Am I Too Old For Bebo

[Ann]

im just writing this as earlier I had a member add me to their Bebo friends and they are saying that im way too old to be a member on Bebo.com and because they saw that some of my friends are quite young they say im acting like a peadephile. Now ive never been called one of those before and im very upset on what they said so im just asking my friends on here am I too old or is it just people being silly and bored thanks :conf2:

[Jackie]

how old are you?

[Ann]

I am 44 years old

:hugesmile:

[Sam]

I am disgraced by reading this, you have a right as much as anyone else! I'm one of your friends and proud to be!

[Jackie]

i am 45 i did think of putting myself on their but im quite a private person and im not sure if i would like people to see my life.

[Ruth*Star]

Originally posted by Sam
I am disgraced by reading this, you have a right as much as anyone else! I'm one of your friends and proud to be!
Yeah thats pretty much what i would say, they have No right to call you that.

[Ann]

well now this has happening ive put mine to private where just my friends can go on my page and ive also wrote to bebo staff and told then everything and thank you dear friend sam xxxx:wink:

[Ann]

thank you ruth*star :dance2:

[Jackie]

thats a good idea going private because i dont think i would like everybody reading it as we lost our daughter 3 years ago you get some idiots who could make stupid comments. my daughters on bebo its intresting for her shes only 16 .

[Ann]

Originally posted by jackie46
thats a good idea going private because i dont think i would like everybody reading it as we lost our daughter 3 years ago you get some idiots who could make stupid comments. my daughters on bebo its intresting for her shes only 16 . aww bless you mate but you can go private as i have done you can on my space too where you just add your own friends who know you well :pat:

[xDramatick]

Awww Ann ignore them!
Seriously, you're not.

You're on my myspace friends &I'm only fifteen?
You shouldn't judge people by age.
I get on with older people in real life too, I've got mates that are like twenty years older than me? That I can joke around with and stuff. Not best mates obviously, I do have mates my age.

You're great to talk to.
I'd rather have you on my friends list than like.. a fifteen year old that's really mean, or never talks?

No-one's too old for Bebo.

edit: You should lie and say they're your cousin, or nephew, or brother, or son/daughter or something.
Bet their face would be hilarious if you could see it.

[Jackie]

yeah i might consider it this computer and internet is all new to us at the moment.

[Ann]

Originally posted by xDramatic
Awww Ann ignore them!
Seriously, you're not.

You're on my myspace friends &I'm only fifteen?
You shouldn't judge people by age.
I get on with older people in real life too, I've got mates that are like twenty years older than me? That I can joke around with and stuff. Not best mates obviously, I do have mates my age.

You're great to talk to.
I'd rather have you on my friends list than like.. a fifteen year old that's really mean, or never talks?

No-one's too old for Bebo.

edit: You should lie and say they're your cousin, or nephew, or brother, or son/daughter or something.
Bet their face would be hilarious if you could see it. I never thought of that idea thanks alot mate I will remember that one and thanks for your lovely words too

[Jackie]

i thought i was to old for this at the start but talking to different age range is intereting and as i am your age it feels like we know what were talking about.weve been there etc.

[KKBL]

im 13 and i have bebo to!are you to old for bebo of coarse youre not bebo is a social networking site for people of all ages!!you can put youre profile on private or you can block these people!!

[Ann]

exactly my thoughts Jackie 46 :wink:

[Ann]

Originally posted by CathalOS
Im 13 and i have bebo to!are you to old for bebo of coarse youre not bebo is a social networking site for people of all ages!!you can put youre profile on private or you can block these people!! thank you i might just do that aswell i never thought of blocking them cheers friend :thumbs:

[Bells]

No of course not! Whoever's said that was spewing absolute rubbish - what a narrow-minded thing to say! You can be whatever age you like to be a member on Bebo - that's partly the entire concept. Carry on regardless, and ignore anyone who says such a thing... the Internet is there for you to do what you like (within reasonable boundaries, of course...)

And, I'm starting to believe more and more... age ain't nothing but a number, really. :thumbs:

[Ann]

aww thanks Ash I will listen to you there

[Billy]

OMG that is ********* ridiculous. Im a friend of yours on bebo and proud of it. If they dont like your profile they know where the X button is. Thats ridiculous.

TEAM ANN

[Jackie]

ive just been on bebo and it says sorry you cant use this website.

[Ann]

Originally posted by OfficialSuperstar
OMG that is ********* ridiculous. Im a friend of yours on bebo and proud of it. If they dont like your profile they know where the X button is. Thats ridiculous.

TEAM ANN aww thanks officialsuperstar :lovedup:

[Ann]

jackie thats weird because ive just been on bebo

[Jackie]

i know my other daughter had a profile and it got deleted somehow im not sure whats shes done but i cannot acess it at all.

[Billy]

This has really annoyed me its pathetic people like this that say stuf flike that to innocent people, when there are real monsters out there

[Ann]

Originally posted by OfficialSuperstar
This has really annoyed me its pathetic people like this that say stuf flike that to innocent people, when there are real monsters out there you are 100% corect there :laugh:

[Ann]

ive just took Cath,s brilliant idea and blocked the person off my profile from even entering it so gladly its sorted out thanks Cath and ive hidden my age as damatic said thanks for those fab ideas :spin:

[Jackie]

you get good ideas from here as well.:thumbs:

[Ann]

oh yes i forgot what am i like sometimes thanks jackie too and any other of my real nice friends off TIBB too love you all :lovedup:

[Lauren]

Glad it's sorted Ann, no-ones too old for Bebo, it's a social networking site for ANYONE! You have people of all ages as your friends on there, so I don't see what some peoples problems are. I'm putting my bets on them being jealous that you're just a nice friendly person, and the only thing they can get their kicks off is criticising the way happy, normal people live their life.

:hug: Remember, it's never been a crime to be super-friendly.

[Ann]

Originally posted by Lauren
Glad it's sorted Ann, no-ones too old for Bebo, it's a social networking site for ANYONE! You have people of all ages as your friends on there, so I don't see what some peoples problems are. I'm putting my bets on them being jealous that you're just a nice friendly person, and the only thing they can get their kicks off is criticising the way happy, normal people live their life.

:hug: Remember, it's never been a crime to be super-friendly. aww Lauren now that was so sweet of you dear fiend thank you for that lovely words too :laugh:P.S you derserve that win too :laugh:

[SiMoN!]

maybe there to young because there childish comeing out with that kind of stuff

[CassetteFinger]

Get myspace its much better and much more people your age are on it im sure.

[Ann]

I have got my space too but I joined bebo because my friends ae at a similar age to me plus my nephew is just ten and he begged me to join bebo so i thought of it first and then i said ok then Ronan i will join it but this thing only just started but as Simon said its no doubt where they are too childish but ive reported him for it now so hopefully they should send me a message but thanks for your thoughts too:hug:

[sarahtheangel]

ann i no how you feel , i feel to old for this forum too , im 40 , hope the admin get it sorted for you have you had a reply yet . good luck and if you enjoy bebo then carry on. your friends on here who have bebo will support you im sure and reading some of the replys you have plenty. xx:hug:

[Ann]

well I have great news here ive had an email from the young girl involved in this and she couldnt say sorry enough on the message she really did appolligise to me so I replyed to her message and told her straight that i will accept your sorry but if this happens anymore in the future I will do more than take this further such as talking to the manager of bebo.com so hopefully its all sorted out thanks for all your help everyone and much appriciate all your kind help thanks again a more happier Ann xxxxps love you all as ever:thumbs:

[Callum]

Aw, no way!
Everyone has a right to use sites, not just youngsters.
Your one of my friends on Bebo Ann, and your so kind and caring, always leaving lovely messages on my profile, i'm proud to have you as a friend.
You should just block the person who did it, but i'm glad you took it further by contacting staff. Any age can use Bebo, there's no age limits there. Some people are just so cold hearted, they just don't realise that one day.. they will become an adult too!

[Ruth*Star]

Originally posted by Ann
well I have great news here ive had an email from the young girl involved in this and she couldnt say sorry enough on the message she really did appolligise to me so I replyed to her message and told her straight that i will accept your sorry but if this happens anymore in the future I will do more than take this further such as talking to the manager of bebo.com so hopefully its all sorted out thanks for all your help everyone and much appriciate all your kind help thanks again a more happier Ann xxxxps love you all as ever:thumbs:
Thats Fantastic, She should be saying sorry, i'm glad this has worked out for you.:thumbs:

[Callum]

Originally posted by Ruth*Star
Originally posted by Ann
well I have great news here ive had an email from the young girl involved in this and she couldnt say sorry enough on the message she really did appolligise to me so I replyed to her message and told her straight that i will accept your sorry but if this happens anymore in the future I will do more than take this further such as talking to the manager of bebo.com so hopefully its all sorted out thanks for all your help everyone and much appriciate all your kind help thanks again a more happier Ann xxxxps love you all as ever:thumbs:
Thats Fantastic, She should be saying sorry, i'm glad this has worked out for you.:thumbs:

Same here. I'm glad that Ann has had an apology from the person. Hopefully it will never happen again :thumbs:

[Sunny_01]

Ann you are never to old to be part of a social networking site, god some people have small minds!!

Sarah - hell you are not to old for this site either 40 pah you have years left to catch up to some members on this site yet lol

You are both cool people dont let someone who is ageist spoil things for you both xx

[Ann]

I cant even get onto bebo now they wont let me even log in to my page what can i do about it now any ideas please :cloud:

[zports]

I wouldn't let it bother you too much Ann. At the end of the day, you can't win with everyone. I get called ageist because I wont add the under18s to myspace, msn, etc. And you get called worse because you do.

I wouldn't lie about it though, by saying it's cousins etc. Why should you have to lie? You have nothing to hide.

Just ignore them, or better yet, report them to bebo (like you did) and that'll teach them that they can't go calling you names on a networking site.

Life has enough drama... the net should be fun... You enjoy your Bebo and your friends, and don't let anyone make you feel like you have to change. :D

[Nicola]

Sorry to hear you've had trouble Ann. I get on with people from all walks of life and I'm pleased to call you my friend so I'd ignore all those nasty people who said that. I'm 25 and talk to people as young as 14 on MSN etc, people accept that and I wouldn't let anyone have a go at me about it.

I wouldn't think you were too old for Bebo or Myspace!

[Ann]

yes but they wont allow me to log in they are saying my account is disconnected for some reason :conf2:

[natjake2504]

i dont think your to old - my mum is 44 and she has a bebo she keeps in contact with a lot of her mates that way and she is the cool aunt to her nieces and nephews who live down south as she can keep in touch with them that way,

There is no age limit on there - so there for no one is to old to be on there.

xxxxxxx

[Jackie]

i cant even sign up on bebo for some reason ive tried but says you have failed.

[Ann]

I bet there having bad problems then so its not through the trouble ive had then i will just keep trying thanks Jackie and thanks Natjake and Nicola thank you for your kind words too :kiss:

[natjake2504]

your welcome - that site is there for every body so you have as much right being on there as anyone else xx

[Tom4784]

People make me sick sometimes, age is just a number. Since when has Bebo had an age limit? Ann, Take no notice, do what 'ya like and you go girl!

[CassetteFinger]

Awww well if you have family and friends your age on there than dont give a **** about what stupid teenagers say on there.

[James_15]

Originally posted by Rice_Square
Awww well if you have family and friends your age on there than dont give a **** about what stupid teenagers say on there.

OK i feel sorry for anne, but aren't you stereotyping teenagers? teenagers arent stupid. infact i read somewhere and i agree, your teenage life is one of the hardest in your life. so dont just be horrible about teenagers just cos your adult. its well out of order. your doing the exact thing which people accuse teenagers of doing. age is just a number as people say so dont say that teenagers are stupid tbh. yeah? x

[Matt]

Ridiculous Ann, of course you are not. If there is no age restriction then why would you be too old or too young?

Ignore the idiots.

[Ann]

Now then I would like your suggestions I have tryed to log into my bebo account and all it says is sorry,that account can no longer be accessed so have they shut it down because my friends on here cant even look at my profile and what im asking is kindly whats the best thing for me to do ive reported it twice and no ones getting back to me so any ideas will help thank you :conf2:

[sarahtheangel]

oh ann so sorry i dont no hopfully some one on here can ,good luck hope you are back on soon

[Ann]

I just cant understand why they wont let me even log into my profile as ive said nothing wrong or said anything to this girl involved that called me that nasty word I just added young James15 as a friend on bebo and his friend just comes on intrupting me saying things like i harm kids i wouldnt even try that sort of thing its disgusting as we all know so why is it that they have to deleted my membership for a immuture young girl of 13 years old and im not saying that to the members on here either so dont panic young members on here :puzzled:

[sarahtheangel]

ann all i can suggest is you email bebo.com and ask why. they will have to get in touch hopfully .it makes you wonder what this girl of 13 has said to the the admin of bebo for them to block you from the site .:hug: to make you feel a little better .

[Ann]

Sarahtheangel ive emailed bebo staff about three times the other day about all this and i havent heard nothing from them since around friday last week :sad:

[sarahtheangel]

that is bad , whats the point of being an admin if you dont bother replying to people . i there anyone you can ask who uses bebo that could look to see if people have said why you cant go on .

[Callum]

Aw Ann, so has your account been stopped?

[MR.K!]

you should report abuse to Bebo... that is a disgrace

[Ann]

my friend Jill checked on their profile yesterday and she said they havent said anything on there :sad:

[Lauren]

Originally posted by James_15
Originally posted by Rice_Square
Awww well if you have family and friends your age on there than dont give a **** about what stupid teenagers say on there.

OK i feel sorry for anne, but aren't you stereotyping teenagers? teenagers arent stupid. infact i read somewhere and i agree, your teenage life is one of the hardest in your life. so dont just be horrible about teenagers just cos your adult. its well out of order. your doing the exact thing which people accuse teenagers of doing. age is just a number as people say so dont say that teenagers are stupid tbh. yeah? x

She didn't say all teenagers were stupid. The person in question is a teenager, and is also stupid. Therefore a stupid teenager. Yeah?

[Lauren]

Originally posted by James_15
Excuse me, but i never accused you of that ann, Im sorry but do not impinge this on me, it was Olivia.

Where did she say it was you?

[James_15]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by James_15
Originally posted by Rice_Square
Awww well if you have family and friends your age on there than dont give a **** about what stupid teenagers say on there.

OK i feel sorry for anne, but aren't you stereotyping teenagers? teenagers arent stupid. infact i read somewhere and i agree, your teenage life is one of the hardest in your life. so dont just be horrible about teenagers just cos your adult. its well out of order. your doing the exact thing which people accuse teenagers of doing. age is just a number as people say so dont say that teenagers are stupid tbh. yeah? x

She didn't say all teenagers were stupid. The person in question is a teenager, and is also stupid. Therefore a stupid teenager. Yeah?
Ok chill out tbh.

[Callum]

This really is unfair, it may be that your experiencing technical difficulities, but if the worst is the worst, they may have suspended your account. I would take this further if I were you Ann..

[sarahtheangel]

james15 she has not accused you once she said it was a girl f 13 which i suppose is olivia now you mentioned her name . if you read all of the posts on this subject you will see ann said you was her friend. i think you should apologise to ann .

[Callum]

I agree with Sarah here, James15, Ann has never accused you, I think your trying to make out Ann is in the wrong, when shes not.

[James_15]

Sorry was a misread. but its not really my fault. and my friends just very insecure about herself, and i was really angry with my freind, but afterall, its only an internet site, you can always make another. my account on bebo got deleted for something i didnt do, i was accused of many other things, so i made another. its not too hard tbh.

[James_15]

However i must agree that Ann is an extremely nice person.

[Ann]

yes but James why is it that I cant have friends of all ages ive got nieces and nephews at the same age as you and your friend im feeling very upset over all this and my 10 year old nephew saw what your friend called me yesterday on msn he is very annoyed too and he almost sobbed his ;ittle heart out with what she called me :bawling:

[Lauren]

Originally posted by James_15
Sorry was a misread. but its not really my fault. and my friends just very insecure about herself, and i was really angry with my freind, but afterall, its only an internet site, you can always make another. my account on bebo got deleted for something i didnt do, i was accused of many other things, so i made another. its not too hard tbh.

You were angry with your friend?

From Bebo
"Promiscuous-Boy.™
oh SHUT UP U ****ING *****.
Ive gotta tell u and show u stuff ann has posted about u on the internet!!
tis sooooooooo funny.
will show u tommorow?"

At least tell the truth, tbh.

[James_15]

Look im really honestly very sorry ann, but it really is my freinds fault. Not mine. but i have been trying to ring her...

[James_15]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by James_15
Sorry was a misread. but its not really my fault. and my friends just very insecure about herself, and i was really angry with my freind, but afterall, its only an internet site, you can always make another. my account on bebo got deleted for something i didnt do, i was accused of many other things, so i made another. its not too hard tbh.

You were angry with your friend?

From Bebo
"Promiscuous-Boy.™
oh SHUT UP U ****ing *****.
Ive gotta tell u and show u stuff ann has posted about u on the internet!!
tis sooooooooo funny.
will show u tommorow?"

A) That was not me.
B) Shes generally always on my bebo account
C) it actually has nothing to do with you so stop trying to stir it all up. tbh.

At least tell the truth, tbh.

[Lauren]

She signed into your bebo account under your name and commented herself?
I'm not stirring, but Ann has the right to know you're having a good old laugh at her expense.

[sarahtheangel]

if your friend is insecure james then i suggest she stays off bebo till shes secure as she upsetting 1 of my friends .

[Ann]

aww can I first point out thank you true friends on here for your support and James I would like to ask you very kindly why is your friend calling me such awful words on bebo for when she doesnt even know me or my background my family all know what she said and they are mad with it because that is hassle and she doesnt even know me :mad:

[sarahtheangel]

ann im not suprised your family are upset , that word is disgusting and for a very imature girl to say it , who probably does not no the true meaning of it anyway should be the 1 banned not you for sayng such insulting words .

[James_15]

Hello. Its Me. The Insecure Friend, Olivia. I Love This Chat Its Filled With Hate And Discust Towards Me. Its Not My Fault I Have Family Problems. Im Sorry For The Way I Acted On This Occasion, But I Have No REAL Proof Ann , Or For That Matter Any Of You Are Real, I Was Just Debating Wether She Is Fake Or Not. Dont You Think Its Slightly Weird That A 40-something Year Old Has Bebo And Comments 15 Year Old 'Friends'
I Belive This Is The Site You Guys First 'met' Eachother. To Be Honest, I Am Just Trying To Be Internet-Safe And I Was Just Looking Out For My Friend. I Am Sorry If I Have Offended You I Was Only Looking Out For James. I'm Sorry But This May Have Been Bought On By My Insecurity and Depression. i Am Now On Anti-Depressants So If I Have Offended You I Am Sincerely Sorry. I Dont Know What I Was Thinking I Hope You Can Forgive Me.

I Apologise Unregardedly And If Any Of You Want A More Personal Apology Add My Msn Liviarrr--x-@hotmail.com

IM SORRY AGAIN GUYS.

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Olivia Scholfield.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[James_15]

Im Sorry. I Have Judged You Wrongly And Made Un-True Assumptions.

I Hope We Cann All Get Over This And Forgive & Forget.

Olivia

xxx

[Lauren]

Why even bring in depression and family problems? That wasn't needed, it's not an excuse.

If it is you, well done for apologising.

[Jackie]

Originally posted by Lauren
Why even bring in depression and family problems? That wasn't needed, it's not an excuse.



yes i agree.

[sarahtheangel]

olivia all of us have some kind of family problem , if you are trying to protect your self then thats fine but to slander ann like you did was out of order , and what makes you think ann is fake shes a person who has feelings like all of us , you should not give your email addy out to any one unless you no them personally especially at your age . im also 40 years old ,please dont class us as the same as sick vile people . and its not us you should say sorry to its ann .

[Ann]

THANK YOU and I agree with Lauren too good points there:hello:

[Jackie]

yes im 45 and im not a sick vile person:mad::mad::mad::mad:

[Ann]

and may I just say too is I have 14 nieces and nephews and 2 great nieces and 2 great nephews and as iexplained to you and James yeesterday if anyone ever harmed those kids I would kill then for it I love children for what they are in this world I would never ever halm anybody not even an adult ok Olivia does that proove that i am who i am thank you :spin2:

[Lauren]

Ann, you don't need to explain yourself. We all have the brain cells to know you're a good-hearted woman, it's just unfortunate enough that not all people have this ability because they're blinded by their own bad will.

[Ann]

Originally posted by Lauren
Ann, you don't need to explain yourself. We all have the brain cells to know you're a good-hearted woman, it's just unfortunate enough that not all people have this ability because they're blinded by their own bad will. THANKS Lauren for your advise i do agree :laugh:

[Sam]

I think the comments made were aboslutely disgraceful, she should be appaled and ashamed. Using "family problems" is an excuse for just ignorant behaviour. She said it because she thought she was being funny.

It is just ignorance. I am 14 and Ann is my friend. This and bebo is a website that all people can go on, and should go on with out being abuse.

You Should Be Ashamed.

[sarahtheangel]

well said sam

[Sam]

Originally posted by sarahtheangel
well said sam

Thanks * blushes * :blush2: But its true, and my friends have had problems with paedophiles before, a lot of trouble with police. So when a brilliant friend such as Ann gets called one it's above and beyond insulting and ignorant.

[sarahtheangel]

i dont think shes mature enough to be using the internet yet , thats why shes being narrow minded . and i good rely again sam

[Ann]

THANK YOU Sam and sarahtheangel true words said :kiss:

[sarahtheangel]

your very welcome ann :hug:

[Ann]

but to me sarahtheangel as you said she is too young to be on the internet and my friend saw her bebo profile yesterday and my friend said that the language on there is foul sowhy is her parents allowing that :laugh2:

[sarahtheangel]

i would say she must have the internet in her bedroom mine is in my kitchen so i can keep an eye on what mine go on and who they talk too .:thumbs2:

[Lauren]

She's part of a new internet phenomena where being depressed, swearing a lot, and being "random" are considered cool things.

To spot these types of people, look for the following signs:
- They use multiple "r's" in words, such as "Look at the riverr"
- They exchange the "er" sound for "ar".. i.e. "Look at that rivarr!"
- They randomly have lines after the name, such as "Laurran__", perhaps followed by a 'x' for good measure... see "Laurran__x"
- They think they're "random" by taking pictures of them doing strange things in skateparks with friends. No, that just makes you stupid.
- They say "rawr" a lot, plus a combination of internet memes "tbh", "afaik"
- They say everything cryptically and mysterious.
- They use plenty of ['s and ]'s to enclose their points.
- They use lots of little alt+numpad hearts to show their pseudo-love.
- They use LOTS of CAPITALS to SHOW their ANGER and PASSION!
- They type "nu" instead of "new", and idolise people such as Calvin Harris.

(Disclaimer: Not all of these above points can be applied to this new "species" of human, however, all of them amounted together can usually point you in the right direction).

[sarahtheangel]

well pointed out lauren it sounds a lot like vickey pollard pmsl

[Ann]

I totally agree and my sister is like you sarahtheangel hers is only in the lounge where shes very fussy what her children go on too :spin:

[Jackie]

Parents is the one word i would use here!!where are the parents when these yougsters are on the net?And as for swearing well parents again my children never use such foul language even i dont,so thats where these children get it from.

[Ann]

and I will totally agree with that 1000% my family dont swear in front of their kids either :wavey:

[James_15]

Ok.

i am ashamed 'Sam' and and Ann i now know you are real.
i am sorry for ay offence cased. I was origionally only protecting my friend and i know the family issues may not look neccesary but sometimes it makes me angry and i have to express it somewhere. Im sorry that Ann was the closest person, i just didnt think she was real, i would have never talked to a real adult like that. I can see why you are saying im immature.
'Lauren' you have obviously been on my bebo or looked at my profile and usernames etc. so that comment about was clearly directed at me. I dont think it was fair however because i believe you are steriotyping me. But i dont want to make any more arguments as i believe i have caused Ann and others amoung you a lot of uneccesary stress and disbelief. I'm sorry once again, theres nothing more i can do on the subject. I would apricaiate it if we could start again., a fresh.
Thanks & Sorry again
Olivia xxx

[James_15]

also, my computer is in the sitting room where my Parents can keep an eye on me. My parents are concerned about me and internet safety, i was using my knowledge to try and protect my friend. Im sorry that i was wrong this time. You also have totally the wrong opinion of me, vicky pollard is a chav steriotype and i HATE chavs. Please dont judge me as you are being hypocritical if you do, i have apologised for judging you so now i hope you wont judge me back.

olivia

xxx

[Lauren]

Olivia, I'd only looked on James' bebo to see who you were, my post was actually in response to the whole "swearing" thing that Ann said, nothing to do with your profile imparticular, so I apologise if I didn't make myself clear.

Edit: Also, most of my examples were referring mainly to the myspacey-types of profiles, and I did say at the end that not all of the features fit that stereotype.

[James_15]

Oh Right.

thank you

and im sorry

but the swearing is all a joke because we are half family so we swear at eachother and laugh about it!

for example.. he calls me a ***** and i call him a bitch or whatever

for us its personal names and not meant to cause anyone offence, we will tone it down.

Sorry for everything.


Olivia

xxx

[Sam]

I don't beleive that you were protecting your friend by calling Ann a paedophile, Ann hadn't done anything to deserve being called that, if she started asking strange questions then you could say it, but not when she was just trying to be nice, trying to make some friends.
I think it was completely uncalled for.

It caused a lot of upset and you can see why people are angry

[Lauren]

Nah, you can swear if you want, I didn't mean that. I swear amongst my friends too, most people do - but I meant there's a lot of myspacey-types that swear to look cool.

Edit: And I agree with Sam, you can't say you were protecting your friend by calling someone a paedophile. That has very serious issues attached to it - and I've known police get involved in accusations over the internet. I know it's easy to accuse someone so readily over the internet because they're faceless, you forget they have a family and a life - but just to reiterate - it's important not to bandy around accusations.

[Ann]

and can i say thanks to both of you for what you have done as i cant even get into my bebo now and ive got my friends on there and they cant even look at my new pics of my family and best friends so why did you have my bebo deleted and i thought you were a good friend James and you thought i wasnt a good person well thanks a bunch for all what you two have done to give me hell :conf:

[Lauren]

Ann have the Bebo admin team been in touch with you yet?

Did you use this form??
http://www.bebo.com/ContactUs.jsp

[Sam]

It's one of those stupid comments that was made, to try to sound funny, made out of ignorance. A comment, which wasn't thought through before being said , so the impact of what might happen was ignored.

I'm really sorry Ann that you've lost your bebo

[Ann]

no Lauren i havent heard of nothing from them :shocked:

[Ann]

Originally posted by Lauren
Ann have the Bebo admin team been in touch with you yet?

Did you use this form??
http://www.bebo.com/ContactUs.jsp yes thats the one i used :thumbs:

[James_15]

Ann,

i did not report your bebo and im sorry that it was deleted. Sam i understand where you are coming from and i think you are totally right and i was wrong. I just want you to understand why, without bringing family issues into this, say ann had been a pedophile, i would have been doing the right thing in a way stopping him from being stalked or anything. i hope we can get past this because i definately didnt mean what i said and i regret every word. Please can we leave it there, i am sincerely sorry and i have learnt a valuable lesson. Dont judge a book by its cover. I also have to mention that james did not tell me he was friends with you or new you off here. I was under the impression she was a rondom adult that added him for no reason other than wanting to make teenage friends.

Im sorry once again.

Olivia

xxx

[James_15]

And sam, you are right, i didnt think about it before i said what i said and i sincerely regret it.

Olivia

xxx

[Sam]

To be honest, I'm sticking up for a friend who was wrongly accused . It's fine James if you don't want to talk to me anymore. Just because I'm angry that your friend called my friend a paedophile, don't take it personally towards me.

[James_15]

I realize that. You were being loyal to your friend. But so was i. Both in different ways but still doing it for friends/family.

Olivia
xxx

[Sam]

Yeah but I'm not saying " I don't wanna talk to you anymore", because I've done nothing towards James wrong

[James_15]

He said: 'I cant be bothered to someone i met over the internet' and he also said: 'you're just plain sucking up to Ann and that not the type of person i can be bothered to talk to TBH.'

His words, not mine.

I Think this is getting out of hand and we are picking up on every detail to ensure we are equally in the wrong. Can we please get past this.

Thank You

Olivia

xxxx

[Ann]

and the thing is i will point out is what if bebo have read that message olivia and what if they take it serious what can i do then because youve got to undersnd this now as i have a member of my family who works for my local court what if bebo take it further :bawling:

[Sam]

There is a difference between having a friend, and sucking up, why would I want to suck up to Ann? Theres no reason. Does that mean that every friend you have, you suck up to? It's ridiculous! And on his 40 odd pages of friends on Bebo, i bet over half he's never met before. I'm not going to act childish in all this or lower myself to this, he can if he wants, i have no problem with him.

I have better things to do than discuss this here, if you want to argue , argue by u2u or msn, not on the forum. :thumbs:

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Ann
and the thing is i will point out is what if bebo have read that message olivia and what if they take it serious what can i do then because youve got to undersnd this now as i have a member of my family who works for my local court what if bebo take it further :bawling:

It's a very serious accusation, I don't think Olivia even considered the severity when she said it at the time. I wouldn't worry too much about Bebo taking it further Ann, because you've done nothing wrong so they can't take it further anyway. Like I've said before, since when has it been a crime to be friendly?
I think you should make a new Bebo, add people you know and trust, and keep your profile private.

[Ann]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Ann
and the thing is i will point out is what if bebo have read that message olivia and what if they take it serious what can i do then because youve got to undersnd this now as i have a member of my family who works for my local court what if bebo take it further :bawling:

It's a very serious accusation, I don't think Olivia even considered the severity when she said it at the time. I wouldn't worry too much about Bebo taking it further Ann, because you've done nothing wrong so they can't take it further anyway. Like I've said before, since when has it been a crime to be friendly?
I think you should make a new Bebo, add people you know and trust, and keep your profile private. i totally agree 100%
:hug:

[Ann]

also James and Olivia look at the real crime thats happening out there look at that poor girl being kidnapped from holiday then look at these real bad people that do real crimes and my friends on here will agree its a sick thing to do :rolleyes:

[James_15]

Ok Guys.

I wont ask bebo to get u done for being a pedo cos i know your not.
can we drop it now because ive said sorry countless times and all you need to do is make a new bebo account. I'd like to ephasise that i DID NOT report your bebo. Im sorry for any distress caused

CAN WE PLEASE FORGIVE & FORGET NOW?

Olivia

xxxx

[James_15]

i know Ann, You are NOT a paedophile and i regret ever accusing you of that. Tbh i thought you were fake to start with because not many people of your age have bebo.

I am sorry once again can we leave it now?

Olivia

xxxx

[Sam]

Originally posted by James_15


CAN WE PLEASE FORGIVE & FORGET NOW?

xxxx


Ask James that.

[James_15]

He says: 'i couldn't care less tbh'

Can we please just drop the subject...?

Ann?:sad:

Olivia

xxxx

[Sam]

So in otherwords, you two want everyone to like you? But it doesn't matter if you like us or not?

Just saying sorry won't work, you've seriously upset people here with your stupid comments, and most people aren't going to forgive you sorry

[James_15]

Sam, I feel you are trying to start another aspect of this argument can You please stop picking up on the tinyest things.
I dont wish to waste my entire holidays on this chatroom so i am going to go soon and do something productive with my time. If any of you want to stay in tounch (which i doubt you will) then talk to me on msn. Otherwise im sorry Again. and i have learnt a valuable lesson.
Ill be on for 5 more minuates then never again.
TBH.
Olivia

xxxx

[Sam]

Oh please, save your grovelling apologies for someone who cares. Which is no one on here. We're good friends on this forum, and if you upset one of us, you upset all of us.

Now just go already.

[Jackie]

Bye Bye than!!!:elephant::elephant:

[James_15]

Im as good as gone. I just hope ann accepts my apology and acusation i was only being cautious. Im sorry but i dont think sam has anything to do with it.

Olivia

xxx

[Sam]

Crawl back to bebo already...

Edit: Tell James not to text me, i dont want his silly texts "tbh"

[James_15]

James says: 'I Only Texted You Once'

TBH.
Olivia

xxxx

[Sam]

.. and the thread is locked :cheer2:

[Jackie]

I thought you said 5 minutes and your gone!!!!

[Sam]

James (the mod) said he was gonna lock the thread..