I like this Romanian girl in my workplace but cant seem to able to speak to her without blushing

[farhad]

its just annoying, I dont understand why i have trouble with talking to her, she knows actually i like her, but I just fail to approach her.:mad:

[Mrluvaluva]

Pluck uo the courage and ask her out man! She can only say no. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

[LargeAndInCharge]

just so the little things ,ike make her cup of tea etc take her rubbish for her or what ever if not just ask her out

[Lauren]

Man up and talk to her, last thing she wants is some snivelling shy guy.

[Dan_]

I can understand you might be a bit shy around her but if you don't go ask her out then someone else might and you'll only end up regretting it.

[GiRTh]

Just ask her out. She can only say no.

[Jackie]

Just go up to her and say "Do you wanna come out for a drink sometime"

[Scarlett.]

Just get talking about some random subject (not too random though :hugesmile: )

[supernoodles!]

how old are you?
If you go out drinking/clubbing whatever, one day just say oh im going to so and so this weekend and then she`ll respond and then just get talking about where you go and what you do in your spare time then when she might like say a bar or somewhere she goes to and then you can go 'oh really,me too,ive never seen you there' then hey presto you just magically bump into her.
Bit stalkerish but she`ll never know.

[Shaun]

Does she look like Nikki? :tongue:

Only joking. I'd listen to the advice others have given...they've pretty much covered everything lol.

[Dr43%er]

A couple of people have said,

"She can only say no."

Well if that is that case then why bother? I would suggest the worst she could say in no. And in that case give it a go.

Lauren. Not all shy people are snivelling as you put it. Quite insulting to all the shy people out there. Then again, if you like gobby ***** that is up to you.

[bridge7too7far]

Originally posted by farhad
its just annoying, I dont understand why i have trouble with talking to her, she knows actually i like, but I just fail to approach her.:mad:

I know what you mean. It can be hrd many of the time, just have a few drinks and pluckup thea courage, alcohol helps:bigsmile:

[farhad]

Originally posted by Shaun
Does she look like Nikki? :tongue:

Only joking. I'd listen to the advice others have given...they've pretty much covered everything lol.

She isn't anything like Nikki, she is tall, about 5ft 8inch with lovely figure, her voice is very low though, but sexy yes.:bigsmile: She has lovely eyes though and hair.

[supernoodles!]

yeh alcohol helps,but ya know only one or two or you`ll make a fool of yourself

[Sam!]

Originally posted by farhad
Originally posted by Shaun
Does she look like Nikki? :tongue:

Only joking. I'd listen to the advice others have given...they've pretty much covered everything lol.

She isn't anything like Nikki, she is tall, about 5ft 8inch with lovely figure, her voice is very low though, but sexy yes.:bigsmile: She has lovely eyes though and hair.

Really? Wow! :P lol. Just talk to her like shes a friend.

[farhad]

Originally posted by Dan_
I can understand you might be a bit shy around her but if you don't go ask her out then someone else might and you'll only end up regretting it.

She apparently said to one of her colleague that she thinks I'm the best person in my workplace, best means best looking, this person told me, although i never said to him that i liked her. I do speak to her occassionally but not too long.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : farhad
Originally posted by Dan_
I can understand you might be a bit shy around her but if you don't go ask her out then someone else might and you'll only end up regretting it.

She apparently said to one of her colleague that she thinks I'm the best person in my workplace, best means best looking, this person told me, although i never said to him that i liked her. I do speak to her occassionally but not too long.

Find something interesting to tell her, about something she likes (but something you don't like but pretend you do lol) you will talk more and more and it will go naturally.

[farhad]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Message original : farhad
Originally posted by Dan_
I can understand you might be a bit shy around her but if you don't go ask her out then someone else might and you'll only end up regretting it.

She apparently said to one of her colleague that she thinks I'm the best person in my workplace, best means best looking, this person told me, although i never said to him that i liked her. I do speak to her occassionally but not too long.

Find something interesting to tell her, about something she likes (but something you don't like but pretend you do lol) you will talk more and more and it will go naturally.

You mean just say something random.

[Stu]

Lets put it this way , if you really like her , you owe it to her to ask. Of course if the courage still fails , hit the booze.

[farhad]

Originally posted by Morpheus
Lets put it this way , if you really like her , you owe it to her to ask. Of course if the courage still fails , hit the booze.

You mean booze will help a bit. I know she likes me, hence she kept asking some of my colleauge about myself as I started working there before her, She's been there for 2 months.

[Stu]

Originally posted by farhad
Originally posted by Morpheus
Lets put it this way , if you really like her , you owe it to her to ask. Of course if the courage still fails , hit the booze.

You mean booze will help a bit.
Yet but if you really like her , you gotta ask yourself do you really need help from a drug in asking her out? What I would say is hit the booze AFTER you ask her out.

Either way , just hit the booze.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Dr43%er

Lauren. Not all shy people are snivelling as you put it. Quite insulting to all the shy people out there. Then again, if you like gobby ***** that is up to you.

I didn't say all shy people were snivelling, did I?

People always take things I say in the wrong way and make me out to be bad. I don't like gobby whatever the hell you said, I was giving him advice - I'll know in the future next time just to keep schtum. ****sake. I'm going.

[Shaun]

Bloomin' eck.

That was rather OTT.

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by Dr43%er

A couple of people have said,

"She can only say no."

Well if that is that case then why bother? I would suggest the worst she could say in no. And in that case give it a go.



Well if she says "no" then at least you know where you stand. It's not the end of the world is what I am saying.

[GiRTh]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Dr43%er

Lauren. Not all shy people are snivelling as you put it. Quite insulting to all the shy people out there. Then again, if you like gobby ***** that is up to you.

I didn't say all shy people were snivelling, did I?

People always take things I say in the wrong way and make me out to be bad. I don't like gobby whatever the hell you said, I was giving him advice - I'll know in the future next time just to keep schtum. ****sake. I'm going. Take it easy killer. Chill.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : farhad
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Message original : farhad
Originally posted by Dan_
I can understand you might be a bit shy around her but if you don't go ask her out then someone else might and you'll only end up regretting it.

She apparently said to one of her colleague that she thinks I'm the best person in my workplace, best means best looking, this person told me, although i never said to him that i liked her. I do speak to her occassionally but not too long.

Find something interesting to tell her, about something she likes (but something you don't like but pretend you do lol) you will talk more and more and it will go naturally.

You mean just say something random.

Nah, not at all. Find something she likes to talk about, ask some workmates who know her and stuff. Find a great opportunity to do that. That's what I have done and I'm still with my girlfriend for almost 1 year and a half now so it works. :thumbs:

[farhad]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Message original : farhad
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Message original : farhad
Originally posted by Dan_
I can understand you might be a bit shy around her but if you don't go ask her out then someone else might and you'll only end up regretting it.

She apparently said to one of her colleague that she thinks I'm the best person in my workplace, best means best looking, this person told me, although i never said to him that i liked her. I do speak to her occassionally but not too long.

Find something interesting to tell her, about something she likes (but something you don't like but pretend you do lol) you will talk more and more and it will go naturally.

You mean just say something random.

Nah, not at all. Find something she likes to talk about, ask some workmates who know her and stuff. Find a great opportunity to do that. That's what I have done and I'm still with my girlfriend for almost 1 year and a half now so it works. :thumbs:

Thanks, well i did speak to her last night, and i got this impression that she wants me to talk to her.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : farhad

Thanks, well i did speak to her last night, and i got this impression that she wants me to talk to her.

You're welcome. If you feel that way then go for it, nothing is more 'wow' than this period, it's a mix of stress and passion. Good luck. :thumbs: