explanation

[Joneseye]

right i feel i need to say something.....i like discusions with forum members and i like to put my view point across sometimes i take the mick i meen nothing by it its just me......

however if certain members says something about a celeb that i feel isnt acurate and melicious in my book that member becomes fair game and i will say something back im not taking it from nobody....

and i do not apreciate my posts that ive put up in good faith to be deleted that is disrespectfull of my right to say my peace......

so in future if im stil a member could u aproach me and tell me what ive done wrong so that i can tell you my point and you can tell me yourse otherwise you wont learn what i expect from you and i wont learn what you expect from me because at the moment im lost to what was so bad in my posts that u felt nessasary to delete.

im not a bad person all i need is clarification and a debate about site rules...........

thank you very much

[MarkWaldorf]

Eh?

:puzzled:

[Matt]

Sorry Joneseye but the site rules are the site rules. They are not up for debate and the admins will change them as they see fit.

If your posts break the rules they will be moderated.

[Lauren]

It's a forum, you don't have rights.
You have a choice, follow the rules to a tee, or leave the forum if you want to change them. :laugh:

"because at the moment Im lost to what was so bad in my posts that u felt nessasary to delete".

Re-read the rules... did you follow them exactly?
PS. The forum rules don't need any revolutionary change, they're fine and functional at the moment and I suspect they're staying that way for the good of the forum.

[James]

Joneseye, these are some quotes of yours and remarks towards other posters that were deleted and you were warned for...

"But I Guess If Youre Own Life Is Boring They Just Think I Know Lets Go On TIBB To Criticise Anyone They Can For Fun...",

"And Now You Feel Bitter And Twisted That Glyn Might Have A Chance With Her. Yes I Feel Sorry For You There",

"Is... .....You In Drag It Just Seems She Knows Amandas Mind Aswell Or Are You Twins..... MMMMM Interesting.",

"Ohhh So You Have A Girlfriend Thats Nice. Do You Know Her Well.",

"People Like You Expecting More From Him Are The Saddos.",

"you are deluded you know what youre saying",

"lol have you herd of fun or was you born misrable... you might be able to read that after hes teached you. at the moment you pretty dyre lol",

"well youre mother didnt get it right did she lol when youre father asked her how about it tonight.......god she should have said not tonight i have a headake lol",

"you should know lol ....................youre life seems like its getting preety dead end...... what exactly is ur problam did u try to go on big brother and you was rejected and now you dont like the fact glyn has a carear ok a small one at the moment but with small seeds a massive tree grows....and youre a kid bashing looser lol ohhh sad isnt it everyone. nevermind they might remake noals house party..... being mr blobby might be the carear move youve been waiting for lol"

"STICK TO TOPIC PLEASE YOU CRETINS",

"you could be considered boring and pointless to be honest because theres no substance to youre comment is there lol",

"youre just pointless period".

etc.

If you don't see what is wrong with all that then you don't understand the ethos and conditions required to have a friendly Internet forum; one that isn't a total war-zone.

A message board which allowed its members to say those types of things would be one where only bullies and aggressive people would want to post. Personal abuse towards other members only puts off people from posting.

[Matt]

And you wonder why they're deleted.

I'm actually surprised you haven't had a warning yet...

[andybigbro]

Yeah they actually have the cheek to complain :bored:

[Matt]

Originally posted by James
"well youre mother didnt get it right did she lol when youre father asked her how about it tonight.......god she should have said not tonight i have a headake lol"

How would you feel being told that?

That is the single worst quote from the whole bunch.

I actually can't believe you have the nerve to complain.

[andybigbro]

They should be banned, Skip warning Banned Completely :shocked:

[Jack]

Joneseye's post are actually pretty bad. I can't beleive he/she has the audacity to complain when they're lucky they didn't get banned.

[Wasted]

Wow. Those quotes are a pedant's worst nightmare.

[Matt08]

Some of those posts that Joneseye said were horrible, I don't expect that the members who those comments were aimed at were best pleased. I don't see how he can complain when he's said comments like that, no wonder he feels that other members hate him.

[Sunny_01]

I am so glad that James put some of those quotes up for everyone to see how bad some of the posts you made were.

As a moderator I will remove any post that are in any way offensive, I follow the forum rules as do the huge majority of members of this site which is why it works so well. If you do not like the rules of this site then could I suggest you find a site that has rules that will allow you to offend others as you see fit.

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by James
Joneseye, these are some quotes of yours and remarks towards other posters that were deleted and you were warned for...

"But I Guess If Youre Own Life Is Boring They Just Think I Know Lets Go On TIBB To Criticise Anyone They Can For Fun...",

"And Now You Feel Bitter And Twisted That Glyn Might Have A Chance With Her. Yes I Feel Sorry For You There",

"Is... .....You In Drag It Just Seems She Knows Amandas Mind Aswell Or Are You Twins..... MMMMM Interesting.",

"Ohhh So You Have A Girlfriend Thats Nice. Do You Know Her Well.",

"People Like You Expecting More From Him Are The Saddos.",

"you are deluded you know what youre saying",

"lol have you herd of fun or was you born misrable... you might be able to read that after hes teached you. at the moment you pretty dyre lol",

"well youre mother didnt get it right did she lol when youre father asked her how about it tonight.......god she should have said not tonight i have a headake lol",

"you should know lol ....................youre life seems like its getting preety dead end...... what exactly is ur problam did u try to go on big brother and you was rejected and now you dont like the fact glyn has a carear ok a small one at the moment but with small seeds a massive tree grows....and youre a kid bashing looser lol ohhh sad isnt it everyone. nevermind they might remake noals house party..... being mr blobby might be the carear move youve been waiting for lol"

"STICK TO TOPIC PLEASE YOU CRETINS",

"you could be considered boring and pointless to be honest because theres no substance to youre comment is there lol",

"youre just pointless period".

etc.

If you don't see what is wrong with all that then you don't understand the ethos and conditions required to have a friendly Internet forum; one that isn't a total war-zone.

A message board which allowed its members to say those types of things would be one where only bullies and aggressive people would want to post. Personal abuse towards other members only puts off people from posting.

you so funny nothing ive said there was that bad i cant belive you are that sensative. im no bully i say it as it is if you cant accept me ill leave dont want to be associated with all this. all thoes was said to people that deserve it......if people cant stand the heat stay out of the kitchen.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Joneseye
if people cant stand the heat stay out of the kitchen.

If you've an inability to stick to the rules, stay outta the forum.

[Joneseye]

OK Answer Me One Thing.....

If A Member Calls A Celeb A Saddo And A Looser......

What Is Wrong With Me Saying "People Like You Expecting More From Him Are The Saddos.",

All Thoes Quotes By James Are Out Of Context...I Wouldnt Say Them For The Sake Of Saying Them Everyone Had A Point To Answer A Member Back

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by Jack
Joneseye's post are actually pretty bad. I can't beleive he/she has the audacity to complain when they're lucky they didn't get banned.

ill tell you why i have the audacity to complain...because im in the right here........

firstly you canot expect to get off without comments if you put up a comment thats insulting to a person you like....thats not right

i know its site rules but that doesent make it right does it.......

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
I am so glad that James put some of those quotes up for everyone to see how bad some of the posts you made were.

As a moderator I will remove any post that are in any way offensive, I follow the forum rules as do the huge majority of members of this site which is why it works so well. If you do not like the rules of this site then could I suggest you find a site that has rules that will allow you to offend others as you see fit.

i do not offend members as i see fit....i find that comment from you just as offensive so can you please delete it im offended by it...........now then is that the sort of forum you want where people gets offended and you desside to delete it.

i wouldnt expect nothing someone tells me to be deleted thats theire right to reply to me......

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Joneseye
What Is Wrong With Me Saying "People Like You Expecting More From Him Are The Saddos.",

You've called someone a saddo, had you read the rules you'd see it's a personal insult and therefore by saying that you've broken the rules.
Like I've said many of times, if you feel these rules are wrong, leave the forum and find somewhere that lets you run wild with verbal wars. If you feel you can stick to them, then stay, you're welcome.

[Joneseye]

i think the time has come for me to go i will never agree with the policy of censorship.. im sorry take care everyone

[Chri$]

But everyone how would you feel if someone sead ''I hope he falls off a really high step and cracks a finger.'' about your cosen someone sead that about Joneseye's cosen (Glyn) he was very upset about that and I dont think Joneseye is in the wrong at all

[Jack]

Originally posted by Joneseye
i think the time has come for me to go i will never agree with the policy of censorship.. Im sorry take care everyone

It's a shame you feel that way.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by ©hris..x
But everyone how would you feel if someone sead ''I hope he falls off a really high step and cracks a finger.'' about your cosen someone sead that about Joneseye's cosen (Glyn) he was very upset about that and I dont think Joneseye is in the wrong at all

It's in the rules that personal insults are not allowed whereas insults against housemates ARE. There's no confusion there, if Joneseye felt uncomfortable about it, they should have read the rules, saw that HM's are being criticised (What do they expect? This forum is meant so people can post their opinions about HOUSEMATES), and if they didn't wanna see HM's being criticised - then leave.

[Chri$]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by ©hris..x
But everyone how would you feel if someone sead ''I hope he falls off a really high step and cracks a finger.'' about your cosen someone sead that about Joneseye's cosen (Glyn) he was very upset about that and I dont think Joneseye is in the wrong at all

It's in the rules that personal insults are not allowed whereas insults against housemates ARE. There's no confusion there, if Joneseye felt uncomfortable about it, they should have read the rules, saw that HM's are being criticised (What do they expect? This forum is meant so people can post their opinions about HOUSEMATES), and if they didn't want to see HM's being criticised - then leave.

Ermmm Sorry can you show me that rule because I carnt seem to find it?

[Stu]

©hris..x , it was you who took the greatest offence to the falling off a high step quote , not Joneseye. Dont use this thread to further your own aims.

You dare quote me on wishing a housemate fall off a step when joneseye is blatanty insulting others because they dont like Glyn?!.

It was an obvious joke. Your re-quoting of it makes it look even funnier.

Now join the rest of us a week later and move on.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by ©hris..x

Ermmm Sorry can you show me that rule because I carnt seem to find it?

j) Posts which insult or direct profanity towards another member, will immediate be deleted, or edited out. This may lead to a ban.

Although as far as I know you're not allowed to aggressively insult HMs.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by ©hris..x

Ermmm Sorry can you show me that rule because I carnt seem to find it?

j) Posts which insult or direct profanity towards another member, will immediate be deleted, or edited out. This may lead to a ban.

Although as far as I know you're not allowed to aggressively insult HMs.
If you count falling off a step as agressive insulting.

For the record , ©hris..x , this is your average step.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y237/kingofthering/Ritmeyers_step_on_northeast_of_Temp.jpg

[Chri$]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by ©hris..x

Ermmm Sorry can you show me that rule because I carnt seem to find it?

j) Posts which insult or direct profanity towards another member, will immediate be deleted, or edited out. This may lead to a ban.

Although as far as I know you're not allowed to aggressively insult HMs.
If you count falling off a step as agressive insulting.

For the record , ©hris..x , this is your average step.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y237/kingofthering/Ritmeyers_step_on_northeast_of_Temp.jpg

for all I know you cound have ment these steps


http://www.rutahsa.com/steps-e.jpg

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by ©hris..x
But everyone how would you feel if someone sead ''I hope he falls off a really high step and cracks a finger.'' about your cosen someone sead that about Joneseye's cosen (Glyn) he was very upset about that and I dont think Joneseye is in the wrong at all

It's in the rules that personal insults are not allowed whereas insults against housemates ARE. There's no confusion there, if Joneseye felt uncomfortable about it, they should have read the rules, saw that HM's are being criticised (What do they expect? This forum is meant so people can post their opinions about HOUSEMATES), and if they didn't want to see HM's being criticised - then leave.

OMG How the hell can it be right to insult the housemates and expect fans of thoes housemates to keep Stump and not to answer back..................in any language that is Doubble Standards..........is that what TIBB want to be asociated with being.........a site where people cant answer back cruel remarks against people that dont deserve it.....

[Lauren]

Joneseye, thats my point. You ARE allowed to argue your point back, it's a viable option to be able to debate your point without resorting to childish insults.

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by Lauren
Joneseye, thats my point. You ARE allowed to argue your point back, it's a viable option to be able to debate your point without resorting to childish insults.

everyone of my remarks has been made as a result of others answering me back with childish remarks...i fight like with like if thats the language they understand ill oblidge.

how can it be right to wish someone to fall of a step and crack theire finger no matter who they are. that is the type of person i was arguing with and i got banned whitch infurarated me because it was clearly that persons fault.

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Joneseye
What Is Wrong With Me Saying "People Like You Expecting More From Him Are The Saddos.",

You've called someone a saddo, had you read the rules you'd see it's a personal insult and therefore by saying that you've broken the rules.
Like I've said many of times, if you feel these rules are wrong, leave the forum and find somewhere that lets you run wild with verbal wars. If you feel you can stick to them, then stay, you're welcome.

Lauren i like you and have i ever insulted you......no i havent ill tell you why because you got a good attatute and ill respect you in the manner you treat me......you know as well as me some dont do that.....now im being painted as one of thoes people on here whitch im not..being called arguamentative and all this....that is so far from the truth its laughable..however ill stick up for myselff and all thoes comments that james pointed out was as a result off that me not going to lie down and take it...

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Joneseye

how can it be right to wish someone to fall of a step and crack theire finger no matter who they are. that is the type of person i was arguing with and i got banned whitch infurarated me because it was clearly that persons fault.

I do understand your point, the rule can be infuriating when someone disregards an aspect of the rules or says something that you think is out of line. There's been so many times in the past where I've had to log off TiBB to stop me going crazy-arse on a member :laugh: but at the same time I have to bear in mind that there's moderators and admins doing their best to keep peace on this forum, and since TiBB is a service I like to use - I'm going to do my bit to make it easier for them.

[Joneseye]

I do understand your point, the rule can be infuriating when someone disregards an aspect of the rules or says something that you think is out of line. There's been so many times in the past where I've had to log off TiBB to stop me going crazy-arse on a member :laugh: but at the same time I have to bear in mind that there's moderators and admins doing their best to keep peace on this forum, and since TiBB is a service I like to use - I'm going to do my bit to make it easier for them. [/quote]

you know what lauren plus james and all the other mods that makes sense and i 2 like to use this service......i dont want to make life difficult for anyone im not like that..im a nice person honestly lol look i can even smile lol :hugesmile:

can you take my apolagy for the arguing and although somethings i dont agree with ill live with it.. thank you

[Dan_]

Originally posted by Joneseye
Originally posted by Lauren
Joneseye, thats my point. You ARE allowed to argue your point back, it's a viable option to be able to debate your point without resorting to childish insults.

everyone of my remarks has been made as a result of others answering me back with childish remarks...i fight like with like if thats the language they understand ill oblidge.

how can it be right to wish someone to fall of a step and crack theire finger no matter who they are. that is the type of person i was arguing with and i got banned whitch infurarated me because it was clearly that persons fault.

Well you're just stopping down to their level if you reply with childish insults, either reply to them in a reasonable manner or just ignore them.

There is no use in you breaking the rules.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Joneseye
I do understand your point, the rule can be infuriating when someone disregards an aspect of the rules or says something that you think is out of line. There's been so many times in the past where I've had to log off TiBB to stop me going crazy-arse on a member :laugh: but at the same time I have to bear in mind that there's moderators and admins doing their best to keep peace on this forum, and since TiBB is a service I like to use - I'm going to do my bit to make it easier for them.

you know what lauren plus james and all the other mods that makes sense and i 2 like to use this service......i dont want to make life difficult for anyone Im not like that..Im a nice person honestly lol look i can even smile lol :hugesmile:

can you take my apolagy for the arguing and although somethings i dont agree with ill live with it.. thank you [/quote]

Aww, see, you are nice :hugesmile:

[Joneseye]

well of course lauren you didnt doubt that i hope lol

im youre very friendly slightly arguamentative and very honest friend lol

and ps
i like liam aswell
especially his humour he reminds me of me lol

[Matt08]

Joneseye, maybe start a fresh and maybe think about being friendly towards fellow TiBB members. That way, there shouldn't be anymore trouble like this again.

[Matt]

Sorry Joneseye but personal insults are against the TiBB rules, which by signing up to the forum you agree to.

Mildly slagging the housemates is acceptable - after all, by going on to Big Brother the housemates automatically put themselves up for such criticism.

I hope this is an end to the matter and you can pull through this :thumbs:

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by Mathew
Joneseye, maybe start a fresh and maybe think about being friendly towards fellow TiBB members. That way, there shouldn't be anymore trouble like this again.

ive always been friendly towards TIBB members that respect peoples views and dont get involved with arguing...like lauren and i understand what you saying..however there are people who like lauren say that are agravating arguaments i wont name names im sure you and the Admins know who they are....in the past ive answered back on these individuals but in future i will walk away......because im better than they are and always will be...

[Sunny_01]

Jonseye - we really do welcome new members even when they get off to a rocky start! You can defend anyone on this forum, HM's included it's just a matter of doing it in a non-offensive way. I admire when someone feels strongly enough to defend someone, and do think you had some valid points, it's just a case of doing it in a way that keeps you within the rules of the forum.

The rules are not actually that tough to follow, they are pretty simple and are based around respect for each other.

[Joneseye]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
Jonseye - we really do welcome new members even when they get off to a rocky start! You can defend anyone on this forum, HM's included it's just a matter of doing it in a non-offensive way. I admire when someone feels strongly enough to defend someone, and do think you had some valid points, it's just a case of doing it in a way that keeps you within the rules of the forum.

The rules are not actually that tough to follow, they are pretty simple and are based around respect for each other.

i value thoes sentament very much and will do so. if ill get het up ill log off, walk up and down the house, punch a wall then come back lol.....it might take a few hours after having to go to casualty for someone to take a look at my hand lol but ill be back :laugh:

[Sunny_01]

Thanks Jonseye it will make my job much easier xx

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Joneseye
Originally posted by Sunny_01
Jonseye - we really do welcome new members even when they get off to a rocky start! You can defend anyone on this forum, HM's included it's just a matter of doing it in a non-offensive way. I admire when someone feels strongly enough to defend someone, and do think you had some valid points, it's just a case of doing it in a way that keeps you within the rules of the forum.

The rules are not actually that tough to follow, they are pretty simple and are based around respect for each other.

i value thoes sentament very much and will do so. if ill get het up ill log off, walk up and down the house, punch a wall then come back lol.....it might take a few hours after having to go to casualty for someone to take a look at my hand lol but ill be back :laugh:

I wouldn't let a forum get you that worked up.