Vanity

[Polka.dot]

are too many people vain these days ? what are your views on it ?

[supernoodles!]

I dunno becuase when does just making your self look nice and feel better about yourself turn into vanity?

[Noel]

I really dislike vein people lol.
My view is that vanity leads to a persons demise.

[Bells]

I think vanity is combined with arrogance; confidence is something different.

If I look in reflective surfaces whenever I pass by them, friends call me vain, but I personally think that's far from true. Checking to make sure you look OK is different from admiring your own beauty - if anything, it means you're more insecure than vain.

I rarely wear lots of make-up (can't figure it all out for a start), but wearing it doesn't make you vain at all, IMO. It's all about the attitude.

[supernoodles!]

I dotn really understand the deifnition of vain becuase I do wear make up,even on days when im not leaving the house,i do fix my hair and keep myslef tanned,wearing the nicest clothes i can affored etc.I have got alot of beauty products and I am quite image conscious i suppose.I do spend a good bit of time getting ready for nights out but I wouldnt say Im vein,i dont think life depends on looks and im not obsessed,i dont have bags of confidence either so therefore i wouldnt consider myself to be vain but maybe others would disagree idk

[MarkWaldorf]

If you're vain in a confident way I don't think that's something that should be looked down upon. As Ash said, if you're vain because you admire yourself, it's different. I'm vain in a confident way, it's not a sin. :p (Lmao, OK, that came out wrong.)

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : MarkChap©
If you're vain in a confident way I don't think that's something that should be looked down upon. As Ash said, if you're vain because you admire yourself, it's different. I'm vain in a confident way, it's not a sin. :p (Lmao, OK, that came out wrong.)

I do agree with you, I'm confident, I like the way I am and I'm attracted by money but it's not a crime after all. Then I'm vain in a confident way too.

[andybigbro]

I am Not Vain, but i can be sometimes :whistle:

[XxShortyxX]

I think I am very vain, as I wont even go out of the house with out me make-up on and me eyeliner on lol, and if one bit of hair is out of place I wont go out in til it's sorted, so yeah I am very vain :bigsmile:

[xDramatick]

I'm not vain in the 'i think i'm hot oh baby' sense.

but I'm vain in the.. 'i like to look nice' sense?

like.
i won't leave the house unless my hair looks decent, my clothes look okay, i've got eyeliner on etc?

[XxShortyxX]

Originally posted by Darenn
I'm not vain in the 'i think i'm hot oh baby' sense.

but I'm vain in the.. 'i like to look nice' sense?

like.
i won't leave the house unless my hair looks decent, my clothes look okay, i've got eyeliner on etc?


Yeah, I'm like that, also like you said I ent vain as in I love myself and think I'm god's gift kind of thing lol

[supernoodles!]

i think its good to be a bit vain sometimes i dont understand why some people dont make an effort with their appearance.

Ok you may all attack me for saying that now:joker:

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Darenn
I'm not vain in the 'i think i'm hot oh baby' sense.

but I'm vain in the.. 'i like to look nice' sense?

like.
i won't leave the house unless my hair looks decent, my clothes look okay, i've got eyeliner on etc?

Same cept the eyeliner bit lol

[XxShortyxX]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
i think its good to be a bit vain sometimes i dont understand why some people dont make an effort with their appearance.

Ok you may all attack me for saying that now:joker:


lol, nopes, I agree.

[supernoodles!]

to me when you see say an overweight woman with messy hair,no make up and plain,oldish clothes even if they are some successful buisness woman with a middle class background then to me i would still look at them and think-slob.

[KKBL]

ammm welll im not sure wheather im vain or not
im always looking in mirrors checking weather i look god or not and im always trying to make my hair look good and if it does it makes me feel better about myself but i dont think that im attractive or anything like that.

[Sam!]

Haha today i had another damn retainer fitted after my fixed. Haha and he gave me a mirror to hold and my hair looked a bit off so like sorted it out haha! oops

[supernoodles!]

lol.My dad looks at his reflection in shop windows and he is 42!lolI dotn really do stuff like that,once im ready im ready,i dont bother re checking lol.I remember when i got my retainer sam it was a nightmare,i stopped wearing it after a few weeks lol,i couldnt talk properly:laugh: