Why are ex`s SO annoying!?

[supernoodles!]

anyone ever had a reaaalllly annoying ex bf or gf?Mine is driving me up the wall atm and I want to strangle them!:mad:

[Kate..]

Get them interested in someone else!
:spin2:
I would simpathise but I'm only 14 so my exes are still like my really good mates!

[Lauren]

What's your ex doing?

[supernoodles!]

lol he is interested in someone else he`s the one who ended it,i know for a fact he is seeing someone else yet he texts/rings/eveytime im on facebook asks 'what are you doing tonight' and part of me wants to just say look fk off it is none of your business.

[pinkmichk]

:hug:
yeah my ex can be really anoying to the point i'd love him to go play with the traffic sometimes i do think its a man thing though

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Lauren
What's your ex doing?
he wants to have his cake and it eat it basically.Wants to go out and be single yet doesn`t want me to be with anyone else

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by pinkmichk
:hug:
yeah my ex can be really anoying to the point i'd love him to go play with the traffic sometimes i do think its a man thing though
its like ill change my facebook status and he`ll change his about 2minutes later
eg. of todays


laura-is going to do college work =[ but looking forwards to meal tonight xx

craig-does anyone have the number of a cheap taxi number for a run to durham on saturday night.pricey when theres only 2 like.


he is SO obvious!

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Lauren
What's your ex doing?
he wants to have his cake and it eat it basically.Wants to go out and be single yet doesn`t want me to be with anyone else

Then put him straight, he is being unfair to you and making it harder for you to move on. Your right in saying he wants his cake and eat it but the best advice I cant give you is dont let him

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by ~Kizwiz~
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Lauren
What's your ex doing?
he wants to have his cake and it eat it basically.Wants to go out and be single yet doesn`t want me to be with anyone else

Then put him straight, he is being unfair to you and making it harder for you to move on. Your right in saying he wants his cake and eat it but the best advice I cant give you is dont let him

i know and last week i was very stupid and let him and agreed to go and see him:bored:i am an idiot i know but it is easier said than done after 4 years:sad:

[Lauren]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Lauren
What's your ex doing?
he wants to have his cake and it eat it basically.Wants to go out and be single yet doesn`t want me to be with anyone else

Ah I've seen that happen before with my friends exs!

Thankfully the only ex I have is from when I was 15 LOL.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Lauren
What's your ex doing?
he wants to have his cake and it eat it basically.Wants to go out and be single yet doesn`t want me to be with anyone else

Ah I've seen that happen before with my friends exs!

Thankfully the only ex I have is from when I was 15 LOL.
same ive seen it happen so many times with my friends too

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by supernoodles!

i know and last week i was very stupid and let him and agreed to go and see him:bored:i am an idiot i know but it is easier said than done after 4 years:sad:

Aww babe, dont let him get to you because thats what he wants to be honest.

Blokes are complicated creatures but he is playing you

[supernoodles!]

i know,i have been putting up with this kind of crap for a looonngg time now,things will be great for a while then the same thing will happen again.Im frustrated at myself now though for letting him do it everytime idk why i do tbh.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
i know,i have been putting up with this kind of c**p for a looonngg time now,things will be great for a while then the same thing will happen again.Im frustrated at myself now though for letting him do it everytime idk why i do tbh.
Is there a chance you could completely cut him out your life? Easier said than done, I know.

I mean blocking his number from texting you, and deleting him from facebook/msn. It seems harsh, but your top priority at the moment is you, and getting over him!
You can't get over something if it's in your face constantly.

Don't let yourself be used, or be a fall-back option for him. You're worth more :hug:

[Sting]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
anyone ever had a reaaalllly annoying ex bf or gf?Mine is driving me up the wall atm and I want to strangle them!:mad:

What do you mean them ?:puzzled: Have you got more than one then ?:thumbs2:

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Sting
Originally posted by supernoodles!
anyone ever had a reaaalllly annoying ex bf or gf?Mine is driving me up the wall atm and I want to strangle them!:mad:

What do you mean them ?:puzzled: Have you got more than one then ?:thumbs2:


no lol my mistake,i should have said him

[Tom]

change your facebook to in a relationship then tell him to leave you alone. worked for me :whistle:

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by supernoodles!
i know,i have been putting up with this kind of c**p for a looonngg time now,things will be great for a while then the same thing will happen again.Im frustrated at myself now though for letting him do it everytime idk why i do tbh.
Is there a chance you could completely cut him out your life? Easier said than done, I know.

I mean blocking his number from texting you, and deleting him from facebook/msn. It seems harsh, but your top priority at the moment is you, and getting over him!
You can't get over something if it's in your face constantly.

Don't let yourself be used, or be a fall-back option for him. You're worth more :hug:


i know that is the best thing to do,i considered it as soon as we broke up as i was angry but as usual he brought me round to the talking stage.One minute he`ll be talking about having a family together and the how he will always love me blah blah blah then when he knows he`s got me thinking about him again he`ll just ignore me.I know exactly what hes doing ,after so long i can read him like a book but theres obviously something stopping me from making the big move and getting rid of him totally ,i just wish i knew what it was

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Tom
change your facebook to in a relationship then tell him to leave you alone. worked for me :whistle:

i know but its a lie isn`t it

[Sting]

Originally posted by ~Kizwiz~
Originally posted by supernoodles!

i know and last week i was very stupid and let him and agreed to go and see him:bored:i am an idiot i know but it is easier said than done after 4 years:sad:

Aww babe, dont let him get to you because thats what he wants to be honest.

Blokes are complicated creatures but he is playing you Thats good advise :wink: But not all blokes are complicated:wink: with me its Black or White no shade of grey in between. ask my partner Angel.D she'll back me up lol

[Lauren]

Originally posted by supernoodles!

i know that is the best thing to do,i considered it as soon as we broke up as i was angry but as usual he brought me round to the talking stage.One minute he`ll be talking about having a family together and the how he will always love me blah blah blah then when he knows he`s got me thinking about him again he`ll just ignore me.I know exactly what hes doing ,after so long i can read him like a book but theres obviously something stopping me from making the big move and getting rid of him totally ,i just wish i knew what it was

Yeah, but once you do it you can't go back on it - and then from then on it's you rebuilding your life.

I can totally understand what you mean, 4 years - it's hardly an easy thing to do, but once it's done it's done and you can get on with getting over him.
Good luck with whatever you choose to do :hug:

[supernoodles!]

thanks for the adivce lauren,i know you are right:hugesmile:this has been going on for too long:bored:

[melanie]

I always get random texts/calls asking if I want to go out.. I mean, of course I don't wanna go out, I broke up with you last week!

[supernoodles!]

well i just deleted him of facebook and deleted his number and deleted him off msn contacts.
feels strange.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
well i just deleted him of facebook and deleted his number and deleted him off msn contacts.
feels strange.

Well done :hug:

Now he can't play games with you. :flowers:

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
well i just deleted him of facebook and deleted his number and deleted him off msn contacts.
feels strange.
Good girl :hug:

Well done babe, be strong and dont crumble. I know its hard but he will try and play you like a good'un and your worth so much more

[supernoodles!]

thanks for your great advice both of you,im going to try my best its going to be like having a totally different life lol,seems very strange atm

[pinkmichk]

:hug: it feels strange at the mo but it will get easier focus on you now

[Captain.Remy]

Mine isn't. Well since we broke up last week, we didn't keep in touch and I like it this way.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Mine isn't. Well since we broke up last week, we didn't keep in touch and I like it this way.

awwww... Remy, I hope your ok :hug:

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by pinkmichk
:hug: it feels strange at the mo but it will get easier focus on you now

i really need to because its affecting everything,not too good for my mental health,thats the main thing im worried about.College is suffering as well though and im going to fall behind if im not careful so I MUST focus on me for once,i hope it gets easier:spin2: