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Heyas! Well the thing is I really like this guy. He's like a really good friend of mine, and I'm like in love with him, and I know it's not a crush, it's like the real thing, but he's straight which is big obstacle. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for me on what to do and what NOT to do. lol.
Thanx.
Bells
08-08-2007, 05:47 PM
You're all probably experiencing a lot of different feelings at the moment. An option would be to subtly hint at your current feelings to him - one method's talking about a dream where you two might be together, and see how he reacts. I'm assuming he's aware you're into guys, in which case it shouldn't be much of a shock to him.
Well yea, he's aware of my sexuality...i think. If he isn't, then he is very VERY stupid. lol. Well I have sort of dropped hints, but I dunno if he's getting them.
Billy
08-08-2007, 05:50 PM
I dont think theres anything youi can really do. If hes straight then nothings gonna change thaaat.
Do what I do. Spike his drink and take advantage of him.
Yeah, I know, but sometimes and this may be me just hoping, but I get the impression that he likes guys too. Because he is very friendly to me, much friendlier than any of my other straight friends.
Originally posted by Stu
Do what I do. Spike his drink and take advantage of him.
Lol. I think I will have to give that a miss. Maybe next time. lol.
Billy
08-08-2007, 05:53 PM
LMFAO Stu. Just tell him, if hes a good friend he shouldnt really care and that way youll find out if he likes you (I know thats a bit easier said than done)
Erm, well, I don't want it to ruin our friendship if he doesn't, cuz it's happened before with girls, so I can't imagine what it would be like with him.
Lauren
08-08-2007, 05:55 PM
Get him drunk!
If that fails, then there's nothing much else you can do. Don't tell him your feelings for him.
That's what my friends keep telling me - not to tell him, but sometimes it gets too much, and I'm like "ahhhh. i love you" lol. Well I whisper it so he doesnt hear. lol.
Originally posted by Lauren
Get him drunk!
Ditto. Thats a great way to maul on to some of your straight friends. Men always kiss each other when drunk. Particulary on new years.
Billy
08-08-2007, 05:57 PM
Listen to AuntieLauren, (Lauren give this advice tomoz) Just get him drunk
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
Lauren
08-08-2007, 05:58 PM
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Lauren
Get him drunk!
Ditto. Thats a great way to maul on to some of your straight friends. Men always kiss each other when drunk. Particulary on new years.
Exactly, my best friend is gay and it's a wonder how many times this has worked for him :laugh: You're all just closets! *dramatic spin*
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get pissed in their! Bring him along!
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get p****d in their! Bring him along!
Erm..no. Lol. Im waiting til im 17 or 18. Im a very innocent, law abiding boy lol.
I could bring him I spose, and then I would do it in the spur of the moment cuz i was "so excited" lol.
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get p****d in their! Bring him along!
Erm..no. Lol. Im waiting til Im 17 or 18. Im a very innocent, law abiding boy lol.
I could bring him I spose, and then I would do it in the spur of the moment cuz i was "so excited" lol.
As soon as you drink your perspective on almost everything is likely to change. You only live once , so just get in their and go for it , forget the law and have a good time. Theirs more to underage drinking than a bunch of scumbags downing some cheap lager behind a chipper. It can be an art.
Lauren
08-08-2007, 06:03 PM
And lets be fair, Gerard Way brings the gay out in all of us.
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get p****d in their! Bring him along!
Erm..no. Lol. Im waiting til Im 17 or 18. Im a very innocent, law abiding boy lol.
I could bring him I spose, and then I would do it in the spur of the moment cuz i was "so excited" lol.
As soon as you drink your perspective on almost everything is likely to change. You only live once , so just get in their and go for it , forget the law and have a good time. Theirs more to underage drinking than a bunch of scumbags downing some cheap lager behind a chipper. It can be an art.
Hmmm? I spose. But it would be explaining to my parents. I've never been drunk before, so I don't know what I'm like. I would probably come home singing and hugging everyone then I would sit down and fall asleep. lol.
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get p****d in their! Bring him along!
Erm..no. Lol. Im waiting til Im 17 or 18. Im a very innocent, law abiding boy lol.
I could bring him I spose, and then I would do it in the spur of the moment cuz i was "so excited" lol.
As soon as you drink your perspective on almost everything is likely to change. You only live once , so just get in their and go for it , forget the law and have a good time. Theirs more to underage drinking than a bunch of scumbags downing some cheap lager behind a chipper. It can be an art.
Hmmm? I spose. But it would be explaining to my parents. I've never been drunk before, so I don't know what I'm like. I would probably come home singing and hugging everyone then I would sit down and fall asleep. lol.
But your going to a concert right? Drink before hand and youll be sober by the time you get out of their!!!
Originally posted by Lauren
And lets be fair, Gerard Way brings the gay out in all of us.
Oh yes he does. lol.
And to just clarify, Im not gay. lol.
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get p****d in their! Bring him along!
Erm..no. Lol. Im waiting til Im 17 or 18. Im a very innocent, law abiding boy lol.
I could bring him I spose, and then I would do it in the spur of the moment cuz i was "so excited" lol.
As soon as you drink your perspective on almost everything is likely to change. You only live once , so just get in their and go for it , forget the law and have a good time. Theirs more to underage drinking than a bunch of scumbags downing some cheap lager behind a chipper. It can be an art.
Hmmm? I spose. But it would be explaining to my parents. I've never been drunk before, so I don't know what I'm like. I would probably come home singing and hugging everyone then I would sit down and fall asleep. lol.
But your going to a concert right? Drink before hand and youll be sober by the time you get out of their!!!
That's a good idea. =) But they might not let me in drunk. lol.
Lauren
08-08-2007, 06:10 PM
Haha, being drunk doesn't mean you're rowdy and loud and totally out of control. You can act sober to get inside.
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well that's a bit difficult for me, cuz we are both 14. lol..
You dont drink? Hmm , tricky. Your going to a my chemical romance concert right? Get p****d in their! Bring him along!
Erm..no. Lol. Im waiting til Im 17 or 18. Im a very innocent, law abiding boy lol.
I could bring him I spose, and then I would do it in the spur of the moment cuz i was "so excited" lol.
As soon as you drink your perspective on almost everything is likely to change. You only live once , so just get in their and go for it , forget the law and have a good time. Theirs more to underage drinking than a bunch of scumbags downing some cheap lager behind a chipper. It can be an art.
Hmmm? I spose. But it would be explaining to my parents. I've never been drunk before, so I don't know what I'm like. I would probably come home singing and hugging everyone then I would sit down and fall asleep. lol.
But your going to a concert right? Drink before hand and youll be sober by the time you get out of their!!!
That's a good idea. =) But they might not let me in drunk. lol.
Id reccomend alcopops. Cheap , easy and fun. Your not gonna be falling at the doors.
And your NOT gay you say?! I presumed you were! Thats really odd! Cool I suppose :thumbs:.
Billy
08-08-2007, 06:11 PM
Laurens drunk most nights shes on here and she hasnt offended anyone, YET
Lol. I'm half gay - well bisexual. lol. Ive always wanted to try an alcopop! Blue WKD smells great! lol.
Lauren
08-08-2007, 06:13 PM
Originally posted by OfficialSuperstar
Laurens drunk most nights shes on here and she hasnt offended anyone, YET
Hahah, exactly :laugh:
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. I'm half gay - well bisexual. lol. Ive always wanted to try an alcopop! Blue WKD smells great! lol.
Tastes even better. Im sort of an expert on cheap sissy alcopop drinks. Id rather drink 20 of them than any albanian donkey piss cans of icky spirits.
20 bottles are not very discreet but meh. its a sacrafice worth making.
Lol. I might have a bottle...or two...or 10. lol. But Ive never had alcohol like EVER, so one bottle will probably knock me out. lol.
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. I might have a bottle...or two...or 10. lol. But Ive never had alcohol like EVER, so one bottle will probably knock me out. lol.
Alcopop? Trust me , it wont. Alcopop is as weak as ****. 4 to get you tipsy , and thats handy , because they come in fours.
I like the 24 bottle slab myself but hey its your first time :thumbs:.
Loukas
08-08-2007, 06:21 PM
whats he look like
Lol. Well I shall see when I go.
And he is very good looking which makes me even more nervous, cuz I think I'm not good enough for him, cuz Im not that good looking.
Loukas
08-08-2007, 06:26 PM
info i need info
eyes, nose, smile, mouth
info please lol
Lauren
08-08-2007, 06:28 PM
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well I shall see when I go.
And he is very good looking which makes me even more nervous, cuz I think I'm not good enough for him, cuz Im not that good looking.
I hate it when people say this. NO-ONE is ever out of your league. We're all humans at the end of the day, why is anyone ever above you? Think of it this way, everyone is accessible to you.
Loukas
08-08-2007, 06:29 PM
Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well I shall see when I go.
And he is very good looking which makes me even more nervous, cuz I think I'm not good enough for him, cuz Im not that good looking.
I hate it when people say this. NO-ONE is ever out of your league. We're all humans at the end of the day, why is anyone ever above you? Think of it this way, everyone is accessible to you.
FAN-TAS-TIC WORDS
here here
shes right tho noel
I spose. I think it's just I have a very low self asteem, which is probably why i havent been with anyone in like 2 years. lol. But I am actually a very ugly person, and I dont mind that, but it does put people off. lol.
Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Well I shall see when I go.
And he is very good looking which makes me even more nervous, cuz I think I'm not good enough for him, cuz Im not that good looking.
I hate it when people say this. NO-ONE is ever out of your league. We're all humans at the end of the day, why is anyone ever above you? Think of it this way, everyone is accessible to you.
Lifes a bitch sometimes. I completely see what your saying but real life proves you wrong instantly. Its a cruel world , and lots of nice looking people [by the cosmetic definition of nice looking] only want to go out with other nice looking people , its just the way the world works.
But in regards to Noel , you can never be the judge of how you think you look because you see yourself every day and you are , well , you. Who knows what he thinks. Looks are not the problem , the problem is that he is straight lol.
Originally posted by doubletrouble
info i need info
eyes, nose, smile, mouth
info please lol
Well his eyes are very big and blue, he has a round, small nose, but its red, but I dont mind, his smiles really nice and so is his mouth. lol.
Well I shall have to turn him gay wont I. lol.
Originally posted by Noel
Well I shall have to turn him gay wont I. lol.
Bingo. Which leads back to the drink :joker::joker::joker:.
Lol. Everything leads to drink! lol.
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. Everything leads to drink! lol.
And drink leads to more drink. And the occasional Kebab.
Which leads to Kebab Partay! Woooh!
Captain.Remy
08-08-2007, 07:00 PM
I have a friend who is gay and one day he told me what he was feeling for me, I'm straight and I was really surprised, I didn't expect that. I'm really aware with homosexuality, it doesn't matter for me if he's gay or not, I don't mind that. But when he told me that I was confused, embarrassed, it was nothing against him it was really surprising I didn't know what to say or how to react, I didn't want to laugh because he was serious. I said I'm straight and he was just a friend and nothing more. Since we don't talk to each other because we talk less and less.
Make the good choice. :thumbs:
Originally posted by sunshine30
I have a friend who is gay and one day he told me what he was feeling for me, I'm straight and I was really surprised, I didn't expect that. I'm really aware with homosexuality, it doesn't matter for me if he's gay or not, I don't mind that. But when he told me that I was confused, embarrassed, it was nothing against him it was really surprising I didn't know what to say or how to react, I didn't want to laugh because he was serious. I said I'm straight and he was just a friend and nothing more. Since we don't talk to each other because we talk less and less.
Make the good choice. :thumbs:
It should be no big deal. Play it off. People cant help their feelings - you should be glad someone in the world liked you - gay or not.
Thats what Im afraid of. Him not wanting to know me anymore.
Originally posted by Noel
Thats what Im afraid of. Him not wanting to know me anymore.
If he is in any way human he will respect the fact that you told him.
Well he is a very decent guy. He should understand.
Originally posted by Noel
Well he is a very decent guy. He should understand.
Decent guys will :thumbs:.
If not , go with the idea of the drink spiking:thumbs: .
I shall! Lol. Oj. Thanx for all your advice everyone!
Conzors
08-08-2007, 07:18 PM
I think you should tell him your feelings, ( i know thats easier sad than done) and if he respects you,in the way that you respect him, and if he is a really good friend, he will understand.
so i say tell him how you feel,
im not good withg iving people advice though soo..
Lol. But it's not as if I can just ring him and say "I love you" and hang up, is it? IT would be really hard.
Lauren
08-08-2007, 07:21 PM
If he's definitely straight, I don't see what you'd get from telling him? I think you should keep it to yourself.
Conzors
08-08-2007, 07:22 PM
Originally posted by Noel
Lol. But it's not as if I can just ring him and say "I love you" and hang up, is it? IT would be really hard.
i see your point,
ummm...
i dont know then
sorry
Billy
08-08-2007, 07:24 PM
I dont think you should tell him. If hes straight hes hardly goin to say ok, I know people are saying that if he respects you n stuff it will be fine but people arent all like that. He may get uncomfortable and you could lose any friendship you 2 have
Captain.Remy
08-08-2007, 07:24 PM
Message original : Stu
Originally posted by sunshine30
I have a friend who is gay and one day he told me what he was feeling for me, I'm straight and I was really surprised, I didn't expect that. I'm really aware with homosexuality, it doesn't matter for me if he's gay or not, I don't mind that. But when he told me that I was confused, embarrassed, it was nothing against him it was really surprising I didn't know what to say or how to react, I didn't want to laugh because he was serious. I said I'm straight and he was just a friend and nothing more. Since we don't talk to each other because we talk less and less.
Make the good choice. :thumbs:
It should be no big deal. Play it off. People cant help their feelings - you should be glad someone in the world liked you - gay or not.
I'm glad because I'm even liked by gay people lol
I completely understand, I'm a decent guy, I was really surprised and confused I didn't know what to think at that moment. He was a good friend but I always asking "when he made me a compliment, is the friend or the lover who's talking ?".
If you have to do it, be really careful I know what I'm talking about. :thumbs:
Captain.Remy
08-08-2007, 07:26 PM
Message original : OfficialSuperstar
I dont think you should tell him. If hes straight hes hardly goin to say ok, I know people are saying that if he respects you n stuff it will be fine but people arent all like that. He may get uncomfortable and you could lose any friendship you 2 have
That's exactly what happened with me, now we don't talk to each other, we aren't angry against each other it's just we took some distance from each other as I know what he was feeling, I didn't want to have any problems with my girlfriend. I respect him a lot and I aprreciate what he said but sometimes even if you are aware or decent, even if you understand, you're feeling embarrassed in front of that situation.
I dont want to lose my friendship with him. I could get my mate to ask him what he would be like if a male friend told him he liked him just to see what his reaction would be.
Billy
08-08-2007, 07:30 PM
But if he knows your bi he may click on
I would rather he find out himself than me having him to tell him. Maybe I could keep dropping hints, and if he has any tact, he will put 2 and 2 together and realise.
Emilee
08-08-2007, 07:39 PM
hmmm.... This is big! I'm so confused. i dont even know what to say, try talking to him and see how he feels...
I think I have a plan. Mwuahahahaaa!! <<thats an evil laugh by the way. lol.
Emilee
08-08-2007, 07:43 PM
^^^ What is it???
Mwuahahaa!! Im gonna come on msn and tell him I like him. And if his reaction is good, then I shall go along with it, but if it isnt, then im gonna go off for a minute then come back on and say that my sis said it. She always comes on and says stuff like that. lol. What ya think?!
I hate to sound mean but i dont think that hardly anyone whos Straight is in a position to give advice, because its hard to be empathetic.
I've been in a similar position before, from my opinion don't tell.. things would only get messy, you can say its better to tell the truth but it isnt,
Emilee
08-08-2007, 07:47 PM
oooooh i like it!!! very good idea Noel!!
Well its not mines. Its Sams. ^^^^ lol.
Yeah good idea Noel, good luck with it,
Omg hes online! What do I do!?
Oh wait never mind. He's off again. Grr. lol.
Emilee
08-08-2007, 07:50 PM
do it!!!! DO IT!! You'll never know until you try....
I will do it tomorrow. Not now. For some reason i dont wanna now. lol. And I love Misery Business btw! lol.
Thanx for all your advice guys! Helped me alot!
Okay, If anyone is still reading, I thought I would just let yas know that I told him I like him, and hes fine with it, and he says we are still best friends, which is great. =D
Great, i'm glad he took it well, hows things being now a few weeks have passed?
Shaun
28-08-2007, 07:15 PM
That's good news Noel, I'm glad everything turned out well. :spin2:
Emilee
28-08-2007, 07:18 PM
I thought i liked a straight girl until i found out she was bi.. :)
Emilee
28-08-2007, 07:19 PM
But now she's my best friend so thats just wrong.
xDramatick
28-08-2007, 07:42 PM
Awww that's amazing to hear!
I've fancied a straight guy for over a year now >.<
He's defo not interested =/
I liked a straight guy for a while once, then i found someone else who i liked more, :cheer2: and now everythings great between us
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