The Tina and LaToya issue

[Callum]

I thought I had to say something, because it's been bugging me for a while now. I've heard on about three ocassions now that on last night's highlights show the way Tina spoke to LaToya was a "disgrace". I mean do people expect Tina to speak in a different manner to LaToya just because she's a Jackson? Just because she comes from a well known family doesn't mean people should treat her differently. Tina didn't treat LaToya like a member of the Royal family last night and she shouldn't have to either, she speaks to everyone like their equal. Rant over.

[Stu]

The fact that the word 'issue' even has to be used is worrying enough. If LaToya was not bothered by Tina, why the hell should we be bothered about it?

Some people on here curse everyday and yet they still used that riddiculous argument about having to talk a certain way to a certain person. You might call it having respect, I call it being as fake as ****.

Respect to me is being who you are, without exception.

[supernoodles!]

Theres already a thread about this why not just post in there.I probably worded my post incorrectly last night,I should have said it is ignorant to speak to anyone in the way Tina did last night,I`m sorry but I just think using a swear word as every other word is ,common,dumb and pretty ignorant.I do have respect for Tina in some ways ,becuase she does speak her mind and Im not saying that I never swear because I do but the way she does it is just vulgar and embarassing.Thats my opinion anyway.

[MrGaryy]

I agree, I see no issue to be resolved unless LaToya came across as if she had an issue with it, which she clearly did not.

[30stone]

I never said anything like that but i did comment on it.. as i didnt find it like sort of cringey to watch but didnt expect her to change the way she speaks...

[Stu]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Theres already a thread about this why not just post in there.I probably worded my post incorrectly last night,I should have said it is ignorant to speak to anyone in the way Tina did last night,I`m sorry but I just think using a swear word as every other word is ,common,dumb and pretty ignorant.I do have respect for Tina in some ways ,becuase she does speak her mind and Im not saying that I never swear because I do but the way she does it is just vulgar and embarassing.Thats my opinion anyway.
I think judging character and intelligence on how many swear words a person uses is common, dumb and pretty ignorant.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Theres already a thread about this why not just post in there.I probably worded my post incorrectly last night,I should have said it is ignorant to speak to anyone in the way Tina did last night,I`m sorry but I just think using a swear word as every other word is ,common,dumb and pretty ignorant.I do have respect for Tina in some ways ,becuase she does speak her mind and Im not saying that I never swear because I do but the way she does it is just vulgar and embarassing.Thats my opinion anyway.
I think judging character and intelligence on how many swear words a person uses is common, dumb and pretty ignorant.

Great

[Iceman]

It wasn't an issue until someone decided to rant about it, i thought it was a perfectly fine conversation to be honest.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by RiotVan
It wasn't an issue until someone decided to rant about it, i thought it was a perfectly fine conversation to be honest.


ha 'rant' -I made a thread about it,its a forum:spin:


People have turned it into an issue and it certainly wasn`t me

[Iceman]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by RiotVan
It wasn't an issue until someone decided to rant about it, i thought it was a perfectly fine conversation to be honest.


ha 'rant' -I made a thread about it,its a forum:spin:


People have turned it into an issue and it certainly wasn`t me

Sorry i wasn't reffering about you, if you look around you'll find one that's definately a 'rant':laugh::laugh:

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by RiotVan
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by RiotVan
It wasn't an issue until someone decided to rant about it, i thought it was a perfectly fine conversation to be honest.


ha 'rant' -I made a thread about it,its a forum:spin:


People have turned it into an issue and it certainly wasn`t me

Sorry i wasn't reffering about you, if you look around you'll find one that's definately a 'rant':laugh::laugh:


Yeah I see it alright,sorry :bigsmile:

[pinkmichk]

grrr damn error got to retype my reply now :rolleyes:

there is no issue and i dont get why everybody is making it into something its not
if there was a issue latoya wouldnt have stayed talking she could have moved away, spoke to someone else, said something to tina about it, gone diary room etc but she didnt
yes tina swears is loud and says what she thinks but hy she have to change just cos some viewers of a program dont approve its who she is and like i said latoya clearly didnt have any issue

[Iceman]

Originally posted by pinkmichk
grrr damn error got to retype my reply now :rolleyes:

there is no issue and i dont get why everybody is making it into something its not
if there was a issue latoya wouldnt have stayed talking she could have moved away, spoke to someone else, said something to tina about it, gone diary room etc but she didnt
yes tina swears is loud and says what she thinks but hy she have to change just cos some viewers of a program dont approve its who she is and like i said latoya clearly didnt have any issue

Thank God people agree:thumbs:

[supernoodles!]

Why is everyone using the fact that La Toya diddn`t have an issue with the way she was spoken to as a response?
I never said she was offended by it,I said that I felt it was cringeworthy as I feel its un necessery to use a swear word as every other word you say.Especially when you are talking to someone you have just met.

[Wildcat!]

Whattever. It was cringeworthy the way she was speaing. It was embarassing. I felt embarassed for her. NOt only about that, but also, when she decided to spill her guts to Tina about her abussive marriage, that woman again acted like an idiot, turning the conversation to her. She said something like well mine was worst. I mean, where does she come from for gods sake? She is like a cave woman. ANd Supernoodles, there was nothing worng with your thread. You simply stated that the conversation made you cringe. Its like when you have an embarassing family member, and they are talking to one of your friends, or something, you cringe as well.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Why is everyone using the fact that La Toya diddn`t have an issue with the way she was spoken to as a response?
I never said she was offended by it,I said that I felt it was cringeworthy as I feel its un necessery to use a swear word as every other word you say.Especially when you are talking to someone you have just met.

She wasnt offended, as there was nothing to be offended by, but she was uncomfortable. Its that simple. When youre not used to swear words, and someone like that talk to you, you are uncomfortable.
Its just having common sense, to adapt the way you speak sometimes. I do it in the real depepnding on the situation.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
she was uncomfortable. Its that simple.
Have you confirmed that with LaToya herself? I would imagine given the nature of what she was discussing with Tina, she was quiet comftorable with her. I know if I was uncomftorable I would not be talking about abuse.

Because nothing is more cringeworthy and ignorant than making poor assumptions on behalf of other people.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
she was uncomfortable. Its that simple.
have you confirmed that with LaToya herself? Because nothing is more cringeworthy and ignorant than making poor assumptions on behalf of other people.

I think you dont have to be a genious to figure out when someone is uncomfortable. Have you spoken and confirmed it to with LAtoya, yeah, very clever. Anyone with enough observational skills can tell when people are uncomortable. Thats why some people in life are able to assess these things (emotional intelligence), and some who are just airheads, like Tina, cant tell. I am guessing you usually have to ask people to figure that out, like "excuse me, who is uncomfortable right now". Good for you, better safe than sorry.

[FaLaLaLand]

I didn't see anything wrong with how Tina was talking to her. If La Toya was so bothered about it, I'm sure she'd have enough back-bone to say so, or perhaps not stay talking to her for over an hour?

Yeah.

[JOSHUAH!]

To make a big deal out of it is a big silly.

Yes, Tina did swear quite a bit, but then again why should she change for LaToya, I'm sure LaToya has swore herself and knows many people who swear just as bad. If LaToya didn't like Tina she wouldn't continue to speak to her, but she has.

Tina is just herself and yes, she's loud and she swears. I don't think she should change her speech just because shes speaking to LaToya. If it was the Queen then fair enough! :tongue:

[supernoodles!]

I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.You brought up a good point when you mentioned how when La Toya was speaking of her abusive marriage Tina changed the subject totally back round to her,and La Toya was left just nodding her head in agreement.The woman couldn`t get a word in edgeways

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
she was uncomfortable. Its that simple.
have you confirmed that with LaToya herself? Because nothing is more cringeworthy and ignorant than making poor assumptions on behalf of other people.

I think you dont have to be a genious to figure out when someone is uncomfortable. Have you spoken and confirmed it to with LAtoya, yeah, very clever. Anyone with enough observational skills tell when people are uncomortable. Thats why some people in life are able to assess these things (emotional intelligence), and some who are just airheads, like Tina, cant tell. I am guessing you werent able to see that then.
What a loose argument. Your basing something you claim as fact off your own observational skills? Also, brush up on your spelling before you bring patronisation into the game.

Besides which, like I already said, if she was uncomftorable in the convorsation why on earth would she be in it, let alone talk on about her husband?

In FACT, correct me if im wrong here, Tina and LaToya actualy seem to be getting along very well thus far. I have heard both of them say one another is very nice and engaging on live feed countless times.

Are you going to go against the housemate themselves opinions with your own unique brand of observation and emotional assesment?

[Stu]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.
Have you ever met her, let alone held a convorsation with her? If not, I think you should reserve such harsh judgement. People might think your vulgar, stupid and inconsiderate.

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.

What a ridiculously harsh opinion to have on someone you have never even met before. How can you possibly have made your mind up on someone based on one conversation.:rolleyes:

[letmein]

Who are the people saying this? I haven't heard a word.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
What a loose argument. Your basing something you claim as fact off your own observational skills? Also, brush up on your spelling before you bring patronisation into the game.

Besides which, like I already said, if she was uncomftorable in the convorsation why on earth would she be in it, let alone talk on about her husband?

In FACT, correct me if Im wrong here, Tina and LaToya actualy seem to be getting along very well thus far. I have heard both of them say one another is very nice and engaging on live feed countless times.

Are you going to go against the housemate themselves opinions with your own unique brand of observation and emotional assesment? [/quote]

There is nothing loose about that argument whatsoever YEs if you have to ask people to figure that they are uncomfortable or not, it means you have very low emotional intelligence. 99% of the time, I dont have to. MOst people that I know can read it. SOrry if you cant, thats your issue.
ANd as for Latoya, she only told her, because she felt she had someone who went through the same thing, that will maybe listen, and like I said before, that self centered potty mouth, couldnt even listen for a secon without turning it to herself, and basically telling her Boo HOo, I have had worst.
I would be embarassed to be related to her.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by supernoodles!
I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.

What a ridiculously harsh opinion to have on someone you have never even met before. How can you possibly have made your mind up on someone based on one conversation.:rolleyes:

ermmm, one conversation? I think she has been in front of the camera long enough, without pulling any punches to figure out, that she is crude. Is that not the one who was showing off her shagg hair (vulgar) ? Talking about I just got smashed! I think there is enough to go with already. The one who turned the conversation about Janets abussive husband to herself (inconsiderate), and the one who cant tell when someone is uncomfortable with a conversation(stupid).

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
What a loose argument. Your basing something you claim as fact off your own observational skills? Also, brush up on your spelling before you bring patronisation into the game.

Besides which, like I already said, if she was uncomftorable in the convorsation why on earth would she be in it, let alone talk on about her husband?

In FACT, correct me if Im wrong here, Tina and LaToya actualy seem to be getting along very well thus far. I have heard both of them say one another is very nice and engaging on live feed countless times.

Are you going to go against the housemate themselves opinions with your own unique brand of observation and emotional assesment?

There is nothing loose about that argument whatsoever YEs if you have to ask people to figure that they are uncomfortable or not, it means you have very low emotional intelligence. 99% of the time, I dont have to. MOst people that I know can read it. SOrry if you cant, thats your issue.
ANd as for Latoya, she only told her, because she felt she had someone who went through the same thing, that will maybe listen, and like I said before, that self centered potty mouth, couldnt even listen for a secon without turning it to herself, and basically telling her Boo HOo, I have had worst.
I would be embarassed to be related to her. [/quote]
Of course their is something loose about your argument. Can you not see that you are passing something off as fact [LaToya being uncomftorable] based on YOUR OWN opinion?

From what I saw, Tina butted in as she does [crime of the century] and actualy re-assured LaToya, telling her she has been through much of the same treatment. This actualy served to benefit LaToya as she then felt more comftorable talking about it to Tina.

And again, like I said, Tina and LaToya actualy seem to be getting along very well thus far. I have heard both of them say one another is very nice and engaging on live feed countless times.

Are you going to go against the housemate themselves opinions with your own unique brand of observation and emotional assesment?

[That was a copy and paste by the way. I dont normaly like doing that, but im going to have to make a special exception in your case].

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
What a loose argument. Your basing something you claim as fact off your own observational skills? Also, brush up on your spelling before you bring patronisation into the game.

Besides which, like I already said, if she was uncomftorable in the convorsation why on earth would she be in it, let alone talk on about her husband?

In FACT, correct me if Im wrong here, Tina and LaToya actualy seem to be getting along very well thus far. I have heard both of them say one another is very nice and engaging on live feed countless times.

Are you going to go against the housemate themselves opinions with your own unique brand of observation and emotional assesment?

There is nothing loose about that argument whatsoever YEs if you have to ask people to figure that they are uncomfortable or not, it means you have very low emotional intelligence. 99% of the time, I dont have to. MOst people that I know can read it. SOrry if you cant, thats your issue.
ANd as for Latoya, she only told her, because she felt she had someone who went through the same thing, that will maybe listen, and like I said before, that self centered potty mouth, couldnt even listen for a secon without turning it to herself, and basically telling her Boo HOo, I have had worst.
I would be embarassed to be related to her.
Of course their is something loose about your argument. Can you not see that you are passing something off as fact [LaToya being uncomftorable] based on YOUR OWN opinion?

From what I saw, Tina butted in as she does [crime of the century] and actualy re-assured LaToya, telling her she has been through much of the same treatment. This actualy served to benefit LaToya as she then felt more comftorable talking about it to Tina.

And again, like I said, Tina and LaToya actualy seem to be getting along very well thus far. I have heard both of them say one another is very nice and engaging on live feed countless times.

Are you going to go against the housemate themselves opinions with your own unique brand of observation and emotional assesment?

[That was a copy and paste by the way. I dont normaly like doing that, but Im going to have to make a special exception in your case]. [/quote]

Like I said, some people, just cant figure those things out, so I cant help you. She was uncomfortable. Again, sorry if you dont have those people's skills. Its not a huge thing to be able to notice that.

And no she didnt butt in. LAtoya likes to speak to people one on one, and she was addressing Tina only, with no one else hearing. And she flipped it and made it about herself. She is an inconsiderate dumbass as far as I am concerned.

ANd if you think its unique to be able to read such a simple emotion as being uncomfortable, well, I'd hate to be around you and your friends.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha

Like I said, some people, just cant figure those things out, so I cant help you. She was uncomfortable. Again, sorry if you dont have those people's skills. Its not a huge thing to be able to notice that.

And no she didnt butt in. LAtoya usually speak to people one on one, and she was addressing Tina only with no one else hearing. And she flipped it and made it about herself. She is an inconsiderate dumbass as far as I am concerned.

ANd if you think its unique to be able to read such a simple emotion as being uncmfortable, well, I'd hate to be around you and your friends.
Loose argument. No matter what you say, your observational skills and people skills dont serve to make what you believe a fact. Truth be told, the only person who really knows if LaToya was uncomftorable is LaToya. Im simply guessing she was perfectly comftorable. You on the other hand are making assumptions on her behalf. You dont know for a fact she was uncomftorable. Fact.

Also, your not serving yourself well by concocting these ridiculous theorys about me not having people skills. I find it rude, inconsiderate and nasty. I guess, then, that makes you a hypocrite.

Have fun.

[jonsep]

wernt they both just trying to empathise with eachother irrespective of what language was used?

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by supernoodles!
I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.

What a ridiculously harsh opinion to have on someone you have never even met before. How can you possibly have made your mind up on someone based on one conversation.:rolleyes:

ermmm, one conversation? I think she has been in front of the camera long enough, without pulling any punches to figure out, that she is crude. Is that not the one who was showing off her shagg hair (vulgar) ? Talking about I just got smashed! I think there is enough to go with already. The one who turned the conversation about Janets abussive husband to herself (inconsiderate), and the one who cant tell when someone is uncomfortable with a conversation(stupid).

LMAO what a ridiculous argument:

1.The shag hair was nothing more then a pun, to laugh at how messed up her hair was, if that's what you consider crude you need to enter the real world.

2.Of course she gave her input into the conversation with LATOYA. A conversation usually refers to two people talking. It;s human nature to want to relate with others.

3.I think whether or not LaToya was uncomfortable is a matter of opinion. I personally didn't see any signs of discomfort on her part and how do you know that Tina didn't realise LaToya was uncomfortable but didn't want to make things awkward or make it seem like she was treating LaToya any differently.

[Stu]

Originally posted by jonsep
wernt they both just trying to empathise with eachother irrespective of what language was used?
Exactly. You summed paragraphs worth of arguments up with your one post :thumbs:.

[Wildcat!]

Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by supernoodles!
I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.

What a ridiculously harsh opinion to have on someone you have never even met before. How can you possibly have made your mind up on someone based on one conversation.:rolleyes:

ermmm, one conversation? I think she has been in front of the camera long enough, without pulling any punches to figure out, that she is crude. Is that not the one who was showing off her shagg hair (vulgar) ? Talking about I just got smashed! I think there is enough to go with already. The one who turned the conversation about Janets abussive husband to herself (inconsiderate), and the one who cant tell when someone is uncomfortable with a conversation(stupid).

LMAO what a ridiculous argument:

1.The s**g hair was nothing more then a pun, to laugh at how messed up her hair was, if that's what you consider crude you need to enter the real world.

2.Of course she gave her input into the conversation with LATOYA. A conversation usually refers to two people talking. It;s human nature to want to relate with others.

3.I think whether or not LaToya was uncomfortable is a matter of opinion. I personally didn't see any signs of discomfort on her part and how do you know that Tina didn't realise LaToya was uncomfortable but didn't want to make things awkward or make it seem like she was treating LaToya any differently.

So this is how you discuss topics, just call whatever you dont argue wth ridiculous.
You said that she judged her based on one conversation. Well I showed you 3 different instances that illustrates the adjectives that she used. I dont think there is anything more, in response to that argument.
And if the way she talks is the real world for you, enjoy your world, I will enjoy mine thanks.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far.
You have avoided half my argument again. In particular, the part where you insulted me and transformed yourself into a hypocrite. Special.

Yes or no question : Do you know for a fact LaToya was uncomftorable and have you asked LaToya?

I rest my case. And please dont repeat yourself with these bollocks arguments which are little more than your own sugar coated, self pleasuring opinions on the subject.

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far.

Clearly most people take from that, that she was not uncomfortable, otherwise you would have an army of supporters backing you up, but you don't, most people like myself, saw nothing wrong what so ever.

Crude perhaps and maybe even vulgar depending on your preference, but you have no proof to call her dumb. Your argument only shows that she maybe a little socially unintelligent or unobservational but shows nothing to say she is a unintelligent person.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far.
You have avoided half my argument again. In particular, the part where you insulted me and transformed yourself into a hypocrite. Special.

Yes or no question : Do you know for a fact LaToya was uncomftorable and have you asked LaToya?

I rest my case. And please dont repeat yourself with these ******** arguments which are little more than your own sugar coated, self pleasuring opinions on the subject.

I rest my case, just proves my point. This is not a courtroom. Its public opinion. If we were in litigations, and you were defending her, I am sure she would win. But in this case, you just appear to not understand the whole point of BB.

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by supernoodles!
I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.

What a ridiculously harsh opinion to have on someone you have never even met before. How can you possibly have made your mind up on someone based on one conversation.:rolleyes:

ermmm, one conversation? I think she has been in front of the camera long enough, without pulling any punches to figure out, that she is crude. Is that not the one who was showing off her shagg hair (vulgar) ? Talking about I just got smashed! I think there is enough to go with already. The one who turned the conversation about Janets abussive husband to herself (inconsiderate), and the one who cant tell when someone is uncomfortable with a conversation(stupid).

LMAO what a ridiculous argument:

1.The s**g hair was nothing more then a pun, to laugh at how messed up her hair was, if that's what you consider crude you need to enter the real world.

2.Of course she gave her input into the conversation with LATOYA. A conversation usually refers to two people talking. It;s human nature to want to relate with others.

3.I think whether or not LaToya was uncomfortable is a matter of opinion. I personally didn't see any signs of discomfort on her part and how do you know that Tina didn't realise LaToya was uncomfortable but didn't want to make things awkward or make it seem like she was treating LaToya any differently.

So this is how you discuss topics, just call whatever you dont argue wth ridiculous.
You said that she judged her based on one conversation. Well I showed you 3 different instances that illustrates the adjectives that she used. I dont think there is anything more, in response to that argument.
And if the way she talks is the real world for you, enjoy your world, I will enjoy mine thanks.

The points you provided were nothing short of ridiculous, talk about scraping the barrel.

[30stone]

She didnt speak well it was a bit cringe to watch due to her swearing every 3 words but thats it.

[jonsep]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far. If your saying you could tell by her body language she looked uncomfoetable then i fear you may be wrong.
to be able to read a persons body language,which by the way isnt an exact science you have to get the persons normal baseline,ie,how they act when thier not uncomfortable then judge thier reations from that.
now given we dont know what her normal behaviour is like we cant for sure say she was uncomfortable.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Its public opinion.
Exactly. Therefore you do not know for a fact if LaToya was offended, because it was only your opinion. Back to square one. You are essentialy now agreeing with me. You have just made the point I was making to you all along. Case closed.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by supernoodles!
I totally agree AMA I am glad someone has the decency to see that that woman is just vulgar,stupid and inconsiderate.

What a ridiculously harsh opinion to have on someone you have never even met before. How can you possibly have made your mind up on someone based on one conversation.:rolleyes:

ermmm, one conversation? I think she has been in front of the camera long enough, without pulling any punches to figure out, that she is crude. Is that not the one who was showing off her shagg hair (vulgar) ? Talking about I just got smashed! I think there is enough to go with already. The one who turned the conversation about Janets abussive husband to herself (inconsiderate), and the one who cant tell when someone is uncomfortable with a conversation(stupid).

LMAO what a ridiculous argument:

1.The s**g hair was nothing more then a pun, to laugh at how messed up her hair was, if that's what you consider crude you need to enter the real world.

2.Of course she gave her input into the conversation with LATOYA. A conversation usually refers to two people talking. It;s human nature to want to relate with others.

3.I think whether or not LaToya was uncomfortable is a matter of opinion. I personally didn't see any signs of discomfort on her part and how do you know that Tina didn't realise LaToya was uncomfortable but didn't want to make things awkward or make it seem like she was treating LaToya any differently.

So this is how you discuss topics, just call whatever you dont argue wth ridiculous.
You said that she judged her based on one conversation. Well I showed you 3 different instances that illustrates the adjectives that she used. I dont think there is anything more, in response to that argument.
And if the way she talks is the real world for you, enjoy your world, I will enjoy mine thanks.

The points you provided were nothing short of ridiculous, talk about scraping the barrel.

Obviously it seem it is your only way. Oh well.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Its public opinion.
Exactly. Therefore you do not know for a fact if LaToya was offended, because it was only your opinion. Back to square one. You are essentialy now agreeing with me. Case closed.

Well you don`t know she wasn`t

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far.

Clearly most people take from that, that she was not uncomfortable, otherwise you would have an army of supporters backing you up, but you don't, most people like myself, saw nothing wrong what so ever.

Crude perhaps and maybe even vulgar depending on your preference, but you have no proof to call her dumb. Your argument only shows that she maybe a little socially unintelligent or unobservational but shows nothing to say she is a unintelligent person.

Clearly most people on here are less than 15, and I dont think they even care. But here you go.

http://digitalspy.com/forums/showthread.php?t=965390

[Stu]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Its public opinion.
Exactly. Therefore you do not know for a fact if LaToya was offended, because it was only your opinion. Back to square one. You are essentialy now agreeing with me. Case closed.

Well you don`t know she wasn`t
Right. But im guessing she was not, because she did not seem to suggest any different. That is what my opinion is based on.

[Iceman]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Its public opinion.
Exactly. Therefore you do not know for a fact if LaToya was offended, because it was only your opinion. Back to square one. You are essentialy now agreeing with me. Case closed.

Well you don`t know she wasn`t

Nobody knows wether she was or wasn't so i think this arguement is just pointless now.

[jonsep]

Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far. If your saying you could tell by her body language she looked uncomfoetable then i fear you may be wrong.
to be able to read a persons body language,which by the way isnt an exact science you have to get the persons normal baseline,ie,how they act when thier not uncomfortable then judge thier reations from that.
now given we dont know what her normal behaviour is like we cant for sure say she was uncomfortable.?

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Gazbo
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far.

Clearly most people take from that, that she was not uncomfortable, otherwise you would have an army of supporters backing you up, but you don't, most people like myself, saw nothing wrong what so ever.

Crude perhaps and maybe even vulgar depending on your preference, but you have no proof to call her dumb. Your argument only shows that she maybe a little socially unintelligent or unobservational but shows nothing to say she is a unintelligent person.

Clearly most people on here are less than 15, and I dont think they even care. But here you go.

http://digitalspy.com/forums/showthread.php?t=965390

Thats the opinion of 40 odd people against millions of others that saw no problem.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Its public opinion.
Exactly. Therefore you do not know for a fact if LaToya was offended, because it was only your opinion. Back to square one. You are essentialy now agreeing with me. You have just made the point I was making to you all along. Case closed.

Sorry, it doesnt work like that! Again, this is not a courtroom. Back to square one for you obviously,, since youre one of those who actually have to ask people to see when they are uncomfortable. Maybe Davina will ask her in her interview, that will be your answer then. I already have mine.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far. If your saying you could tell by her body language she looked uncomfoetable then i fear you may be wrong.
to be able to read a persons body language,which by the way isnt an exact science you have to get the persons normal baseline,ie,how they act when thier not uncomfortable then judge thier reations from that.
now given we dont know what her normal behaviour is like we cant for sure say she was uncomfortable.?

I have seen Latoya in other instances, and I have seen her on ther reality shows. Plus it was mainly on her face, for me, not necessarily her body. It was quite obvious to be honest.

[Iceman]

AMA if you have your answer then why try and change our minds:conf2: this whole thing just seems to be pointless to me now

[MarkWaldorf]

What actually happened? I missed last night's show, and quite frankly I cba trailing through 2 pages of people quoting each other lol.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Its public opinion.
Exactly. Therefore you do not know for a fact if LaToya was offended, because it was only your opinion. Back to square one. You are essentialy now agreeing with me. You have just made the point I was making to you all along. Case closed.

Sorry, it doesnt work like that! Again, this is not a courtroom. Back to square one for you obviously,, since youre one of those who actually have to ask people to see when they are uncomfortable. Maybe Davina will ask her in her interview, that will be your answer then. I already have mine.
Yours, but not LaToya's. Now give up your non existent arguments. At this stage your going in circles. Drop the courtroom comparisons. You do not know for a fact LaToya was feeling uncomftorable. Your right however, Davina will clear it up in the interview. Although I doubt even Davina gives a **** about something so irrelevant and miniscule. You have YOUR answer.

I hope I am not the only one who finds irony in the fact that Darnell was Aint_mad_atcha's favourite Big Brother 9 housemate. Now I like Darnell a lot, but nontheless, it does not change the fact that he cursed like a drunk sailor, got agressive easy, and had a tendancy to barge into rooms screaming at women.

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Latoya , and imo people who do well around groups, because they can actually read such a simple emotion. HOw many times have you heard people say, oh he loooked so uncomfortable? YOu are only denying it, as a you dont have any proof argument. Its not a courtroom. ON BB you observe and you decide. I dont need to ask people if they are uncomfortable, if you do, I repeat, oh well, life aint fair. I can easily tell she was, I am sure most people can as well, and its not the only reason why I thing that woman is vilgar, crude, dumb and she is the only housemate I cant stand so far. If your saying you could tell by her body language she looked uncomfoetable then i fear you may be wrong.
to be able to read a persons body language,which by the way isnt an exact science you have to get the persons normal baseline,ie,how they act when thier not uncomfortable then judge thier reations from that.
now given we dont know what her normal behaviour is like we cant for sure say she was uncomfortable.?

I have seen Latoya in other instances, and I have seen her on ther reality shows. Plus it was mainly on her face, for me, not necessarily her body. It was quite obvious to be honest.

She's only appeared on one other show.

[Iceman]

Latoya was talkin about her abusive marriage, Tina butted in a few times(talked over her) and said she was in a similar situation(swore a lot) and some people think Latoya was uncomfortable some don't.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Gazbo
She's only appeared on one other show.
And I doubt she has the most reliable face for reading, if you catch my drift :wink:.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by RiotVan
AMA if you have your answer then why try and change our minds:conf2: this whole thing just seems to be pointless to me now

Change your mind????? LOL!!! YOure joking right? If I, a stranger, have the ability to change your mind then youve got some problems. NO I am giving my opinions, same as everyine else in here. It would real fun on here indeed, if we all agreed on everything, and were able to chage minds when we dont.

[Iceman]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by RiotVan
AMA if you have your answer then why try and change our minds:conf2: this whole thing just seems to be pointless to me now

Change your mind????? LOL!!! YOure joking right? If I, a stranger, have the ability to change your mind then youve got some problems. NO I am giving my opinions, same as everyine else in here. It would real fun on here indeed, if we all agreed on everything, and were able to chage minds when we dont.

Read my post again, i never said you did change my mind i'm just saying your keeping this going around in circles obviously for some reason.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Its public opinion.
Exactly. Therefore you do not know for a fact if LaToya was offended, because it was only your opinion. Back to square one. You are essentialy now agreeing with me. You have just made the point I was making to you all along. Case closed.

Sorry, it doesnt work like that! Again, this is not a courtroom. Back to square one for you obviously,, since youre one of those who actually have to ask people to see when they are uncomfortable. Maybe Davina will ask her in her interview, that will be your answer then. I already have mine.
Yours, but not LaToya's. Now give up your non existent arguments. At this stage your going in circles. Drop the courtroom comparisons. You do not know for a fact LaToya was feeling uncomftorable. Your right however, Davina will clear it up in the interview. Although I doubt even Davina gives a **** about something so irrelevant and miniscule. You have YOUR answer.

I hope I am not the only one who finds irony in the fact that Darnell was Aint_mad_atcha's favourite Big Brother 9 housemate. Now I like Darnell a lot, but nontheless, it does not change the fact that he cursed like a drunk sailor, got agressive easy, and had a tendancy to barge into rooms screaming at women.

You can say anything you want about Darnell, I dont care.
Anyways, for someone who said case closed twice, its funny how its not. Again, that woman Tina is very crude, she doesnt know how to talk to people. She is very self centered, this is just the beginning, apparently she has done more things today, that I cant comment on untl I watch them, and back to the LAtoya issue, yes she was extremely uncomfortable, and it went right over the head of the gobby one.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by RiotVan
Latoya was talkin about her abusive marriage, Tina butted in a few times(talked over her) and said she was in a similar situation(swore a lot) and some people think Latoya was uncomfortable some don't.

Ah there you go, and I might add, some people also thing that woman is very cringeworthy

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha

You can say anything you want about Darnell, I dont care.
Anyways, for someone who said case closed twice, its funny how its not. Again, that woman Tina is very crude, she doesnt know how to talk to people. She is very self centered, this is just the beginning, apparently she has done more things today, that I cant comment on untl I watch them, and back to the LAtoya issue, yes she was extremely uncomfortable, and it went right over the head of the gobby one.
So your going to refuse to respond to the Darnell situation? That you liked a Big Brother 9 housemate who could be just as crude as Tina?

Again, I dont think she was uncomftorable. You do, that is your opinion. Not fact. Now give it a rest will you, your going in circles. I like both Tina and LaToya and think both get on well.

[Iceman]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by RiotVan
Latoya was talkin about her abusive marriage, Tina butted in a few times(talked over her) and said she was in a similar situation(swore a lot) and some people think Latoya was uncomfortable some don't.

Ah there you go, and I might add, some people also thing that woman is very cringeworthy

Yes but cringeworthy is an opinion, i just stated FACTS that were shown last night in an brief summary.

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha

You can say anything you want about Darnell, I dont care.
Anyways, for someone who said case closed twice, its funny how its not. Again, that woman Tina is very crude, she doesnt know how to talk to people. She is very self centered, this is just the beginning, apparently she has done more things today, that I cant comment on untl I watch them, and back to the LAtoya issue, yes she was extremely uncomfortable, and it went right over the head of the gobby one.
So your going to refuse to respond to the Darnell situation? That you liked a Big Brother 9 housemate who could be just as crude as Tina?

Again, I dont think she was uncomftorable. You do, that is your opinion. Not fact. Now give it a rest will you, your going in circles. I like both Tina and LaToya and think both get on well.

Are we in the BB9 forum? Is it the summer? I have spent 3 months defending Darnell, I dont really want to relive the past buddy.

The only one going in circles is you and your case closed arguments. She was uncomfortable, you like both of them fine, I dont care, I like Latoya, however, I cant stand the other one. I am glad I am not related to her.

And back on topic, its very easy to tell when people are uncomfortable in situatons, if you have to ask, your people's skills are very limited.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha

You can say anything you want about Darnell, I dont care.
Anyways, for someone who said case closed twice, its funny how its not. Again, that woman Tina is very crude, she doesnt know how to talk to people. She is very self centered, this is just the beginning, apparently she has done more things today, that I cant comment on untl I watch them, and back to the LAtoya issue, yes she was extremely uncomfortable, and it went right over the head of the gobby one.
So your going to refuse to respond to the Darnell situation? That you liked a Big Brother 9 housemate who could be just as crude as Tina?

Again, I dont think she was uncomftorable. You do, that is your opinion. Not fact. Now give it a rest will you, your going in circles. I like both Tina and LaToya and think both get on well.

why are you telling ama to give it a rest?if you want him to give it a rest why don`t you just stop responding to his posts.Also why bring a hm from another bb into it, thats got nothing to do with it,there both totally different characters but just for the record I don`t think Darnel was crude,stupid and mememememe as Tina has shown herself to be.

[Fom]

Dont people realise thats how northerners speak? With a swear word every 3 words.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha

You can say anything you want about Darnell, I dont care.
Anyways, for someone who said case closed twice, its funny how its not. Again, that woman Tina is very crude, she doesnt know how to talk to people. She is very self centered, this is just the beginning, apparently she has done more things today, that I cant comment on untl I watch them, and back to the LAtoya issue, yes she was extremely uncomfortable, and it went right over the head of the gobby one.
So your going to refuse to respond to the Darnell situation? That you liked a Big Brother 9 housemate who could be just as crude as Tina?

Again, I dont think she was uncomftorable. You do, that is your opinion. Not fact. Now give it a rest will you, your going in circles. I like both Tina and LaToya and think both get on well.

Are we in the BB9 forum? Is it the summer? I have spent 3 months defending Darnell, I dont really want to relive the past buddy.

The only one going in circles is you and your case closed arguments. She was uncomfortable, you like both of them fine, I dont care, I like Latoya, however, I cant stand the other one. I am glad I am not related to her.

And back on topic, its very easy to tell when people are uncomfortable in situatons, if you have to ask, your people's skills are very limited.
I dont think she was uncomftorable, also, my people skills are not limited. As far as im concerned that is case closed, as I have my opinions and you have yours, and neither of us are changing them. I like Tina and I think LaToya was fine in her prescence.

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Fom
Dont people realise thats how northerners speak? With a swear word every 3 words.

are you joking?
they certainly do not.

[jonsep]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Fom
Dont people realise thats how northerners speak? With a swear word every 3 words.

are you joking?
they certainly do not. I certainly dont:shocked:

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Fom
Dont people realise thats how northerners speak? With a swear word every 3 words.

are you joking?
they certainly do not. I certainly dont:shocked:

me niether and I`m more northern than Tina

[Stu]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha

You can say anything you want about Darnell, I dont care.
Anyways, for someone who said case closed twice, its funny how its not. Again, that woman Tina is very crude, she doesnt know how to talk to people. She is very self centered, this is just the beginning, apparently she has done more things today, that I cant comment on untl I watch them, and back to the LAtoya issue, yes she was extremely uncomfortable, and it went right over the head of the gobby one.
So your going to refuse to respond to the Darnell situation? That you liked a Big Brother 9 housemate who could be just as crude as Tina?

Again, I dont think she was uncomftorable. You do, that is your opinion. Not fact. Now give it a rest will you, your going in circles. I like both Tina and LaToya and think both get on well.

why are you telling ama to give it a rest?if you want him to give it a rest why don`t you just stop responding to his posts.Also why bring a hm from another bb into it, thats got nothing to do with it,there both totally different characters but just for the record I don`t think Darnel was crude,stupid and mememememe as Tina has shown herself to be.
Why dont you respond to one of the arguments against you instead of a discussion im having with another member of the forum? I think the Darnell factor is an interesting comparison, nothing more. If you think him running into a room screaming ''what the ****, dude!'' at women is fine, and that Tina is still the only crude one, so be it. I think you have messed up, slightly hypocritical misconceptions about what being 'crude' is. And im telling him give it a rest because im tired of arguing but I still like to see them through to the end, as they bear fruits that could be of use at a later date. Obligation. Call it what you will.

[pinkmichk]

i think we have established some people find tina crude and vulgar where others dont as i said it how she is why should she change

and on the point of tina butting in actually she was empathising with latoya cos of having been in similar situation having been in a domestic violence relationship myself just knowing there is others who have been where you have is a huge comfort she wasnt butting in at all just merely showing some compassion

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
I dont think she was uncomftorable, also, my people skills are not limited. As far as Im concerned that is case closed, as I have my opinions and you have yours, and neither of us are changing them. I like Tina and I think LaToya was fine in her prescence. [/quote]

Again, not in a courtroom. That woman obviously have zero emmotinal intelligence, and as far as I am concerned anybody who thought she was perfectly fine, has bad observational skills. Either that, or they are totally self centered, therefore they dont care if youre uncomfortable or not. In fact some people enjoy making others feel that way. Tina is in one of those cathegories.

[xERFx]

Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Fom
Dont people realise thats how northerners speak? With a swear word every 3 words.

are you joking?
they certainly do not. I certainly dont:shocked:

Ill third that but im more north east than liverpool

[Arneldo]

I dont see what the problem was? Tina was offended and infact she's said she feels closer to Tina. Drama over nothing.

[JOSHUAH!]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by jonsep
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Fom
Dont people realise thats how northerners speak? With a swear word every 3 words.

are you joking?
they certainly do not. I certainly dont:shocked:

me niether and I`m more northern than Tina

I don't swear, and I live in the North-East!

[supernoodles!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by supernoodles!
Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha

You can say anything you want about Darnell, I dont care.
Anyways, for someone who said case closed twice, its funny how its not. Again, that woman Tina is very crude, she doesnt know how to talk to people. She is very self centered, this is just the beginning, apparently she has done more things today, that I cant comment on untl I watch them, and back to the LAtoya issue, yes she was extremely uncomfortable, and it went right over the head of the gobby one.
So your going to refuse to respond to the Darnell situation? That you liked a Big Brother 9 housemate who could be just as crude as Tina?

Again, I dont think she was uncomftorable. You do, that is your opinion. Not fact. Now give it a rest will you, your going in circles. I like both Tina and LaToya and think both get on well.

why are you telling ama to give it a rest?if you want him to give it a rest why don`t you just stop responding to his posts.Also why bring a hm from another bb into it, thats got nothing to do with it,there both totally different characters but just for the record I don`t think Darnel was crude,stupid and mememememe as Tina has shown herself to be.
Why dont you respond to one of the arguments against you instead of a discussion Im having with another member of the forum? I think the Darnell factor is an interesting comparison, nothing more. If you think him running into a room screaming ''what the ****, dude!'' at women is fine, and that Tina is still the only crude one, so be it. I think you have messed up, slightly hypocritical misconceptions about what being 'crude' is. And Im telling him give it a rest because Im tired of arguing but I still like to see them through to the end, as they bear fruits that could be of use at a later date. Obligation. Call it what you will.

Because you say the same thing in everyone of your posts so Im not prepared to spend my time reading and answering them thanks.I was merely pointing out that your quite hapy to respond to his posts so why should he give it a rest,obligation to reply to posts works both ways.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
I dont think she was uncomftorable, also, my people skills are not limited. As far as Im concerned that is case closed, as I have my opinions and you have yours, and neither of us are changing them. I like Tina and I think LaToya was fine in her prescence.

Again, not in a courtroom. That woman obviously have zero emmotinal intelligence, and as far as I am concerned anybody who thought she was perfectly fine, has bad observational skills. Either that, or they are totally self centered, therefore they dont care if youre uncomfortable or not. In fact some people enjoy making others feel that way. Tina is in one of those cathegories. [/quote]
Can you stop repeating the courtroom thing? I can say what I like and I dont have to face down your constant, repetetive traits all the time. Once again, I think Tina is pefectly fine. I did not find her offensive in the least and neither, I think, did LaToya. I also think you are being terribly unfair, because your are insulting somebody you have never met as having zero emotional intelligence, but thats another matter. Your views are yours and mine are mine.

[Stu]

Originally posted by supernoodles!
Because you say the same thing in everyone of your posts so Im not prepared to spend my time reading and answering them thanks.I was merely pointing out that your quite hapy to respond to his posts so why should he give it a rest,obligation to reply to posts works both ways.
I think he should give specific portions of his posts a rest. Being extremely harsh on somebody he has never met. A bit like you, for instance. Both me and Gazbo pointed that out. Of course, you did not respond because I have the same argument in every post, apparently [and even if that were true you did not respond to it in the first place ... not my problem].

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Stu
Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Stu
I dont think she was uncomftorable, also, my people skills are not limited. As far as Im concerned that is case closed, as I have my opinions and you have yours, and neither of us are changing them. I like Tina and I think LaToya was fine in her prescence.

Again, not in a courtroom. That woman obviously have zero emmotinal intelligence, and as far as I am concerned anybody who thought she was perfectly fine, has bad observational skills. Either that, or they are totally self centered, therefore they dont care if youre uncomfortable or not. In fact some people enjoy making others feel that way. Tina is in one of those cathegories.
Can you stop repeating the courtroom thing? I can say what I like and I dont have to face down your constant, repetetive traits all the time. Once again, I think Tina is pefectly fine. I did not find her offensive in the least and neither, I think, did LaToya. I also think you are being terribly unfair, because your are insulting somebody you have never met as having zero emotional intelligence, but thats another matter. Your views are yours and mine are mine. [/quote]

you can say what you want indeed. What you cnt do however is decide when I should drop it, or when the "case is closed" like you put it. As long as youre addressing me and quoting my post, expect it to be answered.
And I think she has zero emotional intelligence. You determine that exactly by how people act around others, and how they ability to read situations. Its obvious to me, that either she has got zero emotional intelligence, or she simply doesnt care. And after observing all 11 housemates so far, she is the only one I cant stand. And
I repeat, its not a courtroom, as long as you keep bringing up those terms, you will get the same response from me I am afraid.

[Stu]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
you can say what you want indeed. What you cnt do however is decide when I should drop it, or when the "case is closed" like you put it. As long as youre addressing me and quoting my post, expect it to be answered.
And I think she has zero emotional intelligence. You determine that exactly by how people act around others, and how they ability to read situations. Its obvious to me, that either she has got zero emotional intelligence, or she simply doesnt care. And after observing all 11 housemates so far, she is the only one I cant stand. And
I repeat, its not a courtroom, as long as you keep bringing up those terms, you will get the same response from me I am afraid.
When I say 'case closed' I mean 'as far as im concerned'. And as far as im concerned you have your views and I have mine. Nothing is changing. Hence why here I would slot in a 'case closed'.

I still think Tina is a lovely, bubbly girl who has great potential as a housemate. And I dont think, at a guess, LaToya is bothered by any of her actions so far.

[Wildcat!]

Well, if it was closed as far as youre concerned, you woudnt feel the need to answer my post now would you? Well I think there is nothing lovely whtsoever about that woman, she annoys me everytime she opens her mouths, and she is the kind of people I cant stand in real life, because they dont care how people around them are feeling as long as they are the center of attention. An she does it with the cruedest way possible.