Ang's new boob job...

[Bells]

I agreed to start this thread mainly because Angela (Angiebabe) wished to make known something that she feels is important to others who may have a similar worry. She, and I too, think it would help her and others to discuss this on this forum.
After discussions last night in a similar thread, she revealed privately to me that she has been suffering from breast cancer.

I doubt that any of us would have guessed that, because of her positivity, and the way she adds something extra special to each thread. :hug:

I would add that the thread title itself was, of course, Angela's idea. :hugesmile:

But there’s a lesson there – because, rather than sympathy (although kind words go a long way), positive messages are what are needed sometimes to help people get through difficult times, and I’ve learnt that from her.

She is due a mastectomy in 3 weeks, and yet she is so cheery. It really helps to put things in perspective. This thread is to discuss anything you like with her, be it how she is coping with cancer (I am sure she would be more than willing to respond), or your own advice/personal experiences.

[xDramatick]

That was so unexpected.
I hope everything turns out okay.
&keep up the positivity Ang!
Your posts continue to make me, and loads of other member smile.
&that's a lovely quality.
<3

[Xander]

I didn't expect that, Keep up your positivity, and have positive thoughts and everything will be fine, and turn out ok. :spin2:
You certainly bring a smile to my face with all your posts and please continue to do so. :hug:

[JOSHUAH!]

Ang, your posts make me chuckle! Although I've never spoken to you, you seem like such an upbeat person.

Positivity can get you through a lot of rough times, so stay positive! I'm sure everybody here will be positive for your health aswell.

[AngRemembered]

WOW!! that was quick, thanks Ash :hug: for the help with this thread.

After last night someone posted a problem they were having and it brought home to me what Ive been going through although, Ive had time to ajust to the news and the thearphy, the last of which is in 3 weeks time.

I just want this to be a thread where maybe I could help, even by discussing it with Ash, and Nickyy it has helped me to get prepared for the easiest bit, but also hardest bit too, (the bra's they have are awful) looks like I may go down the Jordan route and have a melon inserted inside my chest :joker:

I don't want sympathy honestly, I just want to help cope and make things easier myself and being able to write this IS a real God send as time gets nearer to that opp :shocked::sad:
Well as Ash has said here if anyone has anything similar or even been through this then please come and add something here.
Believe me the relief Ive had speaking about this to Ash has been tremendous and if that can be the case for someone else then I'll be over the moon with joy.

Thanks again Ash, and everyone else, Angela x

Oh btw,, I've been told the opp will more than likely stop this cancer spreading all the other biopsy reports show clear signs everywhere cept this right breast, which darn well aint moving ... so no morbid thoughts I'm not going anywhere unless of course the hospital burns down :shocked::rolleyes:

[MR.K!]

I really hope your health improves, i too havent had the opportunity to speak to you on the forum, but your posts are always so positive and happy !

[JadeLauren_x]

That was really unexpected, but keep up your postivity, none of us on the forum would have guessed as your a really positive person & always seem to be happy... id say your an inspiration to others... I hope you get better very soon... <3 x

[MarkWaldorf]

I hope you get better soon, Angie. From what I've seen in your posts, you're a very kind and caring person and I hope you can fight it and come out stronger than before. :thumbs:

[Tom4784]

I really didn't see that coming.

What I'm going to say is that you're a fantastic person, funny, caring and incredibly positive so I wish you the best and hope you get well soon.

P.S on a lighter note, great choice of topic title!

[AngRemembered]

Rather than thank people individually I will say another thanks here, but now will only respond if someone asks or has some info specifically to breast cancer, that way it will save my fingers too :tongue:

Btw, My sister had the idea of typing out all your messages to take with me we both know what fun i have here the time alone spent speaks volumes to how much I love this new 'home' so all your messages no matter how small will really mean something to me, and I really do appreciate every single one of them.:kiss:

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by Dezzy


P.S on a lighter note, great choice of topic title!

yes, I spoke with my agent today who specialises in ways to gain maximum attention , you may know her she's in BB well for the next 9 hours at least till she gets back to work tomorrow but it was she who reccomended the boob job title, and thats why she's worth every penny as an expert in attention seeking schemes :joker::wink:

(only kiddin :wink::rolleyes:)

[Lauren]

Ang, trust you to grab all of our attention with something like this! (Only kidding :tongue:).

I'm not going to say the cliché lines of "I'm sorry to hear that", but I do empathise enormously with how you and your family must be feeling right now.

Remember; your mind is stronger than your body, so when your body fails somewhat, your mind (and PMA) is always there to keep you up.

On the plus side, you get lots of sympathy (and sympathy chocolates and wine!!) for it.


:hug:
x

[Tom]

Just think of all the presents (including grapes :spin:) that you'll get, and the big party you can throw at the end of it when you've got the all clear :dance:

[AngRemembered]

Thats a good Idea Tom, I'm sure it will be organised by someone who owes me in the numerous bedroom tidying hours Ive done for 'her' :rolleyes:

As for the grapes Tom great idea because I can get my friend >:elephant:<
to tread them all into more wine:thumbs:

Oh and Lauren, yes the plan worked I got all the attention so you could relax on the moderating side whilst you go sunbathe in the garden watching the tennis :bigsmile::rolleyes::whistle: i swear nobody will notice shhhhhhhhhhhh :whistle:
(and yes, with one breast less I can now afford to put the extra weight somewhere else, so its a right choccy wine feast asap) :kiss:

[GiRTh]

This is very sad news I'm pleased you're positive.

You're in good hands so you'll be ok. :hug:

[_Tom_]

Aww, Im so sorry Ang
I hope you get better and good luck :thumbs:
I love your posts and you always cheer me up
Love you!

[GhettoSuperstar]

Sorry to hear this news but Ang you are hilarious, your posts make me have a good ol giggle to myself. :laugh: Be strong babe. X

[Mrluvaluva]

You know Angie. You are so positive, and you bring a bit of light into my life on here. I find you funny and uplifting. You have no negativity and that is such a good thing.

You have become a popular member in a short space of time, so you must have the same affect on other people too.

I just hope we do the same for you.

I wish you well,

[Scarlett.]

Good Luck Angie!
You are always so positive and fun! which is something this forum needs :wink::hello::hugesmile:

[~Kizwiz~]

Ang, all I can add to so many kind words is that you are a very welcome member to TiBB, your posts always bring light and cheer to the forum.

From the moment you started posting its was clear to see you are a very kind and giving person who always finds the fun in life.

Keep your chin up and always remember that you have many many people supporting you on TiBB

http://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/midi/liebe/a054.gif

[officialleafan]

Well you know how i feel about it Angie. Don't forget to message me when your cured :wink:

[Shaun]

Aww Angie - I really hope everything works out OK for you because I don't think there's anybody less deserving of this :sad:

I'll try not to sound too negative, since positivity is the key - so I wish you the best of luck and hope that you don't need it :) :hug:

[Rocko]

Love you Ange!

I may go down the Jordan route and have a melon inserted inside my chest

+1 vote ^_^ :spin2:

[Loukas]

OMFG! I love you!! Everything will turn out just fine angel! +1 Karma for you love, posts this week have been amazing.

[AngRemembered]

Well Ive just caught up with the reading of these posts again..all i can say is............................:bawling:

Not tears of sadness but just overwhelming gratitude, just to repeat I will print these out each and every one will go to the hospital I dont care if it decorates the whole of ward 10, they are going

And if anyone dares smear them with bloody pizza
.... well just keep a check on the the 10 o clock news for suspicious NHS staff dissapearances ...:tongue:

I can't thank you enough...:kiss::kiss::kiss:

[Tom]

Originally posted by Angiebabe
Well Ive just caught up with the reading of these posts again..all i can say is............................:bawling:

Not tears of sadness but just overwhelming gratitude, just to repeat I will print these out each and every one will go to the hospital I dont care if it decorates the whole of ward 10, they are going

And if anyone dares smear them with bl***y pizza
.... well just keep a check on the the 10 o clock news for suspicious NHS staff dissapearances ...:tongue:

I can't thank you enough...:kiss::kiss::kiss:

Make it the evening news and you have a deal :thumbs: Unless of course its not a Monday, Tuesday or a Wednesday :colour:

[Corkie]

Ang I don't think I've seen a "newbie" make such a good and quick first impression on tibb. You've just setlled in like you've been here for a long time.

Good Luck with the oppo hope to speak to you more as you seem like a great women. :laugh:

[Callum]

Well Angie you really seem like a lovely, pleasant lady. I haven't really got to speak to you much but I can see that you are a great member just by reading your posts and all the members seem to really like you as well. I send all my best wishes both to you and your family. You remind me a lot of an old friend I used to have on here called Ann, I haven't heard from her in ages, and seeing a member like you really brings a smile to my face. I can see you both have similar characteristics, and I hope to be able to talk you as a friend in the future. Give that horrid Cancer a good ol' fight won't you, get well soon Angie xxxx

[Hugo]

WOW If there was anybody to have that on this forum you would be the last person I would guess. But you got to hold your head up high, be positive and beat the bitch! :kiss:

[Noel]

Oh no..
That is absolutely terrible. I didn't expectt that!
I hope everything is ok, Angie. But, you seem to be showing such a positive attitude, and all I can say is stick to it. I really do hope the best for you. Of all the members, you are the most positive, and I just hope you get through this. I will keep you in my thoughts through these next few weeks. Good luck and just try to stay positive!

[Red Moon]

Good luck and I'm sure everything will go okay for you.

Your a great poster and I hope your recovery doesn't to long. After all who is going to cheer us up, we need your witty posts to brighten up our day.

Red

[AlexBigBrother]

you'll be fine!
you come across as a very strong and determined person!
you dont take no ****, especially from me lol!
best of luck for you!

[Conzors]

OMG.
Aww OMG.
OMG.

Seriously i so didnt know this. OMFG. Your a lovely human being. And i dont know anyone who would dislike you.

Good Luck in the surgery :):)

Love
x

[AngRemembered]

Just to update again and thank you all so much for this it really is quite remarkable, and it means a lot to me and has helped make a nice day a truly MAGNIFICENT day.

Btw Conzors go take a look at the 'pets' thread I just named my goldfish after you, I promised whom ever I spoke to last by the time of supper, that would be the name.
I'm lucky it was a short easy to say name too:eureka:

[Christina]

Oh No.. Angie!
Im so sorry. Your a lovley person
and i hope everything turns out
just fine for you. Be positive and ill pray for you too! xxx

Edit: We love youuu and your funny jokes xx

[Killian]

:bawling:

Angie, I'll pray for you. I really hope you get through this. I hope you know that I'm behind you all the way. Good luck on your treatment, and keep up the positivity! God, that sounded dead cheesy didn't it? Keep it up, though! Much love!

[AngRemembered]

Once again thanks for your response, and there never to cheesy Killian :kiss: I think they a re a real lift, today has been a very nice day.

[Rory]

Aw, get through it with cheer! I agree with everyone else on the fact that never before has a newbie been accepted into the community so quickly! You're an amazing forum member and stay strong!

[Dan_]

I'd have never expected to hear this, you seem like such a positive person.To stay so upbeat through this shows what a strong character you are.All the best Angie.

[AngRemembered]

Thanks dan and Rory and to all those that have sent a u2u message also, they to have been saved and will be with me, there have been some real nice words you've made me feel very humble today, but very very happy too.:hug:

[Matt08]

I'm sorry to hear about this bad news Angie. I'd have never have guessed if Ash hadn't explained to us what has been happening.

You have been so possitive throughout all of this, which is great because it helps you through some of the difficult times. I hope everything goes alright with the operation and wish you a speedy recovery. :thumbs:

[AngRemembered]

Well as I cant find the official going away thread now:puzzled: I thought I'd use this one instead.

I will be away from tomorrow morning in hospital for my opperation on Tuesaday.
Its a full mastectomy of my right breast so I'll be off for a few days, I've been told I can take a lap top(my daughters..lol) when I'm fit enough use it hopefully soon after the opp, but will probably be so tired to post anything, but I want to take it to read from you lovely people here, I think your more entertainig than a damn newspaper.

I've been told I could, if all goes well, recover enough to be home next week possibly Saturday, and that the surgery should see a real positive difference to this cancer spreading, and thats a relief.

I'm really nervous, really scared and realy truly going to miss all of you.
I've cried for most of this day and been a tad grouchy with some of my posts today, but nothing to bad I hope
Its been the worry and real sense of scariness ....:bored:

But reading through some of the threads here (and I will be taking them with me) it just made me so incredibly humbled to know how much, so many care, and thats really effected me all day.

Your a wonderful bunch of people, and even I struggle to find words to tell you how much friends like you all mean to me at this time right now.
But I intend to be back soon and try every day to do just that, tell you all exactly how much I love and appreciate everyone on tibb, and believe me I will :kiss:

Angela
ps*My daughter is going to send messages here or to spike just to let you know how things are going during the week.

[_Tom_]

Aww, good luck Angie and see you soon! Don't be scared and be strong! :thumbs: :kiss: :hug:

[Lauren]

Good luck Angie, we'll all be thinking of you on Tuesday! Try not to worry about it too much - once it's done, it's done. And you have all of this massive support behind you. :spin2:

Try and think of the positives and look forward to when you can come home.

[Fom]

Originally posted by Corkie
Ang I don't think I've seen a "newbie" make such a good and quick first impression on tibb. You've just setlled in like you've been here for a long time.

Good Luck with the oppo hope to speak to you more as you seem like a great women. :laugh:

Agreed :)

[Kevin]

Originally posted by Corkie
Ang I don't think I've seen a "newbie" make such a good and quick first impression on tibb. You've just setlled in like you've been here for a long time.

That is so true.

Every thread I go in, Ang seems to be there. :bigsmile:

Good luck for Tuesday, hope everything goes well! :hug:

[AngRemembered]

Thanks again you people, getting nervous now but feeling good, dont think I'll sleep much tonight, but plenty time to rest on Monday.

Will see you all soon :kiss:

[Annie]

Aw Huni I am sorry to hear/read that!

I believe in a lot of things you say on here and would have never have thought that something so horrible would happen to such a beautiful woman.

i hope everything goes well

*mwah*

[SamR]

Angie I really didnt have clue, Nobody would with your positive attitude on the forum. I noticed your good nature and you know I did becuase of the nice U2U you sent me, hope you read my thankyou reply! Hope your health improves. :)

[MrGaryy]

Angie, do you have a MSN?:xyxwave:

[AngRemembered]

Thanks Sam and Annie, its really nice of you and all these kind messages I intend to take with me, I have no fear when I read them.
It really has helped and although its still scary I could not have a better set of well wishing friends with me, and that I feel very lucky to have despite my condition. I think your wonderful.

[SamR]

Ang ive sent you a private U2U message :) please read it.

[bronaaaa]

good luck with your opperation :thumbs:
im sure youll be fine :wink:

[Nurse57]

Sorry for the lateness of this, but i have only just seen it. I doubt you will see this now until after your op. So I hope it all went well and you are not feeling too rough. Keep the smile and make sure you have the happiest ward in the hospital.

See you back here soon babe.

xxx

[Jackie]

I hope everything went well with the operation Ang and hope to see you back soon where you make me laugh and cheer me up.

[Sunny_01]

Hope everything goes well, I am sure everyone will be waiting to find out how everything goes. Good luck with the op.

[Spike]

Hope everything went well, I am sure others on here as well as me hope it did

[Callum]

I hope the operation goes well Angie. You keep that brave face on and you know where I am if you ever want to have a chat or anything :) xx

[Chemicle]

sorry to hear about this ang, i have been here quite a few months now and i've seen a lot of your posts, very upbeat, your a member who keeps the forum alive, i hope everything goes well. Everything should be fine and you'll be back posting on here really soon Good Luck :bouncy:

[Fom]

Gosh Ang this forum isnt half quiet without you :)
Make a speedy recovery and cant wait to have you back :)