Some posters...

[Ross]

On here don't get enough credit for what they post.

I've seen alot of members lately, post valuable points about the subject in hand and they get totally blanked out by other users who either started the thread/has something bad to say about the point originally made.

Seriously, this isn't me having or go or to start another arguement or whatever and I'm not saying you should reply to everyones posts but I mean, some of yeh (maybe I could included in this) need to step back and stop quoting the same people over and over again and actually read what some members have to say. They are generally on topic and are amazing posts that you can read, wether you disagree or agree or agree to disagree. They float about on here, causing no drama and don't even get recognized.

S'all I gotta say.
Happy posting everyone.

[rayheartbliss]

yerp, i've seen quite a lot of them lately

[Matt08]

I agree, it seems to be a lot of the members who don't really have a big ego and some which don't really speak to other members away from the forum.

It would be nice for everyone to be included in discussions.

[Lewis.]

I think a lot of members make Brilliant posts, which get overshadowed by a few who make stupid, irrelivant posts

[Greg.!]

Such as.....

[DamonJ]

I think one of the members included in this would actually be Michelle, I really respect her. She makes relevant, really interesting posts and I really don't think she gets the credit she deserves.

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Lewiis.Xx
I think a lot of members make Brilliant posts, which get overshadowed by a few who make stupid, irrelivant posts

Every member makes an irrelevant post at some point.

[MarkWaldorf]

You can't blame people for talking to certain people. Members are bound to have got closer to certain members over a period of time.

If you feel people get overshadowed then vote them in the TiBB Nominations or something, a good way to recognise good posts.

[Ross]

I don't think it's fair for me to mention names... it would be unfair because they might not want to get their name splattered all over the thread.

If you read enough peoples posts, you'd see who I mean.

[Lewis.]

Originally posted by Matt08
Originally posted by Lewiis.Xx
I think a lot of members make Brilliant posts, which get overshadowed by a few who make stupid, irrelivant posts

Every member makes an irrelevant post at some point.

I am always making them :blush2:

[DamonJ]

Originally posted by Lewiis.Xx
I think a lot of members make Brilliant posts, which get overshadowed by a few who make stupid, irrelivant posts

Like your new blog? lmfao.
Even though it's against the rules to advertise.

[Lewis.]

Originally posted by gregalz123
Such as.....

Ermm.. Me.. :joker:

[Ross]

Don't make this an arguement now. It's a feel-good thread in a way.

[Fom]

I think I know a few of who you mean...

[hannah.]

Originally posted by Markus
You can't blame people for talking to certain people. Members are bound to have got closer to certain members over a period of time.

If you feel people get overshadowed then vote them in the TiBB Nominations or something, a good way to recognise good posts.

if one person votes it doesnt make any difference though, does it?

[Greg.!]

I think there are there is one person in particular who makes really good posts.

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Markus
You can't blame people for talking to certain people. Members are bound to have got closer to certain members over a period of time.

If you feel people get overshadowed then vote them in the TiBB Nominations or something, a good way to recognise good posts.

Only problem with that though is that some members are still likely to vote for their forum favourites.

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by hannah.
Originally posted by Markus
You can't blame people for talking to certain people. Members are bound to have got closer to certain members over a period of time.

If you feel people get overshadowed then vote them in the TiBB Nominations or something, a good way to recognise good posts.

if one person votes it doesnt make any difference though, does it? no, but i think even if you only get one vote, you'd still be nominated at least, so thats still good for them.

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by hannah.
Originally posted by Markus
You can't blame people for talking to certain people. Members are bound to have got closer to certain members over a period of time.

If you feel people get overshadowed then vote them in the TiBB Nominations or something, a good way to recognise good posts.

if one person votes it doesnt make any difference though, does it?

Well it's better than nothing, surely?

[LemonJam]

100% agree with you. Theres quite a few great posters here who seem to get shoved aside and its not very fair. It's good to have friends on here and stuff, but its not good when they're literally the only people you talk to.

[Greg.!]

I think david is the most overshadowed poster on this forum and he comes out with brilliant posts and I have hardly ever talked to him
also christina

[Ross]

For "them" now I don't think it's fair to make them sound like aliens.

All I'm saying is people need to pay more attention to what posts people make. You either listen or ya don't.

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by hannah.
Originally posted by Markus
You can't blame people for talking to certain people. Members are bound to have got closer to certain members over a period of time.

If you feel people get overshadowed then vote them in the TiBB Nominations or something, a good way to recognise good posts.

if one person votes it doesnt make any difference though, does it?

it probably does to the person who recieves the vote, they get to see the recognition for themselves, that can mean everything despite being just one vote amongst many.

[DamonJ]

Originally posted by gregalz123
I think david is the most overshadowed poster on this forum and he comes out with brilliant posts and I have hardly ever talked to him
also christina

Yeah David has settled down a lot, I enjoy his posts more. =D

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by Ross
Don't make this an arguement now. It's a feel-good thread in a way.

Thats a really sweet thing you've done ross. I was thinking the same thing and i was gunna say something about how mean some people have been lately but i got nervous and scared. :blush2::blush2::hug:

[Jen]

I don't understand...

[Ross]

Originally posted by ninostar
Originally posted by Ross
Don't make this an arguement now. It's a feel-good thread in a way.

Thats a really sweet thing you've done ross. I was thinking the same thing and i was gunna say something about how mean some people have been lately but i got nervous and scared. :blush2::blush2::hug:
Thanks nino haha.

That's another thing, members shouldn't be afraid of what another member is going to say to them... it's your opinion, if they don't like it then that is their problem. :thumbs: :hug:

[Z]

Originally posted by Ross
On here don't get enough credit for what they post.

I've seen alot of members lately, post valuable points about the subject in hand and they get totally blanked out by other users who either started the thread/has something bad to say about the point originally made.

Seriously, this isn't me having or go or to start another arguement or whatever and I'm not saying you should reply to everyones posts but I mean, some of yeh (maybe I could included in this) need to step back and stop quoting the same people over and over again and actually read what some members have to say. They are generally on topic and are amazing posts that you can read, wether you disagree or agree or agree to disagree. They float about on here, causing no drama and don't even get recognized.

S'all I gotta say.
Happy posting everyone.



pinkmichk, Sticks, GhettoSuperstar, rayheartbliss and Corkie, taking a few examples, are people who frequently post and rarely get credit for it. I'd also like to take the time to ask people, what is the point in picking on the likes of Conzors, Firewire and Lewis all the time? Seriously, it's the Internet - don't take it so seriously. I'm willing to bet most of the people who I see treating those three like crap wouldn't be like that in real life, I doubt anybody is that cold hearted that they can slate someone so easily to their face, so why should you do it over the Internet? Particularly when you consider how (relatively) young Firewire and Lewis are, it's despicable.

[Spike]

I agree, I have noticed it a lot lately.

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by gregalz123
I think david is the most overshadowed poster on this forum and he comes out with brilliant posts and I have hardly ever talked to him
also christina

Yeh i agree lol. I also have to say that linda is an amazing poster too. x

[rayheartbliss]

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
I don't understand... he feels that its unfair that some realy good members are not recognised enough and their post are being ingnored

i think

[Matt08]

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
I don't understand...

What Ross is saying that some posts are getting overshadowed and ignored by other members when sometimes what the person is trying to say is a very good and valid point.

When other members get all of their posts replied to whether they're of relevance or not.... I think.

[Ross]

Originally posted by Matt08
Originally posted by JDIZZEL
I don't understand...

What Ross is saying that some posts are getting overshadowed and ignored by other members when sometimes what the person is trying to say is a very good and valid point.

When other members get all of their posts replied to whether they're of relevance or not.... I think.
Spot on.

[KKBL]

i think i know what 'ya mean.i hate it when someone's making their point and then somone quote's them and says nothing but "ILY" when practically every other member in the thread is making the same point,its so pointless.

[Jen]

Originally posted by Matt08
Originally posted by JDIZZEL
I don't understand...

What Ross is saying that some posts are getting overshadowed and ignored by other members when sometimes what the person is trying to say is a very good and valid point.

When other members get all of their posts replied to whether they're of relevance or not.... I think.

Oh.. I underatand now.
:)

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by Zee




pinkmichk, Sticks, GhettoSuperstar, rayheartbliss and Corkie, taking a few examples, are people who frequently post and rarely get credit for it. I'd also like to take the time to ask people, what is the point in picking on the likes of Conzors, Firewire and Lewis all the time? Seriously, it's the Internet - don't take it so seriously. I'm willing to bet most of the people who I see treating those three like c**p wouldn't be like that in real life, I doubt anybody is that cold hearted that they can slate someone so easily to their face, so why should you do it over the Internet? Particularly when you consider how (relatively) young Firewire and Lewis are, it's despicable.

Utterly brilliant reply and incredibly ironic to the thread itself.
:kiss:

and I agree with the comments made about David too, another wonderful poster who just gets on with things and people in general.

[Ninastar]

I love how ray and matt both said I think at the end of there post lol x

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by KKBL
i think i know what 'ya mean.i hate it when someone's making their point and then somone quote's them and says nothing but "ILY" when practically every other member in the thread is making the same point,its so pointless.

LOL that post reeks of Jen

[Lewis.]

Originally posted by Zee
Originally posted by Ross
On here don't get enough credit for what they post.

I've seen alot of members lately, post valuable points about the subject in hand and they get totally blanked out by other users who either started the thread/has something bad to say about the point originally made.

Seriously, this isn't me having or go or to start another arguement or whatever and I'm not saying you should reply to everyones posts but I mean, some of yeh (maybe I could included in this) need to step back and stop quoting the same people over and over again and actually read what some members have to say. They are generally on topic and are amazing posts that you can read, wether you disagree or agree or agree to disagree. They float about on here, causing no drama and don't even get recognized.

S'all I gotta say.
Happy posting everyone.



pinkmichk, Sticks, GhettoSuperstar, rayheartbliss and Corkie, taking a few examples, are people who frequently post and rarely get credit for it. I'd also like to take the time to ask people, what is the point in picking on the likes of Conzors, Firewire and Lewis all the time? Seriously, it's the Internet - don't take it so seriously. I'm willing to bet most of the people who I see treating those three like c**p wouldn't be like that in real life, I doubt anybody is that cold hearted that they can slate someone so easily to their face, so why should you do it over the Internet? Particularly when you consider how (relatively) young Firewire and Lewis are, it's despicable.

Aww Thanks Zee! i know that sometimes i come up with Crazy ideas that are really rubbish... But i am learning, i have only been here 5 months! To be fair, i think that i can be a good poster sometimes?

[Matt08]

Originally posted by ninostar
I love how ray and matt both said I think at the end of there post lol x


:tongue: I didn't notice that until you mentioned.

[Z]

Originally posted by Lewiis.Xx
Originally posted by Zee
Originally posted by Ross
On here don't get enough credit for what they post.

I've seen alot of members lately, post valuable points about the subject in hand and they get totally blanked out by other users who either started the thread/has something bad to say about the point originally made.

Seriously, this isn't me having or go or to start another arguement or whatever and I'm not saying you should reply to everyones posts but I mean, some of yeh (maybe I could included in this) need to step back and stop quoting the same people over and over again and actually read what some members have to say. They are generally on topic and are amazing posts that you can read, wether you disagree or agree or agree to disagree. They float about on here, causing no drama and don't even get recognized.

S'all I gotta say.
Happy posting everyone.



pinkmichk, Sticks, GhettoSuperstar, rayheartbliss and Corkie, taking a few examples, are people who frequently post and rarely get credit for it. I'd also like to take the time to ask people, what is the point in picking on the likes of Conzors, Firewire and Lewis all the time? Seriously, it's the Internet - don't take it so seriously. I'm willing to bet most of the people who I see treating those three like c**p wouldn't be like that in real life, I doubt anybody is that cold hearted that they can slate someone so easily to their face, so why should you do it over the Internet? Particularly when you consider how (relatively) young Firewire and Lewis are, it's despicable.

Aww Thanks Zee! i know that sometimes i come up with Crazy ideas that are really rubbish... But i am learning, i have only been here 5 months! To be fair, i think that i can be a good poster sometimes?


That post makes me incredibly angry (not at you, Lewis :P) because you're putting yourself down for being creative. I don't think it's fair that people tell you that you're annoying for coming up with ideas, and it's even worse that you're agreeing with them! You're a good poster, you've stuck around for 5 months and you've already contributed a lot, and hey, everybody knows who you are :tongue: so you've got to be doing something right!


And thank you Angie, I get quite riled up when I see wrong being done :hugesmile:.

[Matt08]

Originally posted by Lewiis.Xx
Originally posted by Zee
Originally posted by Ross
On here don't get enough credit for what they post.

I've seen alot of members lately, post valuable points about the subject in hand and they get totally blanked out by other users who either started the thread/has something bad to say about the point originally made.

Seriously, this isn't me having or go or to start another arguement or whatever and I'm not saying you should reply to everyones posts but I mean, some of yeh (maybe I could included in this) need to step back and stop quoting the same people over and over again and actually read what some members have to say. They are generally on topic and are amazing posts that you can read, wether you disagree or agree or agree to disagree. They float about on here, causing no drama and don't even get recognized.

S'all I gotta say.
Happy posting everyone.



pinkmichk, Sticks, GhettoSuperstar, rayheartbliss and Corkie, taking a few examples, are people who frequently post and rarely get credit for it. I'd also like to take the time to ask people, what is the point in picking on the likes of Conzors, Firewire and Lewis all the time? Seriously, it's the Internet - don't take it so seriously. I'm willing to bet most of the people who I see treating those three like c**p wouldn't be like that in real life, I doubt anybody is that cold hearted that they can slate someone so easily to their face, so why should you do it over the Internet? Particularly when you consider how (relatively) young Firewire and Lewis are, it's despicable.

Aww Thanks Zee! i know that sometimes i come up with Crazy ideas that are really rubbish... But i am learning, i have only been here 5 months! To be fair, i think that i can be a good poster sometimes?

There was a poster on here last year about your age, not sure if you were here then. His username was Posted and he used to get a lot of stick, particularly because he was a fan of Pete Burns.

I think that was probably what drove him away from here.

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by KKBL
i think i know what 'ya mean.i hate it when someone's making their point and then somone quote's them and says nothing but "ILY" when practically every other member in the thread is making the same point,its so pointless.

LOL that post reeks of Jen

Lmao. It does but i love it when she does that x

[Scarlett.]

Originally posted by DamonJ
I think one of the members included in this would actually be Michelle, I really respect her. She makes relevant, really interesting posts and I really don't think she gets the credit she deserves. I agree, when I see her name as the latest post in a thread, I know its a good un, same with Big sis

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by ninostar
Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by KKBL
i think i know what 'ya mean.i hate it when someone's making their point and then somone quote's them and says nothing but "ILY" when practically every other member in the thread is making the same point,its so pointless.

LOL that post reeks of Jen

Lmao. It does but i love it when she does that x

Haha same! Jen's love. :lovedup:

[ThisIsMarie]

I think Ross has made a really good point.


I don't think it's so much recognising and praising the person that needs to happen. More just making sure to remember what the forum is really about, BB and not getting too carried away with unrelated or private jokes. Or rather just make sure you do actually respond to the thread question as well as the other stuff.

It's not like it's getting really bad or anything at all!
But all these stupid tedious comments or people replying with a completely unrelated BB comment are starting to really get on my nerves. (And I've only been posting for the last few days (recently) )

[SiaSiaSia]

I find it really annoying to traipse through millions of quotes to get to the point of a thread sometimes...

[Greg.!]

Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by ninostar
Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by KKBL
i think i know what 'ya mean.i hate it when someone's making their point and then somone quote's them and says nothing but "ILY" when practically every other member in the thread is making the same point,its so pointless.

LOL that post reeks of Jen

Lmao. It does but i love it when she does that x

Haha same! Jen's love. :lovedup:

lol jen always seems to make an argument funny by writing something sexual or ily on it and I think thats brilliant

[Ross]

Originally posted by ThisIsMarie
I think Ross has made a really good point.


I don't think it's so much recognising and praising the person that needs to happen. More just making sure to remember what the forum is really about, BB and not getting too carried away with unrelated or private jokes. Or rather just make sure you do actually respond to the thread question as well as the other stuff.

It's not like it's getting really bad or anything at all!
But all these stupid tedious comments or people replying with a completely unrelated BB comment are starting to really get on my nerves. (And I've only been posting for the last few days (recently) )
Thanks Marie.

I totally do get what you're saying. :tongue:

[Lewis.]

Originally posted by Zee
Originally posted by Lewiis.Xx
Originally posted by Zee
Originally posted by Ross
On here don't get enough credit for what they post.

I've seen alot of members lately, post valuable points about the subject in hand and they get totally blanked out by other users who either started the thread/has something bad to say about the point originally made.

Seriously, this isn't me having or go or to start another arguement or whatever and I'm not saying you should reply to everyones posts but I mean, some of yeh (maybe I could included in this) need to step back and stop quoting the same people over and over again and actually read what some members have to say. They are generally on topic and are amazing posts that you can read, wether you disagree or agree or agree to disagree. They float about on here, causing no drama and don't even get recognized.

S'all I gotta say.
Happy posting everyone.



pinkmichk, Sticks, GhettoSuperstar, rayheartbliss and Corkie, taking a few examples, are people who frequently post and rarely get credit for it. I'd also like to take the time to ask people, what is the point in picking on the likes of Conzors, Firewire and Lewis all the time? Seriously, it's the Internet - don't take it so seriously. I'm willing to bet most of the people who I see treating those three like c**p wouldn't be like that in real life, I doubt anybody is that cold hearted that they can slate someone so easily to their face, so why should you do it over the Internet? Particularly when you consider how (relatively) young Firewire and Lewis are, it's despicable.

Aww Thanks Zee! i know that sometimes i come up with Crazy ideas that are really rubbish... But i am learning, i have only been here 5 months! To be fair, i think that i can be a good poster sometimes?


That post makes me incredibly angry (not at you, Lewis :P) because you're putting yourself down for being creative. I don't think it's fair that people tell you that you're annoying for coming up with ideas, and it's even worse that you're agreeing with them! You're a good poster, you've stuck around for 5 months and you've already contributed a lot, and hey, everybody knows who you are :tongue: so you've got to be doing something right!


And thank you Angie, I get quite riled up when I see wrong being done :hugesmile:.

You see, i get Joy in running thinngs and being in charge of things. Which is why i am always looking for ideas to do, But some people just put them down. I have noticed though that my childish posting has gone an i pos a lot more mayurelly as a member

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by SiaSiaSia
I find it really annoying to traipse through millions of quotes to get to the point of a thread sometimes...

LOL, now that can be frustrating thanks for reminding me Sia, but please don't quote me :joker::kiss:

[Jen]

*Stops posting forever*

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by gregalz123
Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by ninostar
Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by KKBL
i think i know what 'ya mean.i hate it when someone's making their point and then somone quote's them and says nothing but "ILY" when practically every other member in the thread is making the same point,its so pointless.

LOL that post reeks of Jen

Lmao. It does but i love it when she does that x

Haha same! Jen's love. :lovedup:

lol jen always seems to make an argument funny by writing something sexual or ily on it and I think thats brilliant

Yes, yes! :lovedup:

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
*Stops posting forever*

D:

[Scarlett.]

Originally posted by SiaSiaSia
I find it really annoying to traipse through millions of quotes to get to the point of a thread sometimes... I have to admit that I do that sometimes

[Jen]

Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by JDIZZEL
*Stops posting forever*

D:

This whole thread is me...

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
*Stops posting forever*

* stops eating forever *

[ThisIsMarie]

Originally posted by Ross
Originally posted by ThisIsMarie
I think Ross has made a really good point.


I don't think it's so much recognising and praising the person that needs to happen. More just making sure to remember what the forum is really about, BB and not getting too carried away with unrelated or private jokes. Or rather just make sure you do actually respond to the thread question as well as the other stuff.

It's not like it's getting really bad or anything at all!
But all these stupid tedious comments or people replying with a completely unrelated BB comment are starting to really get on my nerves. (And I've only been posting for the last few days (recently) )
Thanks Marie.

I totally do get what you're saying. :tongue: :thumbs:

[KKBL]

Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by KKBL
i think i know what 'ya mean.i hate it when someone's making their point and then somone quote's them and says nothing but "ILY" when practically every other member in the thread is making the same point,its so pointless.

LOL that post reeks of Jen

LOL well it wasn't her i was talking about.

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
Originally posted by Markus
Originally posted by JDIZZEL
*Stops posting forever*

D:

This whole thread is me...

Don't feel threatened...it's all a preacher act.

[Tom]

People just like to read posts by those they know and those they don't really know they just kind of skip past. I mean its quite obvious in things like TiBB nominations where you're supposed to nominate on posts, but hardly anyone does. Thats quite obvious with the names that are said and the reasons. I include myself in all of that.

Just picking out an example I think one of the most overlooked people on here definitely has to be pinkmichk- great poster but doesn't really get involved with pointless chat, "friendships" etc but sometimes her posts with a really good point get lost in the middle of a thread of people who are just talking to eachother.

[lily.]

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
*Stops posting forever*

Don't be such a fecking drama llama.. haha..

Anyway, ye can't stop.. yer the second-in-command in Club Tommy!

[Jen]

Originally posted by Linda
Originally posted by JDIZZEL
*Stops posting forever*

Don't be such a fecking drama llama.. haha..

Anyway, ye can't stop.. yer the second-in-command in Club Tommy!

I can't post productively... I don't want a Jen-Backlash every time I make a joke.. LOL
I will post about Tommy because I love him.. :P

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by Tom
People just like to read posts by those they know and those they don't really know they just kind of skip past. I mean its quite obvious in things like TiBB nominations where you're supposed to nominate on posts, but hardly anyone does. Thats quite obvious with the names that are said and the reasons. I include myself in all of that.

Just picking out an example I think one of the most overlooked people on here definitely has to be pinkmichk- great poster but doesn't really get involved with pointless chat, "friendships" etc but sometimes her posts with a really good point get lost in the middle of a thread of people who are just talking to eachother.


So very true,
the other point to remember about "good" posts and oppinions is... its harder to add to them apart from quote the entire post they have written.
Posts which have no content such as this example are then often ridiculed or not allowed, which adds to the increasing pressure on the poster who wants to support such an oppinion.
More often than not Pink does leave such good value posts which I have come across and can only quote with a one line support.
What is good about this thread is at least now it has highlighted who is a good poster and what is a good post, and some reasons why there not always so obviously recognised.
Its always easier highlighting the bad posts:wink:

[Ross]

Originally posted by Angiebabe
Originally posted by Tom
People just like to read posts by those they know and those they don't really know they just kind of skip past. I mean its quite obvious in things like TiBB nominations where you're supposed to nominate on posts, but hardly anyone does. Thats quite obvious with the names that are said and the reasons. I include myself in all of that.

Just picking out an example I think one of the most overlooked people on here definitely has to be pinkmichk- great poster but doesn't really get involved with pointless chat, "friendships" etc but sometimes her posts with a really good point get lost in the middle of a thread of people who are just talking to eachother.


So very true,
the other point to remember about "good" posts and oppinions is... its harder to add to them apart from quote the entire post they have written.
Posts which have no content such as this example are then often ridiculed or not allowed, which adds to the increasing pressure on the poster who wants to support such an oppinion.
More often than not Pink does leave such good value posts which I have come across and can only quote with a one line support.
What is good about this thread is at least now it has highlighted who is a good poster and what is a good post, and some reasons why there not always so obviously recognised.
Its always easier highlighting the bad posts:wink:

Amen to that.

[lily.]

Originally posted by JDIZZEL
I can't post productively... I don't want a Jen-Backlash every time I make a joke.. LOL
I will post about Tommy because I love him.. :P

haha.. ye should adopt ma attitude n not give a **** what others think. lol

[AlexBigBrother]

some posters havnt got penises

[Bells]

I see what you're saying, but in fairness this kind of thing is almost characteristic of a forum.

You're likely to quote people you get on with, although it'd help if this kind of thing was generally kept to a select few threads rather than everywhere - where it's possible for newer/less active members to feel awkward about it. Having said that, in threads where there's lots of discussion, I'd hope that most members do read most of the post in order to take in all the views on board. And even if they don't, the main thing is that everyone feels comfortable enough to post their views and not worry about any other alternative discussions/debates that are going on. Sometimes it can be difficult breaking in to a long chain of quoting/debating, and I respect those who do it in order to get a thread back on track.

[Jen]

Originally posted by Linda
Originally posted by JDIZZEL
I can't post productively... I don't want a Jen-Backlash every time I make a joke.. LOL
I will post about Tommy because I love him.. :P

haha.. ye should adopt ma attitude n not give a **** what others think. lol

Its hard when threads like these are being made... no harm to Ross as I love him epically. Its just I think i need to re-think what I post, to be taken seriously on this forum.

[lily.]

I mess around a lot too.. I guess it's when you do it on a thread which has a debate goin, ppl get annoyed.. haha.. I do that too though.. so am not preaching to you about it..

[Ross]

Jen, this wasn't directed at you in any way.

I just mean the forum as a whole. I'm not stopping anyone from posting what they did before, I'm just saying people need to read the majority of everyones posts in a thread. Not just their friends.

[lily.]

But but but .. Ross... your posts distract me from all the others.. .. such is ma adoration of you..

[Damaris]

Ive noticed that,Also i hate when the younger members get picked on and beliddled(Is that the right word? lol).

Lewis made a good point the other day,it was about a game he was running everyone wa giving him stick he said if it was a popular member evryone would love the idea.Which i agreed with.

It seems people dont give members a chance therefore their posts get overlooked Such as RayHeartBliss hes a brilliant poster but never seems to get recognized.

Some members get satisfaction from ganging up on some members also which is pretty sad when we are on a Big Brother forum.

I hate when some members write like ILY or Fail or something its like :sleep: they probably didnt evan read the post.

:thumbs:

[AngRemembered]

Originally posted by mambosambo12


Lewis made a good point the other day,it was about a game he was running everyone wa giving him stick he said if it was a popular member evryone would love the idea.Which i agreed with.

It seems people dont give members a chance therefore their posts get overlooked Such as RayHeartBliss hes a brilliant poster but never seems to get recognized.


It was Billy in particular with Hannah who made that point yesterday to Lewis's game.
It was a point I noticed late but as it was sufficiently made by Billy I left my contribution out as I didnt want to "clutter" another thread, maybe I should of merely quoted him and risked a mini (if any) backlash from other members who dont like "non content" posts.

But your right Mambosambo and I also agree about Rayhaertbliss being a very able and good poster too.
Now they have been attributed aswell says a lot for this very good and timely thread.

[Billy]

Tbf, Rayheartbliss does sometimes just post "lol" "o_O" etc which gets frustrating.

[Damaris]

Originally posted by Billy
Tbf, Rayheartbliss does sometimes just post "lol" "o_O" etc which gets frustrating.


:laugh:

Hes still a great poster though

[SiaSiaSia]

Originally posted by Billy
Tbf, Rayheartbliss does sometimes just post "lol" "o_O" etc which gets frustrating.

He was the first person on my ignore list. :whistle:
It's like I said (one of the few times I left) this forum is very, very cliquey, and it kind of makes you feel left out if you aren't in this "special" clique.

[DamonJ]

I'm apprecting AyeAye_XO's view on Chavs, I think it's brilliant that she's fighting the stereotype today, I think she deserves credit for it. = )