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*mazedsalv**
15-09-2008, 10:24 PM
Tell us more about ourselves, who is single? Anyone have a boyfriend/girlfriend, anyone engaged, anyone married?
I am Single, and I have been for about 7 years.... which is really embarassing to admit seeing as Im 15 and the last time I had a Gf was in primary school. I always feel displaced when my friends have someone.... but they always change and have a new gf within a month, which i dont agree with.
Everyone wants to be my friend.... but i will remain single FOREVER !!! :bigsmile:..... :sad:
Matt08
15-09-2008, 10:26 PM
I wouldn't worry about it at all, there's plenty of time for you to get a girlfriend yet. Wait until you're ready and not busy with studies etc.
DamonJ
15-09-2008, 10:26 PM
I'm completely single atm. :sad:
Looking for a boyfriend.
SiaSiaSia
15-09-2008, 10:30 PM
omg i thought you were a girl no offence :P
don't worry i didn't have my first "proper" boyfriend until i was 14
oh and i'm in a relationship atm! have been for 1 year 8 months
x
*mazedsalv**
15-09-2008, 10:34 PM
Originally posted by Matt08
I wouldn't worry about it at all, there's plenty of time for you to get a girlfriend yet. Wait until you're ready and not busy with studies etc.
Its weird though that I seem to be one of the only ones in the year not to have a girlfriend while at sceondary school... but I do agree with the studies bit.
But last week, i proved my point to why its good NOT having a relationship in school.
Well my 2 friends had been together for about 4 months. And then the girl told all of her girl mates that she was going to dump him, and she told me too. You know what 15 year ols are like... so it travelled through the school, and everyone knew apart from the boyfriend, I had the urge to tell him but I didnt. Then she told him,and he was really upset (which doesnt normally happen, normally its like "Well your a bitch, f off and all of that) but he was genuinely hurt.
So after an akward silence, I blurted out.... "Thats why you shouldnt have a relationship in school!! Because everyone will find stuff out before you do!" And I think im right.
LemonJam
15-09-2008, 10:36 PM
I don't have a girl/boyfriend. I'm too shy.
Nicky.
15-09-2008, 10:38 PM
Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
Everyone wants to be my friend.... but i will remain single FOREVER !!! :bigsmile:..... :sad:
LOL!
I know the feeling, well! I has loads of guy friends, but never do I think about going out with any of them. I had a boyfriend for like 9 months about a year ago, but I split up with him coz I hardly ever saw him out of school :\ .. and its hard to keep it up just a break and lunch :\
Im single atm though.. and kinda happy as I am :bouncy:
xDramatick
15-09-2008, 10:38 PM
I have a boyfriend! I honestly couldn't be happier.
He's 24, I'm almost 17. Despite the age gap, I'm totally happy. We get on so well, and I can honestly say I'm in love. He's my first ever relationship, and I'd say it's pretty serious. I've met his mother, sister and a few of his London mates but yet to meet his brother/father +his Brum mates [he's a brummie but lives in london].
&yeah.
I'm happy.
*mazedsalv**
15-09-2008, 10:42 PM
Originally posted by Nickyy
Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
Everyone wants to be my friend.... but i will remain single FOREVER !!! :bigsmile:..... :sad:
LOL!
I know the feeling, well! I has loads of guy friends, but never do I think about going out with any of them. I had a boyfriend for like 9 months about a year ago, but I split up with him coz I hardly ever saw him out of school :\ .. and its hard to keep it up just a break and lunch :\
Im single atm though.. and kinda happy as I am :bouncy:
I get what you mean, I have LOADS of girl mates who are always hugging me and stuff, I couldnt go out with any of them. I made friends with literally all the girls in the year, thats why i dont have a gf, its because me and all the girls in the year are close mates.
Tom4784
15-09-2008, 10:43 PM
I'm single and not looking.
Last girlfriend I had was about a year ago? I like having someone but only if they're laid back and stuff, can't stand stressful relationships. If somoene comes along then yay but if not i'm not too bothered for the moment.
*mazedsalv**
15-09-2008, 10:47 PM
Yea I'll probably end up like my sister (the one on my avatar pic on the left, me on the right lol), she was neevr in a relationship with anyone until she was 18, and now she's 19 and been going out with this guy a year younger than her for about 8 months now, and he is the most nicest bloke.... im happy for her.
So I'll probably no one and then all of a sudden i will have a serious relationship lol... or maybe no relationship :sad:
I have a girlfriend and am really really really happy atm :tongue:
I was pretty bad with relationships, have never had any problem getting anyone but boredom is a big issue for me, and so is temptation :laugh2:
But yeah, I've settled down a lot, I'm nothing like what I was a year ago.
Shes like the female me though so yeah ...
Princess
15-09-2008, 10:54 PM
I didn't have a boyfriend till I was 16. I know lots of people who are exactly the same. It only lasted about a month(to be honest I got bored and dumped him....) Been single for 2 years now and I'm happy enough.
Locke.
15-09-2008, 10:59 PM
I was single until I was 15 (16 now), was in a relationship for about 6 months but ended it (it wasn't working out), and i'm still single now, not really looking for anyone though.
pinkmichk
15-09-2008, 11:02 PM
i am 24 had a string of bad relationships and currently very happily single (will be 2 years on wednesday) although i want to meet someone in the future i am happy with the way it is at mo
I am 'seeing' someone, but it isn't a relationship yet.
I'm actually 'seeing' about 3 people, but not all in the same way if you get me. I sound so slagish now.
Bells
15-09-2008, 11:06 PM
Don't be in a rush to get a boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes they're more hassle than it's worth! :hugesmile:... I'm single and loving it at the moment, but then that might change as I make adjustments to student life etc. (hope to go to uni next year, will be busy this year).
So I'll probably end up involved with someone as soon as I end up enjoying single life too much! Typical.
001steven
15-09-2008, 11:13 PM
i got a Girlfriend been with her for 3 months now but i get bored easily lol and i dont wanna settle down with her as im only 18 got a full life ahead of me
I've been single for 7 months now, it's not a problem for me! I prefer being single, means I can flirt furiously with as many people as possible. Only I don't, but I could, if I had the balls :tongue:
Tom4784
15-09-2008, 11:19 PM
Originally posted by Ross
I am 'seeing' someone, but it isn't a relationship yet.
I'm actually 'seeing' about 3 people, but not all in the same way if you get me. I sound so slagish now.
*puts on eastenders accent*
You slag! :joker:
Well I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!
AlexBigBrother
15-09-2008, 11:23 PM
lol i loved primary school relationships, just nodding your head at each other in the morning
had a girlfriend until a couple of months ago, im alrite now,
looking though im 16
Not been in a relationship for 2 years, and im no rush to get in another. I hate them, I feel tied down in them! Much prefer being single, and I will remain single until I have finished education most likely. I dont need someone tying me down in my studies, if i did have a GF then she would come second to my family and my career.
Annie
15-09-2008, 11:25 PM
I am in a relationship just now and live with my man but he works away one of a lot and then I went on holiday... We have now not seen each other in a whole month cos he was at home when I was away.. And now I am feeling sooo distant from him and it hurts.
I am needing lots of love and attention right now :bawling:
Christina
15-09-2008, 11:25 PM
Ive never actually had a boyfriend lol x
melanie
15-09-2008, 11:27 PM
I'm seeing someone. :hugesmile:
Originally posted by melanie
I'm seeing someone. :hugesmile:
Hey gUUrl.
melanie
15-09-2008, 11:44 PM
Originally posted by Ross
I am 'seeing' someone, but it isn't a relationship yet.
I'm actually 'seeing' about 3 people, but not all in the same way if you get me. I sound so slagish now.
Seeing someone = watching them through their window.
Originally posted by melanie
Originally posted by Ross
I am 'seeing' someone, but it isn't a relationship yet.
I'm actually 'seeing' about 3 people, but not all in the same way if you get me. I sound so slagish now.
Seeing someone = watching them through their window.
Is that how everybody else does it? Is this where I've been going wrong? Damn.
Markymark
16-09-2008, 12:16 AM
Originally posted by Z
Originally posted by melanie
Originally posted by Ross
I am 'seeing' someone, but it isn't a relationship yet.
I'm actually 'seeing' about 3 people, but not all in the same way if you get me. I sound so slagish now.
Seeing someone = watching them through their window.
Is that how everybody else does it? Is this where I've been going wrong? Damn.
Yes, try it with a pair of binoculars late at night.
Markymark
16-09-2008, 12:18 AM
I'm too shy with girls. I'm not sure I want one though as whenever any of mates get one they never seem to have time for anyone else any more. I'd like to think I wouldn't change if I was in a serious relationship. If I'm still single in 10 years time I might start to worry a bit.
Legend
16-09-2008, 06:14 PM
Never been in a 'proper' relationship, never firstly found anyone I'd like to be in one with, and plus I hate restrictions, I like to be able to go out and not worry about what I might do.
AlexBigBrother
16-09-2008, 06:18 PM
i havnt had a girlfriend for a couple of months, i want another one now though lol
Captain.Remy
16-09-2008, 06:26 PM
I have a lovely girlfriend for almost 2 years and so far it has been great, well we had arguments (a lot) but that makes your couple stronger.
And before I met her, I used to cheat on my girlfriends a lot, I guess because I didn't love them but now I don't cheat anymore.
We plan to get a flat together in the coming year. I don't think we will get married or engaged as we don't have the same religion and between our parents, it's a bit complicated. But it's fine.
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I have a lovely girlfriend for almost 2 years and so far it has been great, well we had arguments (a lot) but that makes your couple stronger.
And before I met her, I used to cheat on my girlfriends a lot, I guess because I didn't love them but now I don't cheat anymore.
We plan to get a flat together in the coming year. I don't think we will get married or engaged as we don't have the same religion and between our parents, it's a bit complicated. But it's fine.
Apart from the marriage bit (never say never, just not yet), thats pretty much the same as me ... dunno about you but I feel a lot better about myself and an all round better person for starting to settle.
Captain.Remy
16-09-2008, 06:42 PM
Message original : Tom
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I have a lovely girlfriend for almost 2 years and so far it has been great, well we had arguments (a lot) but that makes your couple stronger.
And before I met her, I used to cheat on my girlfriends a lot, I guess because I didn't love them but now I don't cheat anymore.
We plan to get a flat together in the coming year. I don't think we will get married or engaged as we don't have the same religion and between our parents, it's a bit complicated. But it's fine.
Apart from the marriage bit (never say never, just not yet), thats pretty much the same as me ... dunno about you but I feel a lot better about myself and an all round better person for starting to settle.
To be honest I do feel a bit frustrated not to dance with another girl or to play with her and I miss sometimes the whole 'I am cheating my girlfriend, it's so exciting'. But I wouldn't do that anyway, I realized I couldn't hurt her as I used to hurt my previous girlfriends, and she knows that.
Kate..
16-09-2008, 06:43 PM
I'm single, and I'm quite happy with it. I don't need a boyfriend or a girlfriend to complete my life. But if the right one comes along... I aint gonna say no! :wink:
dupin
16-09-2008, 07:04 PM
Been in a relationship for 4 months, she was a really good friend for a couple of years, but then it changed etc. In any case, it's the easiest relationship ever, we've never had an arguement, there's never been any drama about it, and there's just not been a problem, and I doubt there will be; I think if it ends it'll be mutual & we'll still be really good friends.
Callum
16-09-2008, 07:06 PM
Single but I want a girlfriend.
Captain.Remy
16-09-2008, 07:07 PM
Message original : dupin
and I doubt there will be
You cannot say so, you never know what will happen. We are all like that at the beginning, we think there will be no drama and arguments. I am not saying there will be but you don't know what to expect in a relationship.
Originally posted by dupin
Been in a relationship for 4 months, she was a really good friend for a couple of years, but then it changed etc. In any case, it's the easiest relationship ever, we've never had an arguement, there's never been any drama about it, and there's just not been a problem, and I doubt there will be; I think if it ends it'll be mutual & we'll still be really good friends.
Arguments are good though. Cracks will show shortly but its not a bad thing, don't think because you're arguing you'll split up :tongue:
Firewire
16-09-2008, 07:41 PM
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
AlexBigBrother
16-09-2008, 07:50 PM
Originally posted by Firewire
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?
Captain.Remy
16-09-2008, 07:50 PM
Message original : Tom
Originally posted by dupin
Been in a relationship for 4 months, she was a really good friend for a couple of years, but then it changed etc. In any case, it's the easiest relationship ever, we've never had an arguement, there's never been any drama about it, and there's just not been a problem, and I doubt there will be; I think if it ends it'll be mutual & we'll still be really good friends.
Arguments are good though. Cracks will show shortly but its not a bad thing, don't think because you're arguing you'll split up :tongue:
Yes they are. It bring a bit of spice in a relationship, it would be boring without them. :hugesmile:
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Message original : Tom
Originally posted by dupin
Been in a relationship for 4 months, she was a really good friend for a couple of years, but then it changed etc. In any case, it's the easiest relationship ever, we've never had an arguement, there's never been any drama about it, and there's just not been a problem, and I doubt there will be; I think if it ends it'll be mutual & we'll still be really good friends.
Arguments are good though. Cracks will show shortly but its not a bad thing, don't think because you're arguing you'll split up :tongue:
Yes they are. It bring a bit of spice in a relationship, it would be boring without them. :hugesmile:
Theres also the make up sex to look forward too :joker:
Captain.Remy
16-09-2008, 07:53 PM
Message original : Tom
Theres also the make up sex to look forward too :joker:
Yes, it's the best way to make it up again. :hugesmile: It pretty much always ends this way.
Firewire
16-09-2008, 07:54 PM
Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
Originally posted by Firewire
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?
Becuase lots of people my age have and they dump and run off with other people.
What happens if that happens to me?
Captain.Remy
16-09-2008, 08:01 PM
Message original : Firewire
Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
Originally posted by Firewire
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?
Becuase lots of people my age have and they dump and run off with other people.
What happens if that happens to me?
You will run off with other people. That's what makes a life and makes you stronger you know.
Don't be influenced by what other people are doing.
Originally posted by Firewire
Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
Originally posted by Firewire
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?
Becuase lots of people my age have and they dump and run off with other people.
What happens if that happens to me?
Don't take that attitude, each and every relationship experience is different to the every other - plus, as you said, you're 13, you don't need to be thinking about relationships all the time. Give it a couple of years before you start thinking about it; and even then, don't rush into something you don't want! :spin2:
Captain.Remy
16-09-2008, 08:07 PM
When I was 13 I already had 2 girlfriends lol That was easy when we were younger, just kissing and being happy. Now it's different.
Originally posted by Firewire
Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
Originally posted by Firewire
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?
Becuase lots of people my age have and they dump and run off with other people.
What happens if that happens to me?
Thats the point, and if you start younger then the better bf/gf you'll be in the long run to whoever you eventually think is the one ...
*mazedsalv**
16-09-2008, 08:12 PM
Originally posted by Tom
Originally posted by Firewire
Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
Originally posted by Firewire
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?
Becuase lots of people my age have and they dump and run off with other people.
What happens if that happens to me?
Thats the point, and if you start younger then the better bf/gf you'll be in the long run to whoever you eventually think is the one ...
Thats a problem for me then, seeing as I havnt been with someone since Primary School.... :sad:
Kate..
16-09-2008, 08:12 PM
Don't rush into it cause you have to. Wait till you feel it's right.
Lauren
16-09-2008, 08:12 PM
In a strong relationship, but before that had been single for a good couple of years (2 I think).
Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
Originally posted by Tom
Originally posted by Firewire
Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
Originally posted by Firewire
Never had a girlfriend so I am single atm.
I am only 13. Not looking for a relationship atm it is too much hassle.
if youve never had a girlfriend how do you know?
Becuase lots of people my age have and they dump and run off with other people.
What happens if that happens to me?
Thats the point, and if you start younger then the better bf/gf you'll be in the long run to whoever you eventually think is the one ...
Thats a problem for me then, seeing as I havnt been with someone since Primary School.... :sad:
Its not a bad thing, even if you're *late* you'll just naturally know what to do anyway, I'd just imagine its not as awkward if you've done it before.
lolester
21-09-2008, 03:26 PM
im too shy to ask out people
You'll never get anywhere if your too shy to ask out people lol
Annie
21-09-2008, 03:59 PM
I'm shy too
Magic
21-09-2008, 04:11 PM
Im not shy, its just I get on well with lots of girls, so I am always like 'What if our friendship gets ruined' lool. 'Cuz I'm nice like that.
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