Boyfriend asked me to move in..

[ThaGazBoi]

Just want some advice to be honest.

I've been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months, and he has a flat about 30 minutes away from my house. His ex boyfriend lives there aswell until he can find a new place and he has asked me to move in with him.

But I'm a little bit nervous because

A) I have suspicions that he might still love his ex
B) That at 19 I'm to young to "settle down"


I really like him, but I'm not sure if I "love" him. I've been in love once and got my heart broken. Do you think I should tell him I don't love him, and move in with him. Or both?

Thanks

[lily.]

Gary, if yer having doubts, don't do it. Why don't ye spend the weekends there (assumin ye don't already), but don't commit to actually moving in.

When yer ready, ye'll know that yer ready.

[lightyears]

god no, 5 months is way to short a time, enjoy just seeing him as a bf, moving in together brings with it responsibility, unless u have a strong relationship it wont last, plus the fact his ex still lives there that will only add to the problems, big mistake if u move in while hes there

[bronaaaa]

Maybe ask him to move in with you ? :shrug:

[ThaGazBoi]

Originally posted by bronaaaa
Maybe ask him to move in with you ? :shrug:

I don't think my mum will appreciate that espically after just having a new baby!

I'll properly just have a talk with him when I see him tomorrow..

[lily.]

Oh, congrats on bein a new big bro.. :D

You need to come round here more often, cuz

a) We joined on the same date man!
b) I miss chatting to ye, cuz yer quality... :D
and...
c) Yer sigs are lush.. :P

[bronaaaa]

Originally posted by ThaGazBoi
Originally posted by bronaaaa
Maybe ask him to move in with you ? :shrug:

I don't think my mum will appreciate that espically after just having a new baby!

I'll properly just have a talk with him when I see him tomorrow..

Ahh :laugh:
Yeah maybe just wait awhile irst, see how things go.
Congrats to your mum btw :hugesmile:

[Tom]

DONT DO IT!!

Just stay there ... lots instead and kind of ease your way in, don't just go for it. That ruined my last relationship within 2 months when we'd been together for about a year and it was still really really good right up until the moment we moved in.

[JohnnyBB]

goo for it if it turns potty just make sur you got somwer to go :)

[ThaGazBoi]

Originally posted by lili
Oh, congrats on bein a new big bro.. :D

You need to come round here more often, cuz

a) We joined on the same date man!
b) I miss chatting to ye, cuz yer quality... :D
and...
c) Yer sigs are lush.. :P

Is this Linda? JESUS. I thought u were banned!

:hug:

[andyman]

Could be a 3sum cult then after the naughties they chop you up into tiny bits..

[ThaGazBoi]

Originally posted by andyman
Could be a 3sum cult then after the naughties they chop you up into tiny bits..

Oh dear. I'm going to have nightmares now. Thanks lol :pat:

[Princess]

Awww congrats to your mum(and you!)! New brother or sis?

You should only move in you're sure,it does seem pretty soon.

[ThaGazBoi]

Originally posted by Princess
Awww congrats to your mum(and you!)! New brother or sis?

You should only move in you're sure,it does seem pretty soon.

Sister- Martina. She's nearly 3 months now.

[lily.]

Originally posted by ThaGazBoi
Originally posted by lili
Oh, congrats on bein a new big bro.. :D

You need to come round here more often, cuz

a) We joined on the same date man!
b) I miss chatting to ye, cuz yer quality... :D
and...
c) Yer sigs are lush.. :P

Is this Linda? JESUS. I thought u were banned!

:hug:

HaHa I was..

I did my time tho.. (16 months).. lol


Originally posted by andyman
Could be a 3sum cult then after the naughties they chop you up into tiny bits..

Trust you lol

[Princess]

Originally posted by ThaGazBoi
Originally posted by Princess
Awww congrats to your mum(and you!)! New brother or sis?

You should only move in you're sure,it does seem pretty soon.

Sister- Martina. She's nearly 3 months now.

Aww cuteness!

[5CORPIO]

I dont know you but I think you're better off at home :)
You're better off sharing a house with your Baby Sis than your BF's ex!

You will know when the time is right anyway :love:

Good luck :)