Worried For Classmate

[Loukas]

I don't know what to do.. there is boy in school called Andrew, he is in my class and has always been the quite one.. About 2 weeks ago, a day after school, me and a friend were walking in the park and we spotted him poking a dead bird with a stick moving it round with a stick.. which we thought was strange..

Recently, i got a facebook and i added him. Today he done the thing on facebook where you say your 5 fave smells, his were;

Rotting Flesh
Blood
Death
Fresh Meet
Dieing Animals

He done a quiz on when he is going to die, the quiz told him 16 and he was like 'YES, NOBODY WANTS ME TO LIVE, It's might be sooner than 16 and i am taking everyone with me!'

He has JUST uploaded a profile picture and its of him with red eyes looking evil. Now hes always been quite and just the one who is always there..

Am i aloud to post the picture??

WHAT DO I DO?!

[Loukas]

[Edit]

He just did this..

Andrew Yes Hahahaha YES!!

Andrew completed the quiz "How will you face the zombie apocalypse?" with the result Able to survive the initial outbreak, but manage to get yourself killed, along with several of your new companions.
You manage to hook up with some other survivors and find a place of shelter. Problem is, you manage to screw it all up and let the zombies inside. Way to go, you got people better than you killed, along with yourself. .

[MarkWaldorf]

You get the hell outta there

[MrGaryy]

Um nothing. Jesus it's none of your business, just stay out of it.

[Lauren]

Don't post the picture.

Aw Loukas you're great haha - I don't wanna be patronising, I genuinely don't mean to be - but you're such a drama queen sometimes :flowers:

If he was genuinely weird, he wouldn't make it so obvious. He just wants attention and for people to be intimidated by him, he probs doesn't have many friends so it's a projection technique.

Edit: You should delete his name too, you just posted his full name!

[Locke.]

It was nice knowing you Loukas, it really was.

[LemonJam]

We have some people at our school like that, pretty weird but they won't actually do it... hopefully.

[JOSHUAH!]

Hopefully theres no BBC News updates in the near future with "MASS SHOOTOUT IN LONDON SCHOOL" as the title..

:laugh:
DON'T WORRY LOUKAS!

[Loukas]

Originally posted by MrGaryy
Um nothing. Jesus it's none of your business, just stay out of it.

WHAT IF HE KILLS ME!!! Seriously, normally i say out of his way but him saying when he dies hes taking others with im, i get freaked out kk!

[Ross]

Give him a Pigeon every day to keep him quiet.

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Originally posted by MrGaryy
Um nothing. Jesus it's none of your business, just stay out of it.

WHAT IF HE KILLS ME!!! Seriously, normally i say out of his way but him saying when he dies hes taking others with im, i get freaked out kk!

oh kk:rolleyes: I'm not being mean here loukas but seriously get a ****ing grip. Okay it is a face book quiz, I took one to find out my stripper name, doesn't mean I'm going to work as a prorssy under the name Dale Ladderlegs. He sounds like some bratty teenager with issues who craves attention.

[Novo]

Poor Kid try and speak to him

[Loukas]

Originally posted by MrGaryy
Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Originally posted by MrGaryy
Um nothing. Jesus it's none of your business, just stay out of it.

WHAT IF HE KILLS ME!!! Seriously, normally i say out of his way but him saying when he dies hes taking others with im, i get freaked out kk!

oh kk:rolleyes: I'm not being mean here loukas but seriously get a ****ing grip. Okay it is a face book quiz, I took one to find out my stripper name, doesn't mean I'm going to work as a prorssy under the name Dale Ladderlegs. He sounds like some bratty teenager with issues who craves attention.

Yeah, i know, but i am not over reacting the guy is crazy. Yeah it's a facebbok quiz and it's nothing but the guy walks round school expressionless. always looking.. evil?!

[Ross]

Well, no offence but you could go walking around school all flamboyant and camp and he could think that's weird, or he could be scared of you.

Not saying you walk around camp. Just stating, don't slate the lad for not being the way you want him to be.

[MrGaryy]

Then stay away from him, if he has no friends what makes you think he would target you or your friends above anyone else. Please Loukas, lets keep it real.

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Ross
Well, no offence but you could go walking around school all flamboyant and camp and he could think that's weird, or he could be scared of you.

Not saying you walk around camp. Just stating, don't slate the lad for not being the way you want him to be.

im not tho! I respect everyone for the way they are! But i find it scary when someone says oh im going to die sooner than 16 and take people with him!

[Loukas]

Originally posted by MrGaryy
Then stay away from him, if he has no friends what makes you think he would target you or your friends above anyone else. Please Loukas, lets keep it real.

Your right, but it just worried me a little..

[Lauren]

Loukas seriously, he's probably just a bit sad. Maybe got issues at home. The last thing he wants is your group of friends overreacting and saying he's a "danger" when he's just a little down. People will end up giving him funny looks or something, that's a form of bullying.

Poor lad.

[Ross]

Originally posted by Lauren
Loukas seriously, he's probably just a bit sad. Maybe got issues at home. The last thing he wants is your group of friends overreacting and saying he's a "danger" when he's just a little down. People will end up giving him funny looks or something, that's a form of bullying.

Poor lad.
My thoughts. I want to give him a hug.

[Loukas]

I guess.. :(

I will have a word with my tutor and see what she thinks about it, we don't treat him any differently when people talk to him it's always, leave me alone please, or just blanks them completly. Nobody, that i know, has bullied him in the past..

[Lauren]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
I guess.. :(

I will have a word with my tutor and see what she thinks about it, we don't treat him any differently when people talk to him it's always, leave me alone please, or just blanks them completly. Nobody, that i know, has bullied him in the past..

Why have a word with your tutor about it? Can you imagine how the conversation goes: "Hi Miss... you know Andrew? He got Zombie on a facebook quiz and I'm worried he wants to eat my eyes?"

I know I sound like I'm being antagonistic, but he's just going through an emo stage of liking zombies and gore and stuff, I know loads of people who go through that.

People in this country are infamous for interfering when they don't need to, and ignoring things they should interfere with. Do what you like, but I just think by telling your tutor it's going too far.

Edit: Actually, I can totally see this boys POV. Loukas, it sounds like people are really interfering with his life. He's not stupid, he'll see you guys chatting then one of you go up to him to chat, such a schoolyard thing to do. You wouldn't just go to a random in a street to see if they wanna talk to you, so why do it to this boy? He just sounds like he's shy, and now he's bitter by peoples reactions to his shyness.

[Conzors]

-.-

loukas you constantly over react.

its none of your business stay out of it.

[andyman]

Loukas! Have you ever been stabbed with a knife?

[30stone]

Originally posted by Ross
Give him a Pigeon every day to keep him quiet.

Lol thats the sort of post i usually say lol.

Quality line there Ross.

[30stone]

Ohh and stab him, no need to worry about it then...


Imjokingdon'tripmyheadoff.

[pinkmichk]

ever thought about not judging a book by its cover and actually get to know the lad before assuming all sorts based on how he looks acts and cos of facebook quizzes :rolleyes: you say he has been bullied before so he is probably a bit 'cagey' and worried in case it happens again bullying is horrid and can really make someone go into theirs selves etc
as for speaking to tutor just dont it could only make things worse for him to be singled out like that
no offence but you do act a bit like a drama llama at times over really daft things

[Sod_James]

meh, i would just shrug and get on with it. if he goes on a suicidal killing spree just make sure your out of his way.

[xDramatick]

I totally agree with Lauren+Ross.
Way overreacting.

[Billy]

Overly pathetic,even for you.

[Scarlett.]

shoot him Loukas! is the only way!

[lily.]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seung-Hui_Cho


You'll all be sorry if Loukas isn't over-reacting..


Mwahahahahahahahaha

[lily.]

http://hitsusa.com/blog/285/finland-school-shooting-youtube-video/


I'm just making him more paranoid now..

[Brad*]

If you want to be safe, join Andymans Brotherhood.:thumbs:

[lily.]

Lmmfao.... you actually deserve him now.. that was the best recruitment pitch ever! Gettin the poor lad once I've scared the shite out of him with linkage of nutjobs!

[Loukas]

I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, i come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion.

[lily.]

For the record Loukas,, I'd be worried too. Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris acted that way before Columbine.. and nobody did anything..

[Scarlett.]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion. he probably wants to look weird to get noticed, trust me, its very unlikely he is a genocidal-suicidal-homicidal crazed loonie

[lily.]

U don't know that chewy... :nono:

[Tom4784]

Just stay out of his way, If you're worried perhaps discreetly tell someone your fears who can help.

[Z]

I'm thuper, thuper serial, manbearpig is real.

[Brad*]

Originally posted by lili
Lmmfao.... you actually deserve him now.. that was the best recruitment pitch ever! Gettin the poor lad once I've scared the s**** out of him with linkage of nutjobs!

:thumbs:

[Lauren]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, i come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion.

Wow so he's shy and quiet. It's obvious when people go up to speak to him, they're being ignorant little twerps, giggling with their friends to try and prove him to be "weird".

So far you know he's shy and wants to die, yet your first thoughts come to YOURSELF? The poor lad is obviously suffering somewhere in his life, stop treating him like a freak and let him get on with it.

[lily.]

Or get him the help he might need.... ?

[Lauren]

Originally posted by lili
Or get him the help he might need.... ?

By telling a teacher it'll push him into isolation. No offence to Loukas, but his friends going up to him to try and get him to speak is never going to help.

[lily.]

Maybe. Maybe not.

I personally don't think people should just ignore these things. Maybe he's getting the chit kicked out of him at home. Maybe he doesn't have the courage to speak up. Maybe someone has to come to him to see what's goin on.

Or maybe it's nothing, and he's just being a teenager and acting up.

I still don't think ignoring it is the answer. If it was my kid I'd wanna know wtf was going on with him.

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
I don't think I'm over reacting ONE LITTLE BIT. He's the quite type that keeps himself to himself, poking dead animals with sticks in the park, Sorry if i find that strange. Every time anyone goes up and talks to him, he tells them not to talk to him or says get out of my way or even not talking to them at all. Emotionless cold person, then letting his emotions out on Facebook, saying how he wants to die before he turns 16 and saying hes going to take us with him.. Sorry if i was scared, i come on to TiBB to talk to people i trust and give me advice and i get called pathetic, i guess everyones entitled to their opinion.

Wow so he's shy and quiet. It's obvious when people go up to speak to him, they're being ignorant little twerps, giggling with their friends to try and prove him to be "weird".

So far you know he's shy and wants to die, yet your first thoughts come to YOURSELF? The poor lad is obviously suffering somewhere in his life, stop treating him like a freak and let him get on with it.

I don't see anyone pointing and laughing at him, nobody wants to prove he's 'wierd' he wants to be the way he is fair do's, i just don't want him to hurt himself or others. When i tried to speak to him he asked me not to speak to him again, i respected that and i haven't spoken to him since. But the things he has said on facebook has worried and scared me..

[Lauren]

Originally posted by lili
If it was my kid I'd want to know wtf was going on with him.

If it was me (I won't say my kid cos I won't have been in that situation and you have) - I won't want people posting on an internet forum saying I'm weird and quiet, and analysing my quiz results on fb whilst inducing mass panic about being a 'killer', which is what Loukas is doing.

If someone genuinely came up to me to help, great. But it just sounds like it's irritating the situation more and could push him into isolation.

[Conor]

loukas, I dont think you should be worrying as much as you are, but i think its being overlooked in this thread that this person obviously needs help in some form. The problems may not be as serious as thought, but there could still be something deeper. It think its gone a bit further than an 'emo' stage. Althoguh maybe he just has an obsession with death?

[lily.]

As long as Loukas keeps his details off here, then it should be ok.. but yeah, I already said to Loukas in U2U not to make it a discussion point among his friends, but no harm in talking to teacher or whatever about it.

[Annie]

Leave him alone.
I mean seriously. He is obviously upset about things and seeking attention.

You are actually bullying him by making this thread, what if he came across this?

[supernoodles!]

Perhaps he is depressed,or maybe he has issues at home and thats why he is attention seeking,or he could be having some odd teenage phase,there was a boy a bit like this in my year at school.He used to talk about death loads,and vampires,and once he brought a knife into school and then he got kicked out for a bit.Teachers said he was depressed.I think the best thing to do is just keep quiet about it for now and if anything else happens that worrys you I`m sure the members on here will tell you wether or not they think you should tell someone one.The worst thing you could do though would be to talk about it at school becuase if it is attention seeking your just giving him what he wants and he will probably just keep craving it and doing/saying odder things.