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Ann
11-10-2007, 11:15 AM
sorry to bring this accross but my niece Kimberely has had to have an Abortion the reason being is that she had a very bad siss in her tummy and the dr said that if she didnt have the Abortion then she or the new baby would have sadly died it is very upsetting and ive had to compfort her over this but hopefully everything will turn out ok in the end as she does have a baby boy whos just turned one years old but she did want him to have a little brother or sister thanks for reading this and any advise is welcomed and thanks :hug::hug:

Sunny_01
11-10-2007, 11:32 AM
Oh Ann I am so sorry to hear that your neice has had to go through this, it just doesnt seem fair.

Time is a wonderful thing and with time she will realise that she really was not left with choices about this. The best thing you can do is be there when she needs you, love is also a wonderful gift that you can give to someone. Let her know she is loved and not judged by anyone for this.

You take care
xxx

XxShortyxX
11-10-2007, 11:59 AM
Awwww, I'm so sorry, that's so sad.

Ann
11-10-2007, 12:12 PM
shorty and sunny01 thanks for those lovely replies and sunny01 i just went up yesterday to see howshe was and she is coping with it but had a bit of a cry on me but shes trying to not cry too much because of her son Armarni whos just turn one years old is feeling it when he sees her cry but everything seems to be working out ok plus most of the family are keeping an eye on her too :kiss:

XxShortyxX
11-10-2007, 01:49 PM
Originally posted by Ann
shorty and sunny01 thanks for those lovely replies and sunny01 i just went up yesterday to see howshe was and she is coping with it but had a bit of a cry on me but shes trying to not cry too much because of her son Armarni whos just turn one years old is feeling it when he sees her cry but everything seems to be working out ok plus most of the family are keeping an eye on her too :kiss:



Awwww bless her, hugz and kisses to her :hug::kiss:

Ruth*Star
11-10-2007, 02:28 PM
Aww...I'm so sorry to hear this, i hope you all feel better soon.
Take care
xxx

Dizzy
11-10-2007, 02:32 PM
Aww, that's so sad. =[
Really sorry to hear that...
I hope things get better for you all xXxXx :hug:

Ann
11-10-2007, 02:52 PM
thank you for your lovely thoughts that is so sweet of you she seems a bit better today so it should better now :lovedup:

Captain.Remy
11-10-2007, 02:55 PM
I just hope things will be much happier and better babe. :kiss:

Ann
11-10-2007, 02:57 PM
aww thank you Remy it will do friend :wink:

Conor
11-10-2007, 04:26 PM
This is really sad to hear. I feel so lucky that nothing like that has ever happened to someone I know. I would be devistated. Please gie my regrets to your neice Ann. XX

Magic
11-10-2007, 04:31 PM
I am really sad to hear that Ann....
Poor Her.

Thats why suicide threats, like those seen yesterday make me mad, especilally when the post 4 hours later saying am i the most controversial member.

Retroman
11-10-2007, 04:54 PM
Is she capable of having children in the future or not?
If she is, at least that could remotely make things better somewhere down the line...plus the fact she's already got a son means at least she hasn't been stopped from having a child altogether.

Must feel strange losing a life like that...
No actual memories to hold onto, or photo's, just lots of thoughts on what might have been. So I hope she's getting through it ok.

Ann
11-10-2007, 06:13 PM
thank you for your kind words and she will be fine as shes being well looked after at the moment :kiss:

Conor
11-10-2007, 06:17 PM
Originally posted by Ann
thank you for your kind words and she will be fine as shes being well looked after at the moment :kiss:

Good to hear Ann! :thumbs:

Ann
11-10-2007, 06:25 PM
aww thanks conor your so sweet :thumbs:

Flavaflav
11-10-2007, 06:26 PM
sorry

Callum
11-10-2007, 09:12 PM
Sorry to hear this Ann.

Hope your niece recovers well.

Please send my regards to her and the family.

x

Ann
11-10-2007, 09:21 PM
aww thanks callum i will do tomorrow when i see her at my mums thank you for your thoughts :wink:

Shaun
11-10-2007, 09:26 PM
That's tragic news Ann, and it must have been such a hard decision for her to make. I echo Sunny's words though, and I hope that over time your niece can find happiness again :)

Ann
11-10-2007, 09:29 PM
thanks Shaun for your kind words and i will send your love to her tomorrow aswell :hug: