View Full Version : Should the past be the past ?
Angel.D
05-11-2008, 10:48 AM
Or should it haunt you for the rest of your life.:yuk:
TwinklesB12
05-11-2008, 10:50 AM
Past should be the past-but it's easier said than done!But you should always look forward not back because it can hold you back and that's no good!
pinkmichk
05-11-2008, 10:52 AM
i am a believer that everything happens for a reason and although i dont like some of my past its there and it made me who i am today and i have no regrets over my past
NettoSuperstar!
05-11-2008, 11:16 AM
the past is the past, face your demons, learn from your mistakes and move on
Sod_James
05-11-2008, 11:16 AM
it depends on what you are talking about.
I think that looking back allways prepares you for the future.
Angel.D
05-11-2008, 11:27 AM
Originally posted by TwinklesB12
Past should be the past-but it's easier said than done!But you should always look forward not back because it can hold you back and that's no good!
It should be, and as you said easier said than done::sad:What if certain people won't let you forget ?How do you move forward.
NettoSuperstar!
05-11-2008, 11:34 AM
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by TwinklesB12
Past should be the past-but it's easier said than done!But you should always look forward not back because it can hold you back and that's no good!
It should be, and as you said easier said than done::sad:What if certain people won't let you forget ?How do you move forward.
If you cant justify your actions apologise. if they dont accept your apology, well you tried. If they cant move on its their problem not yours
Sunny_01
05-11-2008, 02:53 PM
Originally posted by NettoSuperstar!
the past is the past, face your demons, learn from your mistakes and move on
Well said, we all worry to much about past actions, they are what define us and make us the people we are today.
Scarlett.
05-11-2008, 02:54 PM
Recently put the past behind me, I realized, Blackpool is my home now, and I have to make my life here
NettoSuperstar!
05-11-2008, 02:59 PM
Originally posted by Chewy
Recently put the past behind me, I realized, Blackpool is my home now, and I have to make my life here
And you get to go to the pleasure beach when you like! Bonus!
Scarlett.
05-11-2008, 03:01 PM
Haha yeah, only even been once :hugesmile:
Originally posted by Angel.D
Or should it haunt you for the rest of your life.:yuk:
No, it shouldn't haunt you for the rest of your life. But we all have to consider the past when looking to the future. We can learn from our mistakes - but not if we forget them! Right now, this is a very relevant time to be having this discussion.
The past helps with the future but I find it best not to look back, theres no point. You can't change what has happened.
Sticks
05-11-2008, 04:04 PM
Back in 2004, I was stalked by 1987 and 1994
I was able to speak to 1987, but 1994 slunk away somewhere.
1994 was out to destroy me as it's last attempt in 1994 failed.
:shocked:
Angel.D
05-11-2008, 04:10 PM
Originally posted by Sticks
Back in 2004, I was stalked by 1987 and 1994
I was able to speak to 1987, but 1994 slunk away somewhere.
1994 was out to destroy me as it's last attempt in 1994 failed.
:shocked:
What do you do to cope with it.
NettoSuperstar!
05-11-2008, 04:40 PM
Originally posted by Sticks
Back in 2004, I was stalked by 1987 and 1994
I was able to speak to 1987, but 1994 slunk away somewhere.
1994 was out to destroy me as it's last attempt in 1994 failed.
:shocked:
I find 2006 is a beggar! Wont get the better of me though:spin:
Sticks
05-11-2008, 04:43 PM
I sort of had to muddle through
The other problem was that during 2004 the laws of probability went awol, although I could never find convincing evidence to support my observations.
All I know is that 1994 is out there, with unfinished business.
The odd thing is, I expected 1995 to have a crack, as that was the year I got knocked down by a car, but 1995 is happy to remain in retirement.
Next year though we are expecting 1997 to return on the scene, so talks need to start to appease that year.
NettoSuperstar!
05-11-2008, 05:14 PM
Originally posted by Sticks
I sort of had to muddle through
The other problem was that during 2004 the laws of probability went awol, although I could never find convincing evidence to support my observations.
All I know is that 1994 is out there, with unfinished business.
The odd thing is, I expected 1995 to have a crack, as that was the year I got knocked down by a car, but 1995 is happy to remain in retirement.
Next year though we are expecting 1997 to return on the scene, so talks need to start to appease that year.
Ahh yeh the 2004 problem I think dates back to 1956. The laws of probability were temporarily mislaid and we were left in chaos, it keeps happening periodically and Its a mystery, it is!
MrGaryy
05-11-2008, 05:17 PM
It shouldn't haunt you for the rest of your life but it's no better to just erase it from your memory other wise you could be left with a lot of questions with no one else to answer.
Angel.D
05-11-2008, 09:46 PM
Originally posted by Gazbo
It shouldn't haunt you for the rest of your life but it's no better to just erase it from your memory other wise you could be left with a lot of questions with no one else to answer.
My point is it can still haunt you if other people won't let you forget.:mad:
Princess
05-11-2008, 09:50 PM
You shouldn't forget the past-it allows you to learn from your mistakes and look back at fond memories. But negative things which happened in the past shouldn't be dwelled on-regrets are pointless,nothing you can do to change what you have done.
Angel.D
06-11-2008, 10:00 AM
Originally posted by Princess
You shouldn't forget the past-it allows you to learn from your mistakes and look back at fond memories. But negative things which happened in the past shouldn't be dwelled on-regrets are pointless,nothing you can do to change what you have done.
Good point ,but what if the past is painful ?:bawling: Is it not best to try to put it behind you ?:shrug:
pinkmichk
06-11-2008, 10:05 AM
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Princess
You shouldn't forget the past-it allows you to learn from your mistakes and look back at fond memories. But negative things which happened in the past shouldn't be dwelled on-regrets are pointless,nothing you can do to change what you have done.
Good point ,but what if the past is painful ?:bawling: Is it not best to try to put it behind you ?:shrug:
:hug:
some of my past is very painful but i put it down to lesson learnt if it wasnt for some of the painful stuff i have dealt with i wouldnt be the strong person i am now
Angel.D
06-11-2008, 12:29 PM
Originally posted by pinkmichk
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Princess
You shouldn't forget the past-it allows you to learn from your mistakes and look back at fond memories. But negative things which happened in the past shouldn't be dwelled on-regrets are pointless,nothing you can do to change what you have done.
Good point ,but what if the past is painful ?:bawling: Is it not best to try to put it behind you ?:shrug:
:hug:
some of my past is very painful but i put it down to lesson learnt if it wasnt for some of the painful stuff i have dealt with i wouldnt be the strong person i am now
Yes it does make you stronger in some ways,ie the more time that passes and the past is not mentioned then you get stronger ,but when the past comes back to haunt you, then you become weak again:bawling: and the bigest thing is the evil intent of others, :devil: who just want you to suffer all the time:bawling:and not be happy in anyway.Do you think this is the right thing to do,?or is it as i said they are just evil?:devil:
pinkmichk
06-11-2008, 02:10 PM
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by pinkmichk
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Princess
You shouldn't forget the past-it allows you to learn from your mistakes and look back at fond memories. But negative things which happened in the past shouldn't be dwelled on-regrets are pointless,nothing you can do to change what you have done.
Good point ,but what if the past is painful ?:bawling: Is it not best to try to put it behind you ?:shrug:
:hug:
some of my past is very painful but i put it down to lesson learnt if it wasnt for some of the painful stuff i have dealt with i wouldnt be the strong person i am now
Yes it does make you stronger in some ways,ie the more time that passes and the past is not mentioned then you get stronger ,but when the past comes back to haunt you, then you become weak again:bawling: and the bigest thing is the evil intent of others, :devil: who just want you to suffer all the time:bawling:and not be happy in anyway.Do you think this is the right thing to do,?or is it as i said they are just evil?:devil:
i dont allow it to bother me and i dont let others drag me down and thus undoing all my effort it has taken to get to this point in my life if people are really that evil that they want to upset your balance then they really are not worth the time of day
Angel.D
06-11-2008, 06:25 PM
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
ange7
07-11-2008, 01:25 AM
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.
Angel.D
07-11-2008, 04:20 PM
Originally posted by ange7
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.
Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ?:puzzled: or would you want to forget about them ?:puzzled:
NettoSuperstar!
07-11-2008, 04:26 PM
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by ange7
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.
Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ?:puzzled: or would you want to forget about them ?:puzzled:
Why would you want everyone to know about any skeletons you may have? I certainly dont, but I wont forget them and I wont be making the same mistakes again. andI wont be wearing them like a millstone round my neck either
pinkmichk
07-11-2008, 04:45 PM
Originally posted by NettoSuperstar!
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by ange7
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.
Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ?:puzzled: or would you want to forget about them ?:puzzled:
Why would you want everyone to know about any skeletons you may have? I certainly dont, but I wont forget them and I wont be making the same mistakes again. andI wont be wearing them like a millstone round my neck either
agree as i said i have some seriously bad/horrid stuff in my past (i am not putting it on here as there is no need) i certainly wont be making the same mistakes again yes they happened but its in my past it shaped who i am today so in a way i am thankful for it
Angel.D
07-11-2008, 07:18 PM
Originally posted by pinkmichk
Originally posted by NettoSuperstar!
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by ange7
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.
Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ?:puzzled: or would you want to forget about them ?:puzzled:
Why would you want everyone to know about any skeletons you may have? I certainly dont, but I wont forget them and I wont be making the same mistakes again. andI wont be wearing them like a millstone round my neck either
agree as i said i have some seriously bad/horrid stuff in my past (i am not putting it on here as there is no need) i certainly wont be making the same mistakes again yes they happened but its in my past it shaped who i am today so in a way i am thankful for it Hi P hope your well :bigsmile:I agree with what you say anyway people should take you as they find you no matter what is in your past thats the way i live my life.:bigsmile:As long as they are ok with me then i'm ok with them.:bigsmile:
ange7
08-11-2008, 01:27 AM
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by ange7
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.
Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ?:puzzled: or would you want to forget about them ?:puzzled:
yeah what NettoSuperstar and Pink said. I don't want all to know them but I don't want to ignore them either. When I said your past choices shape you it's not written in stone... but you learn, grow wiser from them, from both good choices and bad. All I'm saying if you ignore history your doomed to repeat it. You still make choices today... they define just as much as past ones.
Sting
16-12-2008, 03:20 PM
Originally posted by ange7
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by ange7
Originally posted by Angel.D
Originally posted by Pj
Past should be the past.
Should be but its not:rolleyes:
nah don't agree ... else we will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Who we were and the choices we made back then is what shaped us today. Like it or lump it.
Ok so if you have skeletons in the cuboard you don't want to keep them there ? you want everyone to know about them ?:puzzled: or would you want to forget about them ?:puzzled:
yeah what NettoSuperstar and Pink said. I don't want all to know them but I don't want to ignore them either. When I said your past choices shape you it's not written in stone... but you learn, grow wiser from them, from both good choices and bad. All I'm saying if you ignore history your doomed to repeat it. You still make choices today... they define just as much as past ones. We should learn to forgive and try to forget
LemonJam
16-12-2008, 04:40 PM
The past should definatley be the past. Never look back just keep running forward, but don't forget to stop to admire the view once in a while. :)
andyman
16-12-2008, 04:56 PM
If the person killed out of free will then i hope the past rots their mind and take their own life... Save taxpayers money in keeping evil vile scum.
bananarama
16-12-2008, 06:19 PM
The past is what locks our future.......If you let it. Religion is a classic example of that.......
Sting
16-12-2008, 06:24 PM
Originally posted by andyman
If the person killed out of free will then i hope the past rots their mind and take their own life... Save taxpayers money in keeping evil vile scum.
Ok so what if someone has a temperary mental illness and is'nt in control of there actions ? should they not be helped so they could lead a decent life ? or do adopt your attitude and wash our hands of them as vile scum .:puzzled:
andyman
16-12-2008, 07:11 PM
Originally posted by Sting
Originally posted by andyman
If the person killed out of free will then i hope the past rots their mind and take their own life... Save taxpayers money in keeping evil vile scum.
Ok so what if someone has a temperary mental illness and is'nt in control of there actions ? should they not be helped so they could lead a decent life ? or do adopt your attitude and wash our hands of them as vile scum .:puzzled: Yes great logic, more human rights for the killers and fk the victims, lets let out all the mental wacko's onto the street because of course we cant breach their human rights!!!! Oh well if they attack again, lets just blame their parents, oh they so misunderstud them violent killers, poor lil them!
:bored:
AngRemembered
16-12-2008, 07:35 PM
Originally posted by Princess
You shouldn't forget the past-it allows you to learn from your mistakes and look back at fond memories. But negative things which happened in the past shouldn't be dwelled on-regrets are pointless,nothing you can do to change what you have done.
:thumbs: perfect
one of the best posts I've read on this brilliant forum :kiss:
Locke.
16-12-2008, 07:37 PM
Yeah sure, I received warnings on this forum in the past so if we're in a forgive and forget mood then I'd like them removed please. Thanks.
NettoSuperstar!
17-12-2008, 02:39 PM
Originally posted by andyman
Originally posted by Sting
Originally posted by andyman
If the person killed out of free will then i hope the past rots their mind and take their own life... Save taxpayers money in keeping evil vile scum.
Ok so what if someone has a temperary mental illness and is'nt in control of there actions ? should they not be helped so they could lead a decent life ? or do adopt your attitude and wash our hands of them as vile scum .:puzzled: Yes great logic, more human rights for the killers and fk the victims, lets let out all the mental wacko's onto the street because of course we cant breach their human rights!!!! Oh well if they attack again, lets just blame their parents, oh they so misunderstud them violent killers, poor lil them!
:bored:
Yet another ill informed and bigoted statement from AndyCapp! Do you have any experience of people with mental health problems? do you have any idea what its like for someone to hear voices, experience delusions and detachment from reality or to mistakenly believe they are in mortal danger?? No probably not, the world according to AndyCapp (***** the facts, ***** any kind of knowledge, logic or empathy or even attempting to research anything your talking about!, the world should listen to my hate filled ideas and accept this as truth!)
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