How's 2009 faring for you?

[Shaun]

Is it being good or **** for you so far?

I'm wondering if anyone can beat my year.

I've come out, but am madly in love with a best friend who doesn't feel the same, I lost a front tooth on a drunk night out, and now I've just had to console my mum who's come crying into my room because she has to make a decision over whether or not to turn off my older brother's life support [he's been a drug addict for years, and it's basically caught up with him - i don't know the health details]

So um. Yeah. You?

[MrGaryy]

Hmm, I said okay. There's been a bit of ****, but thats just standard and I have a feeling imma have an amazing summer so.

2008 was an incredible year in terms of SO much happened both good and bad.

[30stone]

Bad:
Haven't had a job since last year.
Nor a proper girlfriend which id like.

Middle:
Gained a bit of fat/ Got Stronger. < But am running now and doing some new things so im already toning up again :spin:

Good:
Passed my driving test.
Got my car.
Turn 18 in 21 days.

My year hasnt been all that eventful.

Mines been Okay borderline good so i put okay.

[bronaaaa]

Quite bad. My sister's getting everywhere, like out and all and mum's just being an a** to me. Dad's away working in Denmark, so I see him every 2/3 weeks atm. My friends are acting like spoons, want to get a part-time job and try new things etc. but there's jack all to do here =|, so it's just been awful boring.

[Captain.Remy]

Amazing so far. More parties, Uni is awesome and my work placement is wicked. I can't ask for more more to be honest. :cheer2:

[Ninastar]

Okay

Its been so boring and I have realised how stupid my parents can be.

Good thing is that I have realised how I have more than one best friend and I love them both so much!!!

[supernoodles!]

Er its been alright I spose,been through bucket loads of **** relationship wise =[ still am.I dunno,I`m unhappy with alot of stuff but at the same time Im grateful for so much and I`ve lost some weight and am continuing to do so so thats :banana:I`m can see my life moving forwards in someways,I feel more mature than I did last year,theres still a few things I need to get my head around though,but I`m happy most of the time (with a stress on most) ,I`m healthy,and so are my family so I can`t complain at all.

[Twilight]

Ok but vary boring

[andyman]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Amazing so far. More parties, Uni is awesome and my work placement is wicked. I can't ask for more more to be honest. :cheer2: Two hot women going down on you?

[Ross]

Good.

I've lost weight.
I'm working my way up in work.
I've met a whole new group of people.
I've had a few fun times with relationships.

It's been goooood.

[Ninastar]

Also I am sorry to hear about that shaun. <3 Do you get on with him well?? x

[Shaun]

Originally posted by Ninastar
Also I am sorry to hear about that shaun. <3 Do you get on with him well?? x

Yeah I suppose, but I'm not particularly close to him. He's only a half-brother really and has done loads of things in the past to piss me off - he used to steal from my mum to feed his drug addiction.

But I just hate seeing my mum cry, it's probably the worst thing in the world.

[andyman]

Originally posted by Shaun
Is it being good or **** for you so far?

I'm wondering if anyone can beat my year.

I've come out, but am madly in love with a best friend who doesn't feel the same, I lost a front tooth on a drunk night out, and now I've just had to console my mum who's come crying into my room because she has to make a decision over whether or not to turn off my older brother's life support [he's been a drug addict for years, and it's basically caught up with him - i don't know the health details]

So um. Yeah. You? You mean hospital life support or the other type?

[Shaun]

Hospital, yeah...the respiratory machine or something. Not sure what it's really called.

[Lauren]

Okay.

Good points: Still with bf, going strong, moving in with him in a few months. Mum is learning to walk after two successful operations and it's going well, my cat gave birth so I have a new kitten too, and my exams are going okay. Money-wise I'm okay too... not perfect, but not as bad as last year.

Bad points: Stress starting to hit me again, issues with mums treatment, living arrangements less than perfect.

[Fom]

Its been alright, it started of great, went a bit rubbish because my life got took over work and I am still in that bit right now, kind of a boring part of life I have to get through to make the rest amazing.

I did plan this year to be a better year, but the second half of the year is going to be farrrr better, with summer coming along and then Uni/Drama school :)

[Firewire]

There have been HUGE down points.

[Billy]

****ing pathetic.

[Princess]

Crap so far. My 39 year old uncle killed himself,my mum has gone into hospital and my grandad's died all in the last 3 weeks. Beside's that I've just been in uni or on placement. It's gone from meh to unbelievably ****. But it will hopefully pick up soon. I have summer to look forward to.

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by Shaun
Originally posted by Ninastar
Also I am sorry to hear about that shaun. <3 Do you get on with him well?? x

Yeah I suppose, but I'm not particularly close to him. He's only a half-brother really and has done loads of things in the past to p**s me off - he used to steal from my mum to feed his drug addiction.

But I just hate seeing my mum cry, it's probably the worst thing in the world.

Oh. I know what you mean. I used to think that about my mum but now i am used to her crying. I have only ever seen my dad cry once though and it breaks my heart.
I feel so bad for you though!! x I hope next year is better for you x :flowers:

[Gemmer-x]

I can't grumble i suppose, I'v been on an amazing holiday + I started learning to drive.. thats all thats happened really.
[I hope your okay Shaun :hug:]

[BigSister]

erm its ok i guess at least i have a job now apart from that its been a bit meh

[Annie]

Bad.

I was living with my boyfriend and I thought things were going well. I found out that while I was in Benidorm last year, he cheated on me and she is now pregnant with his baby. She is due in 4 weeks.
I wanted to try for a baby and was told that because I had been on the pill for too long that it could take 5 years for me to conceive if at all.

I went on the sick at my work through stress because of the whole, someone else is carrying my boyfriends baby situation and then got abuse from my boyfriend for that which made things worse so I started to cut myself to relieve pain from my life. I took an overdose and ended up in hospital for a night and a half and then was told by my boyfriend that I was a nut job.

He stole my car and crashed it when drunk and I paid to pay for all the repairs. He didnt let me see my friends and constantly accused me of cheating on him. I wasnt allowed to go to the toilet one night and he nearly broke my leg from me trying to get out of a room.

Then I leave home, he goes mental and tells my dad everything about me, cutting myself etc. And then i go and see if he is alright last night and he tries to break my neck and has me in a head lock sort of thing and i nearly pass out.

Then today he tells all my friends and family and his family that I am a psyco and that he has left me.

Then my little brother told his school that my dad beats him up which he doesnt cos he wanted attention from someone at school so my brother ran away from home for attention and my dad left my mum because he couldnt handle it all.

My mum is going to have a break down because of everything that is happening with her children and then I find out last week that my birth sister wants nothing to do with me since we got adopted.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : andyman
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
Amazing so far. More parties, Uni is awesome and my work placement is wicked. I can't ask for more more to be honest. :cheer2: Two hot women going down on you?

Maybe I already tried ? :whistle: Who knows...

[Lauren]

****... Annie... :hug: That's... harsh, the whole thing.

How long have you been on the pill?

[Annie]

Originally posted by Lauren
****... Annie... :hug: That's... harsh, the whole thing.

How long have you been on the pill?

I was on it for 6 years but apparently my doctor should have changed it after 2 years because it was for my skin as well and you should only be on it for a limited time or it can cause bad side effects such as infertility and breast cancer. :sad:

[andyman]

Annie! Don't worry, Big Brother is only weeks away!

[Lauren]

Originally posted by Annie
Originally posted by Lauren
****... Annie... :hug: That's... harsh, the whole thing.

How long have you been on the pill?

I was on it for 6 years but apparently my doctor should have changed it after 2 years because it was for my skin as well and you should only be on it for a limited time or it can cause bad side effects such as infertility and breast cancer. :sad:

Yeah I'm being changed now to a POP, and it's been 2 years.

:hug: I know we're not the best of friends, but if you need to speak to someone random I'm here.

[Captain.Remy]

I'm so sad sad to hear that Annie, you deserve to have good things happening because UR MY GUUURL :lovedup:

[Ninastar]

Omg annie I had no idea.
I am so sorry! Is it matt thats done this?? x

[Annie]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Annie
Originally posted by Lauren
****... Annie... :hug: That's... harsh, the whole thing.

How long have you been on the pill?

I was on it for 6 years but apparently my doctor should have changed it after 2 years because it was for my skin as well and you should only be on it for a limited time or it can cause bad side effects such as infertility and breast cancer. :sad:

Yeah I'm being changed now to a POP, and it's been 2 years.

:hug: I know we're not the best of friends, but if you need to speak to someone random I'm here.

Thanks a lot Lauren. Really does mean a lot to me. You have no idea.
I just want to forget about him. I just booked a last minute holiday to Salou so go away on Monday for a week. Hopefully when I come back my head will be feeling better and my heart will have healed.

[Annie]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I'm so sad sad to hear that Annie, you deserve to have good things happening because UR MY GUUURL :lovedup:

Thanks Remy :lovedup:

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Annie
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I'm so sad sad to hear that Annie, you deserve to have good things happening because UR MY GUUURL :lovedup:

Thanks Remy :lovedup:

Anytima anywhere. That kind of situations shouldn't be happening to cute girls like you I'm honest.
If you need to talk, you know where you can find me. :wink:

[Sam!]

Annie :O!! I had no idea. Well none of us did but yeh. It makes my face shrivle up reading it. I hope things get much better, and I'm sure they will :) :thumbs:

[Annie]

Originally posted by Ninastar
Omg annie I had no idea.
I am so sorry! Is it matt thats done this?? x

Sadly yes.
He is soooo mean to me but its crazy cos I am still totally in love with him and cant stop. He has drink problems so a lot of the time i know its not really him saying or doing these things but at the end of the day, it is.

Thanks to everyone who is saying such lovely things. Its honestly soooo touching. :love:

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by Annie
Originally posted by Ninastar
Omg annie I had no idea.
I am so sorry! Is it matt thats done this?? x

Sadly yes.
He is soooo mean to me but its crazy cos I am still totally in love with him and cant stop. He has drink problems so a lot of the time i know its not really him saying or doing these things but at the end of the day, it is.

Thanks to everyone who is saying such lovely things. Its honestly soooo touching. :love:

I kinda know how you feel about the drink thing. My grandma died in a fire because she was drunk and took these sleeping pills so she didnt realise the house was on fire. My grandad has been an alcoholic for like 10 years. and now my mum is drinking loads and it turning in to a mean bitch lol x
I hope everything get better for you though!! x :flowers:

[Wildcat!]

Originally posted by Annie
Originally posted by Ninastar
Omg annie I had no idea.
I am so sorry! Is it matt thats done this?? x

Sadly yes.
He is soooo mean to me but its crazy cos I am still totally in love with him and cant stop. He has drink problems so a lot of the time i know its not really him saying or doing these things but at the end of the day, it is.

Thanks to everyone who is saying such lovely things. Its honestly soooo touching. :love:

I had a feeling you were having those kind of problems. I dont now why, but its just the way your posts came out in the past few months. Obviously, its none of my business, so I didnt say anything about it.
But look, there is no one who is irreplacable. In fact if you think someone is, then they are definitely gonna take advantage of that.
Dont be in denial, and face whatever youre feeling head on. It will be much better.
Anyways good luck with everything, and hope you have a nice little holiday!

[Annie]

Thanks AMA and Nina :love:

[Ninastar]

No problem. Like lauren said, I know were not friends but if you want to talk I am here too. x

[bronaaaa]

Annie :hug:

[Lauren]

I agree with AMA - no-one is irreplaceable. A relationship is meant to be fun, not hurtful. None of us can tell you what to do, but from the way you're posting you probably know what you should do.

Have a nice holiday though, make the most of it!

[Annie]

Originally posted by Lauren
I agree with AMA - no-one is irreplaceable. A relationship is meant to be fun, not hurtful. None of us can tell you what to do, but from the way you're posting you probably know what you should do.

Have a nice holiday though, make the most of it!

Yeah I totally know what I should be doing. Its so easy when he is calling me every name under the sun and being really nasty etc.
But when he is sober and has been thinking about me etc, he texts like "Why are we doing this to each other?" and I know he feels bad for it. but then I just need to stay strong cos I know I shouldnt go back just cos he is feeling like he is regretting it.
I just want to stay away from it all, which is why I booked the holiday. I aint taking my phone with me so hopefully will be able to get away and not hear from him again.

[Princess]

Annie I'm so sorry to hear that,it's horrible. If you ever need to talk I'm here :hug:

[TheMac]

So far 2009 has been very good, with a little bit of bad.

Good
I started refereing, and was told last week that I will be running the line at the cup final because I have been getting such good comments from managers.
Had a great school trip last week, had so much fun.
Realised that I was A LOT more popular than I thought
Got V Festival Tickets
Lost a lot of weight, got much faster and fitter.
Got another school trip coming up in September
Much better of money wise
Hopefully got a 5-day football course in August, with Premiership scouts there.

Bad
Didn't get Michael Jackson tickets.
Realised some people are total backstabbers, even though they didn't stab me in the back.
Hate German, so annoyed I didn't take PE

[Lewis.]

Annie hun. Oh my god! and i thought my Ever incrsing pile of coursework was bad. Oh my god. If you need to spek hun, just u2u. I may be young, but i know a lot abou life. Good luck hunny x

[*mazedsalv**]

Bad.
It seems to be all my friends best year, but nothing but shitty things have happened to me, I swear Im cursed!

[Shaun]

I'm sorry to hear about that Annie :( and anyone else who's having a bad year...

I think I have to go to hospital at some point this evening/tomorrow to say goodbye...which I really don't want to do but I suppose I should. :\

[Lauren]

Good luck Shaun. :flowers: And I'll be thinking good thoughts for your mum and sister too - :hug:

[Annie]

Thanks Shaun. And good luck going.
I know this will sound a bit weird, but when he was alive and taking drugs. That wouldnt have really been him. Like coming down off them etc. That would have been a rather desperate young man and remember him as your brother from your childhood rather than your brother who took drugs and had to be turned off by life support.
My heart is honestly going out to you and your family tomorrow. xxx

[*mazedsalv**]

Originally posted by Annie
Bad.

I was living with my boyfriend and I thought things were going well. I found out that while I was in Benidorm last year, he cheated on me and she is now pregnant with his baby. She is due in 4 weeks.
I wanted to try for a baby and was told that because I had been on the pill for too long that it could take 5 years for me to conceive if at all.

I went on the sick at my work through stress because of the whole, someone else is carrying my boyfriends baby situation and then got abuse from my boyfriend for that which made things worse so I started to cut myself to relieve pain from my life. I took an overdose and ended up in hospital for a night and a half and then was told by my boyfriend that I was a nut job.

He stole my car and crashed it when drunk and I paid to pay for all the repairs. He didnt let me see my friends and constantly accused me of cheating on him. I wasnt allowed to go to the toilet one night and he nearly broke my leg from me trying to get out of a room.

Then I leave home, he goes mental and tells my dad everything about me, cutting myself etc. And then i go and see if he is alright last night and he tries to break my neck and has me in a head lock sort of thing and i nearly pass out.

Then today he tells all my friends and family and his family that I am a psyco and that he has left me.

Then my little brother told his school that my dad beats him up which he doesnt cos he wanted attention from someone at school so my brother ran away from home for attention and my dad left my mum because he couldnt handle it all.

My mum is going to have a break down because of everything that is happening with her children and then I find out last week that my birth sister wants nothing to do with me since we got adopted.

Bloody hell Annie, Im so sorry, I didnt know. Is that Matt yeah??
It must be really hard for you. Hope your okay!! :flowers: :sad:
I feel like a complete dickhead for not knowing, Im moaning on about my troubles and worries when there nothing!

[Christina]

Well compared to last year it's been much better, although i have to admit it's been horrible without my Nan. Me and mum are still arguing quite bad but other than that life's good! I've made loads of new friends and met new people and i'll be 16 this year and will be going off to the college/sixth form which i've wanted to go to for 5 years now haha and i also got into 3 really good colleges. If i do well in my GCSE's it'll be even better.

[Christina]

And argh Shaun that's terrible, i had no idea about your bro. Hope you're okay :hug:

[Sarah.]

2008 was the best year of my life and now this year, it's like the worst so far. I dropped out of college because I really hated it there, and I can't find a job which annoys me because i need the money so much and i want something to do in my life. i've lost friends over stupid things. the only thing that was keeping me sane was the WWE tour this past April, but it turned out to be horrible. I paid £150 for one ticket to see chris jericho and i traveled 150 miles and stayed over 2 nights in a hotel just to see him, and WWE screwed everything up by putting him on the other show which I wasn't going to. My luck got worse when I was at the hotel the wrestlers were at, and nearly all of them were there, but only a few weren't, and one who wasn't there was Chris. I would've met him if he was there. It was one of the worst nights ever when i found out the whole thing was a waste. so that made this year the worst so far and i just want it to get better.

[Christina]

Originally posted by *mazedsalv**
Originally posted by Annie
Bad.

I was living with my boyfriend and I thought things were going well. I found out that while I was in Benidorm last year, he cheated on me and she is now pregnant with his baby. She is due in 4 weeks.
I wanted to try for a baby and was told that because I had been on the pill for too long that it could take 5 years for me to conceive if at all.

I went on the sick at my work through stress because of the whole, someone else is carrying my boyfriends baby situation and then got abuse from my boyfriend for that which made things worse so I started to cut myself to relieve pain from my life. I took an overdose and ended up in hospital for a night and a half and then was told by my boyfriend that I was a nut job.

He stole my car and crashed it when drunk and I paid to pay for all the repairs. He didnt let me see my friends and constantly accused me of cheating on him. I wasnt allowed to go to the toilet one night and he nearly broke my leg from me trying to get out of a room.

Then I leave home, he goes mental and tells my dad everything about me, cutting myself etc. And then i go and see if he is alright last night and he tries to break my neck and has me in a head lock sort of thing and i nearly pass out.

Then today he tells all my friends and family and his family that I am a psyco and that he has left me.

Then my little brother told his school that my dad beats him up which he doesnt cos he wanted attention from someone at school so my brother ran away from home for attention and my dad left my mum because he couldnt handle it all.

My mum is going to have a break down because of everything that is happening with her children and then I find out last week that my birth sister wants nothing to do with me since we got adopted.

bl***y hell Annie, Im so sorry, I didnt know. Is that Matt yeah??
It must be really hard for you. Hope your okay!! :flowers: :sad:
I feel like a complete ****head for not knowing, Im moaning on about my troubles and worries when there nothing! Ahh same, Annie i had no idea. Here you are sorting out everyone elses problems when really they're nothing compared to yours. I had no idea Matt was like this and i really hope you're okay. If you ever need to chat i'm here too.. sometimes it's best to get things off your chest.. and it can be even easier to do that with someone you don't know. Hope you enjoy your holiday.. once again so soz you don't deserve that :hug: x

[SiaSiaSia]

Shaunnnny ma babi <3 :sad:

[SiaSiaSia]

Originally posted by sarah.y2j
2008 was the best year of my life and now this year, it's like the worst so far. I dropped out of college because I really hated it there, and I can't find a job which annoys me because i need the money so much and i want something to do in my life. i've lost friends over stupid things. the only thing that was keeping me sane was the WWE tour this past April, but it turned out to be horrible. I paid £150 for one ticket to see chris jericho and i traveled 150 miles and stayed over 2 nights in a hotel just to see him, and WWE screwed everything up by putting him on the other show which I wasn't going to. My luck got worse when I was at the hotel the wrestlers were at, and nearly all of them were there, but only a few weren't, and one who wasn't there was Chris. I would've met him if he was there. It was one of the worst nights ever when i found out the whole thing was a waste. so that made this year the worst so far and i just want it to get better.
awwww :(
that must be a HUGE bummer
why'd you drop college?

[SiaSiaSia]

Originally posted by Aint_mad_atcha
Originally posted by Annie
Originally posted by Ninastar
Omg annie I had no idea.
I am so sorry! Is it matt thats done this?? x

Sadly yes.
He is soooo mean to me but its crazy cos I am still totally in love with him and cant stop. He has drink problems so a lot of the time i know its not really him saying or doing these things but at the end of the day, it is.

Thanks to everyone who is saying such lovely things. Its honestly soooo touching. :love:

I had a feeling you were having those kind of problems. I dont now why, but its just the way your posts came out in the past few months. Obviously, its none of my business, so I didnt say anything about it.

I thought that aswell!





And I know we don't get on Annie but I'm really sorry to hear about everything :sad: Enjoy your holiday

[GhettoSuperstar]

Amazingly well.

Been a *****. Nothing more. Improved my looks. Got even more friends. Got into uni. Met someone I like. Had offers. Shopped till I dropped. Been partying like a bitch! :bigsmile:

I'm just so much fun!

:bigsmile:

[*mazedsalv**]

Originally posted by GhettoSuperstar
Amazingly well.

Been a *****. Nothing more. Improved my looks. Got even more friends. Got into uni. Met someone I like. Had offers. Shopped till I dropped. Been partying like a bitch! :bigsmile:

I'm just so much fun!

:bigsmile:

I wish i felt the same! :bigsmile:

[Shaun]

So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)

[Hugo]

Terrible.
My sisters 24 y/o boyfriend died in a car accident, which is honestly the worst thing that has ever happened to me so I can't imagine what its like on my sister. So that and the reprocautions(sp?) of that have been horrific with my sister being hysterical half the time. I've just been trying to pretend its all OK which has made things ALOT worse.

[Jen]

Not good...not OMGWORSTEVER.
Some family stuff, that has been sorted but is still all up in the air.
Friend problems, still going on and with exams I'm finding it hard to seperate the two. I'm also single.. LOL I hate not having a boyfriend, espesh when I don't particlary have my best friend these days. Anyway, after GCSEs i'm hoping I will be fine... I really hope.
Ah well... I have LOADS of time to sort it all out :D

[Hugo]

Originally posted by Jen
Not good...not OMGWORSTEVER.
Some family stuff, that has been sorted but is still all up in the air.
Friend problems, still going on and with exams I'm finding it hard to seperate the two. I'm also single.. LOL I hate not having a boyfriend, espesh when I don't particlary have my best friend these days. Anyway, after GCSEs i'm hoping I will be fine... I really hope.
Ah well... I have LOADS of time to sort it all out :D

ily Jen.

[Fom]

Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.

[Annie]

Originally posted by Shaun
So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)

:lovedup::hug:

You are totally right, after the funeral.. The only way is up. Like the song. People only have a **** life for so long then it gets better.

[Jen]

Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:

[bronaaaa]

Originally posted by Jen
Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:

Yepp same.

[Fom]

Originally posted by bronaaaa
Originally posted by Jen
Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:

Yepp same.

My problems are just over stressing and not having money. Nothing serious.

[Zac]

Originally posted by bronaaaa
Originally posted by Jen
Originally posted by Fom
Reading this thread I suppose my life is better than I think.
Same.
My problems are silly teenage things. I will sort them out. Some things on here are so upsetting. :sad:

Yepp same.

Hmm, yeah, same. This thread really is quite sad and depressing. :sad:

[Hugo]

Btw, in my case I'm not being OMG feel sorry for me haha, heck, Peyton not dying in OTH has been one of my low points :(

[Jen]

Originally posted by Hugo
Btw, in my case I'm not being OMG feel sorry for me haha, heck, Peyton not dying in OTH has been one of my low points :(


I WAS RAGING.
I'm actually angry about that.

[Hugo]

Originally posted by Jen
Originally posted by Hugo
Btw, in my case I'm not being OMG feel sorry for me haha, heck, Peyton not dying in OTH has been one of my low points :(


I WAS RAGING.
I'm actually angry about that.

pmsl same!
:sad:

[30stone]

Ahh well ive already said about mine and since then.

Ive Met some new freinds well some old friends like ive met up with and with that made a couple of new ones.

and been in a minor crash only a couple of scrathes is about it.

so am pretty happy.

[*mazedsalv**]

Originally posted by Shaun
So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)

Oh im really sorry Shaun :sad: I didnt know.
And yes as time goes on , it will become easier, im sure. Just remember to be strong!

As Fom said, I agree that I take my life for granted, I think I have it bad when there are people struggling with things that are much worse.

And Ben seems like your life is going good lol, after my exams Im hoping I will be much happier.

[Jen]

Originally posted by Shaun
So my brother's passed away now, so hopefully this is rock bottom and things can only get better from here. :)

Shaun, the only advice I can give is that you must not disconnect from your family. It may be so, so, so difficult but stay together.

:)

[bronaaaa]

Aww Shaun :hug:. Just keep your head up, things will get better (Y)

[Magic]

Boring.

[pinkmichk]

its been okay i guess some parts have been fab like my dad and stepmum paying off my rent arrears and a couple other bits for me which mean i am know allowed to look for a house swap to move back to the village i grew up in
the bad parts though i have had a lot of trouble from my ex i've had to stop him seeing our daughter cos he was letting her down and being downright irresponsible when he did have her (having her in a car without a car seat which is actually illeagal:bored: ) he hasnt seen her for 3 months now and its having a huge knock affect on her i am having to deal with huge daily (sometimes hourly) meltdowns from her where she says she misses him and wants to see him have even been told she hates me cos she doesnt see him and she has also been have toiletting accidents which we have never had and she is chewing her mouth inside so much it is bruised :bawling: i havent stopped it lightly have had so many troubles from him since we split and have told him to now take me through courts to see her which he wont do just has a go at me and puts on his facebook he is gonna kill himself almost daily (yeah really someone in right mind to be left in charge of a minor)