please can we stop falling out over silly things

[Ann]

I thought I should make this thread as I dont know about you members but there seems to be alot of falling out between members and to me I think its not very fair on the staff on TIBB and the other members so can we please make up and learn how to get on together as the TIBB family we should be always thanks for your thoughts and I love you all :hug::kiss:

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Ann
I thought I should make this thread as I dont know about you members but there seems to be alot of falling out between members and to me I think its not very fair on the staff on TIBB and the other members so can we please make up and learn how to get on together as the TIBB family we should be always thanks for your thoughts and I love you all :hug::kiss:

I do agree Ann I'm so fed up with liars and possible "victims" of bullies in here. If any kind of bullying would have been detected, trust me the mods would have done something.
It's getting so ridiculous.

So it's time to love each other babe ! :flowers:

[Ann]

thanks for agreeing Remy its not fair on just falling out all the time we need to get on :hug:

[Scarlett.]

I want TiBB to be a fun place to be like when I first joined

[Retroman]

Im all too familiar with arguments lately...
Especially seems half of the forum were convinced I was someone else who they all hated >_< and it's not good for the forum to have such an argumentative community.

However, some members here enjoy debates and discussing difference of opinions. If the arguments are kept to serious topics, or the debates forum, I think that'll do fine.

Petty arguments over trivial matters in some of the other forums seem to go on forever, and have no meaning.

[officialleafan]

I do agree, however i believe that if someone has said something to someone else then that matter should be delt with. But some arguments are very petty if you ask me.

[Ann]

i totally agree :thumbs:

[Captain.Remy]

Bring back the old TIBB please !!!! :cheer2:

[officialleafan]

I wouldn't say "bring back old TIBB" i personally think that a forum needs a good argument. But i think that the arguments are getting out of hand lately.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : officialleafan
I wouldn't say "bring back old TIBB" i personally think that a forum needs a good argument. But i think that the arguments are getting out of hand lately.

A good argument ? I don't know if you realize the current situation, we have arguments everyday and for no reasons or for misunderstanding.
Why can't people love each other and respect the different opinions without thinking we bully them ?

[Dani-x]

PEACE AND LOVE

[officialleafan]

As i said, the arguments are getting out of hand lately.

[Ann]

that is very true Remy and theres no need for it either because think of the staff that have to keep the forum keeping good for us members :thumbs:

[MarkWaldorf]

The forum hasn't been the same for a while now..:bored:

[Callum]

I want TiBB to be back to that happy, fun place where everyone got on.
Arguments have risen lately.

[Ann]

Callum and Mark well said there I totally agree :bored:

[Captain.Remy]

I think I'm going to ignore all the "I'm so bullied by old members" members because it's not going to be good.
I just want to enjoy the life here and to talk with my TIBB friends and let the dullards arguing alone.

[KissyLittleMissy]

Originally posted by sunshine30
I think I'm going to ignore all the "I'm so bullied by old members" members because it's not going to be good.
I just want to enjoy the life here and to talk with my TIBB friends and let the dullards arguing alone.

i wont argue with you unless im right and your defo wrong:laugh: but it will be more friendly if i can keep my nerve

[Ann]

yes but what im pointing out is when theres alot of falling out on here its the staff that have to deal with it and to me dont you think they have enough to do with keeping the forum as it should be so cant we just get back to the happy forum it should be please im not asking much really :thumbs:

[~Kizwiz~]

Sites change..... people come and go and with that brings different opinions.

Nobody can get along with everyone and it cant always be sweetness and light and sugar and spice.

Personlly, I could say that this place has changed dramtically since I joined over two years ago..... but I wouldnt ever say bring back the old tibb as that is offensive to new people who have joined.

[Red Moon]

The easiest way to avoid the silly fights is to remember one of main rules:

Members of TiBB are not allowed to insult other members

Follow that rule at all times and check your post before you press the "Post Reply" button.

In general what I see is people getting too personal and accusing people of things they don't think they have done or they have done in jest. What needs to happen is for people to report any posts that they feel are suspect and not to try play moderator and tell them off just because you are an older member.

All members are equal, be they new or old.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : KissyLittleMissy
Originally posted by sunshine30
I think I'm going to ignore all the "I'm so bullied by old members" members because it's not going to be good.
I just want to enjoy the life here and to talk with my TIBB friends and let the dullards arguing alone.

i wont argue with you unless Im right and your defo wrong:laugh: but it will be more friendly if i can keep my nerve

We didn't argue as much as I know lol :hugesmile: You're a nice member. :wink:

[Matt08]

One of the biggest argument starters has been banned now anyway, so we can sigh in relief. :spin2:

[Magic]

Originally posted by Matthew
One of the biggest argument starters has been banned now anyway, so we can sigh in relief. :spin2:

Are you allowed to say who?

[Matt08]

Yeah I expect so, bb8:(

[Sunny_01]

I think that we as the members make the forum what it is, so for those of you that think it isnt the same have a think about what you can do differently to make things better!!

Arguing is tiresome and stops decent debate as people feel intimidated into not stating their opinions, lets all have a group hug and try to get along xxx

[Matt08]

The forum has been alot happier the last few days. Keep up the good attitude people :thumbs:

[Chrizzle]

I dont come on much anymore because of the pathetic arguements.
I come on to check updates and comment about the X Factor.

One of my arguements was about farhad because I was fed up of the way people were treating him and his threads, nothing was done though. Luckily it has calmed down.

I don't have anyone on here I hugely dislike, or even argue with, but the mood is so dark, so meh.

[Lauren]

If anyone annoys me I leave for a while until I know I'm not going to unncessarily argue with them. It works.

[Kaz]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
I think that we as the members make the forum what it is, so for those of you that think it isnt the same have a think about what you can do differently to make things better!!

Arguing is tiresome and stops decent debate as people feel intimidated into not stating their opinions, lets all have a group hug and try to get along xxx
Couldn't agree more, Sunny. :thumbs:

And here's my group hug for all of you ............. http://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/liebe/d010.gif .

Lauren - welcome back, you've been missed. :hug:

[Magic]

Originally posted by Kaz
Originally posted by Sunny_01
I think that we as the members make the forum what it is, so for those of you that think it isnt the same have a think about what you can do differently to make things better!!

Arguing is tiresome and stops decent debate as people feel intimidated into not stating their opinions, lets all have a group hug and try to get along xxx
Couldn't agree more, Sunny. :thumbs:

And here's my group hug for all of you ............. http://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smilie/liebe/d010.gif .

Lauren - welcome back, you've been missed. :hug:

Agree to all of that!

[KissyLittleMissy]

Originally posted by sunshine30
Message original : KissyLittleMissy
Originally posted by sunshine30
I think I'm going to ignore all the "I'm so bullied by old members" members because it's not going to be good.
I just want to enjoy the life here and to talk with my TIBB friends and let the dullards arguing alone.

i wont argue with you unless Im right and your defo wrong:laugh: but it will be more friendly if i can keep my nerve

We didn't argue as much as I know lol :hugesmile: You're a nice member. :wink:

ahh thanks sunshine:kiss: i am glad i am thought of by you as a nice member:thumbs: i guess some newbies can cause a real stir

[Ann]

I couldnt agree with you more kissylittlemissy it is just a few of the new members that are starting to argue but with us i think myself we should learn them to calm down what would you think to that one :lovedup:

[Fat.Rat]

Originally posted by Ann
I couldnt agree with you more kissylittlemissy it is just a few of the new members that are starting to argue but with us i think myself we should learn them to calm down what would you think to that one :lovedup: :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:, aww see thats nice int it.:lovedup::lovedup:

[KissyLittleMissy]

Originally posted by Ann
I couldnt agree with you more kissylittlemissy it is just a few of the new members that are starting to argue but with us i think myself we should learn them to calm down what would you think to that one :lovedup:

yes i agree and i am not doing any wrong smilys either or i will get a warning and i dont want that:sad: i bet theres worse members anyroads and that prob makes the matter worse sometimes for others and you seem nice and friendly to Ann:kiss: i like your message in your signature

[Ann]

thanks for that mate i put that in because i feel that all of you are my second family and i love everyone on here it does mean alot to have loads of friends ive always said :hug::hug:

[KissyLittleMissy]

Originally posted by Ann
thanks for that mate i put that in because i feel that all of you are my second family and i love everyone on here it does mean alot to have loads of friends ive always said :hug::hug:

glad to be one:thumbs: im Sandra by the way:spin2: only new but enjoin the fun slowly. got to log off now though as my brother is moaning to get on here and im on his computer see:sad: seeya later:xyxwave:

[Ann]

see ya laters Sandra and take care too :hug:

[Ann]

Originally posted by Fat.Rat.X
Originally posted by Ann
I couldnt agree with you more kissylittlemissy it is just a few of the new members that are starting to argue but with us i think myself we should learn them to calm down what would you think to that one :lovedup: :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:, aww see thats nice int it.:lovedup::lovedup: fatrat glad you liked that :hug::hug:

[Fat.Rat]

Originally posted by Ann
Originally posted by Fat.Rat.X
Originally posted by Ann
I couldnt agree with you more kissylittlemissy it is just a few of the new members that are starting to argue but with us i think myself we should learn them to calm down what would you think to that one :lovedup: :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:, aww see thats nice int it.:lovedup::lovedup: fatrat glad you liked that :hug::hug: :hug::hug::kiss::kiss::kiss:

[Ann]

thanks dear TIBB friend you are so kind :thumbs::thumbs::thumbs:

[Fat.Rat]

Originally posted by Ann
thanks dear TIBB friend you are so kind :thumbs::thumbs::thumbs: :lovedup::lovedup::lovedup::kiss:

[Ann]

so what you up to today then mate ive been cleaning all morning :whistle: