clothed back on occasion. But really, none of that matters, as they are both grown adults.

Look back in history as well if you want..most of us will have parents where the father is a good few years older than the mother..plus the marriages tend to last a lifetime..

Seriously modern take on stuff like age gaps are so so outdated.

Most of my friends parents are similar ages, my own parents are the same age

[Parmy]

Most of my friends parents are similar ages, my own parents are the same age

How old are you?

[ChristmasNeeve]

How old are you?

46

[Zizu]

She's young and probably still figuring things out. I'd say she's bisexual.


Maybe Mickey was onto something before the rest of us started having suspicions


Only joking !!

[Zizu]

Well the description of queer is confusing then, from googling and reading up, being queer can suggest you can be attracted to any gender. Lesbian is specific, whereas queer is not.


The whole gender issue is a complete puzzle

[Zizu]

When he was 21 and out clubbing and shagging, JoJo was 9 years old. Age makes much less of a difference when you get older, but yeah in this case it's a bit yucky.


More like when he was 17 and sha** ing around Jo Jo was about 5 years old

[user104658]

I meant the silly jibes... but shes the one touching him up, and sucking his shorts. He kisses her forehead and fully clothed back on occasion. But really, none of that matters, as they are both grown adults.

Look back in history as well if you want..most of us will have parents where the father is a good few years older than the mother..plus the marriages tend to last a lifetime..

Seriously modern take on stuff like age gaps are so so outdated.

You have a strange concept out what "outdated" means Parmy. Yes it used to be more common for older men to marry young girls. In the past. That is what's outdated.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Maybe Mickey was onto something before the rest of us started having suspicions


Only joking !!

She's clearly attracted to Chris.

[thesheriff443]

We can all share opinions about whatever we like wherever we like, it's a wonderful thing isn't it?

I said you can question what you like on here
Or are you looking for a reaction?

[Jessica.]

Most of my friends parents are similar ages, my own parents are the same age

My parents had 9 months between them too!

[thesheriff443]

Years ago couples had large families times have changed somewhat but age gaps still exist both way round

[Parmy]

You have a strange concept out what "outdated" means Parmy. Yes it used to be more common for older men to marry young girls. In the past. That is what's outdated.

Love is timeless.

And they are women, not young girls. Stop using sensationalism to make your opinion sound more dramatic.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Years ago couples had large families times have changed somewhat but age gaps still exist both way round

Yes age gap not a problem for me. They're both adults.

[Parmy]

My parents had 9 months between them too!

What about your grandparents?

[user104658]

What about your grandparents?

"My great, great, great grandfather's dad was a 30 year old viking raider wot sexually assaulted a young pagan girl and he turned out just fine, so it's actually natural!"

[thesheriff443]

"My great, great, great grandfather's dad was a 30 year old viking raider wot sexually assaulted a young pagan girl and he turned out just fine, so it's actually natural!"

That’s such a mature post from you qb
You bleet on about having debates and then act like a tit

Honestly this post should stay up because if you act like a tit you should get treated like a tit

[Parmy]

"My great, great, great grandfather's dad was a 30 year old viking raider wot sexually assaulted a young pagan girl and he turned out just fine, so it's actually natural!"

I can see who you take after.

[Jessica.]

What about your grandparents?

They're dead, I can't ask them, but as far as I know they were all of similar ages to their partners.

[user104658]

That’s such a mature post from you qb
You bleet on about having debates and then act like a tit

Honestly this post should stay up because if you act like a tit you should get treated like a tit

The same older blokes get angry every time I bring up that it's icky for middle aged men to pine after people in their late teens and early 20's, none of this is surprising in the slightest. It's not my problem that my opinion on these "perfectly normal healthy lovely acceptable age gaps" makes you uncomfortable. I know it's "legal". I know they're "legally adults". I think it's gross behaviour. Deal with it.

And I don't know if you've noticed Sheriff but...

...this is an on-season BB section. I've been pretty clear that people should keep certain types of textual intercourse out of serious debates.

We ain't in serious debates :hee:.

[Parmy]

Nobody is angry...:joker:

Nor is anyone lusting over Jojo. Your suggestion of both, TS, is pathetic and narrow minded.

[user104658]

Nobody is angry...:joker:

Nor is anyone lusting over Jojo. Your suggestion of both, TS, is pathetic and narrow minded.

OK then the same frustrated and defensive older chaps come out of the woodwork to defend age gaps every time I mention them as a negative. Is that more accurate to say? I mean it's fine for you all to share that your opinion is that there's nothing wrong with it but that doesn't seem to be enough - it seems like it's a problem for me to not change my opinion that it's gross/dirty/pervy/noncey. :shrug: live and let live surely.

[thesheriff443]

The same older blokes get angry every time I bring up that it's icky for middle aged men to pine after people in their late teens and early 20's, none of this is surprising in the slightest. It's not my problem that my opinion on these "perfectly normal healthy lovely acceptable age gaps" makes you uncomfortable. I know it's "legal". I know they're "legally adults". I think it's gross behaviour. Deal with it.

And I don't know if you've noticed Sheriff but...

...this is an on-season BB section. I've been pretty clear that people should keep certain types of textual intercourse out of serious debates.

We ain't in serious debates :hee:.

I’m not watching this series and not interested in it or you

Face facts you don’t get to play the father figure in deciding what young adults choose to do

Trying to dismiss young females as immature because you don’t agree with them

And try to paint men that don’t agree with you as angry pervs is pathetic

[user104658]

I’m not watching this series and not interested in it or you

Face facts you don’t get to play the father figure in deciding what young adults choose to do

Trying to dismiss young females as immature because you don’t agree with them

I'm not trying to dictate young people's choices, I'm not judging young people at all, 21 is literally immature (male or female, that part is irrelevant; my opinion would be the same if it was Joey the 21 year old lad being lovebombed by Christine the 32 year old woman) but I have no issue with the young people in this scenario.

I have an issue with the 30+ year olds who I would prefer to have the moral fortitude to know better.

And I have an issue with people being so desperate to defend it.

Like I said by all means disagree with me, but don't tell me that my opinion can't be my opinion. It's gross. It's pervy.



And try to paint men that don’t agree with you as angry pervs is pathetic

:shrug: OK?

[Parmy]

Away and phone ofcom then.

[thesheriff443]

I'm not trying to dictate young people's choices, I'm not judging young people at all, 21 is literally immature (male or female, that part is irrelevant; my opinion would be the same if it was Joey the 21 year old lad being lovebombed by Christine the 32 year old woman) but I have no issue with the young people in this scenario.

I have an issue with the 30+ year olds who I would prefer to have the moral fortitude to know better.

And I have an issue with people being so desperate to defend it.

Like I said by all means disagree with me, but don't tell me that my opinion can't be my opinion. It's gross. It's pervy.




:shrug: OK?
If people disagree with you it doesn’t make them perverts

[Father Chris Mouse]

I will be somewhat interested to see if they carry this (whatever this is) on on the outside. I wouldn't have thought so though, they literally live in 2 different worlds. Whatever you think of it though, one thing is for absolute certain, nobody in their wildest dreams predicted their "friendship"

[Ammi]

I will be somewhat interested to see if they carry this (whatever this is) on on the outside. I wouldn't have thought so though, they literally live in 2 different worlds. Whatever you think of it though, one thing is for absolute certain, nobody in their wildest dreams predicted their "friendship"

…just a by the by and not connected but I don’t know if you watched Chris’ Love Island season….but the interest in his bromance with Kem was a huge focus of the show and maybe even took on a more interesting aspect than the romantic partnership which he had, it created huge popularity for both him and Kem with the public…obviously they even did TV work together afterwards as a partnership as well…

[Father Chris Mouse]

…just a by the by and not connected but I don’t know if you watched Chris’ Love Island season….but the interest in his bromance with Kem was a huge focus of the show and maybe even took on a more interesting aspect than the romantic partnership which he had, it created huge popularity for both him and Kem with the public…obviously they even did TV work together afterwards as a partnership as well…

Nah, never seen any Love Island, i'd honestly never heard of Chris before went in, had heard of JoJo though

[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

My husband & I are a month apart, but I regard significant differences in marriage as pretty normal. I would say 10 years is a high average here. It most depends on when the partners met, I think. If they meet their partner while younger, it's more likely it'll be closer in age gap. Sometimes dating someone in a different generation makes sense when life becomes slower and a mature relationship is really decided. Some don't want to be married to a peer where everyone is still in the state of mind of figuring everything out. They just want a proper partner without that being the focus. Sometimes a matching of maturity levels is more natural across an age gap. My peer group up until maybe 5-6 years ago maybe were still single, some living at home and definitely not settling down. We had left home at 20 by comparison to our peers and we weren't emulating that process. It was financially difficult, but we were fully independent. If what was available amongst my peers were my options when looking to settle, I would opt older for sure. For me marriage is based around having a strong respect level and loving the other for being their unique person and age is just one small factor in that. I do not want to compete with a partner, which I feel some did in my generation at a much younger age.

Anyway back to Chris & Jojo, I don't care about their age differences. Chris is pure cringe on his own so much that without even having known what his age ever was, I never tied his behavior with it...

Americans are not really closed-minded about age gaps on average, but I can see some areas of the US being more sensitive culturally. It's just it's not at all a common concern or common debate that I've seen... so that's all I can add to that, I think.

[user104658]

To clarify, it's not the age gap it's the age of the younger person. There would be no issue if she was 31 and he was 42 which is the same age gap. It's the fact that she was still in school a couple of years ago. 21 is too young for a bloke in his 30's. That is my opinion and it ain't changing, no matter how many people insist it's fine.

[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

I can ask Trump wtf was he thinking with this Tariff stuff at least?:laugh:

Hell would not be great with Trump because you'd have to listen to one of his rallies non-stop while all the demons clamored for more. Can't imagine much worse than being stuck in a US election campaign season for all eternity.

[thesheriff443]

To clarify, it's not the age gap it's the age of the younger person. There would be no issue if she was 31 and he was 42 which is the same age gap. It's the fact that she was still in school a couple of years ago. 21 is too young for a bloke in his 30's. That is my opinion and it ain't changing, no matter how many people insist it's fine.

What the actual fck

No one wants or needs your approval on this or any other opinion you may hold

Do you actually think people care what you think and are desperate to change your mind

Reality check
You are just some bloke in Scotland who used to work in a betting shop
The end.

[Merry Mockmas]

Hell would not be great with Trump because you'd have to listen to one of his rallies non-stop while all the demons clamored for more. Can't imagine much worse than being stuck in a US election campaign season for all eternity.

Being stuck in a UK Election campaign season for all eternity could push it close tbh.:laugh:

[Merry Mockmas]

Mickey did that

That's terrible.:joker:

[Merry Mockmas]

Exactly - when he was on Love Island she was doing things like "Dance Moms" and selling kids hair bows.

Tbf, he didn't personally know her back then.

Like the Phillip Schofield stuff for example, where he knew the kid from 11 years old. Obviously there's no evidence to suggest anything even worse, like some of Schofield's haters want to believe.

[user104658]

Tbf, he didn't personally know her back then.

Like the Phillip Schofield stuff for example, where he knew the kid from 11 years old. Obviously there's no evidence to suggest anything even worse, like some of Schofield's haters want to believe.

To be fair I'm not saying he's a paedo or anything like that or even that he shouldn't find her physically attractive, as you say it's not "that sort of" age gap, she's not a literal teenager and he's not middle aged+, but I do think she's young enough (and he's old enough) that there's a problematic imbalance there and frankly I think it's actually quite an obvious one from everything we've seen of them. He's an emotional leech with her, monopolises her time, and she doesn't have the age/relationship experience to see it. And as I keep saying I think he knows exactly what he's doing.

[Cherry Christmas]

Coming slightly back on the topic of the thread, I have no idea what she is, she could be faking all the 'chemistry' for airtime, and its something she and Chris have cooked up between them, but I know one thing its very difficult to keep up with the labels people love to put on themselves :laugh:

[ChristmasNeeve]

Coming slightly back on the topic of the thread, I have no idea what she is, she could be faking all the 'chemistry' for airtime, and its something she and Chris have cooked up between them, but I know one thing its very difficult to keep up with the labels people love to put on themselves :laugh:

Remember in the 90's/early noughties when everyone was trying to get rid of labels :laugh:

[user104658]

Coming slightly back on the topic of the thread, I have no idea what she is, she could be faking all the 'chemistry' for airtime, and its something she and Chris have cooked up between them, but I know one thing its very difficult to keep up with the labels people love to put on themselves :laugh:

Well I think that's the crux of it really, she's keen to over-label when ultimately none of it really means anything and it's rare that anyone fully fits into any one specific category.

Plus

... She's young and he's love-bombing her (see it is relevant!) which will only add to the confusion.

[Zizu]

Wish we could go back to the days when Jo Jo would have been called a tomboy

[Parmy]

To be fair I'm not saying he's a paedo or anything like that or even that he shouldn't find her physically attractive, as you say it's not "that sort of" age gap, she's not a literal teenager and he's not middle aged+, but I do think she's young enough (and he's old enough) that there's a problematic imbalance there and frankly I think it's actually quite an obvious one from everything we've seen of them. He's an emotional leech with her, monopolises her time, and she doesn't have the age/relationship experience to see it. And as I keep saying I think he knows exactly what he's doing.




You do realise it's always Jojo going over to his bed when you see them on a bed.

[arista]

She better not ask PM Starmer?

[user104658]

You do realise it's always Jojo going over to his bed when you see them on a bed.

Yes she's in some way infatuated with him (romantic or not only she entirely know, I guess, but it's in some way that doesn't seem like just a good friendship) but that's because like I said this is a guy (the Love Island type) who knows what he's doing/has poured attention on her/constantly telli g her how special she is and how special their relationship is. It's how the vast majority of codependent relationships begin. But he'll drop her for some other "special person" as soon as one crosses his path.

This is part of what I mean about the age thing, this sort of tactic is going to be very ineffective on women his own age who will see right through him, but Jojo is a very wholesome character. I wouldn't even call her naive. She just thinks he's a nicer guy than (I believe) he is because she's not encountered this sort of "seduction technique".

Seriously watch a season of Love Island and you'll see 10 Chris's all doing a variation of this exact "relationship".

[user104658]

I think his brother on the side show thing saying "He is genuine he has loads of friendships like this" is actually very telling. If he has "loads" of "super special" relationships, then NONE of them are special.

[ChristmasNeeve]

I think his brother on the side show thing saying "He is genuine he has loads of friendships like this" is actually very telling. If he has "loads" of "super special" relationships, then NONE of them are special.

Exactly

[Parmy]

I think his brother on the side show thing saying "He is genuine he has loads of friendships like this" is actually very telling. If he has "loads" of "super special" relationships, then NONE of them are special.

Could be special in many many different ways. As in, each friendship is different, but just as special as the others.:shrug:

[Zizu]

Yes she's in some way infatuated with him (romantic or not only she entirely know, I guess, but it's in some way that doesn't seem like just a good friendship) but that's because like I said this is a guy (the Love Island type) who knows what he's doing/has poured attention on her/constantly telli g her how special she is and how special their relationship is. It's how the vast majority of codependent relationships begin. But he'll drop her for some other "special person" as soon as one crosses his path.

This is part of what I mean about the age thing, this sort of tactic is going to be very ineffective on women his own age who will see right through him, but Jojo is a very wholesome character. I wouldn't even call her naive. She just thinks he's a nicer guy than (I believe) he is because she's not encountered this sort of "seduction technique".

Seriously watch a season of Love Island and you'll see 10 Chris's all doing a variation of this exact "relationship".


Didn’t his own brother reveal that it’s one of his traits / behaviours ?

[user104658]

Could be special in many many different ways. As in, each friendship is different, but just as special as the others.:shrug:

He said Chris is "the same" with lots of people as what we've seen on the show, it was a whole back to be fair, probably before the thigh rubbing etc. started.

[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

Could be special in many many different ways. As in, each friendship is different, but just as special as the others.:shrug:

So basically, he just has normal friendships :laugh:

I love our celebrities HMs. Anything to avoid being just normal.

[Parmy]

So basically, he just has normal friendships :laugh:

I love our celebrities HMs. Anything to avoid being just normal.




Was a bit weird tonight though.:joker:

[Merry Mockmas]

To be fair I'm not saying he's a paedo or anything like that or even that he shouldn't find her physically attractive, as you say it's not "that sort of" age gap, she's not a literal teenager and he's not middle aged+, but I do think she's young enough (and he's old enough) that there's a problematic imbalance there and frankly I think it's actually quite an obvious one from everything we've seen of them. He's an emotional leech with her, monopolises her time, and she doesn't have the age/relationship experience to see it. And as I keep saying I think he knows exactly what he's doing.

Fair enough.

I controversially don't believe that Chris is that bad, he definitely has his flaws imo, but I don't know if he is that sinister personally.

[Merry Mockmas]

Remember in the 90's/early noughties when everyone was trying to get rid of labels :laugh:

I'm still in that time period mentally.

I hate this new era where people try to make labels their entire personality.

[ChristmasNeeve]

I'm still in that time period mentally.



I hate this new era where people try to make labels their entire personality.Yeah me too