Totally screwed

[~Kizwiz~]

Woke up at 5 this morning, plooded downstairs to find our front door open, laptops, mobiles, nintendo's, psp's gone!!!! All gone!!!

The ******ers then helped themselves to our house keys and stole our 2 cars! Only had the Espace for 2 weeks or so!!!!

I am lost, Red is lost......we dont know how the hell they got in. No windows broken, no sign of forced entry NOTHING!

SOCO have just been and aparently this was the 2nd break in last night in the area, that also had no sign of forced entry.

[Sunny_01]

Oh god Kiz I am so sorry to hear that, it is such a violation when someone breaks into your home. You are left with so much to do in terms of police, insurance etc.. as well as losing your property. I am sure the comps held a lot of precious photos of the kids as well. All of this in the middle of such a busy time in your lives as well :sad:

Anything at all that I can do then drop me an email.

hugs for you and Mr Moon

[Captain.Remy]

Jesus, that's terrible ! I'm so sorry to hear that, we all hope the police will do something to help you out.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Sunny_01
Oh god Kiz I am so sorry to hear that, it is such a violation when someone breaks into your home. You are left with so much to do in terms of police, insurance etc.. as well as losing your property. I am sure the comps held a lot of precious photos of the kids as well. All of this in the middle of such a busy time in your lives as well :sad:

Anything at all that I can do then drop me an email.

hugs for you and Mr Moon

Thanks Sunny, we just are stunned!

The Macbooks had all our photo's of the kids, especially Lucy. I only have the ones I sent to people on email.

They even took our coats, handbags the lot!

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Jesus, that's terrible ! I'm so sorry to hear that, we all hope the police will do something to help you out.

Cant even take the kids to school as we now have no car!

And we were all sleeping upstairs when this was happening..... I feel very sick right now!!!!

[Mrluvaluva]

OMG. What bastards! I know most of your stuff was pretty new. You must both be devastated. And now you have all the hassle of getting your locks changed and everything. I am sorry to hear about this Kiz. I hope they catch them quickly. Somebody should rob their homes and see how they like it. I hope you get things sorted soon.

x

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~

And we were all sleeping upstairs when this was happening..... I feel very sick right now!!!!

It doesn't bear thinking about Kiz. I cannot even start to comprehend how you are all feeling right now.

[~Kizwiz~]

Thanks B,

How the hell did they get in?? The police think that they were disturbed as they didnt take all of the nintendo games and the wii. The rest has gone tho

I am just glad that the kids are ok

[MarkWaldorf]

Omg, Kiz I'm so sorry. That's just terrible, I hope the douches are found. :sad:

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~

I am just glad that the kids are ok

I know it is of little consolation, but thank god you are all ok. I know not everything can be replaced, but the main thing is that you are all ok. Hope you get things sorted out.

[Dan_]

I'm so sorry to hear that Kiz, you must be completly devastated.I hope they find the little scrotes and lock them away for good :mad:

[Arneldo]

Kiz, thats awful! I'm so sorry to hear that. I cant see wh anyoine would do that..sick, sick people.

I'm glad that you lot are safe though, I suppose thats the main thing.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~

I am lost, Red is lost......we dont know how the hell they got in. No windows broken, no sign of forced entry NOTHING!


We now know how they got in....... they picked the bloody locks.

[BigSister]

aww no kiz im so sorry to hear this. Hope they find them soon:mad::mad:

[James]

That is terrible. I hope the police catch them and get some of your things back. You'd hope they might have more success at finding them because they stole cars, but I don't know.

[Scarlett.]

OMG!
Why the hell do people steal? You guys worked hard to get your stuff, then them bastards take it all!
Hope they are found

[Gemmer-x]

Aww sorry to hear that, its terrible! :sad:

[Sunny_01]

Honey it is awful, I am really thinking about you all. It is so scary knowing you were all asleep in your beds while they were helping themselves.

[supernoodles!]

total scumbags is what they are.I know that the worst bit is thinking about the fact some random strangers have been in your home and rifflinf through your things rather than the fact your possesions have been nicked.Hope everything gets sorted and they catch the ar** holes

[GiRTh]

Thas terrible Kiz. How did they manage to pick the locks? Its a good job you're OK.

[Princess]

Thats so horrible. I hope you're all ok.

[Spike]

Sorry to hear that, they need their hands cutting off.

[Callum]

Aw! So sorry to hear this Kiz, I hope you get some of the stuff back.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by GiRTh
Thas terrible Kiz. How did they manage to pick the locks? Its a good job you're OK.

Look on ebay hon...... tons and tons of lock picks!!!!!!

We didnt know that until our hanndy postman told us!

Plus the insurers cant send anyone out till the 4th April to 'asses' our claim :rolleyes:

[GiRTh]

Thats the way they do it these days. They get in and take anything that they can carry. Laptops, mobiles, game consoles etc. Then they look for your car keys to steal that. The same thing happened to my old boss while he was awake in the house. These guys dont play.

[officialleafan]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Woke up at 5 this morning, plooded downstairs to find our front door open, laptops, mobiles, nintendo's, psp's gone!!!! All gone!!!

The ******ers then helped themselves to our house keys and stole our 2 cars! Only had the Espace for 2 weeks or so!!!!

I am lost, Red is lost......we dont know how the hell they got in. No windows broken, no sign of forced entry NOTHING!

SOCO have just been and aparently this was the 2nd break in last night in the area, that also had no sign of forced entry. #

Same thing happened to my brother at the begining of year :shocked:

They broke in his house, robbed his pictures (I know, very strange) and tried to take his car, but the keys were attached to his dogs collars :bigsmile:

I'm sorry to hear that though

[Sam!]

Omg Kiz thats terrible! :shocked:

[~Kizwiz~]

The thing that I am most pee'd about is the car, we've only had it for 3 weeks

Please excuse my french but I want to strangle those bastards

[Tom4784]

What an awful thing to have happened, We was robbed a few years back but luckily we were out of the house and not much has taken. I hope they catch the little a***holes resonsible. I'm glad that you and your family are safe.

[*mazedsalv**]

Omgg How awful! I hope that these thieves get caught, they are cowards and have no respect for others.

[Magic]

I really fell sorry for you.

You must be so angry, and scared, not knowing that they were in the house while you were one floor above!

[Dr43%er]

Mate, gutted for you. As Baz says though, you and your family are ok.

[XxThinkinBlinkinxX]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Woke up at 5 this morning, plooded downstairs to find our front door open, laptops, mobiles, nintendo's, psp's gone!!!! All gone!!!

The ******ers then helped themselves to our house keys and stole our 2 cars! Only had the Espace for 2 weeks or so!!!!

I am lost, Red is lost......we dont know how the hell they got in. No windows broken, no sign of forced entry NOTHING!

SOCO have just been and aparently this was the 2nd break in last night in the area, that also had no sign of forced entry.

plooded :puzzled: You mean flooded There was a flood too :puzzled:

[Magic]

Originally posted by XxThinkinBlinkinxX
Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Woke up at 5 this morning, plooded downstairs to find our front door open, laptops, mobiles, nintendo's, psp's gone!!!! All gone!!!

The ******ers then helped themselves to our house keys and stole our 2 cars! Only had the Espace for 2 weeks or so!!!!

I am lost, Red is lost......we dont know how the hell they got in. No windows broken, no sign of forced entry NOTHING!

SOCO have just been and aparently this was the 2nd break in last night in the area, that also had no sign of forced entry.

plooded :puzzled: You mean flooded There was a flood too :puzzled:

Why would she ...flooded downstairs to find our front door open....?

It doesnt make sense!

[XxThinkinBlinkinxX]

Originally posted by Magic
Originally posted by XxThinkinBlinkinxX


plooded :puzzled: You mean flooded There was a flood too :puzzled:

Why would she ...flooded downstairs to find our front door open....?

It doesnt make sense!

Thats what I thought :puzzled:

[CassetteFinger]

I cant believe that :shocled: that's really scary just to think that people can just break in like that :bored: Sorry Kizwiz for all your loss :sad:

[Magic]

Originally posted by XxThinkinBlinkinxX
Originally posted by Magic
Originally posted by XxThinkinBlinkinxX


plooded :puzzled: You mean flooded There was a flood too :puzzled:

Why would she ...flooded downstairs to find our front door open....?

It doesnt make sense!

Thats what I thought :puzzled:

No, I meant what you said!

She ment ploded! Not flooded!

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by XxThinkinBlinkinxX

plooded :puzzled: You mean flooded There was a flood too :puzzled:

I think Kiz meant "plodded".

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by XxThinkinBlinkinxX

plooded :puzzled: You mean flooded There was a flood too :puzzled:

Please excuse my spelling......:rolleyes:

I am rather emotional..... :bored:

Nice to see you picked up on my error :rolleyes:

*plodded!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Callum]

Calm down

[XxThinkinBlinkinxX]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Originally posted by XxThinkinBlinkinxX

plooded :puzzled: You mean flooded There was a flood too :puzzled:

Please excuse my spelling......:rolleyes:

I am rather emotional..... :bored:

Nice to see you picked up on my error :rolleyes:

*plodded!!!!!!!!!!!!

Simple error, no harm done.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Callum
Calm down

Me?

[Callum]

I just thought people were getting a bit too hot headed in here.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Callum
I just thought people were getting a bit too hot headed in here.

wanna trade places?

[Tom]

Burglars deserve to be castrated then force fed them. If female then they deserve their hair and boobs chopping off.

Awful news, they really are lowlife scumbags.

[Callum]

Originally posted by Tom_
boobs chopping off.

why boobs? lmao

[Tom]

Originally posted by Callum
Originally posted by Tom_
boobs chopping off.

why boobs? lmao

You do know what a castration is?

[Callum]

Originally posted by Tom_
Originally posted by Callum
Originally posted by Tom_
boobs chopping off.

why boobs? lmao

You do know what a castration is?

Can't say I do.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Tom_
Originally posted by Callum
Originally posted by Tom_
boobs chopping off.

why boobs? lmao

You do know what a castration is?

I think it's way too harsh for robbers, it works for paedophiles. I think jail is the right sentence for robbers, not castration.

And for the record, castration doesn't include removing boobs.

[Tom]

Originally posted by Callum

Can't say I do.

Its when males get their balls chopped off. Might be a bit hard for female robber.

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

I think it's way too harsh for robbers, it works for paedophiles. I think jail is the right sentence for robbers, not castration.

Jail isn't an adequate punishment IMO. A great percentage go back to doing what they were in for when they are released.

Other threats are IMO better punishments.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Tom_

Jail isn't an adequate punishment IMO. A great percentage go back to doing what they were in for when they are released.

Other threats are IMO better punishments.

But castration won't make robbers nicer, it's not like paedophiles, it's a completely different thing. Castration is not linked to robbers, your point does not make sense since the robbers still can rob.

[Tom]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Message original : Tom_

Jail isn't an adequate punishment IMO. A great percentage go back to doing what they were in for when they are released.

Other threats are IMO better punishments.

But castration won't make robbers nicer, it's not like paedophiles, it's a completely different thing. Castration is not linked to robbers, your point does not make sense since the robbers still can rob.

Right, time to explain :joker:

Its a frequent figure of speech used over here especially in the north (at least the castrate bit is) and it wasn't intended to be taken literally :thumbs:

But anyway, with regards to the poster who suggested Kiz is getting hot-headded, I think she has remained rather calm considering the circumstances and I don't think people can fully appreciate the feeling of being robbed until it happens to you.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Tom_
Right, time to explain :joker:

Its a frequent figure of speech used over here especially in the north (at least the castrate bit is) and it wasn't intended to be taken literally :thumbs:

But anyway, with regards to the poster who suggested Kiz is getting hot-headded, I think she has remained rather calm considering the circumstances and I don't think people can fully appreciate the feeling of being robbed until it happens to you.

Lol sorry for the minsunderstanding, I couldn't see the point of talking about castration towards robbers lool

And I know what Kiz is feeling, it happened to me too, not as big as what happened to her (only jewerlies and TVs) You feel very stupid in that situation.

[XxThinkinBlinkinxX]

Originally posted by Tom_

Jail isn't an adequate punishment IMO. A great percentage go back to doing what they were in for when they are released.

Other threats are IMO better punishments.

Jail is the only punishment for burglary. Its true that a great percentage shall reoffend and for those that do, there shall be a lovely cell waiting for them when they return. and they will get caught.

If you take the law into your own hands you shall more than likely make a mistake and get caught, then put away. Maybe you shall share the same prison, how ironic. Don't forget CCTV trails. A criminal has to get to the scene of the crime and then leave. Then you also have to bypass DNA. Also fingerprints.

[Loukas]

Holy S*** omg sorry this happened kiz and red!

those robbers are stupid a*******s! how dare they!

[Matt08]

I'm sorry to hear about the robbery Kiz and Red. Hopefully the *********s will be caught very soon and you'll be able to get your stuff back. If the buggers want a MacBook or a car etc. then they should work for it.

[Magic]

Will you be able to get inuarance Kiz?

[~Kizwiz~]

For the record we are insured up to the hilt!

As as for me remaning calm, thats gone out the window now.

In the cold heart of day, unless you have been burguled you have no clue on how it feels.

People have been in my house while my children are alseep!!!!!!! The have ruited thro our stuff and now I jump every time someone walks past my front garden.

Now thats its dark the fear has only increased!

Our kids are petrified!!!!!!!! They are having to sleep togther to feel secure.

I hope that retribution is forfilled and that the bastards who have invaded our house have the full force of justice brought down on their head

[Tom]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
For the record we are insured up to the hilt!

As as for me remaning calm, thats gone out the window now.

In the cold heart of day, unless you have been burguled you have no clue on how it feels.

People have been in my house while my children are alseep!!!!!!! The have ruited thro our stuff and now I jump every time someone walks past my front garden.

Now thats its dark the fear has only increased!

Our kids are petrified!!!!!!!! They are having to sleep togther to feel secure.

I hope that retribution is forfilled and that the bastards who have invaded our house have the full force of justice brought down on their head

Being insured isn't the point. You shouldn't have to be insured from burglary because nobody should be doing it anyway!

I hope the kids (and you and the o.h) aren't too scared and I hope you begin to feel better in time :spin2:

[Sunny_01]

Oh Kiz, I was worried that you would feel worse as the evening set in. It is scary and insurance aside you need to feel safe in your own home dont you.

I will be thinking about you all tonight :love:

[Legend]

It's a scary thought to think scum can enter your home so easily. Hope you, Red and the kids are okay kiz.

[Mrluvaluva]

Hope you, Red and the kids didn't have too bad a night Kiz. How are you all today?

[~Kizwiz~]

still in shock really

no news on the cars. I think they will run them until the tank is empty then dump it.

Whats really weird is that I had a box on top of the bookcase which was filled with seal ornaments which I have collected since I was about 7. I had put them in this box. which used to contain wine in it. They have taken that too thinking it was a box of wine

Its the little things they take that you can never ever replace that makes me sad

[Shaun]

I'm so sorry to hear about this Kiz, I hope the bastard who did this is caught ASAP.

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
still in shock really

no news on the cars. I think they will run them until the tank is empty then dump it.

Whats really weird is that I had a box on top of the bookcase which was filled with seal ornaments which I have collected since I was about 7. I had put them in this box. which used to contain wine in it. They have taken that too thinking it was a box of wine

Its the little things they take that you can never ever replace that makes me sad

Yeah. Not everything is replacable is it? These swines don't think about that.

[GiRTh]

Its good that your insurance should cover everything but it still cant replace the emotion that someone got inside your house.

[~Kizwiz~]

Just had to go and pick the kids up from school via bus. Red did the morning bus trip and I did the afternoon one. Its my turn to do the morning run tomorrow...... thank god its easter for the next 2 weeks.

[GiRTh]

I'm sorry to hear Kiz. Any more news on the insurance.

[~Kizwiz~]

Just had a call from the police. They found the espace..... not far from here at all. About half a mile away.

The bastards burnt it out :cloud:

[GiRTh]

I have to say. Id have been VERY surprised if they had not done something like that.

Given that, I'm sorry to say, I think it may have been kids who robbed you. I think a pro would have chopped it before getting rid. That makes it even more depressing.

[~Kizwiz~]

The police said they were pro's, lets hope that we find the other car burnt out too. We're hoping it will as its the same people who nicked it

I am so so angry, plus I feel so insecure now. I am a nervous wreck

[Nicola]

OMG have just heard about this, sending you big hugs now and hope it all gets sorted soon. I bet it must have been devastating for you, Red and your family.

[GiRTh]

Why would someone nick a car then burnt it out? It gets crazier the more you think about it.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by GiRTh
Why would someone nick a car then burnt it out? It gets crazier the more you think about it.

Its a big car..... they do over other houses. They would have used it last night to do more houses then burn out the car because the grease from the finger prints cant be traced if its tourched

[GiRTh]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Originally posted by GiRTh
Why would someone nick a car then burnt it out? It gets crazier the more you think about it.

Its a big car..... they do over other houses. They would have used it last night to do more houses then burn out the car because the grease from the finger prints cant be traced if its tourched That makes sense. How are you coping at geting back to normal?

[~Kizwiz~]

I'm not hon

[BigSister]

im sorry to hear about the car Kiz and i know what you mean about the sentemantal things my grandad and his partner got broke into a few months ago and they stole his mums ring and her mums ring plus a few other things

[~Kizwiz~]

I am sorry to keep going on about it but I dont know how to cope with this, I feel so devastated

[MarkWaldorf]

What does "burning out a car" mean? Sorry I'm not big on cars.

[Mrluvaluva]

Setting fire to it Mark to cover their traces.

[MarkWaldorf]

Omg! :shocked:

[Red Moon]

Burning the car out removes finger prints etc from the car. It destroys any evidence they might have left behind.

However in this case they decided to burn the car out about half a mile from the local fire station so not all the car was burnt out. The police are going over the car tomorrow to see what they can find in the way of fingerprints etc.

I'm now waiting for the other car to turn up in the same state in a few days time.

BTW thank you all for your kind words.

[Mrluvaluva]

I hope they find something out and nail the bastards. Hope you are all doing ok.

[Sunny_01]

Hey Kiz, was thinking about you all today.

I wish there was something we could say to make you feel better but it really is going to take a lot of love and time for you to start to feel safe again.

xxx

[Mrluvaluva]

I can't get it out of my head. I just can't comprehend what you are all going through. I just hope things get easier with time.

[Red Moon]

It's horrible.

[supernoodles!]

All I can say is Im very sorry for whats happened,i cant imagine what it must feel like.I know once my dads car got broken into when i was 8 and some of my stuff got nicked then.That was bad enough for me so this must be terrible!
It just makes it worse that they`ve now mindlessly destroyed something im sure you both worked so hard to pay for and maintain.Scum is what they are and they need to be found and locked up for good.

[Red Moon]

Thank you supernoodles! for you comment to the thread.

Having someone come into you house and nick your stuff while we were all asleep was bad enough, then things got worse when we noticed the cars had gone, and now we have found the first car burnt out and I know the same fate awaits the other car soon. Well it a bit like living in hell. I'm just waiting for the next call from the police. The remaining car had more fuel than then the first one they burnt out but it can only be a matter of days.

We can get another car, and replace the stuff in the house that was lost, but the problem is how do you rebuild the confidence of our two eldest girls who, are sharing a bed because they are scared to sleep alone?

I'm so glad that we will be getting out of this horrid city soon. Lets hope the girls can leave the bad memories behind them.

[~Kizwiz~]

The realisation of whats happened sunk in last. I must have been running on adrenaline from the shock.

All I can say about things is I am heartbroken.

The fact that they have found the 1st car means that we will get the book price for it. The only thing is, we've had it for 3 week and will only get 80% of what we bought it for :sad:

Its left us all so insecure, that before bed we have to see if we are being watched. I know that the chances of them coming back for the rest in miniscule but you try stopping me thinking that.

[Mrluvaluva]

I don't know what to say. I just hope they catch them and that gives you some peace of mind at least.

[Sunny_01]

Morning Kiz and Red

I hope you find a little peace sometime soon. I am sure you will be really glad to see the back of this house which had preivously held such happy memories for you all. A new house a new start will hopefully help the girls find a new confidence.

[James]

Just hope you can get some peace of mind and some sense of security back soon. :sad:

[GiRTh]

Lets hope you can get back to normal as soon as possible.

[~Kizwiz~]

Still waiting for the other car to be found..... its like being in limbo

At least we've been able to occupy our mind with the buy and sale of the houses.

[Magic]

Originally posted by Red Moon

I'm so glad that we will be getting out of this horrid city soon. Lets hope the girls can leave the bad memories behind them.

I suppose that if it had to happen to you, it happend now.
Lets just hope they get caught!

Wil you be moving to the country, a town, or city?

[Sophii3x]

Awww no, I really feel for you Red and Kiz and your children! I can't imagine what your going through right now, but I hope you get through it ok. It's terrible what they did, let's just hope they get found and brought to justice. x

[~Kizwiz~]

Thanks everyone for your words of support. Its mean a lot to Red and I.

Originally posted by Magic

Wil you be moving to the country, a town, or city?

Its a little village in Rutland (near Leicestershire)

Its a beautiful white cottage that we both fell in love with. Its got a massive family room just for the kids, and a lovely lounge and dining room with a coal fire.

Its the perfect place for us, but we havent exchanged contracts yet so we're still crossing our fingers.

It would mean a completely different life from the lone we have now. The kids can walk to school because its about 100 metres away. No traffic, no noise, no street lamps so we can see the stars.

Bliss

[Magic]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Thanks everyone for your words of support. Its mean a lot to Red and I.

Originally posted by Magic

Wil you be moving to the country, a town, or city?

Its a little village in Rutland (near Leicestershire)

Its a beautiful white cottage that we both fell in love with. Its got a massive family room just for the kids, and a lovely lounge and dining room with a coal fire.

Its the perfect place for us, but we havent exchanged contracts yet so we're still crossing our fingers.

It would mean a completely different life from the lone we have now. The kids can walk to school because its about 100 metres away. No traffic, no noise, no street lamps so we can see the stars.

Bliss

Wow! That will be lovely! Do you know when you could be moving if it all goes through?

[Sam!]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Thanks everyone for your words of support. Its mean a lot to Red and I.

Originally posted by Magic

Wil you be moving to the country, a town, or city?

Its a little village in Rutland (near Leicestershire)

Its a beautiful white cottage that we both fell in love with. Its got a massive family room just for the kids, and a lovely lounge and dining room with a coal fire.

Its the perfect place for us, but we havent exchanged contracts yet so we're still crossing our fingers.

It would mean a completely different life from the lone we have now. The kids can walk to school because its about 100 metres away. No traffic, no noise, no street lamps so we can see the stars.

Bliss

Near Rutland water??? I live like 45 mins from there I think. We used to go bike rides there lol Northamptonshire is adjacent to it.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Magic
Wow! That will be lovely! Do you know when you could be moving if it all goes through?

The place we are buying was repossessed from the owner, so we've got a steal of a house. And because of the repossession we have to exchange and complete within 28 days. We dont have to move straight away as we still will have our house in leeds that needs doing up before selling, but we're hoping to be down there in 5 - 6 weeks. Red wont move there until the adsl line is connected :laugh:

Originally posted by Scampi

Near Rutland water??? I live like 45 mins from there I think. We used to go bike rides there lol Northamptonshire is adjacent to it.

I am a Rutland girl :hugesmile: Thats where I grew up. My mum, sister and brother live there so really I'm going home. Where are you then?

I love Rutland Water, its so nice.

It will be nice to have family around us, Red and I have never been on a proper date :blush2:
We will have all the babysitters we need :hello:

[Matt08]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Originally posted by Magic
Wow! That will be lovely! Do you know when you could be moving if it all goes through?

The place we are buying was repossessed from the owner, so we've got a steal of a house. And because of the repossession we have to exchange and complete within 28 days. We dont have to move straight away as we still will have our house in leeds that needs doing up before selling, but we're hoping to be down there in 5 - 6 weeks. Red wont move there until the adsl line is connected :laugh:

Originally posted by Scampi

Near Rutland water??? I live like 45 mins from there I think. We used to go bike rides there lol Northamptonshire is adjacent to it.

I am a Rutland girl :hugesmile: Thats where I grew up. My mum, sister and brother live there so really I'm going home. Where are you then?

I love Rutland Water, its so nice.

It will be nice to have family around us, Red and I have never been on a proper date :blush2:
We will have all the babysitters we need :hello:

I hope the move goes really well for you, Red and the kids. You deserve to get away from that horrid city where those yobs have ruined your lives.
Good luck to you all!

[Sunny_01]

hope you are feeling a little calmer today Kiz, keep looking forward to the move, the new cottage sounds fantastic.

[Captain.Remy]

It's a good thing you can start over Kiz & Red, the new place seems calmer.

[Dr43%er]

Not long now. Having family around will make the world of difference. Not sure if it is any conciliation but the vast majority of burglars do not want confrontation. The second they are disturbed they are off. So please sleep well.
Have you spoke to victim support?

[~Kizwiz~]

Its funny Doc, we just received info on victims support. But I dont know if it will help me.... its worth a shot maybe.

We're all sleeping a bit better, but its not the same and yes Sunny, its getting a little calmer here. There are still times when you forget just for one min and then it all comes flooding back and it hits you. I wish I could get rid of this heavy heart and weight thats pushing down on my shoulders and chest.

I just want to step back to Monday when everything was great.

The things that I cant get thro my head is we've had such a crappy year last year and we had managed to put all that behind us and we were on the homerun to a great year. Plus a day before it happened we went to buy a door chain but they didnt have one that would fit to our door. How ironic

[Dr43%er]

"Its funny Doc, we just received info on victims support. But I dont know if it will help me.... its worth a shot maybe. "

Hey, nothing ventured nothing gained.

[~Kizwiz~]

I suppose.

But police have found the other car, they couldnt tell us this time where or when they found it but they think they have the keys.:puzzled:

I think that they might have got some prints off the 1st car they found, raided them and found the Red car.

I am not sure I want it back tho. I feel really weird about going in it after those scumbags stole it :sad:

[Sunny_01]

Victim support can be really useful Kiz, not only do they offer emotional support but they can help with practical things, so give them a chance to help you.

I understand how you feel about the car Kiz, but remember you get it back and you have taken a little back of what they took from you. It is about control, you can take a little control back in your life.

It is a really heavy burden to bare, you worry about the kids and what could have happened, but remember they were cowards, they didnt try to come near you, they crept around so as not to be caught. You and Red are the brave ones you have faced this head on and dealt with what has been thrown at you. Keep dealing with things and you are the ones that have won as you have not let them beat you.

Hope this makes sense

[~Kizwiz~]

Thanks guys,

Its been a week and my mind is getting worse. My moods are become very black and I feel like someone is pressing down on my chest nearly the whole time. I havent plucked up courage to phone victim support because I am scared they will think I am not genuine.

The Red car is in the process of being checked and then I guess it will be returned to us. The only thing is that I dont want anything back from the skags who stole it and I dont want to touch anything that they took away from us.

Its all ******ed up basically

[Sunny_01]

Kiz honey it is normal to feel this way, it is still really early days.

Why on earth would victim support not think you were genuine. You have been through a terrible ordeal that has been documented by the police they know you are genuine. If you think you can gain a little support then I would say go for it.

You take care honey xxx

[Dr43%er]

Hey love. Please give them a shout. They will (unfortunately) have delt with 100's of cases like this. I am not trying to lessen what has happened to you and how you feel. But they will have seen it before. This is the first (and hopefully last) time you have been through it. They may not be able to help, but then they may just be able to give that one small bit of advice that really helps.

[Mrluvaluva]

It's worth a try Kiz. Just give them a call. Take care. x

[GiRTh]

Give them a call KIz. Just see how it goes.

[Matt08]

Hiya Kiz, how are things? I hope things for you, Red and family are getting better now. Take care.

[~Kizwiz~]

Hey,

Things are ok-ish thanks for asking. Still no cars, Red went to see the one that wasnt burnt out, we think its hit something because its got a dent in the bonnet and a wing mirror missing. Plus the toerags have put a cigarette out on the dash.

We wont get it back until its fixed and we should be exchanging on our house next week!

With regards to the espace, well the insurance are fleecing us on the quote. So its going to take some twoing and throwing back to negotiate a decent offer.

The house stuff, well thats where its gets annoying. We were supposed to have a claims investigator come out to see us last Friday only they didnt turn up. They said they would be with us before 1pm and call before they arrived. No call no visit. We rang them back and they said we were out which is completely ridiculous as the kids had been playing in the garden all morning and the front door was let open too. They said they also put a card through the door and that there was no sign of life at the house.... complete bollocks!

Insurance companies suck, they treat us like the fraudsters and we're only claiming what we got nicked