Favourite Type Of Personality in Gay Guys

[Benjamin]

I know a lot of Gay guys (obviously), and there are so many different types. But some I love and some really get on my tits.

Me and my friends were having this debate the other day as to our favourite type of Gay Guy.

What kind of Gay guys do you like (personality wise).

[Sam!]

Its Bitchy btw GOD BEN! As long as they aint like Marco in BB5 they're fine.

[Sam!]

"hes too gay to function" lol MeanGirls

[Benjamin]

Originally posted by Scampi
Its Bitchy btw GOD BEN! As long as they aint like Marco in BB5 they're fine.

I know, I noticed the typo straight away, but it is so annoying you cannot edit polls.

I cannot stand bitchey Gay guys, they do my head in. Always full of such bitterness and malice.

I prefer, friendly and straight acting types.

[Annie]

I love bitchy gay guys - they are always the ones that can totally cheer you up when you are down.
I have lots of gay guys that I hang about with and I think all of them are really bitchy and we just bitch all day long. I know that isnt a nice thing to bitch about people and things but its always done in a funny way and none of them do it really maliciously or that. Just always as a laugh.

[30stone]

Straight acting,

all the bitching and dancing n diva sorta stuff tends to annoy me alot.

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by 30stone
Straight acting,

all the bitching and dancing n diva sorta stuff tends to annoy me alot.

yerh the bitching ones are realy annoying...
buh the dancing ones would be funny XD

[Hugo]

A mix of bithcy and funny :hugesmile:

[Arneldo]

Type of gay!!?! :bored:

[Benjamin]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Type of gay!!?! :bored:


whats wrong with that? There are types of gay out there sterotypically personality wise. It's not offensive or meant offensively dude.

[Spike]

I love all gays lol
but funny is better than the rest

[Sam!]

Here here for a Type of Straight thread haha :P

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Type of gay!!?! :bored:

yerh quite steriotypical!

[bronaaaa]

Bitchy and kinda camp..i LOVED the way Richard from BB7 went on so much :tongue:

[Damaris]

Funny. (=

[Fom]

Straight acting... I dislike gay gays... all my gay friends are straight acting and you wouldnt even know they were gay. I dont get why people have to act differently if they are gay? I dont get why its a must have you have to listen to Britney Spears if your gay.
My gay friends listen to heavy metal...

In fact... my gay friends act more straight than me!

[Tom]

Straight acting. I can't stand ones who act OTT, dramatic and just generally camp.

[Arneldo]

Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by Arneldo
Type of gay!!?! :bored:

whats wrong with that? There are types of gay out there sterotypically personality wise. It's not offensive or meant offensively dude.


I'm gay but I'm going to put myself, or anybody else under a sterotype. It's because people put gay people under a sterotype that young people are bullied because of thier sexuality.

I think this topic (and poll) is stupid, childish and just wrong.

It's should be about personality, not sexuality.

[Benjamin]

Originally posted by rayheartbliss
Originally posted by Arneldo
Type of gay!!?! :bored:

yerh quite steriotypical!


we live in a world of stereotypes. We cannot escape that.
And people are always bracketed by their personality. Thats how we distinguish who we do and don't like.
:hugesmile:

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by Fom
Straight acting... I dislike gay gays... all my gay friends are straight acting and you wouldnt even know they were gay. I dont get why people have to act differently if they are gay? I dont get why its a must have you have to listen to Britney Spears if your gay.
My gay friends listen to heavy metal...
yerh the thread is being steriotypical me thinks ^,^

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
Originally posted by Arneldo
Type of gay!!?! :bored:

yerh quite steriotypical!


we live in a world of stereotypes. We cannot escape that.
And people are always bracketed by their personality. Thats how we distinguish who we do and don't like.
:hugesmile:

does it have to have a type of gay when you can be just gay if your gay!

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Fom
Straight acting... I dislike gay gays... all my gay friends are straight acting and you wouldnt even know they were gay. I dont get why people have to act differently if they are gay? I dont get why its a must have you have to listen to Britney Spears if your gay.
My gay friends listen to heavy metal...

In fact... my gay friends act more straight than me!

uhoh

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by Tom
Straight acting. I can't stand ones who act OTT, dramatic and just generally camp.

same!
cant stand that!

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by Arneldo
Type of gay!!?! :bored:

whats wrong with that? There are types of gay out there sterotypically personality wise. It's not offensive or meant offensively dude.


I'm gay but I'm going to put myself, or anybody else under a sterotype. It's because people put gay people under a sterotype that young people are bullied because of thier sexuality.

I think this topic (and poll) is stupid, childish and just wrong.

It's should be about personality, not sexuality.

I don't think Ben made it offensive anyway, hense hes gay himself that would be stupid wouldn't it.

[Benjamin]

Originally posted by Arneldo
Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by Arneldo
Type of gay!!?! :bored:

whats wrong with that? There are types of gay out there sterotypically personality wise. It's not offensive or meant offensively dude.


I'm gay but I'm going to put myself, or anybody else under a sterotype. It's because people put gay people under a sterotype that young people are bullied because of thier sexuality.

I think this topic (and poll) is stupid, childish and just wrong.

It's should be about personality, not sexuality.

It is about personality, but of gay guys. Thats what I'm interested in. I lived in Brighton and grew up there and was always in the 'Gay World'.

And in the media Gay guys are always stereotyped as the Bitchy Drama queen (which does annoy me, a lot).

I just wanted to know what people prefer in a Gay man personality wise.

[Fom]

Originally posted by Scampi
Originally posted by Fom
Straight acting... I dislike gay gays... all my gay friends are straight acting and you wouldnt even know they were gay. I dont get why people have to act differently if they are gay? I dont get why its a must have you have to listen to Britney Spears if your gay.
My gay friends listen to heavy metal...

In fact... my gay friends act more straight than me!

uhoh

Lmao... you reckon I should turn off my karma before the britney bummers attack? :wink:

[Tom]

Originally posted by Fom
Originally posted by Scampi
Originally posted by Fom
Straight acting... I dislike gay gays... all my gay friends are straight acting and you wouldnt even know they were gay. I dont get why people have to act differently if they are gay? I dont get why its a must have you have to listen to Britney Spears if your gay.
My gay friends listen to heavy metal...

In fact... my gay friends act more straight than me!

uhoh

Lmao... you reckon I should turn off my karma before the britney bummers attack? :wink:

:laugh2:

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Fom
Originally posted by Scampi
Originally posted by Fom
Straight acting... I dislike gay gays... all my gay friends are straight acting and you wouldnt even know they were gay. I dont get why people have to act differently if they are gay? I dont get why its a must have you have to listen to Britney Spears if your gay.
My gay friends listen to heavy metal...

In fact... my gay friends act more straight than me!

uhoh

Lmao... you reckon I should turn off my karma before the britney bummers attack? :wink:

Well with the over love of her on here most probably :P. Its like to be popular on here you gotta like her. Britney-lickers :P

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by Fom
Originally posted by Scampi
Originally posted by Fom
Straight acting... I dislike gay gays... all my gay friends are straight acting and you wouldnt even know they were gay. I dont get why people have to act differently if they are gay? I dont get why its a must have you have to listen to Britney Spears if your gay.
My gay friends listen to heavy metal...

In fact... my gay friends act more straight than me!

uhoh

Lmao... you reckon I should turn off my karma before the britney bummers attack? :wink:

lol
xD

[Annie]

I dont see anything wrong with this thread and i certainly didnt think it was childish. Ben is a grown man who is gay and knows a lot of gay guys.
He was only interested to see what people liked the most. I dont see a problem in that. He certainly wasnt attacking anyone or anything. And there are sterotypes in each sexuality. He was just interested in seeing what we thought about the gay sterotypes.

[rayheartbliss]

as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?

[Annie]

Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?

The world is made up of sterotypes. Nobody will ever get rid of them.

[Princess]

The obvious gay ones,who wear bright colors and say fabulous all the time and carry your shopping and listen to your rambling about Take That. Although those are the only type I know,lol.

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by Annie
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?

The world is made up of sterotypes. Nobody will ever get rid of them.

its not about getting rid of them...because you cant realy get rid of things if you look at it...
buh its about trying to keep it away..specially to the younger ones...

and the thread would seem as its bring it up together....

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by Princess
The obvious gay ones,who wear bright colors and say fabulous all the time and carry your shopping and listen to your rambling about Take That. Although those are the only type I know,lol.

lol
haha! ^,^
i dont realy kno many like that ^,^

[Benjamin]

Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?


I am not looking to cause a row.

People always bracket people by stereotypes for personality, thats how we establish who we like/don't like for everything from friends, celebrities, Big brother etc.

All i wanted to know is about the Gay guy side of personality.
That is not reinforcing stereotypes, or segregating gay guys.
I'm sorry if you feel that way, but in all honesty, it is not.

This thread was designed to see what type of personality people prefer in gay guys, and that is all it was for.

[Matt08]

Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?


I am not looking to cause a row.

People always bracket people by stereotypes for personality, thats how we establish who we like/don't like for everything from friends, celebrities, Big brother etc.

All i wanted to know is about the Gay guy side of personality.
That is not reinforcing stereotypes, or segregating gay guys.
I'm sorry if you feel that way, but in all honesty, it is not.

This thread was designed to see what type of personality people prefer in gay guys, and that is all it was for.

Why don't you change the thread title so that people don't get the wrong idea about the thread? Maybe, Favourite gay personality?

[Jack]

Sexuality doesn't dictate personality. I like funny, friendly people - gay or straight.

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?


I am not looking to cause a row.

People always bracket people by stereotypes for personality, thats how we establish who we like/don't like for everything from friends, celebrities, Big brother etc.

All i wanted to know is about the Gay guy side of personality.
That is not reinforcing stereotypes, or segregating gay guys.
I'm sorry if you feel that way, but in all honesty, it is not.

This thread was designed to see what type of personality people prefer in gay guys, and that is all it was for.

oh no...of course that wasnt your intention..and i never said anything about that!

buh it is bring steriotyp together me thinks!

if someone is gay....then they can just be gay!
i mean..some are already being steriotyped because of their sexuality....
and i dont see the point of steriotyping on types of being gays...

buh..sorry...if it made it sound as if your causing rows...
;)

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Jack
Sexuality doesn't dictate personality. I like funny, friendly people - gay or straight.

:thumbs:

[MarkWaldorf]

As usual Britney and her fans were brought into the conversation.

[Benjamin]

The whole reason I started this thread is because me and my mates the other day were talking about how Gay guys are portrayed in the media as always bitchy, camp queens, and how this makes a lot of people hate gay guys. And we all said that there are so many different personalities with gay men, more than the media portrays, so I wanted to know what people found they preferred.

This isn't a thread casting stereotypes over gays and straights, just a mere curiousity into people's opinions and thoughts.


:love:

[rayheartbliss]

any way...on topic now for this thread!
...............................

fave personality type= friendly/fun

[Benjamin]

Originally posted by rayheartbliss
Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?


I am not looking to cause a row.

People always bracket people by stereotypes for personality, thats how we establish who we like/don't like for everything from friends, celebrities, Big brother etc.

All i wanted to know is about the Gay guy side of personality.
That is not reinforcing stereotypes, or segregating gay guys.
I'm sorry if you feel that way, but in all honesty, it is not.

This thread was designed to see what type of personality people prefer in gay guys, and that is all it was for.

oh no...of course that wasnt your intention..and i never said anything about that!

buh it is bring steriotyp together me thinks!

if someone is gay....then they can just be gay!
i mean..some are already being steriotyped because of their sexuality....
and i dont see the point of steriotyping on types of being gays...

buh..sorry...if it made it sound as if your causing rows...
;)

and in answer to this, many gay guys stereotype themselves further.

Bears, Twinks, Studs etc. That happens with most of the gay world, and they are happy with that (not saying I am), but even Gaydar reinforces these stereotypes, and many gay guys use Gaydar and promote these labels, which are based on looks.

I was interested in personalities.

[pinkmichk]

i like most apart from the crazy over the top camp ones
agree with you benjamin its not just gays there is the same 'labels' with lesbians and even bisexuals on that gaydar site as well

[rayheartbliss]

yerh...lets leave it now...

[Sam!]

Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?


I am not looking to cause a row.

People always bracket people by stereotypes for personality, thats how we establish who we like/don't like for everything from friends, celebrities, Big brother etc.

All i wanted to know is about the Gay guy side of personality.
That is not reinforcing stereotypes, or segregating gay guys.
I'm sorry if you feel that way, but in all honesty, it is not.

This thread was designed to see what type of personality people prefer in gay guys, and that is all it was for.

oh no...of course that wasnt your intention..and i never said anything about that!

buh it is bring steriotyp together me thinks!

if someone is gay....then they can just be gay!
i mean..some are already being steriotyped because of their sexuality....
and i dont see the point of steriotyping on types of being gays...

buh..sorry...if it made it sound as if your causing rows...
;)

and in answer to this, many gay guys stereotype themselves further.

Bears, Twinks, Studs etc. That happens with most of the gay world, and they are happy with that (not saying I am), but even Gaydar reinforces these stereotypes, and many gay guys use Gaydar and promote these labels, which are based on looks.

I was interested in personalities.

http://www.americanbear.org/shared/images/homepage/black-bear.jpg
or
http://images.payplay.fm/t/w/twink/600/twink.jpg
or
http://www.savvy-clearance.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2007/03/diamond-stud-sale.jpg

Which are you?

[rayheartbliss]

its seems more likes the straighht acting..buh then those are the ones i see less....

usually youd see more of like funny ones

[Benjamin]

Originally posted by Scampi
Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
Originally posted by ukturtle
Originally posted by rayheartbliss
as a grown man
shouldnt it be him that helps to put steroitypes away from the younger ones rather than put it together ?


I am not looking to cause a row.

People always bracket people by stereotypes for personality, thats how we establish who we like/don't like for everything from friends, celebrities, Big brother etc.

All i wanted to know is about the Gay guy side of personality.
That is not reinforcing stereotypes, or segregating gay guys.
I'm sorry if you feel that way, but in all honesty, it is not.

This thread was designed to see what type of personality people prefer in gay guys, and that is all it was for.

oh no...of course that wasnt your intention..and i never said anything about that!

buh it is bring steriotyp together me thinks!

if someone is gay....then they can just be gay!
i mean..some are already being steriotyped because of their sexuality....
and i dont see the point of steriotyping on types of being gays...

buh..sorry...if it made it sound as if your causing rows...
;)

and in answer to this, many gay guys stereotype themselves further.

Bears, Twinks, Studs etc. That happens with most of the gay world, and they are happy with that (not saying I am), but even Gaydar reinforces these stereotypes, and many gay guys use Gaydar and promote these labels, which are based on looks.

I was interested in personalities.

http://www.americanbear.org/shared/images/homepage/black-bear.jpg
or
http://images.payplay.fm/t/w/twink/600/twink.jpg
or
http://www.savvy-clearance.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2007/03/diamond-stud-sale.jpg

Which are you?


:laugh2::laugh2:

i don't know.

I am defo not a bear, I'm not hairy.

Or a twink (i don't have blonde hair and blue eyes).

and I'm far from a stud.

I would most likey be classed as 'The Guy Next Door' Type in the 'Gay World'. lol.

[Greg.!]

an example of all those

funny- Jack (will & grace)
bitchy- Craig BB6
friendly- Brian Dowling
straight acting- Will (will & grace)
Sensible- Derek BB6
quiet- there are no quiet gays lol

[Locke.]

Well bitchy gay guys remind me of Dennis BB9 so I don't particularly like them; so I'd say friendly ones, accidently voted Straight Acting though.

[M X]

I just like friendly because I hate people sterotyping gay people as like hyper.

[GhettoSuperstar]

Option 7: Good Looking :bigsmile:


Ooops, that just make me option 2... :tongue: Jokes.

Nah I like the down to earth but slightly bitchy and very funny. Not nasty bitchy and I hate the stuck up gays who think they are gods gift when they look like munts.

[Greg.!]

Originally posted by GhettoSuperstar
Option 7: Good Looking :bigsmile:


Ooops, that just make me option 2... :tongue: Jokes.

Nah I like the down to earth but slightly bitchy and very funny. Not nasty bitchy and I hate the stuck up gays who think they are gods gift when they look like munts.
*Cough*Craig BB6*Cough*

[GhettoSuperstar]

Originally posted by gregalz123
Originally posted by GhettoSuperstar
Option 7: Good Looking :bigsmile:


Ooops, that just make me option 2... :tongue: Jokes.

Nah I like the down to earth but slightly bitchy and very funny. Not nasty bitchy and I hate the stuck up gays who think they are gods gift when they look like munts.
*Cough*Craig BB6*Cough*

I ain't fat. Or is he my type, eugh.