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supernoodles!
17-12-2007, 02:54 PM
or the same sex,depending on your sexuality.
What do you personally look for in the opposite or same sex,what is the one feature that attracts you too a person and what personality trait do you look for or are drawn too?

XxShortyxX
17-12-2007, 02:59 PM
Well for a guy, they have to have a funny personality, be nice, fun and fit lol, normally it's their smile that attracts me to them, same for girls as well, though their bum or boobies is what acttracts me to them :bigsmile:

natjake2504
17-12-2007, 03:03 PM
The man has to make me laugh and make me fell safe and have some good looks

Captain.Remy
17-12-2007, 03:08 PM
I'm straight so it's going to be a girl for me. Well I like her when she got a strong character, something special. For instance my current girlfriend practices Thai boxing and modern dance but she models too. She is muslim but she does look like a swedish girl as she blond with blue eyes.

supernoodles!
17-12-2007, 03:19 PM
Im with you there sumshine30 about the strong character thing.For me the opposite sex has to have charm and i am also a sucker for a nice smile and eyes,particularly smile though.I love someone who is a bit different and stands out but i dont mean in a loud,leaderish kinda way just someone who is unique.

GiRTh
17-12-2007, 03:20 PM
I'm not looking for anything specific. I'm just looking for someone that I like.

Captain.Remy
17-12-2007, 03:23 PM
Message original : supernoodles!
Im with you there sumshine30 about the strong character thing.For me the opposite sex has to have charm and i am also a sucker for a nice smile and eyes,particularly smile though.I love someone who is a bit different and stands out but i dont mean in a loud,leaderish kinda way just someone who is unique.

Like me ? :tongue::whistle:
Anyway I'm just more and more amazed about her, we didn't have a lot of arguments during our first year together. So it seems that it works very well lol

supernoodles!
17-12-2007, 03:29 PM
good to hear,i am pleased for you:hugesmile:

Conor
17-12-2007, 03:36 PM
I seem to like the girly girls more. I dont know why, but I can joke easier with them and their fun to be around with. They also have to be bubbly and obviously have good looks lol :spin2:

Shaun
17-12-2007, 03:38 PM
For me, the most important thing is a sense of humour. That said, with the majority of girls I've liked/fancy they're usually shorter than me, brunette and naturally beautiful. I don't like girls who have inches of make-up on, fake hair extensions, etc.

Kate..
17-12-2007, 05:39 PM
For both (cause i'm bi lol)

Funny
Cute
Good at hugging!:love:
Someone that's easy to be around
Confident
Doesn't flirt with other people if you're going out with them
:bouncy:

XxShortyxX
17-12-2007, 06:03 PM
Originally posted by SumminAboutKate
For both (cause i'm bi lol)

Funny
Cute
Good at hugging!:love:
Someone that's easy to be around
Confident
Doesn't flirt with other people if you're going out with them
:bouncy:


lol same as you really :bigsmile: that defo have to have a personality though, I don't want to be with a boring fart.

Retroman
17-12-2007, 06:21 PM
- Someone who is on my "level." I don't mean this in an arrogant "im really smart and clever" kind of way, but just generally someone I can talk to in depth about things, as well as someone with a fun/sarcastic/surreal sense of humour =]

If someone isn't on my "level" so to speak, then I genuinely find it hard talking to them because sometimes they don't understand what it is im talking about, and it's quite irritating to be with someone you can't talk 100% openly with.

- Someone into computer games/anime is always a plus, but not neccessary lol. Im not saying this because im a major computer games geek or anything, but I always find it fun playing games with a girlfriend, especially now we have Wi-Fi for the PSP/DS meaning you can play even if you're not together.

Gamer girls/anime fans just attract me for some reason, they usually have an immensely "cute" personality.

- Someone who is the definition of "pretty" and "classy"
Not FIT, or HOT etc, since there's thousands of people in the world who are fit. And an even larger amount of them are the unfaithful type.

Someone who is uniquely beautiful in a way that really fascinates you. They're hard to find, but worth the search.

- A girl who looks adorable in a hoodie. Girls in hoodies = Happy Retroman.

- Lastly, nice round eyes are good, but im not too fussed if they're not. Hair down to their shoulders AT LEAST, preferably longer. Slim, decent fashion sense and a good smile.

Oh, and someone who is willing to show lots of public affection, regardless of where we are and who we're with.

XxShortyxX
17-12-2007, 06:30 PM
Originally posted by Retroman
- Someone who is on my "level." I don't mean this in an arrogant "im really smart and clever" kind of way, but just generally someone I can talk to in depth about things, as well as someone with a fun/sarcastic/surreal sense of humour =]

If someone isn't on my "level" so to speak, then I genuinely find it hard talking to them because sometimes they don't understand what it is Im talking about, and it's quite irritating to be with someone you can't talk 100% openly with.

- Someone into computer games/anime is always a plus, but not neccessary lol. Im not saying this because Im a major computer games geek or anything, but I always find it fun playing games with a girlfriend, especially now we have Wi-Fi for the PSP/DS meaning you can play even if you're not together.

Gamer girls/anime fans just attract me for some reason, they usually have an immensely "cute" personality.

- Someone who is the definition of "pretty" and "classy"
Not FIT, or HOT etc, since there's thousands of people in the world who are fit. And an even larger amount of them are the unfaithful type.

Someone who is uniquely beautiful in a way that really fascinates you. They're hard to find, but worth the search.

- A girl who looks adorable in a hoodie. Girls in hoodies = Happy Retroman.

- Lastly, nice round eyes are good, but Im not too fussed if they're not. Hair down to their shoulders AT LEAST, preferably longer. Slim, decent fashion sense and a good smile.

Oh, and someone who is willing to show lots of public affection, regardless of where we are and who we're with.


Awww that's sweet :bigsmile: I just want to find someone lol, I don't like being sinlge any more :bored:

Sarah.
17-12-2007, 06:31 PM
Someone different =]

Bells
17-12-2007, 06:33 PM
Personality-wise, I'm quite picky - he would have to be funny, kind and genuinely nice, but confidence is important too. Just someone I can 100% be myself with and not worry about every little thing (which I tend to do sometimes with boyfriends). Mutual respect/good communication is important as well, but above all he needs to be someone I can not take life too seriously with and just enjoy everything as much as possible.

Looks-wise, there has to be a certain level of attractiveness because that's what will probably make them stand out in the first place. But it's not all about looks for me as it is for a lot of people I know: although probably they're in relationships just for the sake of being in one. Also, I seem to be attracted to different types of looks: fair, tanned, blonde hair, dark hair, dark skin, any eye colour - so I don't have a particular preference.

Retroman
17-12-2007, 06:39 PM
Originally posted by XxShortyxX
Awww that's sweet :bigsmile: I just want to find someone lol, I don't like being sinlge any more :bored:

I know how you feel...
Although part of me worries that once ive been with someone for a really long time, i'll just get bored of them, or argue with them too much etc, since it's happened in the past.

So then id be wishing I was single again lol.
But I guess that's down to not finding the right person.

But ive had enough of the "single and fun" lifestyle now.
There's certain things that come with a relationship, that you can't help but miss after a while.

Kate..
17-12-2007, 06:46 PM
Originally posted by XxShortyxX
Originally posted by SumminAboutKate
For both (cause i'm bi lol)

Funny
Cute
Good at hugging!:love:
Someone that's easy to be around
Confident
Has a genuine personality, one that i get on with
Sticks up for what they beleive in
Doesn't flirt with other people if you're going out with them
:bouncy:


lol same as you really :bigsmile: that defo have to have a personality though, I don't want to be with a boring fart.
lol very true, *edits*

Captain.Remy
17-12-2007, 06:50 PM
Message original : Retroman

But ive had enough of the "single and fun" lifestyle now.
There's certain things that come with a relationship, that you can't help but miss after a while.

I really liked the "single and fun" lifestyle cause I had a girlfriend every week lol I did what I wanted, I had no limit....
But I don't miss it now, I mean I'm with my girlfriend for a year now and it's amazing, I don't want to be single lol

XxShortyxX
17-12-2007, 06:52 PM
I know how you feel...
Although part of me worries that once ive been with someone for a really long time, i'll just get bored of them, or argue with them too much etc, since it's happened in the past.

So then id be wishing I was single again lol.
But I guess that's down to not finding the right person.

But ive had enough of the "single and fun" lifestyle now.
There's certain things that come with a relationship, that you can't help but miss after a while. [/quote]


And I am sure you will find someone soon hun :bigsmile:


I just want to find someone now, more so a girl though. I get guys asking my out, but I really ent interestaed like lol.

supernoodles!
17-12-2007, 09:48 PM
shorty your pretty and have a fab personality so im sure you`ll find a great gf soon:bigsmile:
When people talkl about having a 'type' i dont think i really have one,its all about the personality with me at first and then i usually start to notice what i like about there looks later,not saying looks arent important though.
I always fancy really odd celebrities that im more often than not embarrassed to admit too lol

Dan_
18-12-2007, 12:35 PM
Personality-wise, just someone that is easy to talk to and that you can have a laugh with.I probably prefer someone who is a bit shy, really cannot be doing with someone who needs to be the centre of attention each time they are out socialising.It would be great if the girl liked sports seeing as I like to watch them a lot, someone who would go and watch the local football team play with me would be ideal.

Overall just someone sweet, sensitive and easy to get along with.

Looks-wise,I've not really got just one type I go for.But like Ash said, I go for different types of look.All the girls I seem to fancy are pretty similar looking in that different type, if you get what I mean? :laugh:

XxShortyxX
18-12-2007, 12:39 PM
Originally posted by supernoodles!
shorty your pretty and have a fab personality so Im sure you`ll find a great gf soon:bigsmile:
When people talkl about having a 'type' i dont think i really have one,its all about the personality with me at first and then i usually start to notice what i like about there looks later,not saying looks arent important though.
I always fancy really odd celebrities that Im more often than not embarrassed to admit too lol



Awwww thankoo :bigsmile:

Yeah, personality is important to me, obs you have to be acttractive to that perosn.