I'm Going, I'm Stayin, I'm Goin, I'm Staying

[SiMoN!]

is any one else getting annoyed with all the threds started about people going or staying - this thred is amied at antone bu there lots of them

i just see it as people who are wnting attention - if your were gunna go jus go.

[Harry!]

its like when chanelle left

[supernoodles!]

agreed lol

[Matt08]

People should stop making a big fuss over leaving, it's like their only doing it for attention.

[Bells]

I think if there's maybe a valid reason it's OK to announce it, e.g. if it's for a long period of time, or even a short amount of time in terms of a holiday (so you can use a thread to discuss it). But I'll admit that when it happens repeatedly by the same people you start to question them.

Sometimes it's just an impulsive choice following an argument for example, but then you could always state it in your profile or something saying 'Taking a break' or something similar instead of creating a thread. Other times it is for attention and that does get annoying... I don't really have time for people like that. Constant moaning in real life is irritating enough - people don't want it on a forum.

[Captain.Remy]

Yes I'm quite annoyed with that, I don't like people who always complaining and moaning or trying to get some attention, even in real life I can't stand people like "oh I'm tired" "oh I'm ill" "oh I'm fed up with..."

If you want to go, then leave and stop complaining about "a member didn't talk to me in a good way". I had loads of arguments here and I didn't leave and trust me sometimes I really wanted to but I've never opened a thread about "Please would you have some pity for me and please tell me to stay I want loads of attention".

So people who want to quit, leave the forum and everybody will be happy.

[SiMoN!]

Originally posted by postandpollmad
its like when chanelle left

lol that one way of putting it

but i would say it more like ziggy - because they dont actully go

[Matt08]

Originally posted by sunshine30
Yes I'm quite annoyed with that, I don't like people who always complaining and moaning or trying to get some attention, even in real life I can't stand people like "oh I'm tired" "oh I'm ill" "oh I'm fed up with..."

If you want to go, then leave and stop complaining about "a member didn't talk to me in a good way". I had loads of arguments here and I didn't leave and trust me sometimes I really wanted to but I've never opened a thread about "Please would you have some pity for me and please tell me to stay I want loads of attention".

So people who want to quit, leave the forum and everybody will be happy.

Totally agree Remy! :thumbs:

[supernoodles!]

There probs doing it like you say either for attention or just to raise their number of posts,its boring though we dont want to read about it

[Ann]

do youknow something im ageeing with this as it is awful on the regular members now then i know i wasnton for at least a week or so but i was cut off the internet which like Ash said that is a reason but when they do it often it is very anoying :mad:

[Matt08]

I've left for certian reasons before but i've never made a big fuss over it, just wrote a message somewhere on my profile saying 'Be back soon' or something.

[Mrluvaluva]

I'm leaving. :tongue:

[Mrluvaluva]

I'm back!

[TopzTom]

I'm leaving.

Just kidding. :wink:

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Ann
do youknow something Im ageeing with this as it is awful on the regular members now then i know i wasnton for at least a week or so but i was cut off the internet which like Ash said that is a reason but when they do it often it is very anoying :mad:

yeah i agree ann its just the people who say im leaving im fed up of you all then 5 mins later theres a post saying oh im staying after all,then a few days later they`ll be posting about how there off again:mad:

[SiMoN!]

Originally posted by Mrluvaluva
I'm leaving. :tongue:

'oh no plz dont go'

[MarkWaldorf]

I've only ever left once, and I was gone two weeks. I didn't post a thread or anything because I didn't want the attention. Sometimes people do get annoyed with a member, or just need a break and leave. Depeding on how long you leave, I don't think a thread is needed. That's what the mood space or your signature is for; personal messages.

[Jackie]

im going now:laugh2::laugh2::laugh2::laugh2::laugh2:

[Ann]

Originally posted by MarkChap?!
I've only ever left once, and I was gone two weeks. I didn't post a thread or anything because I didn't want the attention. Sometimes people do get annoyed with a member, or just need a break and leave. Depeding on how long you leave, I don't think a thread is needed. That's what the mood space or your signature is for; personal messages. so was it best if i left a message in my sig then mark :hug:

[Matt08]

I think I might leave now aswell :laugh2:

[supernoodles!]

lol:laugh2:If I ever leave which i might have to do so soon becuase im gonna be really busy ill post it in my thread:thumbs:

[Jackie]

im back now:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

[supernoodles!]

i mean my sig lol

[Fat.Rat]

yeah dude!!:spin2::spin2:

[Ann]

but it is getting a bit daft just leaving a message on the forum just to build up peoples hopes and then leave a message for when they want to come back on again like markchap said why cant they leave a message in their signatures or on their profile it saves using up threads on here :shrug::hug:

[Milena]

I've just got here. So, I'm not leaving. :tongue:


And, by the way fat.rat. That is one scary ass clown! :shocked:

[KKBL]

im going
EDITED:im staying
EDITED:im going
EDITED:im definetly staying
EDITED:im 100% sure this is my last post goodbye
EDITED:actualy iv had a change of heat im stayin!

[Fat.Rat]

:xyxwave:

[Ann]

Originally posted by CathalOS
Im going
EDITED:im staying
EDITED:im going
EDITED:im definetly staying
EDITED:im 100% sure this is my last post goodbye
EDITED:actualy iv had a change of heat Im stayin! that is funny mate cool on you :hug::joker:

[KKBL]

i was only joking...

[supernoodles!]

thank god for that lol

[Mrluvaluva]

Hellooooooooooooooooo. I am a newbie.

[Milena]

So am I... !
Except you aren't.
Shame on You.
Trying to trick newbies.

[Ann]

Originally posted by Mrluvaluva
Hellooooooooooooooooo. I am a newbie. ha ha Baz you are so funny you dont fool me mate:hug:

[SiMoN!]

Originally posted by Ann
Originally posted by Mrluvaluva
Hellooooooooooooooooo. I am a newbie. ha ha Baz you are so funny you dont fool me mate:hug:

oh dam - he had the rest of us fooled there

[Milena]

Your delivery is spot-on Simon. :laugh:

[Sunny_01]

I dont like them either, I live in a constant state of confusion at the best of times without having to wonder about who is or who is not leaving then coming back tomorrow.

If anyone is missing for more than a week I will send out a search party anyway so hey no worries we will find out if you are throwing an e-strop

[Milena]

Lmao @ "e-strop"

I've had many, many of those. :tongue:

[Sunny_01]

Me as well Milena!!!

[Mrluvaluva]

Lol. I am enjoying myself on here so much now!

[Milena]

Life is good.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Mrluvaluva
Lol. I am enjoying myself on here so much now!

Same I've never enjoyed TIBB like that before ! I love TIBB, so far so good ! :thumbs:
I won't leave it until I die for sure. :laugh:

[Milena]

LoL.. that's what I call enthusiasm Sunshine!

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Milena
LoL.. that's what I call enthusiasm Sunshine!

Haha thanks, it's just that plenty of things happened since I'm here (February 2006), arguments, fun, shows and stuff, sometimes I was sad, I wanted to leave but I've never told anyone, I hate showing emotions.
And now I'm so happy to be here, they all did accept me as a french guy who didn't speak english fluent at all, the members teached me so much things, I don't know how to thank us.

[Legend]

Originally posted by Milena
Lmao @ "e-strop"

I've had many, many of those. :tongue:

You're not the only one. There's a new strop on here everyday.

As for the question, yeah I think everyone is getting fed up of seeing them now, don't we have a ''I'm Leaving'' thread somewhere anyway?

[Legend]

Originally posted by sunshine30
Message original : Milena
LoL.. that's what I call enthusiasm Sunshine!

Haha thanks, it's just that plenty of things happened since I'm here (February 2006), arguments, fun, shows and stuff, sometimes I was sad, I wanted to leave but I've never told anyone, I hate showing emotions.
And now I'm so happy to be here, they all did accept me as a french guy who didn't speak english fluent at all, the members teached me so much things, I don't know how to thank us.

You speak better English than some of the members who av lvd in englnd al der livs!!!

You can barely notice you don't speak it fluently.

[Milena]

I hadn't noticed one so far, but I'm sure if I looked through the archives I'll find one.

[gracie24]

Originally posted by Ash
I think if there's maybe a valid reason it's OK to announce it, e.g. if it's for a long period of time, or even a short amount of time in terms of a holiday (so you can use a thread to discuss it). But I'll admit that when it happens repeatedly by the same people you start to question them.

Sometimes it's just an impulsive choice following an argument for example, but then you could always state it in your profile or something saying 'Taking a break' or something similar instead of creating a thread. Other times it is for attention and that does get annoying... I don't really have time for people like that. Constant moaning in real life is irritating enough - people don't want it on a forum.

perfectly said!

[Conzors]

Originally posted by gracie24
Originally posted by Ash
I think if there's maybe a valid reason it's OK to announce it, e.g. if it's for a long period of time, or even a short amount of time in terms of a holiday (so you can use a thread to discuss it). But I'll admit that when it happens repeatedly by the same people you start to question them.

Sometimes it's just an impulsive choice following an argument for example, but then you could always state it in your profile or something saying 'Taking a break' or something similar instead of creating a thread. Other times it is for attention and that does get annoying... I don't really have time for people like that. Constant moaning in real life is irritating enough - people don't want it on a forum.

perfectly said!

Lool

[Legend]

Give it a few more hours and I'm sure one will appear. :tongue: TiBB wouldn't be the same if it was strop-free though.

[Milena]

Yeah, every forum needs stroppy-ness.

[Dan_]

It does get a bit tiresome when people come back a few days after they've gone, it's best to just keep your mouth shut and go away and then start posting again if you wish to.

Bloody diva's.

[Milena]

HaHa. Not a fan of the "diva" then Dan?

[Legend]

Originally posted by Milena
Yeah, every forum needs stroppy-ness.

Aye.


bl***y diva's.


:laugh: :laugh:

Very good shout.

[Milena]

I bet you are a closet diva legend. :laugh:

[Legend]

I have my diva-ish moments. :wink:

[Dan_]

Originally posted by Milena
HaHa. Not a fan of the "diva" then Dan?

Too much hard work, and comparable to light being turned on/off repetitively in the annoyance factor.

[Milena]

Not so bad that you can admit it then. haha

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Legend


You speak better English than some of the members who av lvd in englnd al der livs!!!

You can barely notice you don't speak it fluently.

Haha thanks, now I speak englosh fluent of course, but TIBB helped me so much, I speak english for 12 years so now it's alright.
I won't leave TIBB for sure, it's so much things going on ! :tongue:

[Kristen]

I made a 'I'm leaving' thread once but that was at the time everyone was doing it so I was jumping on the bandwagon :whistle:
I must say the constant goodbye threads annoy me as whenever they are posted the member returns in less than 48 hours.

[Ruth*Star]

I've kinda left once, i came back and made a thread saying sorry for any inconvience i caused, but people saying
I'm going....Cya Later

Then Hey presto 2ish days later

I've changed my mind i'm staying does get annoying, i think there should be a goodbye thread and a welcome back thread, so its all in one place.

[supernoodles!]

I agree that would be the best way to keep it under control and it means not everyone has to read it

[Magic]

Originally posted by Ruth*Star
goodbye thread and a welcome back thread, so its all in one place.

Bump.
The threads do get tiresome.

Hint. Hint.
:wink:

[Matt08]

I think people just make them to get some attention. The best thing to do would be to change their personal status to 'Having a break' or something along those lines.

[natjake2504]

What a great thread - totally agree just never thought of saying it well done simon xxxx

[Diablo]

Originally posted by SiMoN!
is any one else getting annoyed with all the threds started about people going or staying - this thred is amied at antone bu there lots of them

i just see it as people who are wnting attention - if your were gunna go jus go.


I completely agree.. I never reply with a "please dont leave" :devil: I usually just go -- :xyxwave:

[Dan_]

Originally posted by Diablo
Originally posted by SiMoN!
is any one else getting annoyed with all the threds started about people going or staying - this thred is amied at antone bu there lots of them

i just see it as people who are wnting attention - if your were gunna go jus go.


I completely agree.. I never reply with a "please dont leave" :devil: I usually just go -- :xyxwave:

:laugh: that's becoming a standard response.

Good to see you on here again Diablo.How have you been?

[Diablo]

i've been great.. been busy with the new house and wot not but the wedding plans are postponed.. boohoo... apart from that i'm fab, got a wee bit of spare time now, so thought i'd come back here for a while. :elephant:

[Dan_]

I expected you to be married by now :joker:.

What better way to use up some spare time than on your favourite internet time waster eh? Not so many odious creeps to contend with since you were last on :whistle:

[Diablo]

LOL.. memories.. I cant beleive that a forum without an odious creep exists. hehe.. do Linda, Sue, Jay etc still come on here?

[Dan_]

Originally posted by Diablo
LOL.. memories.. I cant beleive that a forum without an odious creep exists. hehe.. do Linda, Sue, Jay etc still come on here?

There's still a few about, not seen half keyboard boy in a while though lol.

Linda's been banned and I barely ever see Sue or Jay on here any more.The demise of team damn :sad:.

[Diablo]

Damn! :bored:

ahh well.. Why am i not surprised that Linda got banned!! I am surprised that sue doesnt post here much.. maybe building up a huge postcount elsewhere..? lol:devil:

[Diablo]

lol.. that was the team damn logo i put there.. i forgot about the cheerleaders.. lol..

[Dan_]

Linda got even to some dispute with another member, he was a putrid creep.Sue must have found somewhere else to post, cannot imagine her not occupying her time posting about things to do with a cucumber :whistle:

Lol, damn censoring!

[Diablo]

maybe sue is here..... with a different name.... coooo eeeeee.. oh, what about Ella? .

[Diablo]

maybe sue is here..... with a different name.... coooo eeeeee.. oh, what about Ella? .

[Dan_]

Or she's off to the shops for some more spam.

Ella's not been on much either.

[Diablo]

busy with a wee baby maybe?? lol.. censor spam not damn.. lol

[Dan_]

I know it's on the way, don't think it's due yet though.

Aye, good old damn never hurt anyone but people choke on spam.It also has the strange effect on your eyes and your sanity.

Remember this old thread? http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=40681#pid292913

Lol.

[Diablo]

i dont remember that one.. i used to ignore some of sues threads TBH.. :devil: lol.. dont tell her tho.. i've got a better idea for a thread.. 102 things to do with a cabbage.. lol..

[Dan_]

:laugh: it was a classic, just got better as it went on.

The cabbage thread would be another classic.Perhaps not up to the level of 124 1/2 things to with a parsnip.

[Diablo]

how about a simple spam competition.. we might even lure some people back to TiBB if we had one of them.. :devil:

[Dan_]

Dunno how that would go down, think someone broke the attachment button :tongue:

[Diablo]

i've just been lookin at some other threads.. I dont know anyone here anymore.. whats with the OK thing?

OK! lol

[Dan_]

Originally posted by Diablo
i've just been lookin at some other threads.. I dont know anyone here anymore.. whats with the OK thing?

OK! lol

Must be a fan club for that celeb magazine :wink:.

Seriously, it was a daft bit of mickey taking that got out of hand.Talk about spamtastic!

[Diablo]

reminds me of mr garrison from south park.. lol.. hope simon doesnt get annoyed cos we kinda hijacked his thread..

[Dan_]

He's not around much any more either so I shouldn't imagine he'll object too much :laugh:.It was bumped up by someone else anyway.

You been looking at many other threads? I'm sure you'll come across some of the stuff by flavaflav soon.

[Diablo]

i just found a flava flav one asking why he was called a social misfit.. lol..

[Dan_]

There's plenty more like that.I'm sure you're not surprised to learn he's banned, but he keeps lingering like a bad smell.

[Diablo]

odious creep? lol

[Diablo]

it seems like i've not been here for years!!

[Dan_]

Originally posted by Diablo
odious creep? lol

I'd like to think of him more as a flaming mentalist.