View Full Version : Female police officer, old enough to have kids the same age as an overdosing 15yr old
Probably my last thread I start for a while, but I saw a post yesterday callling the Dutch women's football team bitches. I thought that was rather uncalled for, but then this video popped up on my you tube subs page yesterday., and it got me thinking when's a good time to call a woman a bitch.
So it alll starts 8 minutes into the video and runs for 22 minutes..It's a hard, and very upsetting watch that features a 15 year old on the brink of death from drugs......
But it's the policewoman reaction that I want you to judge and discuss.
Please be aware it is graphic and unsettling..
But this bitch needs outed...and possibly charged with criminal neglect.
Here is the video.
https://youtu.be/Lr8GCGxb8XI?si=lPUKir3yTIHVwPEk
I cannot fathom filming content showing a minor high on drugs and uploading it so he is seen by over 300,000 subscribers, calling a police woman passive aggressive and then telling her what she should and shouldn't be eating, and then taking the moral high ground.
Imagine that being your hobby. Ew.
I cannot fathom filming content showing a minor high on drugs and uploading it so he is seen by over 300,000 subscribers, calling a police woman passive aggressive and then telling her what she should and shouldn't be eating, and then taking the moral high ground.
Imagine that being your hobby. Ew.
As long as you are happy with her actions I will know I'm in the right calling her the bitch she is.
As long as you are happy with her actions I will know I'm in the right calling her the bitch she is.
All I see is a police woman matching his energy. I agree that in theory the police should have gone over to investigate, but we don't know what's going on the background, this could be part of a wider monitoring situation. We don't know.
Glad you spend time thinking about when is a good time to call women bitches though. That's a great character trait. Nice one.
All I see is a police woman matching his energy. I agree that in theory the police should have gone over to investigate, but we don't know what's going on the background, this could be part of a wider monitoring situation. We don't know.
Glad you spend time thinking about when is a good time to call women bitches though. That's a great character trait. Nice one.
I don't normally. You just don't get it. I suggest you move along now to a subject you know a bit more about.
You obviously don't have kids.
Cherie
09-07-2025, 03:31 PM
Playing devils advocate, I didn't think she handled it that badly, what she said was perfectly acceptable, he was intimidated out of calling the ambulance or the police during the incident, he decided to contact the police after the fact, but as she said that is why the police were there because of trouble in the area, and he did say the guy had come round so what was she supposed to do, and he wouldnt give her his name, I am sure she see has contact with loads of muppets every day, she was a bit condescending but not a bitch by any stretch
Playing devils advocate, I didn't think she handled it that badly, what she said was perfectly acceptable, he was intimidated out of calling the ambulance or the police during the incident, he decided to contact the police after the fact, but as she said that is why the police were there because of trouble in the area, and he did say the guy had come round so what was she supposed to do, and he wouldnt give her his name, I am sure she see has contact with loads of muppets every day, she was a bit condescending but not a bitch by any stretch
She's sat on her scrawny bitch ass in that van in that area, thete because of the public nuisances and rising street crime...she basically tellling him to leave the park if he is feeling threatened....the sama park their presence is supposed to be stopping the things she's telling him to leave the park for...she wasn't listening to any of his concerns, instead she gaslit him.
I swear to god, do any off you work! Cause i just find it impossible for tax payers to be happy about this.
Cherie
09-07-2025, 03:48 PM
She's sat on her scrawny bitch ass in that van in that area, thete because of the public nuisances and rising street crime...she basically tellling him to leave the park if he is feeling threatened....the sama park their presence is supposed to be stopping the things she's telling him to leave the park for...she wasn't listening to any of his concerns, instead she gaslit him.
I swear to god, do any off you work! Cause i just find it impossible for tax payers to be happy about this.
I would hope that the reason they are there is to dissuade drug dealers in the park, yes instead of all being in the van they should have been walking in pairs in the park but maybe they were on their break, I dont know at least she spoke to him the male officers were more bothered about getting on Youtube and why was he so bothered about what she was eating it was all very bizarre
But it's the policewoman reaction that I want you to judge and discuss.
https://i.ytimg.com/vi/LeY1S8jiidQ/maxresdefault.jpg
I suggest you move along now to a subject you know a bit more about.
Make up your mind :laugh:
Like Cherie said, at most she was somewhat patronising, but so was he? On face value, you'd want the police to go and investigate, but we don't know what came before or after, or the larger scale of things behind the scenes.
No I don't have kids, but not sure how that's relevant. I still understand how morally reprehensible it is to upload video footage of a minor struggling with a high to show hundreds of thousands of followers.
https://i.ytimg.com/vi/LeY1S8jiidQ/maxresdefault.jpg
Make up your mind :laugh:
Like Cherie said, at most she was somewhat patronising, but so was he? On face value, you'd want the police to go and investigate, but we don't know what came before or after, or the larger scale of things behind the scenes.
No I don't have kids, but not sure how that's relevant. I still understand how morally reprehensible it is to upload video footage of a minor struggling with a high to show hundreds of thousands of followers.
You do realise he could have had a massive heart attack at any moment...so it's not simply struggling with a high as you put it.....any parent watching this then seeing this so called woman's response when told about such a dangerous event will not be happy. It was o my max 100 yards away, how on earth can the sit there and diismiss it so easily....especially her being a seargeant as well.
I also don't take kindly to pathetic memes used to belittle people.
I also don't take kindly to pathetic memes used to belittle people.
I gave my opinion on the policewoman and the man filming as per the thread, you replied with a comment about my personal character, followed by telling me to “move along to things I know more about” and then when I use a SpongeBob SquarePants meme to illustrate your inconsistencies you complain about being belittled.
Dude, I simply matched the energy you immediately bought to the conversation. I gave my opinion like you invited people to do so and then you took it personally and then acted like a victim of belittlement.
What’s that phrase…something about stones and glasses houses…
Barry.
09-07-2025, 04:46 PM
You could call her rude but why would you find a reason to call another woman a bitch?
Mystic Mock
09-07-2025, 04:47 PM
I also don't take kindly to pathetic memes used to belittle people.
Spongebob is never pathetic.:nono::laugh:
Mystic Mock
09-07-2025, 04:50 PM
You could call her rude but why would you find a reason to call another woman a bitch?
Tbf, some women can genuinely be bitches.
I don't know about this particular case though tbh, as I haven't watched the video yet.
Barry.
09-07-2025, 04:52 PM
Tbf, some women can genuinely be bitches.
I don't know about this particular case though tbh, as I haven't watched the video yet.
I don’t think she was that bad
Cherie
09-07-2025, 05:00 PM
I think you should be more cross with the guy filming, the lad was clearly out of it, and I think it was sheer luck he started coming round, he should have dialled 999 there and then and asked for the police and the ambulance, I am not too sure why he was comfortable walking away, then he took it out on the police woman who told him what he should have done, but he knew that, and for all we know once he walked away they headed over there anyway, maybe they didn't want him getting footage for his channel, and I don't blame them because they get all sorts of flak
it's not a word i would use in a thread title .... just saying
I think you should be more cross with the guy filming, the lad was clearly out of it, and I think it was sheer luck he started coming round, he should have dialled 999 there and then and asked for the police and the ambulance, I am not too sure why he was comfortable walking away, then he took it out on the police woman who told him what he should have done, but he knew that, and for all we know once he walked away they headed over there anyway, maybe they didn't want him getting footage for his channel, and I don't blame them because they get all sorts of flak
I agree. I think her (quite rightly) pointing out white should have done made him feel embarrassed for not doing it and then he took it out on her.
You could call her rude but why would you find a reason to call another woman a bitch?
Simply because I've seen the whole Dutch womens football team called bitches for no reason at all on here yesterday, and as my original post points out the answer to your question I won't bother repeating myself.
Don't you think a competent police officer would have said "could you show me where this happened, sir" right at the start of the conversation ?
Instead of condecending him, and belittling him like she did over and over again. Showing absolutely no interest in his concern for the things that were happen8ng no more than 100 yards away. To busy rattling her pink fingernails on her paperwork and listening to her own voice. More deserving, and with reason, a reason to call a woman a bitch. Unlike randomly calling a football team bitches.
I gave my opinion on the policewoman and the man filming as per the thread, you replied with a comment about my personal character, followed by telling me to “move along to things I know more about” and then when I use a SpongeBob SquarePants meme to illustrate your inconsistencies you complain about being belittled.
Dude, I simply matched the energy you immediately bought to the conversation. I gave my opinion like you invited people to do so and then you took it personally and then acted like a victim of belittlement.
What’s that phrase…something about stones and glasses houses…
You didn't look at it objectively because of your distaste for Youtube public content creators, and the people who watch the content.
How else could you find that level of policing acceptable. Disgusting.
You didn't look at it objectively because of your distaste for Youtube public content creators, and the people who watch the content.
How else could you find that level of policing acceptable. Disgusting.
I found his behaviour more problematic than hers because in reality it was. I mean, even Cherie and I agree on this and that’s rare! :laugh:
I think you should be more cross with the guy filming, the lad was clearly out of it, and I think it was sheer luck he started coming round, he should have dialled 999 there and then and asked for the police and the ambulance, I am not too sure why he was comfortable walking away, then he took it out on the police woman who told him what he should have done, but he knew that, and for all we know once he walked away they headed over there anyway, maybe they didn't want him getting footage for his channel, and I don't blame them because they get all sorts of flak
Journalists are like people on safari watching a lion suffocate a baby dear..they don't interfere. He should have called an ambulance though.. the police did Jack **** afterwards as he walks back round and over the bridge by the spot he was in and the exact same was happening again, with no police to be seen.
Beggars belief that all the events that took place it's the guy with the spy glasses getting the flak.
I found his behaviour more problematic than hers because in reality it was. I mean, even Cherie and I agree on this and that’s rare! :laugh:
Problematic, for reporting crime to the police...or trying to at least. Her subway was the only thing on her mind..
I'm.not sure if you and Cherie have watched this with the sound turned down cause she's basically telling him they are there to prevent crime whilst telling him not to go in the park because of crime! Not one of them thought to ask to be shown where it took place..mot one of them could be arsed.
Paid to sit on their arses mocking the public all under that bitches leadership.
Cherie
09-07-2025, 05:24 PM
Problematic, for reporting crime to the police...or trying to at least. Her subway was the only thing on her mind..
I'm.not sure if you and Cherie have watched this with the sound turned down cause she's basically telling him they are there to prevent crime whilst telling him not to go in the park because of crime! Not one of them thought to ask to be shown where it took place..mot one of them could be arsed.
Paid to sit on their arses mocking the public all under that bitches leadership.
I agree that was not her finest hour
Mystic Mock
09-07-2025, 06:06 PM
I don’t think she was that bad
I've just finished watching the video.
Tbh she did come across as extremely disinterested about the whole scenario, which considering the topic was about a minor getting high on Drugs to the point of passing out, imo isn't a good look for her.
However, I think that this might be the most unlikable YouTuber that I have ever had the misfortune of watching.
The way that he was zooming in on the group of black people just going about their day was extremely weird.
The way that he was zooming in on the group of black people just going about their day was extremely weird.
Wasn't it paired with commentary like "there are some....... interesting looking characters in there"
Aside from all of that, he also said the city was on the decline because loads of the shops were closed.
I visited Coventry for work recently, and if he bothered to do any kind of reading about where he was going like I did, he would know all those shops are vacant because they're being bulldozed due to a £450 million redevelopment, not because the city is on the decline.
Mystic Mock
09-07-2025, 06:37 PM
Wasn't it paired with commentary like "there are some....... interesting looking characters in there"
Aside from all of that, he also said the city was on the decline because loads of the shops were closed.
I visited Coventry for work recently, and if he bothered to do any kind of reading about where he was going like I did, he would know all those shops are vacant because they're being bulldozed due to a £450 million redevelopment, not because the city is on the decline.
Correct, he thought that he was hitting the jackpot when he made that comment.
And people like him just love to bash the Midlands, it's sad really.
Glenn.
09-07-2025, 06:42 PM
Wasn't it paired with commentary like "there are some....... interesting looking characters in there"
Aside from all of that, he also said the city was on the decline because loads of the shops were closed.
I visited Coventry for work recently, and if he bothered to do any kind of reading about where he was going like I did, he would know all those shops are vacant because they're being bulldozed due to a £450 million redevelopment, not because the city is on the decline.
Sounds grim.
I won’t be watching the video but by the sounds of it I don’t think it should be on YT. Sounds extremely grim.
Wasn't it paired with commentary like "there are some....... interesting looking characters in there"
Aside from all of that, he also said the city was on the decline because loads of the shops were closed.
I visited Coventry for work recently, and if he bothered to do any kind of reading about where he was going like I did, he would know all those shops are vacant because they're being bulldozed due to a £450 million redevelopment, not because the city is on the decline.
It shows a real commitment to creating a welcoming, inclusive community in the city centre.” Phase one of the £450m regeneration will deliver 991 new homes, 8,000 sq m of commercial space and 17,000 sq m of new public open space, transforming this site in the heart of the city.
Bet they move the drug taking teenage girls and boys and the older looking immigrant types when it's complete.
Sounds grim.
I won’t be watching the video but by the sounds of it I don’t think it should be on YT. Sounds extremely grim.
You can skip that part all it showed was a group of older looking immigrants hanging around 15 year old girls getting high on fake drugs, to the point of passing out...fast forward to get to the near death situation and the female police seargwnts response to a member of the public's concern.
Jordan.
09-07-2025, 08:16 PM
the last desperate attempt of a gotcha because.. she took a bite of her lunch. He knew he got shown up :joker:
Glenn.
09-07-2025, 09:26 PM
You can skip that part all it showed was a group of older looking immigrants hanging around 15 year old girls getting high on fake drugs, to the point of passing out...fast forward to get to the near death situation and the female police seargwnts response to a member of the public's concern.
Thanks for the summary, but if I wanted a paranoid rant laced with casual racism, I’d check the comments on a Daily Mail article.
It's good to see the childless Tibb members all meeting in one place, but.
Move along now. You dont get it.
The mother of the child has commented, and liked my comment. So perhaps her word should be the final word in this police sergeants reaction to a serious issue.
Glenn.
09-07-2025, 10:03 PM
It's good to see the childless Tibb members all meeting in one place, but.
Move along now. You dont get it.
Ah, the classic “you wouldn’t understand because you don’t have kids” line. Groundbreaking stuff.
A question I would hope everyone who has particpated answers.
After they all view the video how do these 3 people feel.
The 15yr old.
The police sergeant.
The video maker.
Ah, the classic “you wouldn’t understand because you don’t have kids” line. Groundbreaking stuff.
You wouldn't understand cause you don't have a kid that has died from legal highs. So you wouldn't understand the emotions of watching a video where police officers are idly standing by doing nothing, yards from a group of 15-16 year olds gambling with their lives.
I'm not saying that to garner sympathy either, it happened in 2012 and I'm well used to dealing with my own ****.
Glenn.
09-07-2025, 10:16 PM
You don’t have to be a parent to know how to parent, it’s not some divine gift bestowed the moment someone reproduces. Plenty of people without kids have more sense, compassion, and responsibility than some who do. Being a parent doesn’t automatically make you wise, and it certainly doesn’t make you right.
You don’t have to be a parent to know how to parent, it’s not some divine gift bestowed the moment someone reproduces. Plenty of people without kids have more sense, compassion, and responsibility than some who do. Being a parent doesn’t automatically make you wise, and it certainly doesn’t make you right.
By laws of average you are talking shite..
Until you experience it you know Jack ****. To never experience being a parent puts you one foot on the bottom rung of the ladder on the ladder of parenting experience.
it's not so much about not being a parent, although it does change people because it is at the front of your thoughts 24/7 from the moment they are born. Non parents just don't have that experience.
Every single one of our thoughts and behaviours is shaped by our experiences, whether that is directly or indirectly. It stll shapes who you are. If we were all the same, nobody would think or behave differently from anyone else
Glenn.
09-07-2025, 10:26 PM
By laws of average you are talking shite..
Until you experience it you know Jack ****. To never experience being a parent puts you one foot on the bottom rung of the ladder on the ladder of parenting experience.
By that logic, midwives, teachers, and child psychologists must all be clueless too. Experience matters, sure — but so does common sense, observation, and not talking out your arse like parenting is some mystical elite club.
By that logic, midwives, teachers, and child psychologists must all be clueless too. Experience matters, sure — but so does common sense, observation, and not talking out your arse like parenting is some mystical elite club.
Midwives don't talk to children in the womb..so we can agree to erase that one. Teachers don't parent, they teach. Or should do..they ain't allowed to belt kids now, cause that isn't in the job description. A teacher had no clue to the parenting of a child amd shouldnt be getting involved in anything. Unless perhaps the child has psychological trauma symptoms. That's when they pick up the phone to the child psychologist who hopefully has went through enough training that makes them independent to social services.
it's not so much about not being a parent, although it does change people because it is at the front of your thoughts 24/7 from the moment they are born. Non parents just don't have that experience.
Every single one of our thoughts and behaviours is shaped by our experiences, whether that is directly or indirectly. It stll shapes who you are. If we were all the same, nobody would think or behave differently from anyone else
Ain't that the truth.
So as a parent and maybe I'm assuming, grandparent. How do you view this police woman's reaction to what is admittedly a poor description of what was happening by this YouTube's.
Glenn.
09-07-2025, 10:39 PM
Midwives don't talk to children in the womb..so we can agree to erase that one. Teachers don't parent, they teach. Or should do..they ain't allowed to belt kids now, cause that isn't in the job description. A teacher had no clue to the parenting of a child amd shouldnt be getting involved in anything. Unless perhaps the child has psychological trauma symptoms. That's when they pick up the phone to the child psychologist who hopefully has went through enough training that makes them independent to social services.
You’re bending over backwards to gatekeep something that millions of people get wrong every single day. Being a parent doesn’t automatically make you an expert, it just means you had sex and didn’t pull out. That’s biology, not brilliance.
Let’s not pretend pushing a pram qualifies someone to lecture the world on morals, discipline, or emotional intelligence. Plenty of people without kids have more insight into child welfare than some parents who think screaming and a tablet is a parenting strategy.
If being a parent truly made someone wise, empathetic, or all-knowing, social services would be out of a job, and spoiler alert: they’re busier than ever.
Mystic Mock
10-07-2025, 12:57 AM
Thanks for the summary, but if I wanted a paranoid rant laced with casual racism, I’d check the comments on a Daily Mail article.
The Daily Mail stuff is more entertaining tbh.
Mystic Mock
10-07-2025, 01:04 AM
You wouldn't understand cause you don't have a kid that has died from legal highs. So you wouldn't understand the emotions of watching a video where police officers are idly standing by doing nothing, yards from a group of 15-16 year olds gambling with their lives.
I'm not saying that to garner sympathy either, it happened in 2012 and I'm well used to dealing with my own ****.
I'm sorry to hear about that Beso, I can't imagine what it must've been like for you.
And I do agree with you that the Policewoman and the rest of her team should've shown more interest in what the YouTuber was telling them.
I do however not trust the YouTuber's motive in this case.
You wouldn't understand cause you don't have a kid that has died from legal highs. So you wouldn't understand the emotions of watching a video where police officers are idly standing by doing nothing, yards from a group of 15-16 year olds gambling with their lives.
I'm not saying that to garner sympathy either, it happened in 2012 and I'm well used to dealing with my own ****.
Sorry to hear that, Beso. I understand your reaction to the video a bit better now.
I know you said I wasn't looking at the scenario objectively, but I would suggest nor were you, which is fair enough, but may be worth considering when discussing the subject with others and your reaction to their reaction.
I based my opinion off what I saw rather what I didn't see. I don't believe the guy showed any genuine concern about the lad when discussing it with the officer - he was sometimes passive aggressive, he hung around the police van for almost 10 minutes before saying anything - his whole demeanour wasn't one of a member of the public seeking help, but rather finding ways to embarrass authority, whether it was questioning what she should or shouldn't do, or criticising her diet. For that reason, she probably thought he was a busy-body time waster. It probably happens all the time.
Aside from that, we don't know what came after or before. They could have been waiting on a tip off for a larger situation, they could have called it in afterwards, these kids could be in regular trouble and they're aware of the situation. We just don't know.
I don't really know what the mother has said, but it would be super interesting to know her view of the police if they'd gone and investigated, because the kid would have probably been sent to hospital, and the social services would then been involved and the parents would now be facing questions of why their 15 year old was taking drugs in a park. At that point, guess who would have been involved? The school.
I'm not sure if you have any teacher friends, but teachers are absolutely expected to parent nowadays. It's completely unreasonable, but it's true. The level of expectation and responsibility that is expected of them- often from the parents themselves - is ridiculous.. Did you know that one in four kids who start school nowadays aren't even potty trained?
I would concede that on an emotive level, those without kids don't understand fully, but that doesn't mean they're not capable of assessing situations involving kids and know what's right or wrong. I am not a pilot but if I see a helicopter in a tree I know someone ****ed up.
By the very definition of the world, having a child is the most average thing humans do - it's literally just reproduction and the entire animal kingdom do it, it takes no skill. Raising children is a different thing, and I would consider the idea that those who have actively chosen not to have children have thought about it more than those who have chosen to have kids: they have considered every specific element of what parenting entails and decided to go against the grain of society - often to the judgement of those around them. They know exactly what it is like to be a parent because it's what has informed their decision not to have them. These people might have nieces or nephews, may have seen their friends raise their kids, or are often older siblings who had to raise their younger siblings because their own parents didn't.
The amount of people I know who said they had kids "because it's what you do". They just did it because it was 'the next step' without ever really thinking of what it entails. I've been called selfish for choosing not to have kids and then in the next breath they asked me who would look after me when I was old, like having kids is some retirement plan.
Reproducing doesn't open up a gate of divine wisdom and clearer judgement, and it's been proven time and time again, and so dismissing the opinions of those who haven't really doesn't stand up.
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