What is the thing you most dislike about yourself?

[Kate..]

Mine's definately my spots

:mad:


i hate them!!!!


What are everyone else's?


xxxx

[Retroman]

I remember a couple of people back at school who had their entire faces covered in spots, every single centimetre of their face had a spot in it lol...

But they still dared to venture into the outside world, so im sure you're not too bad.

Anyhow, the thing I least like about myself is my inability to start a conversation with people I don't know/aren't that familar with.

I feel like people should come to me instead, so then I know 100% they want to be talking to me. Also I tend to not really care enough about people to make "small talk" and im not really interested in asking them how their day went etc etc.

I'll only start a conversation with someone if I feel a need to.

But im more than happy to talk away once they've said something to me.

[Sam!]

Luckily i have no spots. Sum reason my thighs look so ffing huge but i dunt think they are really. I prob dislike my freckles or ears most. I used to be so annoyed with both and i dunt really care that much no more.

[Spike]

The thing I most dislike about myself is that I am too forgiving and that i’m too nice to people.

[CassetteFinger]

Like Spike the thing i dislike about my self is im just to nice sometimes.

[Sarah.]

Originally posted by Spike
The thing I most dislike about myself is that I am too forgiving and that i’m too nice to people.

LOL.

[Retroman]

Forgiving, niceness...
How can you people bare it? I just don't know.
You're so flawed!

Sounds tough >_<

But I understand what you mean.
Sometimes not being tough enough can lead to you being walked over, taken advantage of and generally hurt more often.

But if you're aware of that, shouldn't you automatically become less forgiving?

[Stu]

The answer is ''Im too nice''.

The question is ''Lie about yourself and fabricate a stupid , cliched answer about what you dislike most about yourself''.

:rolleyes:

In all honesty , I guess my inability to take anything serious in life might be detrimental at some point. But I enjoy it. I also enjoy my lack of ambition. So what really do I dislike most about myself?

I have no idea.

[supernoodles!]

physically my nose,i can not stand it one bit oh and my hips.
Personality wise probably my short temper and i get aggressive sometimes when theres no need for it,verbaly and occasionaly phsically.I have a bit of a fiery temper.
Apart from that Im perfect tho ha ha
not really.
And Kate you look really pretty in your pics,you shouldnt worry about having spots.The joys of being a teenager eh?

[Kate..]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
physically my nose,i can not stand it one bit oh and my hips.
Personality wise probably my short temper and i get aggressive sometimes when theres no need for it,verbaly and occasionaly phsically.I have a bit of a fiery temper.
Apart from that Im perfect tho ha ha
not really.
And Kate you look really pretty in your pics,you shouldnt worry about having spots.The joys of being a teenager eh?

that's cause i only let ppl take pictures of me when i'm not so spotty lol

and there is definately nothing wrong with your nose!

But even though i hate being a teenager because of greasy hair, spots and not enough sleep i hope i never grow up!!

:hugesmile:

[Sam!]

And im too gullible and care too much about meanlingless relationships.

[Conor]

To gulible, to stupid and I need to stop argueing and fighting.

[supernoodles!]

thanks,but if you met me you may think different ha ha
I want to get to about twenty and then never get any older ,unfortunatly i think the lack of sleep thing just happens no matter what age you are

[\PJ/]

I tell to many lies.and put some toothpaste on those spots.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Conor
To gulible, to stupid and I need to stop argueing and fighting.


Im gulible,if im not being gulible im being paranoid:joker::sad:

[Scarlett.]

It takes a lot to get me angry, but when I do get angry, I loose it:shocked: I dont like it

[Conor]

Originally posted by Pj
I tell to many lies.

Never, you Pj, who owns the BB8 caravan and sprouts hairs on his palms. of all people I thought you'd never have told a lie in your life. :shocked:

[XxShortyxX]

My looks, I hate my nose. I would defo have a nose job if I could.

[Nicola]

The fact that I cry easily and people seem to be nasty and hate me because of it!

[supernoodles!]

Yeah another thing about me,i get really emotional really easily and i read into things sometimes too much

[Nicola]

Yeah that sounds exactly like me, people will say things as a joke or just "off the cuff" and I'll take it to heart. Sometimes I think that's just because of the way I am and cos I'm naturally inclined to take things literally.

[Captain.Remy]

I take things a way too seriously then sometimes it helps but sometimes it can be bad.
Anyway I don't have spots so I don't worry about it lol

[supernoodles!]

Im exactly the same Nicola,its just the way we are I guess,we could have worse personality traits.

Another thing i hate though and mainly becuase its something i cant do anything about is how some people say i love my self or im stuck up when im not,honestly when i first meet new people im the shyest most quiet person ever and its odd how its always the people who dont even know me to talk to who say it,either that or its one of my bfs ex gfs or an ex bfs gf.I also apparantly give people dirty looks quite abit too when im genuinely not,thats the worst thing as theres nothing i can do about it,i dont know,it must just be my eyes or something lol

[Sarah.]

Most things I guess. There's nothing that's likeable about me, as some will tell you! :tongue:

[CassetteFinger]

People are saying there nose, same as me i have some bump on it and it wasent always there :sad:

[Nicola]

I'm quite shy in groups and when I don't know new people that well. I lack confidence in myself and think that if people got to know me they won't like me - if I get on with someone and really like them as a friend then it doesn't seem to last that long. Once I get confident in new situations then I'll feel at ease and relate well in groups, often I find myself drawn to one person in particular as I find one-to-one friendships easier to deal with and can open up to one person alone.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Nicola
The fact that I cry easily and people seem to be nasty and hate me because of it!

I cry so easily too.... if I am upset, I cry, if I am angry I cry and sometimes I cry just because!!!!!!! Its horrid

Apart from the obvious physical things, that all women hate about themselves, I am like Retro, I cant do small talk, if I meet someone new, nothing comes out of my mouth. My brain freezes and I get clammy if I have to talk to someone I dont know. I avoid it at all costs.

[supernoodles!]

I think im too trusting and i always take people as they come then im usually let down.

[Captain.Remy]

I can belive everything you tell me. Sometimes I'm like "OMG is that true ?" and finally people were just joking. I comes with my "serious side"

[Ann]

theres one thing i hate is my blooming hair i cant style it and if i perm it the perm falls out as my hair is so thin like my mums hair plus i do get a bit annoyed with myself when i'm too soft with people at times and i hate it when i get very stubborn if someone is arguing with me i just sit there and ignore them if they think they are right lol i don't like being a big person but thats how life is isnt it really as it does run in my family alot lol :hug:

[Shaun]

I have a really big head. Both literally and metaphorically. :sad:

[supernoodles!]

I am the opposite ann, my hair is too thick!
lol

[KKBL]

my voice.i sound like a girl lol.its annoying knowone cant take me serious and i think it holds me back alot.

[flavaflav66]

not being funny

[Ann]

would you like a swap haha :laugh::laugh:

[supernoodles!]

we should have a 'what is the thing you like best about yourself' thread,try and cheer ourselves up a bit instead of insulting ourselves ha ha

[flavaflav66]

good call

[supernoodles!]

i see flavaflav`s back

[Retroman]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Apart from the obvious physical things, that all women hate about themselves, I am like Retro, I cant do small talk, if I meet someone new, nothing comes out of my mouth. My brain freezes and I get clammy if I have to talk to someone I dont know. I avoid it at all costs.

I get the same...
Though I don't think it's due to nerves/shyness or anything like most people would assume. I sometimes get clammy because I feel im being pressured into talking/saying something interesting to someone I really don't feel a need to talk to.

It's like im being forced to make a choice between being really rude and ignoring them, or humouring them against my will lol, and it's usually the latter since I don't want to go looking for trouble/awkward situations.

And again, the brain freezes, but usually because there's nothing that comes to mind that I actually want to say. Plenty of things such as "Hey, you alright? what you been upto?" and similar enter my head, but I really don't want to know if they're ok or what they've been doing.

Of course if they're friends it's a different matter.

Anyhow, im going for a bath, then im going to come back and try to reply to supernoodles "what do you like about yourself?" thread lol, as soon as I think of something.

[XxShortyxX]

Originally posted by flavaflav66
not being funny


Don't worry, you ent :bigsmile:

[Dan_]

I'd have to say getting overly nervous when starting something new.I like to be set into a routine but it takes me a while to settle into new situations.I wish I was different but it's not something I can change.

[Lauren]

I back away from situations if I think they're gonna go wrong - then I never know if they would have gone right or not. I am my own worst enemy.

[Retroman]

Originally posted by Dan_
I'd have to say getting overly nervous when starting something new.I like to be set into a routine but it takes me a while to settle into new situations.I wish I was different but it's not something I can change.

That's one I missed actually...

It's mostly pre nerves, building upto whatever the new thing is.

And occasionally nerves when the new thing starts.

I know deep down pretty much all new situations turn out ok, you adjust, become familar with them, and before you know it you feel really comfortable there.

But still, doesn't stop being really nervous beforehand.

[Sunny_01]

I am to forgiving if there is such a thing. It kind of means I accept it eventually when people behave badly towards me, I just cant help it.

I also have a vile temper when the right buttons are pushed and I really dont like that.

Oh and I hate my bum :spin2:

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Dan_
I'd have to say getting overly nervous when starting something new.I like to be set into a routine but it takes me a while to settle into new situations.I wish I was different but it's not something I can change.

I am exactly the same, I feel like I will be sick if I am starting something new. I am a creature of habit

Oh and Sunny..... It makes to of us that hate our bums!!!!!!!

[Red Moon]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Oh and Sunny..... It makes to of us that hate our bums!!!!!!!

But you have a nice bum :wink:

[Ann]

Ooh red LMAO :kiss:

[supernoodles!]

I dont mind my bum but i hate my hips there a nightmare

[Z]

I hate that I hold grudges. I hate that when I don't feel like speaking, people assume something is up. I hate that I find lots of people irritating for just trying to be friends with me (like someone will speak to me on MSN and I'll just close the conversation because I can't be bothered.) I hate that people think that because I'm normally very witty, I either have no problems in my life or I must be really depressed. I hate that my family are all really sarcastic and when I'm feeling down and don't say very much, they try to wind me up. I hate that if I'm feeling down, my mum asks me what's wrong, and if I don't want to tell her she gets angry at me - like I deserve to feel this way. I hate having asthma. I hate my hands. I hate that my nails grow really long quickly and I have to cut them at least once a week or I start to look like I frequent nail parlours. I hate it when I think I've got something seriously wrong with me (recently I've been wondering if I have diabetes - I keep needing to pee lots) and I'm too scared to do anything about it. I hate that I have no privacy in my house, I once kept a diary and my whole family read it. I hate it when I ask to have a friend round for the night and my parents act like I'll have a house party. I hate how my parents don't trust me and act like I'm about to go out and do drugs, smoke, have sex, drink alcohol and kill people every time I go out. I hate how my parents are really snobby and ask what school my friends go to. I hate when people bring up the subject of "So, who do you fancy?" or "Why haven't you got a girlfriend?" I get embarrassed about those types of questions in front of adults. I hate it when people leave me hatemail on my bebo page or e-mail me when whatever they're annoyed about isn't even directed at me, it's to one of my friends. I hate spending the entire weekend not seeing friends. I hate it when life throws bad luck at me for weeks on end.



..That kind of went on a bit..

[supernoodles!]

About the privacy thing Z I know where your coming from.Its really hurtfull isnt it and people dont even realise how hurtfull it is.I once went on a weekend away with ym boyfriend and I came back and found out my mam had gone through all my draws,cupboards etc and found loads of stuff i basically diddnt want her to see.It wasnt harmfull thing or anything not like it was drugs or something but I wa embarrased and it was hurtful and i felt really hmm whats the word exploited i guess.I know that may sound a little dramatic but it felt that way at the time.

[Z]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
About the privacy thing Z I know where your coming from.Its really hurtfull isnt it and people dont even realise how hurtfull it is.I once went on a weekend away with ym boyfriend and I came back and found out my mam had gone through all my draws,cupboards etc and found loads of stuff i basically diddnt want her to see.It wasnt harmfull thing or anything not like it was drugs or something but I wa embarrased and it was hurtful and i felt really hmm whats the word exploited i guess.I know that may sound a little dramatic but it felt that way at the time.

Yeah, exactly! You feel like crying because they probably looked at it, laughed over it or read it, or just generally had no respect for your privacy.

[Billy]

my years been absolutely ridiculous!

[Billy]

LMAO I posted that in the wrong thread sorry

[Sarah.]

I have recently come to discover that i'm a bittch and i treat my friends not in the way they should be treated.:rolleyes:

[Kate..]

Originally posted by mrs_rko
I have recently come to discover that i'm a bittch and i treat my friends not in the way they should be treated.:rolleyes:

I'm sure that's not true!!!

[Princess]

Body wise-my belly button! Random I know and I wish I could get laser eye surgery quickly!

Personality wise I don't like change and I'm really stubborn! Oh and I can get REALLY defensieve.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Z
Originally posted by supernoodles!
About the privacy thing Z I know where your coming from.Its really hurtfull isnt it and people dont even realise how hurtfull it is.I once went on a weekend away with ym boyfriend and I came back and found out my mam had gone through all my draws,cupboards etc and found loads of stuff i basically diddnt want her to see.It wasnt harmfull thing or anything not like it was drugs or something but I wa embarrased and it was hurtful and i felt really hmm whats the word exploited i guess.I know that may sound a little dramatic but it felt that way at the time.

Yeah, exactly! You feel like crying because they probably looked at it, laughed over it or read it, or just generally had no respect for your privacy.


yep,and they diddnt even have the decency to say sorry.My mam thought she was the one in the right

[Bells]

I have the same problem when it comes to privacy, you two - e.g. my mum going through my drawers. They think it's because I've got something to hide... but in actual fact I haven't! It's my mentality they don't understand - I just don't appreciate them doing it.

Anyway, physically, I don't really dislike anything too much, although I wouldn't mind being a little taller. Everyone in my family is tall whereas I'm small... it used to really get me down but now I think of myself as unique and that I can go out with pretty much anyone I want! Haha. :bigsmile:

Personally, I think I'm friendly and can make friends easily etc. but the thing I dislike is that once I get really close to a particular friend, for example, I can become a bit of a pushover, which isn't necessarily bad for them but it annoys me. I'm trying to change that!