Sara is a flirt- Darnell read it the wrong way [Archive] - ThisisBigBrother.com

Tom

04-08-2008, 04:24 PM

Sara is a natural flirt. Some people are and they can't help that.

Sara has flirted with all the men in the house, and sometimes the women, they haven't tried to jump into bed with her.

Darnell completely read it the wrong way and will now use it as an excuse to feel sorry for himself a bit more.

People are giving Sara a hard time but they can't see the bigger picture here.

Answer me a question honestly, had it been the other way around would people be feeling sorry for Sara and vilifying Darnell for it? I think not.

Matt10k

04-08-2008, 04:26 PM

It's not so much the flirting and her knocking him back- that just shows she isn't that aware of how she comes across to others. It was the comment she made to him that I thought was a bit unfair.

GiRTh

04-08-2008, 04:26 PM

She's a skank. It was inevitable she'd flirt with the wrong guy and he'd take it seriously. She'd better watch out becasue she'll end up with a reputation.

Tom

04-08-2008, 04:27 PM

Originally posted by Matt10k
It's not so much the flirting and her knocking him back- that just shows she isn't that aware of how she comes across to others. It was the comment she made to him that I thought was a bit unfair.

What was the comment made? And its not as simple as just seeing how you come across to others, some people just are natural flirts and it can lead into bad situations without people realising ... and yes I am speaking from experience here :joker:

30stone

04-08-2008, 04:27 PM

i agree you can tell that sara was like that she does to everyone even mikey...

thought with how he makes himself out to seem would have realisd but didnt and yeh using it to just make the chip on his shoulder a little bigger.

Tom

04-08-2008, 04:28 PM

Originally posted by GiRTh
She's a skank. It was inevitable she'd flirt with the wrong guy and he'd take it seriously. She'd better watch out becasue she'll end up with a reputation.

If Darnell had been the one harmlessly flirting with all the females in the house (without realising, bit of fun etc) and Sara got the wrong message and was knocked back, would you feel sorry for Sara and think he was going to get a reputation? Something tells me that wouldn't be the case in the bigger picture ... she'd be the one getting the reputation for reading messages wrong.

Riz

04-08-2008, 04:29 PM

I think i missed yesterdays show.. what is the whole Darnell sleeping on the couch of something can you fill me in dude?

Matt10k

04-08-2008, 04:29 PM

Originally posted by Tom
Originally posted by Matt10k
It's not so much the flirting and her knocking him back- that just shows she isn't that aware of how she comes across to others. It was the comment she made to him that I thought was a bit unfair.

What was the comment made? And its not as simple as just seeing how you come across to others, some people just are natural flirts and it can lead into bad situations without people realising ... and yes I am speaking from experience here :joker:

But she flirts A LOT! And she's quite blatent and obvious about it. I don't blame darnell at all for trying his chances. But her saying he was 'scaring' her? Was that really necessary?

She could have just said no.

Matt10k

04-08-2008, 04:30 PM

Originally posted by Tom
Originally posted by GiRTh
She's a skank. It was inevitable she'd flirt with the wrong guy and he'd take it seriously. She'd better watch out becasue she'll end up with a reputation.

If Darnell had been the one harmlessly flirting with all the females in the house (without realising, bit of fun etc) and Sara got the wrong message and was knocked back, would you feel sorry for Sara and think he was going to get a reputation? Something tells me that wouldn't be the case in the bigger picture ... she'd be the one getting the reputation for reading messages wrong.

I would. Doesn't matter to me if it's a man or woman doing it. Why should it?

GiRTh

04-08-2008, 04:30 PM

Originally posted by Tom
If Darnell had been the one harmlessly flirting with all the females in the house (without realising, bit of fun etc) and Sara got the wrong message and was knocked back, would you feel sorry for Sara and think he was going to get a reputation? Something tells me that wouldn't be the case in the bigger picture ... she'd be the one getting the reputation for reading messages wrong. There's flirting and then there's what Sara does. I remember when she told Mikey she'd 'give him a feel' as she was dressed in one of the task outfit. For me, that crossing the line from honest innocent flirting into something a bit more sinister.

xXEtchieXx

04-08-2008, 04:31 PM

Darnell read it the wrong way yes, but that's not to say he's using it as an excuse to feel sorry for himself. You're right there's nothing wrong in flirting, as long as you don't go overboard. At the same time there's nothing wrong with feeling bummed out when you realise someone who you thought liked you doesn't and was only using you. We are all human after all.

To answer question, yes they would.

Tom

04-08-2008, 04:32 PM

Originally posted by Matt10k
Originally posted by Tom
Originally posted by Matt10k
It's not so much the flirting and her knocking him back- that just shows she isn't that aware of how she comes across to others. It was the comment she made to him that I thought was a bit unfair.

What was the comment made? And its not as simple as just seeing how you come across to others, some people just are natural flirts and it can lead into bad situations without people realising ... and yes I am speaking from experience here :joker:

But she flirts A LOT! And she's quite blatent and obvious about it. I don't blame darnell at all for trying his chances. But her saying he was 'scaring' her? Was that really necessary?

She could have just said no.

But maybe she felt that way and didn't intend it to be like that? She could have just said no but that isn't really 'getting rid' of someone for good or trying to give them the right message ...

We might think shes being blatant about her flirting but when you're the one doing that its really not as obvious as you might think.

Matt10k

04-08-2008, 04:34 PM

Originally posted by Tom

But maybe she felt that way and didn't intend it to be like that? She could have just said no but that isn't really 'getting rid' of someone for good or trying to give them the right message ...

We might think shes being blatant about her flirting but when you're the one doing that its really not as obvious as you might think.

But if she's going to flirt that way, she can't blame some men for getting the wrong idea. He left as soon as she said she wasn't interested, so what exactly is the problem here?

The only thing I found a bit uncalled for was her saying he scared her.

Tom

04-08-2008, 04:36 PM

Originally posted by Matt10k
Originally posted by Tom

But maybe she felt that way and didn't intend it to be like that? She could have just said no but that isn't really 'getting rid' of someone for good or trying to give them the right message ...

We might think shes being blatant about her flirting but when you're the one doing that its really not as obvious as you might think.

But if she's going to flirt that way, she can't blame some men for getting the wrong idea. He left as soon as she said she wasn't interested, so what exactly is the problem here?

The only thing I found a bit uncalled for was her saying he scared her.

A bit uncalled for but people are blowing it way out of proportion. If he looked around a bit and seen she was doing it with practically everyone in the house (and lets face it locked in a room on her own she'd probably flirt with the carpet) then he shouldn't have got the wrong message. As I say, its not that simple to realise what you're doing if you flirt without realising especially if noone tells you you're doing it.

Matt10k

04-08-2008, 04:39 PM

Originally posted by Tom
A bit uncalled for but people are blowing it way out of proportion. If he looked around a bit and seen she was doing it with practically everyone in the house (and lets face it locked in a room on her own she'd probably flirt with the carpet) then he shouldn't have got the wrong message. As I say, its not that simple to realise what you're doing if you flirt without realising especially if noone tells you you're doing it.

Well that's the only problem I had with it- that what she said was a bit uncalled for, but that's it. I don't blame Darnell at all- yeah he misread it, but that happens all the time and he wasn't pushy, he got the idea and left.

xXEtchieXx

04-08-2008, 04:39 PM

There's flirting which is fine, and then there's cock teasing which is what Sara does. I mean she wouldn't like it if I got her all horny, stuck my cock in her, pulled out after one thrust and ****ed off would she?
No

Tom

04-08-2008, 04:41 PM

Originally posted by xXEtchieXx
There's flirting which is fine, and then there's cock teasing which is what Sara does. I mean she wouldn't like it if I got her all horny, stuck my cock in her, pulled out after one thrust and ****** off would she?
No

That thing in the spoiler tags is unnecessary and is irrelevant to the situation. Some people don't realise they are flirting so its unintentional and isn't supposed to cause any harm. Others can't grasp that mentality until its them that is doing it though ...

GiRTh

04-08-2008, 04:43 PM

iow97

04-08-2008, 04:48 PM

i feel sorry for darnell.:pat:

xXEtchieXx

04-08-2008, 04:53 PM

Originally posted by Tom
That thing in the spoiler tags is unnecessary and is irrelevant to the situation. Some people don't realise they are flirting so its unintentional and isn't supposed to cause any harm. Others can't grasp that mentality until its them that is doing it though ...
Might have been unnecessary but I aint in no mood to sugar coat nuffin, but it's the same principle. You've gotta be slightly naive if you think she doesn't know what she's doing, she's a 27 year woman not a teenager, she knows exactly what she's doing. I don't think she means to cause any harm but she's definately playing herself off the guys to gain an advantage, which is just damn right nasty in my opinion. Darnell is a fragile guy and she should know better.

ss00

04-08-2008, 05:21 PM

for me the issue here is not her flirting... it's more like she did hurt Darnell just to find a reason to get close with Stu.... If she was truly scared of him... she can just go to another girl's bed.. that way it will not insult Darnell much as she did by jumping on another guy's bed... don't get me wrong I also like Sara and I still do... actually Darnell annoys me at times... but what she did was just really inconsiderate.

Benjamin

04-08-2008, 07:38 PM

Originally posted by GiRTh
Originally posted by Tom
If Darnell had been the one harmlessly flirting with all the females in the house (without realising, bit of fun etc) and Sara got the wrong message and was knocked back, would you feel sorry for Sara and think he was going to get a reputation? Something tells me that wouldn't be the case in the bigger picture ... she'd be the one getting the reputation for reading messages wrong. There's flirting and then there's what Sara does. I remember when she told Mikey she'd 'give him a feel' as she was dressed in one of the task outfit. For me, that crossing the line from honest innocent flirting into something a bit more sinister.

How is that crossing the line, and after some of the things Darnell has done in there, that seems like a mere blip on her radar compared to his.

Benjamin

04-08-2008, 07:39 PM

bananarama

04-08-2008, 07:45 PM

Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by xXEtchieXx
There's flirting which is fine, and then there's cock teasing which is what Sara does. I mean she wouldn't like it if I got her all horny, stuck my cock in her, pulled out after one thrust and ****** off would she?
No

Nice talk that, no wonder u support darnell!

Exactly. Could not have been better said.........