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Scarlett.
11-08-2008, 11:42 PM
What would you do?
Travel the world, or stay around and spend yer last year with Family and freinds

or would you do something else?

Novo
11-08-2008, 11:46 PM
go to as many everton games as possible

complete all final fantasy's again

and watch wrestle mania

Emzy-!!
11-08-2008, 11:47 PM
I would travel to the countries i've always wanted to go to with my family and friends, get a season ticket for man.utd, and eat all the chocolate i can.

Christina
11-08-2008, 11:48 PM
Travel to the places i wanted to go [Bahamas, America, Italy etc..]
Go horse riding
Swim with dolphins
Try lobster
Dive into the sea lmao
Go bungee jumping
Spend time with my family/friends
Have lots of pool partys lol xx

MrGaryy
12-08-2008, 12:02 AM
Live normally. My life is pretty fantastic as it is.

Sam
12-08-2008, 12:13 AM
Visit France and my french exchange buddys again.
Complete Sonic Adventure again.
Learn one more new language.
Meet three of my idols.
Go to an X Factor live show.
Just have fun!

AlexBigBrother
12-08-2008, 12:18 AM
kiss katie prices breasts

Princess
12-08-2008, 01:06 AM
Hope to God Take That have another tour so I could do the whole be insane and go to 20 concerts and stay in their hotels experience.
Bit of travelling
Spend loads of time in London
All the crazy things I never would do like bungee jump
Spend time with the people I love.

AngRemembered
12-08-2008, 11:29 AM
Well this has become a reality question for me within the last week.
I've been struggling with cancer now for almost 18 months and you never quiete beat it unless of course your real lucky.
After my operation last month it was hoped I may be that lucky, it appears its not going to be, although I have not been given any time scale as nobody knows for sure yet, its not looking to good and this question now could apply on any given day now.

I've obviously thought a lot about this over the time Ive had to, and you change your mind depending on the hopes or lack of them on any given day.
What I wish to do is stay home, I often get tired now so staying in wont be that much of a chore and I just want to be with my husabnd , daughter family and my friends here the people I treasure most all within one room.

Today I got the best surprise ever, and I am going to Jamaica this Christmas and New Year that alone has made my "last year" wonderful.
The only other thing I wish to do in my time is make sure I live every day as if its my last, (it may be for real soon):whistle:
So I intend as always to tell my hubby and Daughter that I love them each day and I also want to make sure its known how much you people on tibb mean to me, and on each and every day.

And thats what I intend to do in my last year, apart from hope and pray.

stacey
12-08-2008, 11:36 AM
That's really sad Angie but well said
I don't think I'd do much different to what I do now because I wouldn't want anything to change with my friends/family or anything but I would probably make more of an effort to spend time with the people I love.

AngRemembered
12-08-2008, 11:51 AM
Originally posted by stacey
That's really sad Angie but well said
.

Well thank you Stacey:hug:
You know the most difficult thing about writing that was the reactions people are going to take, its almost as if we have stock answers like "oh thats a shame" oh thats real brave" ect... I'd be exactly the same as you, as I think you guys have the tough part here.

In my position, I have no choice, I'm not brave, Im cr*apping myself at dying and soon.. it worries me sick somedays and when I get into moods and fights here I feel worse knowing that could easily of been my last message...damn its scary somedays.
Its sad only in the sense of shock too, but we all have to adapt to circumstances, Ive known now for 5 days that things look drastic, I'm getting no positive vibes at all from my doctor or councillor both know me well enough now and my doc simply says dont buy tickets for the London olympics now :shocked::wink: what else can he do, I want the info to cope better, but I'm also partial to being worried and terrified of dying, like ANYONE.

Its easier though when there is no other options, I can't get scared and go shoot myself, so what else can I do?, but take it and deal with it the best you can, again as anyone else would HAVE to do.

The plus sides are I get to work on my poems for my husband daughter and I'm writing one for my best friends on tibb too :thumbs: I get to choose and arrange my own funeral without being called over morbid :spin: so life is now FULL, my days are now like a week.
But, the best thing Ive done today is get this of my chest, its never easy telling someone the whole truth, and how best to do it, if there was a better way I'd have done it that way believe me.

Sam
12-08-2008, 11:56 AM
Aww Angie :hug: Very emotional words but very true.

bigbr0ther
12-08-2008, 12:39 PM
That would be horrible. I don't know what I would do; I'd be seriously freaking out!

I guess I'd travel a lot, go sky diving, wow I don't know. I'd spend more time with friends and family. But that would be so horrible I don't even want to think about it.

AngRemembered
12-08-2008, 02:10 PM
Originally posted by bigbr0ther
That would be horrible. I don't know what I would do; I'd be seriously freaking out!

Yes, you would at first, but then you would HAVE to adapt, as there is no other choice, believe me its scary now, but never as much as when I was completely healthy that thought was un imaginable, but one does cope because one has to, thats life.

Conor
12-08-2008, 02:41 PM
That message was really touching Angie :) Hope your not feeling to bad.

- I'd eat at a top restaurant every week.
- Try to visit at least 15 new countries.
- Buy a house somewhere nice.
- Go clubbing as much as possible, and just enjoy myself.
- Spend lots of time with friends and family.
- Try a tonne of new things and enjoy a whole lot of new experiences.
- Spend like money is no object :P
- And clear up anything that needs resolving.

AngRemembered
12-08-2008, 04:37 PM
Originally posted by Conor

- Spend like money is no object :P


Hmmmmmmmm now thats a good idea :wink::kiss:

GhettoSuperstar
12-08-2008, 04:47 PM
Act desperate to find the love of my life - admit feelings to them and then get them to travel to different places with me and enjoy myself to the max, get drunk loads and have loadsa memories! Live it up!

Lewis.
01-02-2009, 09:09 AM
An old thread but intresting.

I would

- Spend money as if it was growing on trees.
- Write a will
- Sort out my funeral
- eat lots
- Spend time with family and friends
- Not go to school every day, just some days to say hello to ffriends
- Cry a lot
- Go on a huge family holiday for 2 weeks


That is it really..

And Angie, :bawling: WeLoveYou. x

Captain.Remy
01-02-2009, 09:48 AM
Travelling the world alone.
Then come back a month before the end and spend it with friends and family.

*mazedsalv**
01-02-2009, 10:46 AM
Travel all round the world
Bungee-Jump (even though i have a phobia of heights)
Spend all my money
Eat Lots

Princess
01-02-2009, 10:50 AM
Originally posted by Princess
Hope to God Take That have another tour so I could do the whole be insane and go to 20 concerts and stay in their hotels experience.
Bit of travelling
Spend loads of time in London
All the crazy things I never would do like bungee jump
Spend time with the people I love.

Hah,funny that TT actually have announced a 20 date tour! My list is the exact same since the last time I wrote this.

edit:And I would buy all the clothes I wanted and be fashionable all the time!

supernoodles!
01-02-2009, 11:28 AM
Originally posted by GhettoSuperstar
Act desperate to find the love of my life - admit feelings to them and then get them to travel to different places with me and enjoy myself to the max, get drunk loads and have loadsa memories! Live it up!

pretty much the same but shop shop shop every single day buying loads of stuff I dont even need or particulalrly want just for the hell of it.Oh and buy a chiuaua,always wanted one.

Sod_James
01-02-2009, 11:30 AM
I would just live normally. i wouldnt do anything special. i would want it to be as normal as possible.

Fom
01-02-2009, 11:41 AM
Get too drunk, have sex with too many people, smoke lots, and take drugs.
Might as well feck up my body while I can!

Spike
01-02-2009, 11:48 AM
Just live life like I do now. Theres no point in doing other things which I wouldn't of done if I hadn't of had a year left because I would just find that stupid and not being myself in that year.

amby
01-02-2009, 12:13 PM
Just have fun!

Indierock&roll
01-02-2009, 01:44 PM
go to new york and see loads there
go to ibiza and be drunk at least 70% of the times there with all my mates
go to california, tokyo, australia
go to a music festial
go to the airport and just get on a plane somewhere
go to as many concerts as possible
meet russell brand and jimmy car
rape joe dempsie

30stone
01-02-2009, 01:49 PM
Nout til the last week where id try to steal an exotic car and dirve around for a bit and knowing id die within a week not be careful at all. and end up hurting myself lol