I've just heard some sad news!

[officialleafan]

OMG, i hate it when things like this happen. Yesterday i was at the Co-op with a friend when we bumped into this girl from school. Her name was Ciara. I've not seen her for about a year now, so i was all over her. She came around to my house for a chat and stuff. We got talking and she was telling me about this guy she'd be going out with for three months. Then she suddenly burst out crying. She said that she hated him, and that he hated her too. She told me that he always made her feel ugly (he insulted her all the time), she also told me that her family loved him and everytime she'd tried telling them about this they ignored her and told her she was attention seeking. Me, being a wannabe agony aunt told her to go and speak to her parents again, and to show them that she was being serious and that this guy was bullying her. She left in such a good mood because i made her feel good about herself. Anyway, this morning i got a phone call from another friend telling me that she had jumped into a canal that night and killed herself :sad:

I'm so shocked because...i only spoke to her yesterday, and i thought that she'd be okay once she spoke to her parents, but it wasn't. I'm half blaming myself because i convinced her to speak up about it and tell her parents, but they must not of taken any notice and she just thought she couldn't take any more :sad: it's so sad, i don't even know why i'm sharing it, but i need to get it out somehow, i hate diary's, and i think this is the best place i can share it :sad:

[xDramatick]

Aww that's really sad, it must be a well weird feeling having only spoke to her yesterday.

[officialleafan]

Originally posted by Satisfaction
Aww that's really sad, it must be a well weird feeling having only spoke to her yesterday.

It really is :shocked:
I can't get my head around it, i didn't think it was this bad at all :sad:

[Firewire]

Aw.

It isn't your fault BTW.

[officialleafan]

Originally posted by Firewire
Aw.

It isn't your fault BTW.

That's what my mum keeps telling me. I feel that anyone that goes through this should speak up about it, at least, that's what i've been brought up like, so i just told her what i though :sad:

[Shaun]

Oh my God, that's awful. I'm so sorry :(

[bronaaaa]

Awwk that's awful..don't be blaming yourself though :sad:

[MarkWaldorf]

That's terrible. I'm really sorry.

[officialleafan]

Thanks for the comments everyone :angel:

I don't even know the ins-and-outs of how it happened...i don't think i want to...

[ILoveTRW]

That's so awful :shocked:

Originally posted by officialleafan
OMG, i hate it when things like this happen.

Has this happened to you before :conf2:

[officialleafan]

Originally posted by BB5
That's so awful :shocked:

Originally posted by officialleafan
OMG, i hate it when things like this happen.

Has this happened to you before :conf2:

Sort of, a friend of mine died like this a while back, i had a huge row with him and we didn't speak for months. He was on drugs, so i heard. Anyway, he was found dead in a park a while later :sad:

[Fom]

This happened to a friend of mine, she was beating herself up about it for ages. It is really really sad. RIP.

[Christina]

Ahh thats awful news! Dont blame yourself she was happy when you were speaking to her. Hope youre okay!

[andyman]

So its 100% she killed herself?

[Hugo]

Omfg, I'm sorry. :sad:

[officialleafan]

Originally posted by andyman
So its 100% she killed herself?

I know what you're thinking, i thought exactly the same, i don't know a lot about it, just that she was with a friend and she did it. A few people saw it too apparantly. Just glad i wasn't there :sad:
Actually i may of been able to help her if i was :sad:

[Ross]

Originally posted by officialleafan
Originally posted by andyman
So its 100% she killed herself?

I know what you're thinking, i thought exactly the same, i don't know a lot about it, just that she was with a friend and she did it. A few people saw it too apparantly. Just glad i wasn't there :sad:
Actually i may of been able to help her if i was :sad:

Sorry to sound like the mean one but you say "I know what you're thinking, I thought the same." - you have said she had killed herself in the original post, now you are saying you're unsure, or not 100%.

Again, when people are usually suicidal and I only know because a relative of mine and two friends have killed theirself in the past. They did it when they were alone and nobody around.
I don't think your friend would want to put your other friends through the pain of watching her kill herself.

I'm not saying you are lieing, and R.I.P to your friend because this is sad news but your whole story is confusing. One minute your sure, next your not.

[Dom:D]

Omg i'm so sorry :sad:

[Matt]

What a tragic story. R.I.P.

Like it's been said though, don't blame yourself. Whatever happened, it's not your fault.

[inspector-frost]

thats so sad.so sorry for you and everyone that knew your friend.must be awful for her parents

[*mazedsalv**]

Omg, thats terrible! Hope your okay, must be really terrifying seeing as you spoke to her the day before, believe me its NOT your fault.

[Novo]

Originally posted by inspector-frost
thats so sad.so sorry for you and everyone that knew your friend.must be awful for her parents

Frost what do you think about this?

[inspector-frost]

what???

[Novo]

Are there any suspicious circumstances

[ILoveTRW]

Originally posted by .Andy.
Are there any suspicious circumstances

i was just about to crack that joke

[officialleafan]

Originally posted by Ross
Originally posted by officialleafan
Originally posted by andyman
So its 100% she killed herself?

I know what you're thinking, i thought exactly the same, i don't know a lot about it, just that she was with a friend and she did it. A few people saw it too apparantly. Just glad i wasn't there :sad:
Actually i may of been able to help her if i was :sad:

Sorry to sound like the mean one but you say "I know what you're thinking, I thought the same." - you have said she had killed herself in the original post, now you are saying you're unsure, or not 100%.

Again, when people are usually suicidal and I only know because a relative of mine and two friends have killed theirself in the past. They did it when they were alone and nobody around.
I don't think your friend would want to put your other friends through the pain of watching her kill herself.

I'm not saying you are lieing, and R.I.P to your friend because this is sad news but your whole story is confusing. One minute your sure, next your not.

You don't sound mean, i'm just as confused as you, i was told that she killed herself by a friend of mine, she told me that Ciara was with friends when it happened. Her friends said that she'd jumped in the canal, i don't know any more than that. I don't want to, i know that some people would want to know, but i just don't. It cuts me up because i spoke to her a day before and now she's...gone. I can't believe it..

[JOSHUAH!]

Thats awful, R.I.P
But you can't beat yourself up, just remember for that small time you made her feel good. Obviously afterwards something happened, which you had nothing to do with.