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Iceman
08-04-2009, 04:16 PM
I've been going out with my girlfriend for a month(on Saturday) and was wondering what would be an appropriate thing to do for a 1 month anniversary?

I'm mainly looking for a girls point of view but any suggestions will be taken into account.

Christina
08-04-2009, 04:17 PM
Erm.. get her a pressy, take her out somewhere nice maybe a resturant or the cinema??

Captain.Remy
08-04-2009, 04:17 PM
Restaurant + Cinema + Shagging. :laugh:

From my experience, it works. Very well. :thumbs:

Fom
08-04-2009, 04:17 PM
Make something, girls go mushy when you actually spend time on something. It means more than just buying something, create a collage or a scrap book?

Sam!
08-04-2009, 04:17 PM
I don't think anything needs to be done. Some people see month anniversarys shitt cheesy. If you really wanna do sumin, buy her flowers. Tadah. I only did something on my year anniversary with my girlfriend. :thumbs:

Iceman
08-04-2009, 04:19 PM
Originally posted by Fom
Make something, girls go mushy when you actually spend time on something. It means more than just buying something, create a collage or a scrap book?

I was thinking along the lines of that i've got tons of photos of us from the past month and was going to do that and then cook a meal or something.

Shaun
08-04-2009, 04:19 PM
anniversary = annum = year.

month celebrations are silly.

arista
08-04-2009, 04:19 PM
Well done for a month.
it is hard these days.


Some places you could go to eat
which are more than you would pay normal,
works well.

As many women may
see that as respect to them.

Life In The City.

arista
08-04-2009, 04:21 PM
Originally posted by Picto
anniversary = annum = year.

month celebrations are silly.



no you are wrong
Life can be short
a month means something.



Sign of The Times.

LemonJam
08-04-2009, 04:21 PM
Nice meal. :)

ILoveTRW
08-04-2009, 04:21 PM
****

Iceman
08-04-2009, 04:22 PM
I like month celebrations, they symbolise things in my opinion.

Novo
08-04-2009, 04:23 PM
Originally posted by arista
Originally posted by Picto
anniversary = annum = year.

month celebrations are silly.



no you are wrong
Life can be short
a month means something.



Sign of The Times.

Well Said Arista Pal

We Need to celebrate Good things like relationships while we have the chance Not Wait a year We dont know if we'll be Here in A year

I hear you Brother

arista
08-04-2009, 04:23 PM
Originally posted by Iceman
I like month celebrations, they symbolise things in my opinion.



Yes it does
you are right.

Christina
08-04-2009, 04:23 PM
Noo i think the month thing is sweet! You dont have to do it every month but yeah :bigsmile:

Lauren
08-04-2009, 04:24 PM
Aw, me and my boyfriend always celebrate month celebrations - even if it's something small. We're onto 17 months now.

A good idea is just a nice meal out somewhere, or cinema and then back to house.

Don't get her a specific present or an object or something, save that for the yearly.

ILoveTRW
08-04-2009, 04:25 PM
I don't have enough money to take my girlfriend out for a meal monthly so ill have to stick with yearly :laugh:

Iceman
08-04-2009, 04:25 PM
Well we only get to see each other from friday to monday so i wanted to plan something nice for her.

bronaaaa
08-04-2009, 04:26 PM
Do something thoughtfull like rent her favourite DVD out or something like that

Lauren
08-04-2009, 04:26 PM
Originally posted by BB5
I don't have enough money to take my girlfriend out for a meal monthly so ill have to stick with yearly :laugh:

Meh, my bf and I are students - our idea of a meal out is Wetherspoons £3.99 beer and burger LOL.

Captain.Remy
08-04-2009, 04:28 PM
I'm being serious now. Keep it simple like Lauren said. It's only a month. I loved doing it too with my ex girlfriend (2 years together) and it worked fine. A nice meal, a little gift and a movie or something else will make it. :thumbs:

ILoveTRW
08-04-2009, 04:29 PM
Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by BB5
I don't have enough money to take my girlfriend out for a meal monthly so ill have to stick with yearly :laugh:

Meh, my bf and I are students - our idea of a meal out is Wetherspoons £3.99 beer and burger LOL.

lol, Durham university gawd your smart :shocked:

arista
08-04-2009, 04:30 PM
Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by BB5
I don't have enough money to take my girlfriend out for a meal monthly so ill have to stick with yearly :laugh:

Meh, my bf and I are students - our idea of a meal out is Wetherspoons £3.99 beer and burger LOL.



Thats Good Value Deals
Well done to you.

Lauren
08-04-2009, 04:30 PM
Originally posted by BB5

lol, Durham university gawd your smart :shocked:

Naw, my home is in Durham. I go to another University. (Though I can point out, Durham is not beyond me hahah).

ILoveTRW
08-04-2009, 04:32 PM
Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by BB5

lol, Durham university gawd your smart :shocked:

Naw, my home is in Durham. I go to another University. (Though I can point out, Durham is not beyond me hahah).

oh ok lol

Fom
08-04-2009, 04:55 PM
To be honest, I wouldn't want to be with a girl who expects presents like flowers or a meal on an anniversary, most of my presents at chirstmas are hand made and I only make a few of them for close family. I don't like the idea of giving presents, if its an anniversary you are celebrating love, so spending time on a present for someone you care about means more than buying something expensive.

Girls that only want expensive bought things, well they are not my type.

Lauren
08-04-2009, 04:56 PM
Originally posted by Fom
To be honest, I wouldn't want to be with a girl who expects presents like flowers or a meal on an anniversary, most of my presents at chirstmas are hand made and I only make a few of them for close family. I don't like the idea of giving presents, if its an anniversary you are celebrating love, so spending time on a present for someone you care about means more than buying something expensive.

Girls that only want expensive bought things, well they are not my type.

Yeah - this is why the better option is to go for something simple where you can spend time with them as well. I.e. cinema, or just walking somewhere, or a picnic or something.

Don't buy anything expensive, or a pricey meal or anything material.

Iceman
08-04-2009, 05:01 PM
Yeah Fom i liked your idea about the pictures so i think i'll go with that and then a meal at my house and dvd! Thanks for your help guys!

Oh and Fom "Ketamine - Just say neigh!":joker::joker::joker::joker:

*mazedsalv**
08-04-2009, 05:03 PM
Make her a meal :)

Fom
08-04-2009, 05:08 PM
Originally posted by Iceman
Yeah Fom i liked your idea about the pictures so i think i'll go with that and then a meal at my house and dvd! Thanks for your help guys!

Oh and Fom "Ketamine - Just say neigh!":joker::joker::joker::joker:

haha, I'm glad someone gets it!

Iceman
08-04-2009, 05:09 PM
Originally posted by Fom
Originally posted by Iceman
Yeah Fom i liked your idea about the pictures so i think i'll go with that and then a meal at my house and dvd! Thanks for your help guys!

Oh and Fom "Ketamine - Just say neigh!":joker::joker::joker::joker:

haha, I'm glad someone gets it!

It's going on my twitter account now! Funniest thing i've read today!

pinkmichk
08-04-2009, 05:17 PM
i agree keep it simple not all girls like tons of expensive gifts save those for birthdays and the like i dont know where you are in the country but even a picnic (prepare it together) on the beach or somewhere just as lovely will be just as good if not miles better than a restaurant or whatever might as well make good memories in the process of celebrating it

Iceman
08-04-2009, 05:18 PM
Im in Dublin across the road from me is the Biggest Enclosed park in Europe!

Lauren
08-04-2009, 05:19 PM
Originally posted by Iceman
Im in Dublin across the road from me is the Biggest Enclosed park in Europe!

Picnic with her favourite foods? But only if it's a nice day, haha.

pinkmichk
08-04-2009, 05:20 PM
and if its raining have a indoor picnic with the blanket spread over the floor

Iceman
08-04-2009, 05:20 PM
Well the weather here is great at the moment so i may keep that in mind for sunday if my cooking fails!

30stone
08-04-2009, 05:22 PM
Night in.

Buy a dvd to watch that she would like.
Cook somthing yourself. & get Wine or Champagne or somthing.
And a Card Write in it how you feel about her let her read it whilst with you.

Am sure she will like it, simple and romantic.

Have fun with what ever you end up doing.
:bigsmile:

Fom
08-04-2009, 05:23 PM
Yeah, thats a good idea, if you know all her fave foods you could put them in a picnic basket I am sure she will be impressed you take note of her when she talks lol. On paper I would make a good BF, but I am awful at relationships haha.

Tom
08-04-2009, 05:40 PM
I have some ideas I just probably can't post them on a forum where a lot of kids visit :joker:

Shaun
08-04-2009, 06:37 PM
Originally posted by arista
Originally posted by Picto
anniversary = annum = year.

month celebrations are silly.



no you are wrong
Life can be short
a month means something.



Sign of The Times.

I'm not 'wrong', you just disagree with me.

Life In The City.