why will lisa never speak up

[katie_x]

When mario was going on at her or when he was going on at belinda i'm sure she didnt agree with him but she just sat there and said nothing. Is she scared do you think?

[jonsep]

you never know what goes on when ther outside the house

[katie_x]

he comes across as a bully, i dont know what she sees in him :shrug:

[jonsep]

ive noticed sometimes he does look at her with an evil eye,and when she talks he roles his eyes at her,correct me if am wrong but wasnt there rumours that he beat hi ex wife alledgedly?

[katie_x]

oh i didnt know that? He looks the controlling type but would he go as far as that. not sure but then like you say you just dont know what goes on in the outside world. It gives me the creeps just thinking about it

[jonsep]

Originally posted by ll_katie_ll
oh i didnt know that? He looks the controlling type but would he go as far as that. not sure but then like you say you just dont know what goes on in the outside world. It gives me the creeps just thinking about it am sure ther was athread about this when it first started ,because the papers pick up on everything

[miss_m]

One of the times they were in the diary room and she said something (i cant remember what it was) but he proper snapped at her and went 'i will speak for myself' and she just like shut up streight away, didnt even look shocked.
My man would never speak to me like that.
I think she is a bit scared of him.

[katie_x]

Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by ll_katie_ll
oh i didnt know that? He looks the controlling type but would he go as far as that. not sure but then like you say you just dont know what goes on in the outside world. It gives me the creeps just thinking about it am sure ther was athread about this when it first started ,because the papers pick up on everything

But then i dont really believe half the stories in the papers, especially if the person whos selling the story is garenteed a few quid in the process. I cant stand the bloke, i wouldn't be scared by him i'd tell him to shut up and stop controlling every little situation

[jonsep]

i think it was on live feed yestarday he was talking to may on the bed and when she came over he picked himself up an walked away,watch ther body language its so telling

[katie_x]

i dont get the conversations either? Me and my fiance have been together for almost 4 years and there are never those dull moments of silence they both have, we still have lots to say to eachother so why do they both sit there not really having a normal conversation. I thought at one point they wernt a couple at all. All very confussing

[jonsep]

its all about control on marios behalf,like you talk when i talk and thats it awful to watch

[Diablo]

maybe she will come out of her shell once Mario is evicted

[Bells]

I do think she agreed with what he was saying, but didn’t think it was said in an appropriate manner (it was done in an interrogating way, I thought). Despite what Mario might think, even though he’s been with her for a few years, Lisa does seem like a non-confrontational sort of person, yet tries to be tough at the same time. Perhaps she didn’t want to create any drama, but thought she could quietly bring it up afterwards – it must be difficult to do so though. Mario’s been really intimidating towards her lately.

[Lauren]

She likes being subordinated in the relationship, and he likes subordinating.

I don't see anything wrong with it personally, they're made for each other. Just because others may not agree with the set up.

[AngRemembered]

I suppose in small doses Mario does come across as a genuinly nice guy, and Lisa sees that as attractive, and she's right.
In that house though its completely different not only constantly together, Mario is now influenced by others too.
I was went to visit my husband at work, and I could'nt believe some of what I saw for the first time, I think Lisa may have seen this from Mario in a similar way.
Mario has shown signs he's decent he was genuine with Mo, and he does have a care for Mikey, he also dotes on Lisa even under this pressure.
Yes, he's a muddled man with some bizzare beliefs, a regular guy with aspirations way above what he thinks, whilst Lisa goes along for the ride, knowing he's prety much harmless.
It will be very interesting to see how either one reacts without the other in that enviroment, and I like the rest seem to think Lisa will be best suited to it, it might help Mario too, I hope.