HELP ME (teenage problem)

[Loukas]

hey everyone

double here im very scarreeeddd about tomorow

my friend is having a party and where going to hapstend heath then going so sleep round and stuff

but im worried about stuff and i need your help and stuff

1st:
people are going to get drunk and stuff i think :puzzled: and i puzzled

2ed:
if i do get drunk or hiper and just snog someone else i have a boyfriend and all AND IM SCARD

i dont want to get drunk

experimenting and stuff please help me
PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE

im scared

DT

[Billy]

Aww Just dont get drunk lol, or ask one of your more responsible friends to keep an eye on youu

[Magic]

Just have fun. Dont worry about it!

[Benji]

should you really be getting drunk at 14?

[Loukas]

people i no

NO I SOULDENT GET DRUNK

but my mates will and im scared ITS LIKE SKINS WITH NO DRUGS :(

[Billy]

Just dont get drunk, just say you dont want to its not hard

[Captain.Remy]

Good thing, Sunshine30 is an expert of these situations. :wink:

So first of all, I'm going to resolve your first point "people are going to get drunk and stuff i think :puzzled: and i puzzled"

Remy's answer: Actually it's a party so normally people are going to be drunk but no worries at all, you don't want to drink you don't. You can drink one glass or two but not more if you don't feel too. If you don't feel comfortable with these people then go away. Don't be shocked by what you will see.

Secondly "if i do get drunk or hiper and just snog someone else i have a boyfriend and all AND Im SCARD"

Remy's answer: The probability of having a **** when you are drunk are very low, it doesn't happen everytime you are. You have to be very drunk if you snog someone and more. But if it happens, no worries, you are drunk, we were in an other world, you can be forgiven, I know what I'm talking about.

Conclusion: Apparently you haven't the habit to go to a party so let's relaw, find some friend you get along with, don't drunk if you don't want to and everything will be alright. You will have fun of course !

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Benji
should you really be getting drunk at 14?

Of course you can, there is no age for that...well there is the legal age :rolleyes:

[Billy]

Remy - Not everyone sees it like that "you were drunk tis ok you can be forgiven", Im sure DTs boyfriend wouldnt see it like that

[Loukas]

Billy you havent met my mates there hard to say no to

i will try :conf2:

[Bells]

You are young, but one of the most important things you’ll learn is that if you’re happy in a relationship you shouldn’t allow yourself to cheat in that relationship. Drinking now and again is fine; I started at 13 – at parties that is – so just avoid getting yourself into such a state where you ‘sleep around’! At 14 that’s a vulnerable position to put yourself in…You do learn from mistakes but when you’re young and starting out it helps to be aware.

But at the end of the day you’re going to have fun – so hopefully all this will just be at the back of your mind while you enjoy the party!

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Billy
Remy - Not everyone sees it like that "you were drunk tis ok you can be forgiven", Im sure DTs boyfriend wouldnt see it like that

No but you have an excuse actually. It does depend how much you are drunk and you can control yourself. Being drunk is something hard because you want to do things you don't normally (kissing you bestfriend :rolleyes:) or revealing some secrets or things.

Double, if you say no to your friend they will understand, just have fun, you can have fun without being drunk. :thumbs:

[Benji]

You shouldnt be pressured into peer pressure.

[Callum]

I never knew you were gay DoubleTrouble. :thumbs:

Just try not not to get drunk, if you do don't worry we all make mistakes in life.

[Loukas]

no gay callum

Bi mate :wink:

[xDramatick]

My mates always drink around me
Just be strong and say no.
I'm only fifteen myself, and gay xD but that's beside the point.

As long as you show you that you don't want to drink, and you're gonna stick to it, then they should leave you alone.
If they don't, they're not worth it.

[Loukas]

i want to...

but im confused

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Callum
I never knew you were gay DoubleTrouble. :thumbs:

Just try not not to get drunk, if you do don't worry we all make mistakes in life.

Same for me I didn't know you are Double.

Well as Callum said, we are all stronger by learning from our mistakes so now I know to not shave my friend's dog, not burning the couch, not snoging my ex-girlfriend's bestfriend, do not kiss my own bestfriend and do not say that my ennemy's mother is a witch.

Have fun Double ! :wink::thumbs:

[Loukas]

IM BI looooooool

i like girls and boys :banana:

my freinds call me greedy :)

[beanny]

Just Get Drunk, Partyy & Have Fun! Woo.
:whistle:

[Scarlett.]

Be yourself mate, dont do anything you dont want to

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : beannyy2k7
Just Get Drunk, Partyy & Have Fun! Woo.
:whistle:

Actually it's my life philosophy but Double doesn't want to so don't worry mate it will be alrite ! :thumbs:

[Callum]

Pmsl Remy at 'My enemy's mother is a witch' :laugh2:

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Callum
Pmsl Remy at 'My enemy's mother is a witch' :laugh2:

Yes actually it was my rival for the "Student of the Year" elections and as I'm a competitive boy, I went in front of his house at 3am shouting "Mrs ........ is a ********* witch, get up big witch" well they wanted to call the police but they didn't. I was so drunk lol :hugesmile:

[Magic]

You will be Fine!

[Mrluvaluva]

DT. Don't do anything you don't want to do. Do not feel pressurised. If people egg you on, do not rise to it, and if you do feel uncomfortable, then leave and go home. You should tell a friend where you are going too, if your parents don't know where you are.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Mrluvaluva
DT. Don't do anything you don't want to do. Do not feel pressurised. If people egg you on, do not rise to it, and if you do feel uncomfortable, then leave and go home. You should tell a friend where you are going too, if your parents don't know where you are.

Yes I do agree I said it earlier but I repeat it, leave it it you don't feel good but normally everything will be alright ! :thumbs:

[Magic]

Originally posted by sunshine30
Message original : Mrluvaluva
DT. Don't do anything you don't want to do. Do not feel pressurised. If people egg you on, do not rise to it, and if you do feel uncomfortable, then leave and go home. You should tell a friend where you are going too, if your parents don't know where you are.

Yes I do agree I said it earlier but I repeat it, leave it it you don't feel good but normally everything will be alright ! :thumbs:

Wise Words from wise men!:joker:

[Mrluvaluva]

You can join Remy and I. We can be the 3 wise men! :joker:

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Magic-Shoes


Wise Words from wise men!:joker:

Lol sure, I can be a huge party-boy, clubber, whatever you call it I've always been respectful with people who didn't want to drink or more.
Some people are awkard and it's not good.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Mrluvaluva
You can join Remy and I. We can be the 3 wise men! :joker:

OMG Luva I didn't know you were a hot party-boy lol :laugh2::tongue:

[Magic]

We three men from This is big brother...
Giving advise we travel a far!!

I hate those people at partys that sit in the corner and wont talk to you even! Especially at family occasions!

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Magic-Shoes
We three men from This is big brother...
Giving advise we travel a far!!

I hate those people at partys that sit in the corner and wont talk to you even! Especially at family occasions!

It depends which type of family occasion is.
Of course it's annoying to invite someone who doesn't talk.
But it never happened to my parties as they are always such a big success...especially when my parents are on holidays ! :rolleyes:

[Flavaflav]

just dont go

[BB8:(]

you can get drunk it fun

but just to warn you i got drunk from the age of 12- 15 every week i and did a hell of a lot of stupid things which i regret

[beanny]

Originally posted by sunshine30
Message original : beannyy2k7
Just Get Drunk, Partyy & Have Fun! Woo.
:whistle:

Actually it's my life philosophy but Double doesn't want to so don't worry mate it will be alrite ! :thumbs:

My Life Philpsophy Too Hahaa.
Bring On Tomorow Night =]

[Nicola]

I wasn't drinking socially until I was 17, before that it was just a glass of wine at Christmas, and got drunk for the first time at home when I was 15 - my mum dealt with me then!

I'd say do what you feel comfortable with, if you want a drink or two then that's fine as long as someone makes sure you don't get up to anything untoward. I wasn't interested in that sort of stuff at 14, I wouldn't have handled certain social situations either sober or drunk!

[Loukas]

THANKS FOR THE EDVISE EVERYONE

[Magic]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
just dont go

Ignore that! The Issue will only come around another time!

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by sunshine30
Message original : Mrluvaluva
You can join Remy and I. We can be the 3 wise men! :joker:

OMG Luva I didn't know you were a hot party-boy lol :laugh2::tongue:

You would be surprised! I can party with the best of them. And outdo them. Go on a night out with me in London and you would be surprised! Sometimes they don't end until around 10am the next morning! :bigsmile:

[Sam!]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Im BI looooooool

i like girls and boys :banana:

my freinds call me greedy :)

OMG! Your out! Blooody ell your brave at 14! I wouldnt have the nerve to tell people im bi haha

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by Funky Sam
Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Im BI looooooool

i like girls and boys :banana:

my freinds call me greedy :)

OMG! Your out! Blooody ell your brave at 14! I wouldnt have the nerve to tell people Im bi haha

Are you?

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Funky Sam
Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Im BI looooooool

i like girls and boys :banana:

my freinds call me greedy :)

OMG! Your out! Blooody ell your brave at 14! I wouldnt have the nerve to tell people Im bi haha

DIDENT YOU JUST SAY lol

[Sam!]

Haha no i mean in real life to my friends and family and kinda yeh i am prob like 30% guys 70% girls, Kate Nash and Chanelle is holding back that 70% :P

[BB8:(]

if i was gay or bi i would never come out of the closet

[Sam!]

haha closet woo! :dance:

[Mrluvaluva]

Lol. Was only joking. I know what you meant.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Mrluvaluva

You would be surprised! I can party with the best of them. And outdo them. Go on a night out with me in London and you would be surprised! Sometimes they don't end until around 10am the next morning! :bigsmile:

I knew it, we are exactly identical, great ! :tongue:
The biggest party boys on TIBB wooo ! :hugesmile:

[stacey]

i'm 14 too and it is hard to say no especially to your friends but if they were really your friends then they'd respect your decision that you have a boyfriend and you don't want to drink or cheat on your boyfriend and even if they do fall out with you they won't hold it against you for long i'm sure of it so go to the party, have a good time and if you friends give you grief maybe you should just go stand with some kids with a head in a book for an hour or so :bigsmile:

[Loukas]

people i cant sleep its like 4:30 in the morning i just cant sleep :(

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : DoubleTrouble
people i cant sleep its like 4:30 in the morning i just cant sleep :(

Normally you are supposed to sleep right now lol :thumbs:

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : DoubleTrouble
people i cant sleep its like 4:30 in the morning i just cant sleep :(

Normally you are supposed to sleep right now ! :thumbs:

[Loukas]

remy i no im suposed to sleep but i just cant
im going all round ldn with like 45 mates LOOOL

singing hsm2 song dancing round singing what time is it CANT WAIT

but i just hope i dont fall asleep LOL

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : DoubleTrouble
remy i no Im suposed to sleep but i just cant
Im going all round ldn with like 45 mates LOOOL

singing hsm2 song dancing round singing what time is it CANT WAIT

but i just hope i dont fall asleep LOL

No you won't fall asleep but try to sleep today before, you will be in a dancing mood tonight ! :laugh:

[Loukas]

i cant i meeting my mates at 12 and theres no point because if i doI WONT GET UP