What's your relationship status?

[Matt08]

Title explains it all.

[Arneldo]

Very, very, very single :bored:

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Very, very, very single :bored:
Happy and single? or Sad and single?
I used to love being single, now it's just boring and lonely :bawling:

[Arneldo]

I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

[Ruth*Star]

Single, and i couldn't care less, i've had 2 BF, one online and one from school and they both didn't work so i'll wait till i leave school untill i think about getting another bf.

[Bells]

Single at the moment. My last proper relationship was ages ago, and since then I've had nothing serious. I think it's mainly because I'm really picky to be honest. But at the moment I'm quite happy being single and I did always want to remain so for uni etc. And now especially for next summer, when I'm going on holiday with friends! I can't see me entering a long-term relationship anytime soon, but then you never know I guess.

[BigSister]

im single

[Ann]

im in a relationship thank you:xyxwave:

[cujo-man]

Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

[KKBL]

theres loads of people my age i know that are "going " with somone but i think 14 is wayyy to young to get in to anything like that!

[Matt08]

Originally posted by CathalOS
theres loads of people my age i know that are "going " with somone but i think 14 is wayyy to young to get in to anything like that!

I had a girlfriend last year, it was a massive mistake and it never turned out very well.

[Arneldo]

Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

[Retroman]

Single and looking...
I wouldn't say im unhappy, but I do think id be much happier with a girlfriend.
Then again, most people would be happier with a partner.

My last serious relationship was three years, from when I was 15-18 years old, we lived together etc. Since then ive had seven casual relationships? I think.

By casual, I mean they didn't last very long lol. As one did claim to love me =/

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

Do your friends know that your gay?

[supernoodles!]

taken:rolleyes:
and its a roll eyes smilie coz im not in a good place atm relationship wise

[Bells]

That's a shame supernoodles. It's probably just a phase though! I hope everything works out well.

[Retroman]

Originally posted by Arneldo
It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

I imagine it's a problem finding people because you don't know if they're gay or not too? Unless you venture into a gay club.

I assume it's hard walking upto someone you find attractive and needing to find out/ask if they're gay or not.

[Bells]

Originally posted by Retroman
Since then ive had seven casual relationships? I think.

By casual, I mean they didn't last very long lol. As one did claim to love me =/

7 in 2 years is pretty good going!
Not too casual, but more like proper relationships that happened to be short.

[Retroman]

Originally posted by Ash
7 in 2 years is pretty good going!
Not too casual, but more like proper relationships that happened to be short.

I suppose if you look at it like that...
It's not so bad.

But unfortunately it was more like 1 and 1/2 years, as I haven't been out with anyone in the past six months. So you can imagine how short some of the relationships were lol. Which means there wasn't much chance to feel good about the relationship, because it didn't last long enough to mean something.

Relationships are tricky, the closer you are to a person the more you don't want to lose them, and the more it'll hurt if you do. When someone means a lot to you, it can often result in paranoia and jealousy because you really can't bare the thought of them running off with someone.

Trust is a hard thing to find I suppose, but I guess it's something most of us keep looking for. Problem is, you'll never know if you truly found it until you and your partner die together or something...until then, there's always the potential chance the trust could be broken.

[Bells]

It depends really. Some people do need to be in a relationship to be happy. I’m not one of those people at all, I don’t think... as I explained earlier. It’s probably because to an extent I agree that trust is hard to find and until I’m 100% confident that the guy’s as reliable as possible in the circumstances, I’ll still be sceptical. I always hope that the wait is worth it though. So far I’ve been doing OK.

[Arneldo]

Originally posted by Matthew
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

Do your friends know that your gay?

Nope. And they are all straight and like they would be out go "Oh look at that bird over there" and I'm just "yeah, she's nice" while I'm secretly checking out some guy :laugh:

[cujo-man]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by Matthew
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

Do your friends know that your gay?

Nope. And they are all straight and like they would be out go "Oh look at that bird over there" and I'm just "yeah, she's nice" while I'm secretly checking out some guy :laugh:

Do you not think they already kind of know?

Its like my friend. He doesn't say hes gay, but I'm like 99.9% sure he is.

[Arneldo]

Originally posted by Retroman
Originally posted by Arneldo
It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

I imagine it's a problem finding people because you don't know if they're gay or not too? Unless you venture into a gay club.

I assume it's hard walking upto someone you find attractive and needing to find out/ask if they're gay or not.

I've never been to a gay club, mainly because I'm 16. That's another reason why I haven't meet any guys. I have seen guys who are gay and they were the same age as me and they were just getting on with there lives and enjoying it and that's what makes me so angry. I'm 16 and I feel like I'm wasting my teenagers year by hiding this secret and I feel it puts a huge weight on my shoulders. I'm scared to go out and pissed with my mates in case a accidentally say something I'll regret.

[Arneldo]

Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by Matthew
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

Do your friends know that your gay?

Nope. And they are all straight and like they would be out go "Oh look at that bird over there" and I'm just "yeah, she's nice" while I'm secretly checking out some guy :laugh:

Do you not think they already kind of know?

Its like my friend. He doesn't say hes gay, but I'm like 99.9% sure he is.

I don't know, and I dont plan on asking them lol. You shouldn't assume somebody is gay or not gay. Well, I don't think you should anyway.

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by Matthew
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

Do your friends know that your gay?

Nope. And they are all straight and like they would be out go "Oh look at that bird over there" and I'm just "yeah, she's nice" while I'm secretly checking out some guy :laugh:

Do you not think they already kind of know?

Its like my friend. He doesn't say hes gay, but I'm like 99.9% sure he is.

I don't know, and I dont plan on asking them lol. You shouldn't assume somebody is gay or not gay. Well, I don't think you should anyway.

I haven't told any of my friends or family that i'm bi. It's alot more hassle than it's worth.

[supernoodles!]

i know you shouldnt assume but normally im right,i have a good 'gaydar' lol.I love james sutton btw-hes hot:lovedup:

[Arneldo]

Originally posted by Matthew
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by Matthew
Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by cujo_man
Originally posted by Arneldo
I'm always on the look out but it's hard cause I'm still haven't told family and friends that I'm gay.

Wow, that must be tough.

It is. Very tough, and fustrating. I'd see a guy when I'm out and it's not like I can really go up and chat to him cause I'm alays with my mates or family.

Do your friends know that your gay?

Nope. And they are all straight and like they would be out go "Oh look at that bird over there" and I'm just "yeah, she's nice" while I'm secretly checking out some guy :laugh:

Do you not think they already kind of know?

Its like my friend. He doesn't say hes gay, but I'm like 99.9% sure he is.

I don't know, and I dont plan on asking them lol. You shouldn't assume somebody is gay or not gay. Well, I don't think you should anyway.

I haven't told any of my friends or family that i'm bi. It's alot more hassle than it's worth.

I kinda think the same. I always say "I'll tell them tomorrow" but it never happends. I would never have the guts to just say it face-to-face. I just think to myself, I'll wait till after school and I'll go live my life and they will never have to know, but I guess I'm just kidding myself.

[Matt08]

Alot of people probably don't tell their friends and family after they've left school. They move away from the area and tell their friends and family that they're still single.

[supernoodles!]

It should just be like how it is for straight people,you just walk in tht room and say mam/dad can my bf/gf come round.Or come home from work/school or wherever and say oh mam/dad im going out with so and so from class.Unfortunatly it will never be that way i dont think

[ThaGazBoi]

Single and rather happy at the minute.

I had a three year relationship with a girl called Emily which didnt work out, then I had a four month relationship with a guy called Jake which didnt work out either- so I'm taking it easy and just having a laugh with my friends.

TBH, I much prefer being single and having a laugh. If the right person come's along for me.. Then that's a bonus.

[Legend]

Single and looking/getting to know someone better.

I've never been in a proper relationship, I've had a 6 month on/off but that REALLY was on/off ... I actually regret how it worked out as it was only untill it was finally off that I realised I wanted it back on, haha ... I was too late. :tongue:

However, I'd hate to ''fall in love'' so young, I'm happy enough with casual fun rather than love/moving in together/kids etc as I know some people my age who have been in 2 year relationships and I'm not interested in that right now ... loves too much of a commitment haha.

Aaron ... why don't you test your mates/family? LOL. ''Come out'' and see how they react ... then pretend it was all a joke. :laugh:

[supernoodles!]

I 'fell in love when I was 14',I was actually 13 when I started going out witht he person In question and Im 17 now and still with them.We`ve been very on off,but were still going lol.Its a really difficult thing to go through though being in love at such a young age.Its hard to cope with.

[Retroman]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
I 'fell in love when I was 14',I was actually 13 when I started going out witht he person In question and Im 17 now and still with them.We`ve been very on off,but were still going lol.Its a really difficult thing to go through though being in love at such a young age.Its hard to cope with.

I know how you feel...
Apparently the largest percentage of relationships that last forever, are those that started at secondary school.

But you also end up latching onto them because you've never had to go out there and look for a partner during your teenage years, and it seems pretty scary so you base your whole life on the one person.

Not that im saying you're just with your partner for conveniance, just that many people who get into relationships so young and stay in them...might be happier with someone else. They just daren't do it and stick to what they're used to instead.

In short, my only advice for people is to ask themselves if they're truly happy in their relationship. Or could things be much better? You only live once, and wasting years with people just because you don't want to be alone, will narrow your chances of finding someone who's better for you.

To those who are as happy as they could be, then you're lucky!

[gracie24]

Single :)

[Captain.Remy]

I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend, and in november, we will celebrate our 1st year together. :love::lovedup:

[KissyLittleMissy]

quite single and happy havin fun:hello: i have some good mates who i love so much:kiss: all girls but im happy with female company anyroads, i do get on with boys and if one came along and it was right id might take the plunge but mates come first with me so theyd have to accept that and i dont know whether they could:puzzled: but not botherd anyhow. i know one of my mates had loads of trouble with her boyfriend and ive seen other girls go through hell to so im cautious but im bi anyroads so perhaps it would be a girl. id never meet anyone on a chatroom or forum anyroads no way man too risky. my mates i know so well and i have a great life but bein not workin it does get boring sometimes but i always find stuff to do:thumbs:

[~Kizwiz~]

In a relationship with Red Moon :love:

[XxShortyxX]

I'm Single :bigsmile:

The last person I went out with was a guy, I have had so many relationships to last me a life time lol.

In some ways I am happy being single, but in other ways I ent lol. My brother and his gf are all lovedup, and I ent lol it's like, I dunno lol I do hate being single, but I'm only 20, so all my life ahead of me, unless I get hit by a bus and die or something lol

I have to admit I am looking for a gf, guys ust don't do it for me.

[XxShortyxX]

just*

[Sunny_01]

married for nearly 16 years and still sticking with it!

[n.l.o7]

single :(

[Dr43%er]

Split from my long term gf about a month ago. We were on off for 10 years. We are still mates but it was going no where, so we sat down and had a chat about what we should do. We both agreed it had ran it's course and although we still both love each other it was time to move on. I miss the cuddles but not the arguments. Miss the kids too.

Am not really looking for anyone at the mo, just having fun. If anything happens then it does.

As for cuddles, I have a cuddle buddy. A mate I have known for years. She is single too and if we go out we will sometimes end up holding hands. I am always welcome to go to hers and stay the night as we both like waking up in someone else's arms. It will go no further than cuddles though as we don't want to run the risk of confusing the friendship we have. It suits us both like it is.

[Nicola]

I've been in a relationship for almost 7 years now and loving it!

[Emilee]

Single and looking..

But single is more fun ;)

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Retroman
Originally posted by supernoodles!
I 'fell in love when I was 14',I was actually 13 when I started going out witht he person In question and Im 17 now and still with them.We`ve been very on off,but were still going lol.Its a really difficult thing to go through though being in love at such a young age.Its hard to cope with.

I know how you feel...
Apparently the largest percentage of relationships that last forever, are those that started at secondary school.

But you also end up latching onto them because you've never had to go out there and look for a partner during your teenage years, and it seems pretty scary so you base your whole life on the one person.

Not that Im saying you're just with your partner for conveniance, just that many people who get into relationships so young and stay in them...might be happier with someone else. They just daren't do it and stick to what they're used to instead.

In short, my only advice for people is to ask themselves if they're truly happy in their relationship. Or could things be much better? You only live once, and wasting years with people just because you don't want to be alone, will narrow your chances of finding someone who's better for you.

To those who are as happy as they could be, then you're lucky!

I know what you mean and yes there have been times in the realtionship now when i look back and think yes i only stayed with them because i was scared,becuase i diddnt want to be on my own,becuase i thought id never have the feelings that i did with any other person.Its sounds a bit sad but its how it was at the time.Now however and for the past 5 months i have been truly happy,and i 100% dont want to be with anyone else.Yes we argue occasioanlly and things are always perfect but i have come to relaise that I am never going to have a perfect relationship all of the time no matter who im with.It may sound like im settling for what i already have but thats not the case.

[xDramatick]

Single.
It's kinda hard when you don't know any gay/bi males.
&you're a closet gay guy in the middle of chav town and only your mates know <.<

I'd love to meet someone though.
i'm bored of being single.
&&i hate having crushing on a straight guy for two years ¬_¬

[supernoodles!]

if more gay people 'came out of the closet' then they would have see that there were lots of other gay people and that they had a better chance of getting a bf than they thought and maybe it would become more accepted even.I understand its easier said than done though

[Nicky.]

Be pround to be single :D lol

[Captain.Remy]

Still in a relationship with my girlfriend lol :cheer2:

[natjake2504]

Im in a relationship and due to get married next year after out second child is born

[andybigbro]

Single :sad:

[XxShortyxX]

Originally posted by andybigbro
Single :sad:


Single :shocked: I found that hard to believe, gorgeous guy like yourself.

[Sunny_01]

Its funny Supernoodles but my daughter who is 20 has been with her partner since they were 13 and are still happy. His parents have been together since they were 13 and I have been with my hubby since I was in my teens as well.
xx

[Sam!]

A single pringle I am :) My ex girlfriend fancies me but shes crazy.. in a good way. And i fancy this girl but shes well too good for me, were good mates though.

[Magic]

Taken :lovedup:

[Retroman]

Single and looking at the moment...
Have someone im potentially interested in, but not enough yet to stop me from looking elsewhere.

Apparently the largest percentage of long term successful/lifetime relationships come from childhood sweethearts/people who got together whilst in school.

Though im afraid it's not always down to good reasons, since apparently the majority of them stay together due to a routine being built into their love life from an early age, as well as never being able to break away from the fear of being alone to try and find someone who could make them happier.

[Princess]

Single and happy about it!

[Ross]

Single.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
Its funny Supernoodles but my daughter who is 20 has been with her partner since they were 13 and are still happy. His parents have been together since they were 13 and I have been with my hubby since I was in my teens as well.
xx

aww wow,what a coincidence:shocked:
I hope Im still with mine when im 20:bigsmile:

[Lauren]

I am now... in a relationship!
Whey, thats new. Ish.

[Kate..]

There should be one that says "it's complicated" lol cause that's what's happening with me at the moment but I'm still single!
Not exactly loving it
Not exactly hating it

just waiting to see what happends :tongue:

[Gemmer-x]

Siiiiiingle.

[Tom4784]

single but kinda on the lookout since i like this girl but it's complicated because she's a friend and i should stop now before this sounds too much like a dear deidre letter.

[Z]

Liking two people a lot, one of them is apparently interested and the other, who I like more, I'm not sure about. :|

[Sarah.]

Single.
i really like someone, have for a long time now, but i can't say anything 'cause i'm too shy, and plus i know they wouldn't care.
lol.

[Callum]

Single. Although there's this girl I like and she likes me, but we're like real good friends as well so I'm not sure whether to take it a step further or not.

[Dizzy]

Single. xD
And I think I'll stay that way for a loooong time,
being that ''Zombie girl'' and that ''Ghost girl'' and all xD
Yea.. I'm quite pale xD
let's just say I can't wait to finish school *rolls eyes*
Eversince high school started I seem to have become a target for bullying, and it annoys me when people say ''ignore them''
I never ignore them, if I had my way with them, they'd be on the ground was a bloodied face for all I care :whistle:
Woops. I ramble a bit sometimes. ;]

[Sophii3x]

In a relationship

[Sarah.]

Originally posted by Dizzy
Single. xD
And I think I'll stay that way for a loooong time,
being that ''Zombie girl'' and that ''Ghost girl'' and all xD
Yea.. I'm quite pale xD
let's just say I can't wait to finish school *rolls eyes*
Eversince high school started I seem to have become a target for bullying, and it annoys me when people say ''ignore them''
I never ignore them, if I had my way with them, they'd be on the ground was a bloodied face for all I care :whistle:
Woops. I ramble a bit sometimes. ;]

I feel the same as you mostly, i'll probably be single my whole life :tongue: and i cant wait to leave school.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Dizzy
Single. xD
And I think I'll stay that way for a loooong time,
being that ''Zombie girl'' and that ''Ghost girl'' and all xD
Yea.. I'm quite pale xD
let's just say I can't wait to finish school *rolls eyes*
Eversince high school started I seem to have become a target for bullying, and it annoys me when people say ''ignore them''
I never ignore them, if I had my way with them, they'd be on the ground was a bloodied face for all I care :whistle:
Woops. I ramble a bit sometimes. ;]




Aw Dizzy,school can be a bitch cant it.I was bullied as well and ive been left school about a year and a half but i will always resent the people who made my life hell in school.Although now I see them as just people who had their own personal problems and so decided to take it out on me and when i think like that they look like a bunch of loosers-which they are of course:tongue:

[Mark]

Single and (pretty inactively) looking! :angel:

- Mark

[natjake2504]

Originally posted by SumminAboutKate
There should be one that says "it's complicated" lol cause that's what's happening with me at the moment but I'm still single!
Not exactly loving it
Not exactly hating it

just waiting to see what happends :tongue:

I thought you was with lucas chick xx

[Xander]

Single

Couple of weeks ago broke up with my gf after a year and a half relationship

[Tom]

No option for "open relationship" I take it :tongue:

[Loukas]

Originally posted by natjake2504
Originally posted by SumminAboutKate
There should be one that says "it's complicated" lol cause that's what's happening with me at the moment but I'm still single!
Not exactly loving it
Not exactly hating it

just waiting to see what happends :tongue:

I thought you was with lucas chick xx

nope ;)

just really good friends

im single at the moment :bigsmile:

[Captain.Remy]

Still in a relationship ! 13 months !! :lovedup: