im so unhappy

[Flavaflav]

for a 15 year old boy its not natural i feel suicidal i hate everything now im so ****ing depressed

[Loukas]

mate its hormones i was feeling JUST like that yesterday

PROMISE it will pass

its all part of being a teenager

[Red Moon]

You need to go and see a Doctor or call the Samaritans - 08457909090

The web address is http://www.samaritans.org//

Better get it checked out than to risk it and let the feelings go to far.

[Flavaflav]

its everything the school trip i half to go on that because my parents are making me i ****ing hate my parents i want to kill myself and i will tonight

[Captain.Remy]

You need a psychologist, not a BB forum.

[Vine6]

Your mood is set to ''happy''.

And , im guessing , because your on the net , you obviously like that.

If your taking the piss , which I think you are , then its beyond being funny.

If you are serious - donate some of your ****ing clothes to a person who values life and needs them more than you do.

[Scarlett.]

NO FLAV!!!!
dont even say that! life is worth it!!! please just dont!

[Dizzy]

Have you tried to talking to your friends?

[Red Moon]

Call 08457909090 and talk to someone.

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
its everything the school trip i half to go on that because my parents are making me i ****ing hate my parents i want to kill myself and i will tonight

mate you need help not on a bb fourm

call childline mate they helped me

[Flavaflav]

vine6 i kept my profile the same i dont edit it i put that down in August when i was happy and was posting normal topics im not taking the piss i am feeling very suicidal i need help im crying now for **** sake i just cant stick everything anymore

[Spike]

Why don't you look at the positive things in your life instead of feeling sorry for your self.

[Ruth*Star]

I've felt like that numerous times, i didn't want to go on a walking trip though goathland last june and i did and i loved it, you might love your trip.

[Vine6]

Im a believer that all the helplines in the world are all just full of generic rubbish.

Look around the room your in FlavaFlav. Bet ya theirs something in their you like.

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 i kept my profile the same i dont edit it i put that down in August when i was happy and was posting normal topics Im not taking the p**s i am feeling very suicidal i need help Im crying now for **** sake i just cant stick everything anymore
Crying. Yes. Ive heard it before. Thats usually a pretenders next post.

[Flavaflav]

i would like to say a last goodbye to my my friends but im ready now hey at least ye wont half to listen to my boring depressing topics anymore think of me when Big Brother Starts next May and i hope ill be watching it in a happier place

[Scarlett.]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 i kept my profile the same i dont edit it i put that down in August when i was happy and was posting normal topics Im not taking the p**s i am feeling very suicidal i need help Im crying now for **** sake i just cant stick everything anymore You'll get through it, call a helpline like Moon said, hopefully they will make you feel better

[Loukas]

talk to friends do something about it

your only 15 theres so much more to live for

yesterday i was felling like that and i said to myself "loukas theres still your WHOLE life to live for"

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
i would like to say a last goodbye to my my friends but Im ready now hey at least ye wont half to listen to my boring depressing topics anymore think of me when Big Brother Starts next May and i hope ill be watching it in a happier place
I understand Red Moon and the forum needs to take this seriously , but your sounding faker by the minuet.

[Dizzy]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
i would like to say a last goodbye to my my friends but Im ready now hey at least ye wont half to listen to my boring depressing topics anymore think of me when Big Brother Starts next May and i hope ill be watching it in a happier place

Don't be like that. Tell your parents, you have to do something, otherwise it's going to drive you more and more insane. Ring somebody, speak to someone.

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Vine6
Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 i kept my profile the same i dont edit it i put that down in August when i was happy and was posting normal topics Im not taking the p**s i am feeling very suicidal i need help Im crying now for **** sake i just cant stick everything anymore
Crying. Yes. Ive heard it before. Thats usually a pretenders next post.

stop now or just dont post in the topic!!!!!!!

[Spike]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
i would like to say a last goodbye to my my friends but Im ready now hey at least ye wont half to listen to my boring depressing topics anymore think of me when Big Brother Starts next May and i hope ill be watching it in a happier place

Seriously you sound like your making this up.

[Sarah.]

I love it how people claim they're depressed because they don't want to go on a school trip.

If I was depressed, I dont go making a whole new thread just to feel sorry for myself.

It's not even funny to joke about suicide if you are.

[Flavaflav]

its not just about the school trip im talking to a friend on Bebo now and saying things like youve been a great friend im depressed im unhappy its over

[Matt]

Originally posted by mrs_rko
I love it how people claim they're depressed because they don't want to go on a school trip.

If I was depressed, I dont go making a whole new thread just to feel sorry for myself.

It's not even funny to joke about suicide if you are.

I totally agree.

I mean, committing suicide just because you're being forced to go on a school trip. It sounds ridiculous.

Be thankful you get to go on these trips. Think of the kids in the Third World that don't even get an education.

[Loukas]

i don't no what to belive :bored:

[Sarah.]

Good for you.

No doubt we'll see another 'I hate schhooool' or 'i hated the trip' soon.

Stop attention seeking.

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
its not just about the school trip Im talking to a friend on Bebo now and saying things like youve been a great friend Im depressed Im unhappy its over
Whats your bebo link.

[Mutya]

right this is scaring me

i hope it a joke but i also hope its not coz thats just sick

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Mutya
right this is scaring me

i hope it a joke but i also hope its not coz thats just sick

AGREE 100%

[Spike]

I really think you are making this up for attention you said yesterday "Im a rebel and now the new legend of tibb everyone worships me and loves me" its obvious to me that you want attention and to be loved and you are making these threads to get the love and attention you want.

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Spike
I really think you are making this up for attention you said yesterday "Im a rebel and now the new legend of tibb everyone worships me and loves me" its obvious to me that you want attention and to be loved and you are making these threads to get the love and attention you want.
Or to shorten it - the guys a twat.

[Dizzy]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Originally posted by Mutya
right this is scaring me

i hope it a joke but i also hope its not coz thats just sick

AGREE 100%

Me too. I don't know what to believe. o_o!

[Ruth*Star]

Originally posted by Mutya
right this is scaring me

i hope it a joke but i also hope its not coz thats just sick Like DT i also 100% Agree with that.

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Spike
I really think you are making this up for attention you said yesterday "Im a rebel and now the new legend of tibb everyone worships me and loves me" its obvious to me that you want attention and to be loved and you are making these threads to get the love and attention you want.

did he say that yesterday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shocked: omg

[Spike]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Originally posted by Spike
I really think you are making this up for attention you said yesterday "Im a rebel and now the new legend of tibb everyone worships me and loves me" its obvious to me that you want attention and to be loved and you are making these threads to get the love and attention you want.

did he say that yesterday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shocked: omg

yeah on this thread
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=73488

[Mutya]

there might be people on this forum who have had first hand experience of suicide

i think it is quiet sick that you are making a joke of a subject of this kind

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
for a 15 year old boy its not natural i feel suicidal i hate everything now Im so ****ing depressed

Ok sweetie, its ok to feel like this, do not do anything rash and everything will be ok.

We all have down times, some more than others and thats ok. Its normal so please do not feel like your on your own because your not.

The best course of action is like Red Moon said, pick up the phone and talk to the Samaritans

0845 7 90 90 90

They deal with these things very well and can give you advice on how to cope.

Please do not listen to anyone who is negative about this, its a common feeling to have at some point in ones life.

[Red Moon]

Originally posted by Vine6
Originally posted by Flavaflav
i would like to say a last goodbye to my my friends but Im ready now hey at least ye wont half to listen to my boring depressing topics anymore think of me when Big Brother Starts next May and i hope ill be watching it in a happier place
I understand Red Moon and the forum needs to take this seriously , but your sounding faker by the minuet.

[b]You can't tell if he is joking or not. You have to take this topic seriously. It's better to assume the person isn't faking it and offer help and advice.

Now I want to see people helping.

Now I won't stand for all these negative comments and they must stop from EVERYONE now.

My finger is posed over the WARNING button!

Red

[Mutya]

Not appropriate - comment removed - Red

[Billy]

Ive felt like that before. But just think of how upset and stuff your family would be.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Mutya
Not appropriate - comment removed - Red

Its no joke.... you have to take this serious, asking that typeof question is bang out of order

[Wasted]

I think everyone should stop accusing the OP of being fake. Surely it is much better to ignore the thread completely or take him seriously in case he is being serious?

And if he is joking and taking us all for a ride, then personally, I'd rather have been made a fool of like that than to have brought negativity into the thread in the event that he was being serious.

And having read an article like this (http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=72122) before, I would definitely think twice before replying to such a message to accuse them of being fake.

[Flavaflav]

i dont no my bebo link im ending my life and your mocking me thanks a lot

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
i dont no my bebo link Im ending my life and your mocking me thanks a lot

Flav, please read both mine and Reds replies.

To all those who are negative

SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!

[Retroman]

Originally posted by Spike
I really think you are making this up for attention you said yesterday "Im a rebel and now the new legend of tibb everyone worships me and loves me" its obvious to me that you want attention and to be loved and you are making these threads to get the love and attention you want.

That's worth pointing out.
Instead of just taking what he says at face value, actually analyse it.

People get beat/punched, abused, have hard to cope with illnesses etc, yet plenty of them don't resort to suicide.

You're going on a school trip = you want to die.
That's just plain ridiculous and an insult to all people truly suffering in the world.

Even if it was true, you'd pick missing the trip and just wandering around town for a few hours [doesn't matter if your parents are making you, you still have the power to walk anywhere you want.] over actual death.

Also, to those offering him concern and sympathy, try to take in the fact you may well be offering it to a boy who's purely doing this for that reason, hence he's played you for a fool and took advantage of your kind/unsuspcious nature.

Even if this topic was filled with "I have heart problems, my dad beats me on a regular basis and everyone at school bullies me with verbal and violent behaviour" it'd still be worth questioning, purely because:

1. He was full of himself the other day.
2. It's the internet, and it'd be unwise to believe everything on it.
3. He does make lots of "everyone pity me" topics, plus he even wrote "I come here for sympathy" in one of his school topics. Which is the classic sign of an attention seeker.
4. Wasn't he banned for giving people a hard time? or something to that effect. Not the actions of someone who is weak and suicidial.

I personally can't believe a word of it, but if it is true then you need to stop being so self obsessed and feeling sorry for yourself so much that you can't even face a school trip and would pick death over just missing the trip itself.

Sounds too illogical to me.

Oh and may I just refer you to the classic: People who actually want to die, kill themselves right away. People who post on forums and announce it, are just looking for people to give them attention so they can say it was the forum who made him realise life was worth living etc.

[Flavaflav]

this is not a joke have you seen my past threads im just coming here to say goodbye hope ye liked me in some way

[Vine6]

Originally posted by kizwiz
Originally posted by Flavaflav
i dont no my bebo link Im ending my life and your mocking me thanks a lot

Flav, please read both mine and Reds replies.

To all those who are negative

SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!
Im sorry but I value life too much to try and be positive towards someone who wants to end it.

[Loukas]

please tell us now if your lieing please if you promise your not lieing i m more than willing to help you

[Dizzy]

There are people willing to help you here.

Would people stop being negative? It doesn't help.

[Magic]

Value your life, people die every single day over things like poverty, dont take your life over a school trip.

[Flavaflav]

its not the school trip its everything

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Magic-Shoes
Value your life, people die every single day over things like poverty, dont take your life over a school trip.
That about sums it up. Agree 100%.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Vine6

Im sorry but I value life too much to try and be positive towards someone who wants to end it.

well I hope that you never are in this situation

have you ever needed help????? Or been on the verge of something that you cant control???

its best to offer help rather than be negative and push him further into a corner

[Scarlett.]

Flav think about what you will miss out on

[Matt]

Originally posted by Retroman
Originally posted by Spike
I really think you are making this up for attention you said yesterday "Im a rebel and now the new legend of tibb everyone worships me and loves me" its obvious to me that you want attention and to be loved and you are making these threads to get the love and attention you want.

That's worth pointing out.
Instead of just taking what he says at face value, actually analyse it.

People get beat/punched, abused, have hard to cope with illnesses etc, yet plenty of them don't resort to suicide.

You're going on a school trip = you want to die.
That's just plain ridiculous and an insult to all people truly suffering in the world.

Even if it was true, you'd pick missing the trip and just wandering around town for a few hours [doesn't matter if your parents are making you, you still have the power to walk anywhere you want.] over actual death.

Also, to those offering him concern and sympathy, try to take in the fact you may well be offering it to a boy who's purely doing this for that reason, hence he's played you for a fool and took advantage of your kind/unsuspcious nature.

Even if this topic was filled with "I have heart problems, my dad beats me on a regular basis and everyone at school bullies me with verbal and violent behaviour" it'd still be worth questioning, purely because:

1. He was full of himself the other day.
2. It's the internet, and it'd be unwise to believe everything on it.
3. He does make lots of "everyone pity me" topics, plus he even wrote "I come here for sympathy" in one of his school topics. Which is the classic sign of an attention seeker.
4. Wasn't he banned for giving people a hard time? or something to that effect. Not the actions of someone who is weak and suicidial.

I personally can't believe a word of it, but if it is true then you need to stop being so self obsessed and feeling sorry for yourself so much that you can't even face a school trip and would pick death over just missing the trip itself.

Sounds too illogical to me.

Oh and may I just refer you to the classic: People who actually want to die, kill themselves right away. People who post on forums and announce it, are just looking for people to give them attention so they can say it was the forum who made him realise life was worth living etc.

Fantastic post Retroman :thumbs:

[Magic]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
this is not a joke have you seen my past threads Im just coming here to say goodbye hope ye liked me in some way

If this is true, I hope you DO NOT commit suicide. Value your life.

[Red Moon]

[b]If you don't want to help stay off the topic

Red[b]

[Vine6]

Originally posted by kizwiz
Originally posted by Vine6

Im sorry but I value life too much to try and be positive towards someone who wants to end it.

well I hope that you never are in this situation

have you ever needed help????? Or been on the verge of something that you cant control???

its best to offer help rather than be negative and push him further into a corner
I never will be. Like I said , I value life. I wish nothing but peace and love to everyone , but im not going to go with the crowd on this one. The facts point out that he may be lying. Im not afriad to say that. And either way I think he is wrong for committing suicide and if its a joke , obviously , he is wrong for doing that.

And like many members are happy to point out , help is available. It would be smart of FlavaFlav to take advantage of it.

People ARE their to help.

[Flavaflav]

this is not a joke ok i am not a sick person as i said before have you seen my past threads ive benn unhappy for quite a while now whats the point anymore

[Ruth*Star]

Originally posted by Retroman
Oh and may I just refer you to the classic: People who actually want to die, kill themselves right away. People who post on forums and announce it, are just looking for people to give them attention so they can say it was the forum who made him realise life was worth living etc.
Exactly, if he really does want to end it, he wouldn;t be here telling us about it.

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
this is not a joke ok i am not a sick person as i said before have you seen my past threads ive benn unhappy for quite a while now whats the point anymore
But many are confused because you said last night you were a legend and a rebel. That does not sound like depression to me.

[Magic]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
this is not a joke ok i am not a sick person as i said before have you seen my past threads ive benn unhappy for quite a while now whats the point anymore

Well first of all -

Get off of the computer - Your problems will be growing worse.

Sit down and think of the times of childhood, the fun you have had, the times you laughed so much you have nearly cried. Think of what you have, and can achieve in life. Speak to proffesionals- they can help you.

Go outside, breath in fresh and make the most of the world around you.

[Spike]

Originally posted by Ruth*Star
Originally posted by Retroman
Oh and may I just refer you to the classic: People who actually want to die, kill themselves right away. People who post on forums and announce it, are just looking for people to give them attention so they can say it was the forum who made him realise life was worth living etc.
Exactly, if he really does want to end it, he wouldn;t be here telling us about it.

Totally agree. I think he is just attention seeking

[Billy]

If you think hes lying then stop posting in teh thread, theres a chance hes telling the truth!!!

[Vine6]

Instead of doing it right now , he is spending his time trying to convince us he is going to do it.

Either way he needs SOME kind of help!

[Mutya]

here's my advise think of BB9

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Mutya
here's my advise think of BB9
:thumbs:

[Spike]

Originally posted by Mutya
here's my advise think of BB9

Good advice

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Billy
If you think hes lying then stop posting in teh thread, theres a chance hes telling the truth!!!

Exactly...... Fav..... just take a few deep breaths and try and take stock of the situation..... try and think positive and remember that there is happiness out there

But please call the samaritans, they will be able to help better than we can,they are trained to help you and give you the support you need

[Sarah.]

Yes because the first place i would go to tell someone i'm committing suicide is a Big Brother forum.....

:rolleyes:

[Flavaflav]

a few years ago i did that to think of bb9 and it helped but bb doesnt seem the same anymore i want to go and watch big brother in a happier place im worried about what happens after i kill myself will i go to a better place for taking my own life by the way thanks to the people who know this isnt a sick joke because its not to the others just leave the thread

[Wasted]

Originally posted by Ruth*Star
Originally posted by Retroman
Oh and may I just refer you to the classic: People who actually want to die, kill themselves right away. People who post on forums and announce it, are just looking for people to give them attention so they can say it was the forum who made him realise life was worth living etc.
Exactly, if he really does want to end it, he wouldn;t be here telling us about it.

Not necessarily. Just months ago, a man logged on to a chatroom, announced that he wanted to kill himself, and most of the users took it with a pinch of salt, very few took it seriously, and some people even goaded him on to do it. In the end, the man actually did kill himself.

I personally don't know what to believe, but whether it's true or false then it is serious. If it's true, he needs help and not accusations of being a fake. If it is false, then it's very despicable of him. I hope he's not making a joke out of something so serious, and at the same time I hope he's not really feeling like this. But if he is serious, I don't think I could live with myself if I made such accusations as him being a fake, no matter how likely, logical, and rational they seemed at the time.

[Spike]

Originally posted by Wasted
Originally posted by Ruth*Star
Originally posted by Retroman
Oh and may I just refer you to the classic: People who actually want to die, kill themselves right away. People who post on forums and announce it, are just looking for people to give them attention so they can say it was the forum who made him realise life was worth living etc.
Exactly, if he really does want to end it, he wouldn;t be here telling us about it.

Not necessarily. Just months ago, a man logged on to a chatroom, announced that he wanted to kill himself, and most of the users took it with a pinch of salt, very few took it seriously, and a lot of people even goaded him on to do it. In the end, the man actually did kill himself.

I personally don't know what to believe, but whether it's true or false then it is serious. If it's true, he needs help and not accusations of being a fake. If it is false, then it's very despicable of him. I hope he's not serious and at the same time I hope he's not. But if he is serious, I don't think I could live with myself if I made such accusations as him being a fake, no matter how likely, logical, and rational they seemed at the time.

I heard about that story he killed himself live on web cam. I still don't believe this suicide story is true.

[Mutya]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
a few years ago i did that to think of bb9 and it helped but bb doesnt seem the same anymore i want to go and watch big brother in a happier place Im worried about what happens after i kill myself will i go to a better place for taking my own life by the way thanks to the people who know this isnt a sick joke because its not to the others just leave the thread

i believe that when your dead your dead

are you a christian

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Wasted

Not necessarily. Just months ago, a man logged on to a chatroom, announced that he wanted to kill himself, and most of the users took it with a pinch of salt, very few took it seriously, and some people even goaded him on to do it. In the end, the man actually did kill himself.

I personally don't know what to believe, but whether it's true or false then it is serious. If it's true, he needs help and not accusations of being a fake. If it is false, then it's very despicable of him. I hope he's not serious and at the same time I hope he's not. But if he is serious, I don't think I could live with myself if I made such accusations as him being a fake, no matter how likely, logical, and rational they seemed at the time.

well said, which is why all those who are negative need to shhhhhhhh!

If you cant say anything nice...leave this thread

[Scarlett.]

Look people stop saying its a fake!

if it isnt will you want to live with the fact you never tried to stop someone

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Chewy
Look people stop saying its a fake!

if it isnt will you want to live with the fact you never tried to stop someone
In fairness TiBB users should not be enthrusted with the power or commitment to stop someone. This has to do with him. not anybody on this forum.

[Magic]

Originally posted by Vine6
In fairness TiBB users should not be enthrusted with the power or commitment to stop someone. This has to do with him. not anybody on this forum.

I have to agree - This thread I find rather upsetting.
I would prefer for it to be deleted.

[Flavaflav]

vine6 i think you should leave this thread

[Billy]

I agree flavafav

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 i think you should leave this thread
No im free to stay. Im hardly goading you in to suicide. What I am doing , however , is forcing people to look at this a little closer. Something they dont want me to do.

This is not the place for suicide. A BB forum. And you tell ME to leave this thread?

Get proper help mate. TiBB aint that place. Same goes for ANY internet forum.

[Scarlett.]

Me too

[Billy]

Vine6 - Just because you think hes talking rubbish doesnt mean he is, if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say it !

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Billy
Vine6 - Just because you think hes talking rubbish doesnt mean he is, if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say it !
Im in between. Either way , TiBB is not the place for him if he is serious.

Can you agree on that or would you like him to stay?!

[Matt08]

Even if flavflav is telling the truth it would be upsetting for everyone if things took a turn for the worse.

[Spike]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 i think you should leave this thread

Why should vine6 leave?

[Flavaflav]

vine6 you think im some sick person whos making this up well im not ok i really am not

[Vine6]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 you think Im some sick person whos making this up well Im not ok i really am not
THEN GET PROPER HELP!!!

[Red Moon]

Originally posted by Vine6
Originally posted by Billy
Vine6 - Just because you think hes talking rubbish doesnt mean he is, if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say it !
Im in between. Either way , TiBB is not the place for him if he is serious.

Can you agree on that or would you like him to stay?!

[b]Bullying is not allowed on TiBB - Warning issued - Red

[cujo-man]

This is really depressing. Anyway, the only advice U will give you is don't do it! Theres so much to live for and in all honsety the next morning you'll be so grateful that you never did it. Anyway school trips are fun! You'll love it. I did this 30 mile hike with my school up a hill and I was dreading it. I spent the whole time laughing and having fun for my friend.

To be honest, I think you are just in the spur of the moment saying this kind of thing. Honestly, can you actually go through with killing yourself?! Who know whats lies ahead for you!

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Vine6
Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 you think Im some sick person whos making this up well Im not ok i really am not
THEN GET PROPER HELP!!!

Your not helping here....... please dont antaganise the situation

[Matt08]

This thread needs to be closed, it's very upsetting for other members to read. Get some help flavflav, call childline or visit your nearest police station.

[Wasted]

Originally posted by Vine6

Im hardly goading you in to suicide. What I am doing , however , is forcing people to look at this a little closer.

No-one said you are goading him. But if he is being serious, accusing him of lying doesn't help.

And I see where you are coming from, but as I said before, I'd much rather be fooled by a sick twisted lie than not actually take someone seriously when they were saying they were suicidal. Others, like you, seem so proud that they would rather say he was fake than to risk being fooled (which is so much worse than the slight possibility of someone killing themself isn't it? Not.) or even at the very least, ignore the thread.

[Matt]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
vine6 you think Im some sick person whos making this up well Im not ok i really am not

If I believe you, please call the Samaritans and get professional help instead of seeking it on an internet forum. As kiz said, they are trained to deal with this kind of situation, where as we aren't, and for a member with a forum history such as yours it's easy to see why this revelation will be questioned.

[Matt]

Originally posted by Matthew
This thread needs to be closed, it's very upsetting for other members to read. Get some help flavflav, call childline or visit your nearest police station.

I agree. All the advice that can be given has been given.

[Sarah.]

It's hardly bullying! It's simply saying that an internet forum is not the place.. Which he's totally right in saying.

[Callum]

This is a very upsetting thread.

Flavaflav, please don't end your life, make the most of it.

0800 11 11 - Ring ChildLine, they'll be able to speak to you about this case properly.

[Flavaflav]

ya im a christian but like any 15 year old boy in ireland or england i dont pay a lot of attention to religion

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Matt
Originally posted by mrs_rko
I love it how people claim they're depressed because they don't want to go on a school trip.

If I was depressed, I dont go making a whole new thread just to feel sorry for myself.

It's not even funny to joke about suicide if you are.

I totally agree.

I mean, committing suicide just because you're being forced to go on a school trip. It sounds ridiculous.

Be thankful you get to go on these trips. Think of the kids in the Third World that don't even get an education.

I agree, theres no need to fink like that FF

[Flavaflav]

wot do you mean everything is krap i just dont no anymore

[Retroman]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
a few years ago i did that to think of bb9 and it helped but bb doesnt seem the same anymore i want to go and watch big brother in a happier place Im worried about what happens after i kill myself will i go to a better place for taking my own life by the way thanks to the people who know this isnt a sick joke because its not to the others just leave the thread

He talks utter nonsense...
A few years ago he was also suffering [he must have been a little kid then.] and thought ahead to Big Brother 9? years and years away? and it helped him want to carry on? The thought of a tv programme made his life worth living? despite the so called suffering he's going through?

Have you any idea how wrong that sounds?

But now he wants to go and watch Big Brother in a better place? such as heaven? on his widescreen tv held up in mid air by angels I assume?

Sorry but, if you're taking this seriously then you're far too nice for your own good.

Im literally witnessing people rushing to the defense of a total stranger who has previously broken the rules, who is quite clearly manipulating everybody into making this a "SAY NICE THINGS TO HIM ONLY, NASTY PEOPLE GET OUT!" thread, which instantly proves this is a "make him feel better and give him lots of nice attention" topic =]

Which rests mine and others cases.
Even he has told everyone else to leave so that only nice people can cheer him up and give him lots of positive attention about his near death experience.

I didn't realise depressive suicidals were usually in the frame of mind to give out orders.

Anyway, if he's telling the truth then he'll be dead later on no matter what we say.

If he stays, he'll obviously announce that the forum helped convince him life was worth living again and he thought he'd stick around for us all. Only im sure he'll be breaking rules and creating yet another attention seeking topic a week or two later with something like "My dogs missing, I want to die" or "I have to go shopping with my mum, it's so embarrassing, im going to kill myself"

Two equally as ridiculous statements on par with "I have a school trip, death is the only option"

[Flavaflav]

would ye all post u2us to me because it would make me happy u2us about anything i guess

[Dr43%er]

Some of you are complete ***** and I hope you never have to deal with depression either with yourself or with a loved one. Depression takes all forms and can come and go. Mood changes can happen in an instant. It is a chemical imbalance in the brain that can affect any of us, even you Vine6 at any time with out any warning. Try educating yourself on the subject before inferring that they should just snap out of it.

Most suicide bids are a cry for help. They do not really want to die but it is the only way they can find to get help as they can't speak to loved ones for one reason or another.



"Also, to those offering him concern and sympathy, try to take in the fact you may well be offering it to a boy who's purely doing this for that reason, hence he's played you for a fool and took advantage of your kind/unsuspcious nature."

And? What has it cost us? **** all. If this is a joke I will not feel stupid or used but if it is real then I know I am a better human being for trying to help than some of you pricks. There are sites you can go to that major in hate if that is your thing.


Flava, I don't know you. I have never read any of your other posts so I am not going to pre judge you.

There is obviously an underlying problem here. And whether it is problem at school, home, or elsewhere, there is help. The fact that you have posted here, where you feel you could means you are half way to talking about it. So please take that next step.

You can call Childline, that is not just for abused children but for teens with any problems. They will tell no one. You don't have to give your name, phone number, address, nothing you do not want to give. They will not trace your call, pass anything on to anyone else unless you ask them to. The same goes for the Samaritans. These people are trained to help people like you. No mater what your problems are. Even if you feel no one can help, what have you got to lose? Please, give them a call.

That's all I can say really. Things can, and will get better if you let people in to help you.

[Mutya]

whats so bad about going on a school trip
where are you going?

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
would ye all post u2us to me because it would make me happy u2us about anything i guess

why sorry? :sad:

[Callum]

Excuse me Retroman, your making some good points there, but if it's the case that FF is telling the truth, he really doesn't need it made worse by us all. If you don't have any good advice for the member, I think it's best to leave the thread.

[Matt]

Originally posted by Retroman
Originally posted by Flavaflav
a few years ago i did that to think of bb9 and it helped but bb doesnt seem the same anymore i want to go and watch big brother in a happier place Im worried about what happens after i kill myself will i go to a better place for taking my own life by the way thanks to the people who know this isnt a sick joke because its not to the others just leave the thread

He talks utter nonsense...
A few years ago he was also suffering [he must have been a little kid then.] and thought ahead to Big Brother 9? years and years away? and it helped him want to carry on? The thought of a tv programme made his life worth living? despite the so called suffering he's going through?

Have you any idea how wrong that sounds?

But now he wants to go and watch Big Brother in a better place? such as heaven? on his widescreen tv held up in mid air by angels I assume?

Sorry but, if you're taking this seriously then you're far too nice for your own good.

Im literally witnessing people rushing to the defense of a total stranger who has previously broken the rules, who is quite clearly manipulating everybody into making this a "SAY NICE THINGS TO HIM ONLY, NASTY PEOPLE GET OUT!" thread, which instantly proves this is a "make him feel better and give him lots of nice attention" topic =]

Which rests mine and others cases.
Even he has told everyone else to leave so that only nice people can cheer him up and give him lots of positive attention about his near death experience.

I didn't realise depressive suicidals were usually in the frame of mind to give out orders.

Anyway, if he's telling the truth then he'll be dead later on no matter what we say.

If he stays, he'll obviously announce that the forum helped convince him life was worth living again and he thought he'd stick around for us all. Only Im sure he'll be breaking rules and creating yet another attention seeking topic a week or two later with something like "My dogs missing, I want to die" or "I have to go shopping with my mum, it's so embarrassing, Im going to kill myself"

Two equally as ridiculous statements on par with "I have a school trip, death is the only option"

I totally agree. That, and your other post, sums it up for me.

[Flavaflav]

mate i meant i think it was when bb5 was over i thought ahead to bb6 and that was my favourite series ever

[Mutya]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
would ye all post u2us to me because it would make me happy u2us about anything i guess

right ok im not being funny but this has to be a joke

[Spike]

Originally posted by Retroman
Originally posted by Flavaflav
a few years ago i did that to think of bb9 and it helped but bb doesnt seem the same anymore i want to go and watch big brother in a happier place Im worried about what happens after i kill myself will i go to a better place for taking my own life by the way thanks to the people who know this isnt a sick joke because its not to the others just leave the thread

He talks utter nonsense...
A few years ago he was also suffering [he must have been a little kid then.] and thought ahead to Big Brother 9? years and years away? and it helped him want to carry on? The thought of a tv programme made his life worth living? despite the so called suffering he's going through?

Have you any idea how wrong that sounds?

But now he wants to go and watch Big Brother in a better place? such as heaven? on his widescreen tv held up in mid air by angels I assume?

Sorry but, if you're taking this seriously then you're far too nice for your own good.

Im literally witnessing people rushing to the defense of a total stranger who has previously broken the rules, who is quite clearly manipulating everybody into making this a "SAY NICE THINGS TO HIM ONLY, NASTY PEOPLE GET OUT!" thread, which instantly proves this is a "make him feel better and give him lots of nice attention" topic =]

Which rests mine and others cases.
Even he has told everyone else to leave so that only nice people can cheer him up and give him lots of positive attention about his near death experience.

I didn't realise depressive suicidals were usually in the frame of mind to give out orders.

Anyway, if he's telling the truth then he'll be dead later on no matter what we say.

If he stays, he'll obviously announce that the forum helped convince him life was worth living again and he thought he'd stick around for us all. Only Im sure he'll be breaking rules and creating yet another attention seeking topic a week or two later with something like "My dogs missing, I want to die" or "I have to go shopping with my mum, it's so embarrassing, Im going to kill myself"

Two equally as ridiculous statements on par with "I have a school trip, death is the only option"

Totally agree, good post:thumbs:

[Sam!]

How is BB to do with this :S

[Sarah.]

What people are saying is, you don't go to a forum to tell people about your wish to die, they can't help you.

You go to someone you can talk to, a teacher, a close friend, they can help you. I know :)

[Matt]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
would ye all post u2us to me because it would make me happy u2us about anything i guess

OK.

:rolleyes:

[Flavaflav]

because i would like u2us to be sent to me as a way of saying goodbye please send them to me it would be a lovely tribute thank you

[Mutya]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
mate i meant i think it was when bb5 was over i thought ahead to bb6 and that was my favourite series ever

so you were suicidal at the age of 12

[Red Moon]

Note - if this user was to commit suicide the police would checked the users computer records which it would lead them to TiBB and to this thread.

The next step would be for them to look at the post and the police would try and workout if anything anyone has said has made the problem worse. They would then ask us for the details of any users that they felt contributed to the suicide so they could trace the users and prosecute.

This is not a joking mater.

Red

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Flavaflav
because i would like u2us to be sent to me as a way of saying goodbye please send them to me it would be a lovely tribute thank you

We hardly know you and im leaving, i dunt wanna say anything.

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Red Moon
Note - if this user was to commit suicide the police would checked the users computer records which it would lead them to TiBB and to this thread.

The next step would be for them to look at the post and the police would try and workout if anything anyone has said has made the problem worse. They would then ask us for the details of any users that they felt contributed to the suicide so they could trace the users and prosecute.

This is not a joking mater.

Red

Can we please have this thread closed? It's very upsetting.

[Bells]

Addressing this thread in a serious context, it is natural to feel as if everything's overwhelming you at this age. I feel like that often. Remember though that it is natural, and you're not alone in the way you feel. Suicidal is probably a bit extreme, but you've got to remember it'll pass.

Even if you think everyone else is coping much better than you, in reality that's not true. This is your life and you've got to make the most of it! Telling everyone on a forum, for example, isn't the best way to go about things - having said that, it would help if you told somebody you feel close to! Or, wrote it down maybe to let out your feelings.

Good luck with it, but remember that at the end of the day it doesn't help to sit around and mope - it's better to go ahead and do something about how you're feeling! Which includes telling someone and trying to be as positive as possible about things.

[Callum]

Originally posted by Matthew
Originally posted by Red Moon
Note - if this user was to commit suicide the police would checked the users computer records which it would lead them to TiBB and to this thread.

The next step would be for them to look at the post and the police would try and workout if anything anyone has said has made the problem worse. They would then ask us for the details of any users that they felt contributed to the suicide so they could trace the users and prosecute.

This is not a joking mater.

Red

Can we please have this thread closed? It's very upsetting.

Yes it is, it's sending a shiver through my spine just reading it all.

[Flavaflav]

yes i was felling suicidal aged 12 but i had good tims then i just have had enough now though

[Sam!]

Please could this be closed

[Callum]

Flavaflav:

PLEASE, PLEASE CALL THIS NUMBER:0800 11 11 [u]THEY WILL HELP YOU, TRUST ME.[u]

[Mutya]

Originally posted by Funky Sam
Please could this be closed

if he is suicidal then closing the thread could send him over the edge (literally and metaphorical)

[~Kizwiz~]

flav................Call the samaratans now...... its best..... they can help better than we can

[Ruth*Star]

Originally posted by Funky Sam
Please could this be closed Yeah i think this should be.

[Callum]

Flavaflav, please do something about it.

Call the Samaritans or ChildLine.

[Mark]

I'm closing this thread.

We are not the Samaritans, but there is a LOT of helpful advice in this thread if FlavaFlav is going through a rough patch in life. It's being closed for two reasons, the first for Flava's protection. If he's feeling down the last thing he needs is people calling him a liar, and secondly I would prefer TiBB to not get into peoples personal problems too much, especially when suicide is mentioned.

From now on, if anyone wants to talk about this subject with him they can via U2U.

Thanks,

- Mark